I am leaving visajoureny.com

[Boblop 0]

I AM LEAVING VISAJOURNEY.COM

Hello Members of VisaJourney.com. I finally came to the conclusion that I no longer

feel a sense of being a devoted member of this website. I have decided to bail-out of

this forum and request that my membership account be lifted, and closed.

This is not a snap decision to leave. I have had this thought for several weeks now and

today I put my thoughts in action. I never first examined the goals of this website or why

its called a VisaJourney. My short stay here has caused me some painful confusion with

the manner in which such an apparently important tool has created a platform where few

have chosen to destroy. I have not seen one, not one, word of support for anyone coming

to this forum seeking help. Instead the person is belittled and ridiculed, called names and

laughed at.

I cannot in good conscience buy into the idea that OFF TOPIC is not a forum for those

seeking assistance of any kind, or that OFF TOPIC is fair game for anyone who enters. To insult anyone hiding behind my computer screen is not what I am about. I refuse to

be part of this group any longer. If I came across as being aggressive in any of my only

two or three postings, it is because I felt personally insulted by a thread I read, thus I

posted a reply or comment knowingly smearing the writer.

But I chose to leave during this supposedly time of goodwill towards men without any

Ill feelings towards no one. It may well be said that no one forced me to stay this long.

I did so hoping that I could some day exercise my expertise is assisting someone, anyone

making their dream come true.

I am a very lucky person indeed, having been born in this country. My family is also U.S.

born citizens, so my coming to VisaJourney.com was not in personal expectation of getting any help for myself or my family with visa or any other immigration issue. I came

here to try to make someone`s dream come true, as I mentioned above. I never visited the

other forums here at VJ because the wind here blew me off course of my mission.

I leave with a very heavy heart but before I leave I want to wish each and every one of

you and your loved ones a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.

Prior to writing this thread, I searched for MY ACCOUNT in an effort to just close it myself, to no avail. I do not know if there is such a tool at this site. I wanted to close my

account instead of having to write a request to a moderator, which I suspect may block

this thread in an effort to silence me. But I will write a request to Mags.

You all have a wonderful Holiday season, and remember, its O.K. to say Ho Ho Ho!!!

Boblop…..3:51

Dec.19,2007

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Joined: 2-October 07

But you just got here!

[Nagishkaw 510]

Good bye, Bob. I am sorry you feel so bitter. Dont take it so personal, though. It does seem one has to earn one's right to move to the head of the pecking order, and I will agree with you there. However, there is a tremendous ammout of support here. I am sad that you did not find it.

At any rate, ( 10% ? ), I wish you well.

Only Captain Ewok can close your account. PM him with your request.

[Amby 490]

We aren't mean! STAY!

[mRx 16]

OMG DON'T LEAVE. I WILL CRY IF YOU DO. REALLY.

[one...two...tree 2,762]

I love you, man. Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! You will be missed.

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

OMG DON'T LEAVE. I WILL CRY IF YOU DO. REALLY.

[Amby 490]

maybe a little mean

[Fandango 1,439]

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

All who post on this thread... know this - you will forever be a part of VJ History.

[almaty 19]

in the end..the love you make is equal to the love you take..............paul mccartney...

oh yeah..good luck brother boblop

[eric&gen 0]

You really have to take whats being said on here its not they are gonna find your house and beat the ####### out of ya lol.

[PlatyPius 5]

I have not seen one, not one, word of support for anyone coming

to this forum seeking help.

Then you didn't read many threads. It seems like you spent most of your time in Off Topic, which is VJ's version of a free-for-all. OT is not for immigration questions or to get your warm fuzzies from strangers.

Anyone who feels this way....I can only think that you haven't been to many message boards. VJ is very, very, VERY tame compared to many. Yes, we have our resident b!tches and b@stards - of which I'm one - but it doesn't even get mildly uncomfortable here. So, if someone can't make it here, I don't where they will.

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

You really have to take whats being said on here its not they are gonna find your house and beat the ####### out of ya lol.

[Kazan' Tiger 1]

I have a serious love / hate affair with VJ! I'd stick around, the politics might grow on you.