im back needing more help *PLEASE*

[rdsey 0]

well its been a very long time since I been on here but Im back because I feel nothing has changed.

My last post I stated I was married to a man that has problems with me, my children and cheating.(Please read other post). I filed for a divorce and had 2 years to go through with it, I didnt follow through nor do I have the paper I need to file to finilaze the divorce.

My husband received his work permit moved to Dallas, there he was on single line with many females. His pic, his name and stating he was single. I was so hurt. He couldnt find work there so instead of moving back to Oklahoma he moved to New York and it was still the same. I filled complaint with Immigrations, hes back here but has been able to file for removal of conditions, work permit and visa with my knowledge. Now I expressed to Immigrations I wanted my name off his papers. What else can I do? If he gets his condition removed thats fine I just didnt want it to be with my name on it.

[Dakine 26]

well its been a very long time since I been on here but Im back because I feel nothing has changed.

My last post I stated I was married to a man that has problems with me, my children and cheating.(Please read other post). I filed for a divorce and had 2 years to go through with it, I didnt follow through nor do I have the paper I need to file to finilaze the divorce.

My husband received his work permit moved to Dallas, there he was on single line with many females. His pic, his name and stating he was single. I was so hurt. He couldnt find work there so instead of moving back to Oklahoma he moved to New York and it was still the same. I filled complaint with Immigrations, hes back here but has been able to file for removal of conditions, work permit and visa with my knowledge. Now I expressed to Immigrations I wanted my name off his papers. What else can I do? If he gets his condition removed th yats fine I just didnt want it to be with my name on it.

Sorry but your relationship is just another BAD example of the fraudulent marriages from Nigeria!

LOTS of women get taken for a GC ride by Nigerians.

Sorry but you are responsible for bringing in another scammer. loser to the US. Next thing he'll probably be on welfare which YOU are/will be responsible for.

Edited September 13, 2009 by Haole

[anitacastillo 0]

OP - When you filed for AOS and submitted the I-864 you were agreeing to be financially responsible for him. It is a good thing that he is looking/trying to work and not collect "public benefits."

Haole - there are shiiiiittttty men/women from all over the world. Don't I recall you ran into one???

[NigeriaorBust 4,087]

How long were you together before you were separated. You need to show immigration that he did not intend a good marriage. His posting online as single if you can show a date may help prove bad intentions. Immigration is used to marriages not working out because of the vast cultural differences. They tend to push the cries of an abandoned spouse aside. You may not have any choice about your affidavit of support

[rdsey 0]

well its been a very long time since I been on here but Im back because I feel nothing has changed.

My last post I stated I was married to a man that has problems with me, my children and cheating.(Please read other post). I filed for a divorce and had 2 years to go through with it, I didnt follow through nor do I have the paper I need to file to finilaze the divorce.

My husband received his work permit moved to Dallas, there he was on single line with many females. His pic, his name and stating he was single. I was so hurt. He couldnt find work there so instead of moving back to Oklahoma he moved to New York and it was still the same. I filled complaint with Immigrations, hes back here but has been able to file for removal of conditions, work permit and visa with my knowledge. Now I expressed to Immigrations I wanted my name off his papers. What else can I do? If he gets his condition removed th yats fine I just didnt want it to be with my name on it.

Sorry but your relationship is just another BAD example of the fraudulent marriages from Nigeria!

LOTS of women get taken for a GC ride by Nigerians.

Sorry but you are responsible for bringing in another scammer. loser to the US. Next thing he'll probably be on welfare which YOU are/will be responsible for.

well thats the reason I have gone and personally talked with investagorters my self, no im not bringing another dead beat into the us he was only born in africa he was raised and schooled in europe! no im trying to stop him from getting his removal of conditions, thank you

[Dakine 26]

OP - When you filed for AOS and submitted the I-864 you were agreeing to be financially responsible for him. It is a good thing that he is looking/trying to work and not collect "public benefits."

