how to keep things from getting ugly

[MrMrsKnight 0]

Why let it die when we can still have fun with it?

j/k

exactly...let's give Cangal a break

Yeah... it's like getting a hamster when you already have a dog! The ramster will die soon so let's play with it a lot while we still can!

*Man.... I'm so bored (and okay.... had a few beers!) I don't even know what I'm talking about!!*

Edited May 9, 2006 by MrMrsKnight

[sukie175 0]

Danette - I see you in here

I was wondering if the weather is about to kick-off getting mighty windy out there (Danette's my VJ neighbour - I've not gone mad Roi!)

Edited May 9, 2006 by sukie175

[MichelleandCraig 1]

Hi Sarie....Thanks! for the PM..will msg you tomorrow if that's ok..backs really hurtin right now and gettin ready to pop a Vic and lay down! M.

[sukie175 0]

Ok Mich - sleep tight

[MichelleandCraig 1]

on 2nd thought..chat for a bit anyone? M.

[sukie175 0]

on 2nd thought..chat for a bit anyone? M.

on my way

[*Robert* 2]

Robert

I was just voicing what I was pretty sure alot of VJ Vets were thinking and him babbling on at others who tried to politely tell him, tipped me over the edge. The thing is I am not known for losing it, so when I do, look out

I was also so mad when he denied the competition thing, they even admitted it in a post sometime last week in here. Hopefully some of what we said went in, in his shoes I would have been embarrassed as a Newbie, apologised and changed my ways. Having said that he posted 3 times around 11:17pm!

As for Nessa - she'll be back or I will be from holding my breath

I am quite enjoying my new gunslinger rep so watch this space

Anytime mi Amiga!!! When kaka hits the fan... I want you by my side!!! B)

Yeah... it's like getting a hamster when you already have a dog! The ramster will die soon so let's play with it a lot while we still can!

*Man.... I'm so bored (and okay.... had a few beers!) I don't even know what I'm talking about!!*

"ramster"?!!!

LMAO!!!! Have another beer girl!!!

[Jaylen Brit 0]

omg is this thing still going?

[MichelleandCraig 1]

on 2nd thought..chat for a bit anyone? M.

on my way

Oh how very little we all knew...

Of the trouble that would ensue...

Boredom can be a dangerous thing..

Uh uh! STFU! Zip, Zap, ZING!!...

Hours wasted, a goal achieved

There were a couple who believed!!

The Furry one came and away it went..

But all in all, time well spent!!

It was sooo funnnn!!! :lol: M. and PS..Jay, I LOVEEE that littel popcorn icon..even more than the other one.it's so....cute!!!

Edited May 9, 2006 by MichelleandCraig

[aussiewench 9]

hahahahaha Michelle.......very good

[RaspberrySwirl 20]

(You know I had to do it...)

[Jaylen Brit 0]

<--just for Michelle!

[MichelleandCraig 1]

*makes me grin every time* M.

it's the way his little mouth moves....

Edited May 9, 2006 by MichelleandCraig

[Ban Hammer 13,345]

C'mon you guys!!! LET IT DIE!!!

It sure as hell can't be a dignified death!!!

I agree though Mrs. K... if it hadn't been for Sarah and her "REFRAIN'... but then again... let's see... didn't she get to open fire with BOTH BARRELS!!!!???

*loading shotgun again*

Argh Robert - yes I fired off both shotgun barrels....but the rest of you had your chances, I just got so pissed I decided to voice what I suspected alot of VJ Vets felt

REFRAIN or this will all explode again in the morning and Charles will get what he wants!

Shotgun Sarah

' I may not rile easy, but boy when I do, you'd better be ducking'

Girlfriend, I was right behind ya all the way, and I don't give a rats a$$ about charles tomorrow morning. Everyone else apologized, as he should have done, but never did until after the Captain chastized him!!!

If he had just admited to what he was doing, and apologized, instead of getting into this PM this and PM that, and I ignored this and I ignored that.... geeez.... sounded like a little 2yo having a temper tantrum after they got caught doing something wrong!!!

I two was getting tired of seeing nothing but "charlesandnessa" and "nessaandcharles" everytime I looked at a thread, as those two were using it for the soul purpose of running up their post counts. It's okay to do it every now and then, especially when you are getting close to a major milestone... but geez.. at least admit it!!! I guess that's the part that pissed me off. I'm sad to see nessa say she's leaving, and if he cared about her, he would have done something about it, but no... he wanted to keep up his own little pissing war!!! They really do need to get their own site if they want to carry on like that, because it just isn't proper in a public forum, and makes it harder on those who don't get to have all the internet time with each other. My fiancee always had to go to an internet cafe, and our hours are so far apart, we didn't get to "chat" online or be online together, as are many of the other couples on here. We don't need to have our noses rubbed in it!!!

