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Hello,

My wife used these forums a lot and got some good advice for preparing and filing the paperwork for my visa, unfortunately my wife passed away last week due to cancer (we only found out she had cancer less than two months ago). Her death has been a tragic blow to me as we had planned the rest of our lives together ...

We had filed all the paperwork last year for the REMOVAL OF CONDITIONS although our center "TEXAS" had a backlog and our application was transferred to Vermont at the beginning of February (before we found out she had cancer).

Obviously I need to inform USCIS of her death, does anyone know if I will have to leave the country or if I will be allowed to stay?

I can`t really find too much information on this situation and while I don`t really want to think about leaving the US atm I need to know what will happen so I can figure out what to do in the future.

Thank you for your time,

Daniel

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Hello,

My wife used these forums a lot and got some good advice for preparing and filing the paperwork for my visa, unfortunately my wife passed away last week due to cancer (we only found out she had cancer less than two months ago). Her death has been a tragic blow to me as we had planned the rest of our lives together ...

We had filed all the paperwork last year for the REMOVAL OF CONDITIONS although our center "TEXAS" had a backlog and our application was transferred to Vermont at the beginning of February (before we found out she had cancer).

Obviously I need to inform USCIS of her death, does anyone know if I will have to leave the country or if I will be allowed to stay?

I can`t really find too much information on this situation and while I don`t really want to think about leaving the US atm I need to know what will happen so I can figure out what to do in the future.

Thank you for your time,

Daniel

I have no answer to your question, but I just wanted to extend my condolences. I am sorry for your loss

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26th March 2008 - NOA2 recieved via email

19th May 2008 - Interview............APPROVED!!!!!!

21st May 2008 - Visa in hand

29th July 2008 - POE

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19th September - Mailed AOS/EAD/AP to Chicago lockbox

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Hello,

My wife used these forums a lot and got some good advice for preparing and filing the paperwork for my visa, unfortunately my wife passed away last week due to cancer (we only found out she had cancer less than two months ago). Her death has been a tragic blow to me as we had planned the rest of our lives together ...

We had filed all the paperwork last year for the REMOVAL OF CONDITIONS although our center "TEXAS" had a backlog and our application was transferred to Vermont at the beginning of February (before we found out she had cancer).

Obviously I need to inform USCIS of her death, does anyone know if I will have to leave the country or if I will be allowed to stay?

I can`t really find too much information on this situation and while I don`t really want to think about leaving the US atm I need to know what will happen so I can figure out what to do in the future.

Thank you for your time,

Daniel

Daniel

Firstly I am very very sorry to hear of your wife's untimely death. It happens to the best of us and can't imagine what you're going through... it must be a bad shock indeed. My condolences go out to you and her family.

I don't know much about what you're asking but my guess near enough would be that because you had already filed for ROC a year ago you might be in for a better chance at staying for the time being until USCIS can make a decision. Tell USCIS of the circumstances and that your USC wife has passed away showing evidence of that I would imagine her death certificate, and you will probably be granted an unconditional 10-year GC. I am pretty sure this is the case but experienced VJers here will soon intervene and respond to your message with precise clarification.

May her soul rest in peace.

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Hello,

My wife used these forums a lot and got some good advice for preparing and filing the paperwork for my visa, unfortunately my wife passed away last week due to cancer (we only found out she had cancer less than two months ago). Her death has been a tragic blow to me as we had planned the rest of our lives together ...

We had filed all the paperwork last year for the REMOVAL OF CONDITIONS although our center "TEXAS" had a backlog and our application was transferred to Vermont at the beginning of February (before we found out she had cancer).

Obviously I need to inform USCIS of her death, does anyone know if I will have to leave the country or if I will be allowed to stay?

I can`t really find too much information on this situation and while I don`t really want to think about leaving the US atm I need to know what will happen so I can figure out what to do in the future.

Thank you for your time,

Daniel

:( I am very sorry for ur loss........i have read someplace that there is a provision for u if the spouse passes away before removal of the conditions is finished ..........if it was me i would spend a couple of hundred dollars to ask a real immigration attorney not just any attorney but one that really knows what they are talking about......maybe someone on this site will know, i dont remember where i found it or what i was trying to research when i found it, but i do know that there is something in the law about it i wish i could be more help but thats all i know.........

May God give u peace...............

sara

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I am so sorry to hear of your sudden loss.....

You will not have to leave the US your marriage was in good faith, what you do need to do is make an infopass appointment at your local office, take a copy of her death certificate and they will be able to forward that to VSC so that it can be added to your evidence.... her death will not stop your approval for your 10 year Greencard....

My thoughts are with you at this difficult time...

Kez

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I think Kez already gave you some very good advice but I wanted to say that I am very sorry for the loss of your wife. God bless you in this difficult time!

Nadine & Kenneth

Our K-1 journey

02/06/2006 filed 129F

07/01/2007 received visa via "Deutsche Post"

08/27/2006 POE Dallas

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AOS, EAD and AP

12/6/2006 filed for AOS & EAD

1/05/2007 AOS transferred to California Service Center

01/16/2008 letter to Congressman

03/27/2008 GREENCARD arrived

ROC

02/02/2010 filed I-751

07/01/20010 Greencard arrived

 

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12/08/2021 N-400 filed 

03/15/2022 Interview. Approved after "quality review"

05/11/2022 Oath Ceremony

 

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I just wanted to extend my condolences as well.