Haole - there are shiiiiittttty men/women from all over the world. Don't I recall you ran into one???

Nope! I had a GREAT time in Cebu with the only scammer I ran into. Cost me a couple K but it was worth EVERY centavo. Best 2 weeks I ever had until I met my current wife!!!

[rdsey 0]

How long were you together before you were separated. You need to show immigration that he did not intend a good marriage. His posting online as single if you can show a date may help prove bad intentions. Immigration is used to marriages not working out because of the vast cultural differences. They tend to push the cries of an abandoned spouse aside. You may not have any choice about your affidavit of support

I gave all to the officer I emailed her his profiles along with messages to various females. She said his name will be flaged. People on here said maybe they wont do anything until time to renew, he received paperwork for work card and visa. I put him out, he got an apartment and dont want me to know where he lives i told him thats good for me to add that as well. I just feel like im trying to stop him but they are allowing him

[Dakine 26]

How long were you together before you were separated. You need to show immigration that he did not intend a good marriage. His posting online as single if you can show a date may help prove bad intentions. Immigration is used to marriages not working out because of the vast cultural differences. They tend to push the cries of an abandoned spouse aside. You may not have any choice about your affidavit of support

I gave all to the officer I emailed her his profiles along with messages to various females. She said his name will be flaged. People on here said maybe they wont do anything until time to renew, he received paperwork for work card and visa. I put him out, he got an apartment and dont want me to know where he lives i told him thats good for me to add that as well. I just feel like im trying to stop him but they are allowing him

I sincerely hope you are successful!

[dapobukola 0]

OP - When you filed for AOS and submitted the I-864 you were agreeing to be financially responsible for him. It is a good thing that he is looking/trying to work and not collect "public benefits."

Haole - there are shiiiiittttty men/women from all over the world. Don't I recall you ran into one???

Nope! I had a GREAT time in Cebu with the only scammer I ran into. Cost me a couple K but it was worth EVERY centavo. Best 2 weeks I ever had until I met my current wife!!!

Haole

so is the scammer you ran into a nigerian ?? I dont understand why people like you have to judge all nigerians. There are crazy people and scammer all over the world so i dont think nigeria is the only country where scammer reside. I am from nigeria and i am not a scammer so next time just answer the question and keep your opinion to yourself. thanks you

[Dakine 26]

OP - When you filed for AOS and submitted the I-864 you were agreeing to be financially responsible for him. It is a good thing that he is looking/trying to work and not collect "public benefits."

Haole - there are shiiiiittttty men/women from all over the world. Don't I recall you ran into one???

Nope! I had a GREAT time in Cebu with the only scammer I ran into. Cost me a couple K but it was worth EVERY centavo. Best 2 weeks I ever had until I met my current wife!!!

Haole

so is the scammer you ran into a nigerian ?? I dont understand why people like you have to judge all nigerians. There are crazy people and scammer all over the world so i dont think nigeria is the only country where scammer reside. I am from nigeria and i am not a scammer so next time just answer the question and keep your opinion to yourself. thanks you

No she was from the Philippines. I did go a few rounds with a nigerian scammer also. No cpmplaints as she was a hot lady also.Nothing wrong with scammers as long as you scam them back and have fun doing so!

Edited September 13, 2009 by Haole

[JosMeg12 0]

OP - When you filed for AOS and submitted the I-864 you were agreeing to be financially responsible for him. It is a good thing that he is looking/trying to work and not collect "public benefits."

Haole - there are shiiiiittttty men/women from all over the world. Don't I recall you ran into one???

Nope! I had a GREAT time in Cebu with the only scammer I ran into. Cost me a couple K but it was worth EVERY centavo. Best 2 weeks I ever had until I met my current wife!!!