*Deep Breath* Okay... I feel better now!!! Time for a "time out"!!!

I told ya'll I was loading my gun!!! I hope I get put on someone's ignore list!!! didn't even know there was such a button!!! guess I dont' have to worry about shite like that!!!

OMG..this really is the reincarnation of "Am I Overreacting?"

Sister Jordan... NO it is NOT!! at least on "Am I Overreacting??" (that's TWO question marks by the way!!!), we all have fun, laugh, and joke around. This thread is not all that amusing, except when someone injects some humor in it. The reason we keep the other thread alive, was because it did NOT become a flame war, and there was NO poo slinging!!

That is our BABY!!!! Born (read hijacked) out of love!!!

the following does not invite comments. it's food for thought for many to ponder. all questions within are rhetorical and are marked as such so no one will feel the need to respond

even after i left last night, this topic thread ran 2 more pages. very interesting. so much for "refrain" eh? (that's a rhetorical question). don't presume to know what charles wants. but i'll tell you since some have it very wrong above. charles wants to be left alone.

roi - as for me apologizing, i didn't feel an apology was necessary about the pm's i was getting from canadalaura. as i said earlier, if she was diplomatic to start with my reaction would have been different. the reason i posted the pm's was to show that what she was saying in the thread was greatly different than what she said in pm. yet that very point i was trying to make fell on deaf ears and was ignored. apparently it is acceptable in here to say one thing in pm and then claim to have been saying something else in thread, as such was bought into by many.

so if someone wants to pm me, ensure it does not come across as rude. is that too much to ask? (that's a rhetorical question too). i will always reserve the right to place someone on ignore for rude pm's, just as i'm sure many of you would. i'm also finding it difficult to believe that any of you would have not had the same reaction had you been in my shoes. her comment about not getting a good flame war shows to me, at least, her intentions. perhaps she got what she wanted.

as for my posting 15 topics in just over a 90 minute span of time, yes, that was wrong. pardon me for stealing someone's thunder. yet those making the loudest noise about it seem to have made a few mistakes in the past too it seems. i wonder if they were berated for their "oops" as badly as i have been? (rhetorical). indeed, some here have persecuted me with with great relish and zeal, obviously enjoying the drama.

i will be open to advice from anyone here but not when its given to me in a rude fashion, or when someone acts "holier than thou" when dispensing such. it's one thing to offer friendly advice in a pm. what i got did not meet that defintion. also, was creating a thread necessary? (rhetorical) was browbeating me with the info while doing one's best to make that me look small for personal and public enjoyment for all to see necessary? (rhetorical) and then i'm asked to apologize for this public spectacle? (rhetorical)

i make no apologies about defending my point of view from the feeding frenzy. what's amazing to me that the bashing that occured of me was ignored, and how everything i could have done wrong was magnified and carried on about for hours and hours. many things are obvious to me now - and it's not what was said, it's the message between the lines. a very obvious "stfu charles we don't care to hear from you."

roi, you mentioned posts here and there by both nessa and i. i just checked such earlier and i'll upload it to this thread for viewing. the total of my posts and nessa's total 111, your posts alone are 102. personally, i don't give a hoot who posts the most. apparently some do. ya'll fight over that one. to me it just seems to be another thing people can complain about.

it also appears that according to a select few on here, i can't do anything right, as your comments just further my belief that myself and nessa are unwelcome here, and nessa already has that idea and is gone. some here should be very proud of themselves for that. she was not the one who posted 15 threads in just over 90 minutes, yet she got drug into the mud. bravo! those who did such should hold their head high with pride for that!

henceforth, i'll certainly not be posting as much as i used to. and nessa probably won't be back. therefore some here will have to find a new target for their ire.

also don't presume that vj is the only way nessa and i talk, roi. i've seen so many presumptions on the part of so many people here it amazes me. your comment about a "pissing war" is a perfect example of such.

if people got upset because both her and i were here, i can't help that. if people got upset because i took offense to a rude pm telling me i'm annoying, so be it. it baffles me how this molehill became a mountain. perhaps something has been festering within so many for a while has come to boil. and if nessa and i stole anyone's thunder, you can have it back.

in the future, if someone has a problem with me, all i ask is for a pm that is diplomatically worded. not a feeding frenzy/gang bang style fiasco that ensued because of my mistaken belief that i should post a few jokes to humor people. i'm sure some will reply to this. they won't let such die. but that's ok, i know some need the drama.

[Melo 1]

Think you should change the term meloing?