Be sure to get extra certified copies of her death certificate. I think you will probably need them in the future for other non-immigration purposes (insurance, closing accounts, loans, etc.).

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Daniel,

Very sorry to hear of your loss! I have been in your situation twice and I know exactly what you are going through. Please take the advice from the above posters and feel free to PM me if you just need someone to talk to..

Take Care,

Danny

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Dear I am absolutely devasted. Yes make that appointment with your local office, you will not lose the 10year status. May God give you some stability because no one else can.

Tammy (F)

AP: Over 1 year.

Visa: Nov 2

US Entry: Nov 13, Alhamdulillah.

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Hold onto your memories, and I hope that every day gets a little easier for you.

I can only imagine how devestated you must be.

"THE SHORT STORY"

KURT & RAYMA (K-1 Visa)

Oct. 9/03... I-129F sent to NSC

June 10/04... K-1 Interview - APPROVED!!!!

July 31/04... Entered U.S.

Aug. 28/04... WEDDING DAY!!!!

Aug. 30/04... I-485, I-765 & I-131 sent to Seattle

Dec. 10/04... AOS Interview - APPROVED!!!!! (Passport stamped)

Sept. 9/06... I-751 sent to NSC

May 15/07... 10-Yr. PR Card arrives in the mail

Sept. 13/07... N-400 sent to NSC

Aug. 21/08... Interview - PASSED!!!!

Sept. 2/08... Oath Ceremony

Sept. 5/08... Sent in Voter Registration Card

Sept. 9/08... SSA office to change status to "U.S. citizen"

Oct. 8/08... Applied in person for U.S. Passport

Oct. 22/08... U.S. Passport received

DONE!!! DONE!!! DONE!!! DONE!!!

KAELY (K-2 Visa)

Apr. 6/05... DS-230, Part I faxed to Vancouver Consulate

May 26/05... K-2 Interview - APPROVED!!!!

Sept. 5/05... Entered U.S.

Sept. 7/05... I-485 & I-131 sent to CLB

Feb. 22/06... AOS Interview - APPROVED!!!!! (Passport NOT stamped)

Dec. 4/07... I-751 sent to NSC

May 23/08... 10-Yr. PR Card arrives in the mail

Mar. 22/11.... N-400 sent to AZ

June 27/11..... Interview - PASSED!!!

July 12/11..... Oath Ceremony

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Thank you all for your kind words, yes I am devastated it was a total shock.

She was an Air Force veteran (9 years+) and she had been having regular trips to a VA medical center and it was back in January when they first thought she had fibroid tumors in her uterus, they took a sample and it came back as cancerous and so she was referred to Vanderbilt hospital. They operated on her within a month and removed her uterus and ovaries but found a tumor attached to her colon that they could not safely remove (they said one of these things was the size of a grapefruit) ... she survived the surgery although she had a problem with her blood pressure and was kept in hospital longer than the usual 4 day recovery time.

We eventually got her home and she was doing great for 4 days then her breathing went down hill and she was complaining of feeling weak all the time, we took her back to the hospital and they found she had cancer in her lungs and bladder as well as problems with her kidneys, she spent the last week of her life in hospital and the last four days asleep we never truly got to say goodbye and for that I am extremely sad.

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Thank you all for your kind words, yes I am devastated it was a total shock.

She was an Air Force veteran (9 years+) and she had been having regular trips to a VA medical center and it was back in January when they first thought she had fibroid tumors in her uterus, they took a sample and it came back as cancerous and so she was referred to Vanderbilt hospital. They operated on her within a month and removed her uterus and ovaries but found a tumor attached to her colon that they could not safely remove (they said one of these things was the size of a grapefruit) ... she survived the surgery although she had a problem with her blood pressure and was kept in hospital longer than the usual 4 day recovery time.

We eventually got her home and she was doing great for 4 days then her breathing went down hill and she was complaining of feeling weak all the time, we took her back to the hospital and they found she had cancer in her lungs and bladder as well as problems with her kidneys, she spent the last week of her life in hospital and the last four days asleep we never truly got to say goodbye and for that I am extremely sad.

I am so saddened to hear such a tragic post. Try not to reflect upon this as not having had time to say "goodbye", please. Being together at home for those few days might just very well have been her way of making sure you were together in the end. What a brave soul she was and now you must continue to be the same. Best of wishes to you in this time.

"diaddie mermaid"

You can 'catch' me on here and on FBI.

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I'm sorry about your loss (F) .

I'm sure USCIS will be able to tell you what you need to do.

11/2004 - Met in Brazil

09/2006 - Apply for K1

03/2007 - K1 approved

04/2007 - Apply for AOS & EAD

07/2007 - EAD approved

01/2008 - Conditional Residency approved

11/2009 - Apply to remove conditions

02/2010 - Permanent Residency approved

11/2010 - Apply for Citizenship

03/2011 - Citizenship approved

07/2011 - Moved back to Brazil

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