Haole

so is the scammer you ran into a nigerian ?? I dont understand why people like you have to judge all nigerians. There are crazy people and scammer all over the world so i dont think nigeria is the only country where scammer reside. I am from nigeria and i am not a scammer so next time just answer the question and keep your opinion to yourself. thanks you

No she was from the Philippines. I did go a few rounds with a nigerian scammer also. No cpmplaints as she was a hot lady also.Nothing wrong with scammers as long as you scam them back and have fun doing so!

Haole- I was searching through your posts and couldnt find it. Did you already tell your story about your Filipina scammer? Id be interested to read about it

[bayojona3231 4]

OP - When you filed for AOS and submitted the I-864 you were agreeing to be financially responsible for him. It is a good thing that he is looking/trying to work and not collect "public benefits."

Haole - there are shiiiiittttty men/women from all over the world. Don't I recall you ran into one???

Nope! I had a GREAT time in Cebu with the only scammer I ran into. Cost me a couple K but it was worth EVERY centavo. Best 2 weeks I ever had until I met my current wife!!!

Haole

so is the scammer you ran into a nigerian ?? I dont understand why people like you have to judge all nigerians. There are crazy people and scammer all over the world so i dont think nigeria is the only country where scammer reside. I am from nigeria and i am not a scammer so next time just answer the question and keep your opinion to yourself. thanks you

Thank you. Not all Nigerians are scam artists. There are scammers all over the World..in Africa, Europe, Asia just to mention a few.

[Kathryn41 3,205]

Moved from AOS forum.

Please stop with the generalization and racial stereotyping comments. They add nothing to the discussion and are inappropriate.

[FranknAiza 0]

well its been a very long time since I been on here but Im back because I feel nothing has changed.

My last post I stated I was married to a man that has problems with me, my children and cheating.(Please read other post). I filed for a divorce and had 2 years to go through with it, I didnt follow through nor do I have the paper I need to file to finilaze the divorce.

My husband received his work permit moved to Dallas, there he was on single line with many females. His pic, his name and stating he was single. I was so hurt. He couldnt find work there so instead of moving back to Oklahoma he moved to New York and it was still the same. I filled complaint with Immigrations, hes back here but has been able to file for removal of conditions, work permit and visa with my knowledge. Now I expressed to Immigrations I wanted my name off his papers. What else can I do? If he gets his condition removed thats fine I just didnt want it to be with my name on it.

Wait, the Nigerian guy, your husband, filed for AOS ? You and him are still married right? Well he cant file for AOS without your signature on the form. He can only file for AOS without you if he has a divorce paper that says you and him are no longer married.

[NycBra 4]

RDSEY: Just so I can better understand the situation, here are some questions:

- Your husband is from Nigeria and you are a US resident/citizen?

- Were you the I-864 (financial supporter) when your husband applied for the green card?

- Do you have children with him?

- I am confused as to whether you did file for divorce or not, and if it was granted or not.

As other people have already mentioned, your husband can file to remove the conditions without your name. Given the situation, he is probably filing it separately but I think he needs some sort of paperwork to show he is divorced or getting the divorce, etc. If he has children with you, this may work in his favor. If he is using your name in the application (as if he is filing it jointly) then he is committing a serious fraud.

Unfortunately, there is no way you can ensure that. But if you think he engaged in a marriage with you only to acquire a Green Card, I believe you can report him to the immigration. But be prepared to prove (as I think you are doing) that the marriage was on good faith from your part. Being in good-faith doesn't only mean you didn't cheat on him, but it mostly means you truly wanted to get married to be together as a couple, it means you didn't get married just to keep someone in the country.

Also, if you were the one who signed the I-864, unfortunately you are responsible as his financial supporter until he becomes a US citizen, dies, or other options (I don't really recall all the alternatives). So, if you truly think and you can prove he got married not in good-faith, I think you should report him.

Forget all this discussion going on about countries, scams, etc. Scams happen everywhere unfortunately. And if you were caught in one (without knowing it), then you should take actions to protect yourself.

Edited September 14, 2009 by nycbra