Am I Overreacting??

[aussiewench 9]

Do we know he was seeking them out and not , say, opening an email forward? (since it was a slide show?)

it's possible but according to cangal, he gave no such explanation for it. he didn't seem to give any explanation.

Who knows, perhaps maybe because it wasnt discussed, but instead he was told and not given the chance to express his views properly, perhaps feeling it was futile. The word 'told' has been mentioned many many times in numerous posts by cangal. One should never be told, but asked or the issue discussed. I know many men and women alike that class their opinion, their feelings, their telling.....as discussing. In my book that is never a discussion. Perhaps maybe if it was discussed in the right way in the first place this issue would not be coming up now where it was felt he had to hide it.

Other then that.....I'm not getting involved in this discussion as I will get myself in trouble

Edited April 26, 2006 by aussiewench

[MichelleandCraig 1]

ahhhhhhhh don't worry wenchie..we're wayyyy beyond the original topic now...and glad to see you around again!! M.

[mercuryroad 0]

i see the boys have been busy..pretty good names merc..

A thread about the evils of porn turning into a conversation about porno names. Love it

porno name

Smoke My Monkey

i see the boys have been busy..pretty good names merc..

porno name

Dean's Milk....100% Phat

HUHHHH?? how did I not be 1001??? It said 1000 when I was posting..hmmmmmm I think you're stuffing the ballot boxes again!!! hahahahah I was already mad I missed 1000 but hey..I was doing homework what can I say? Craig leaves this morning(goin' the whole way this time! ) and I can't sleep and he's getting up in a couple three hours anyway so I may as well stay up now!!!! Grrrrr. M.

oh...I was goin by what it says on the board, not here in the thread..it's one off. did YOU do that???

porno name

Jeez Head

Craig's Egg

Do we know he was seeking them out and not , say, opening an email forward? (since it was a slide show?)

it's possible but according to cangal, he gave no such explanation for it. he didn't seem to give any explanation.

Who knows, perhaps maybe because it wasnt discussed, but instead he was told and not given the chance to express his views properly, perhaps feeling it was futile. The word 'told' has been mentioned many many times in numerous posts by cangal. One should never be told, but asked or the issue discussed. I know many men and women alike that class their opinion, their feelings, their telling.....as discussing. In my book that is never a discussion. Perhaps maybe if it was discussed in the right way in the first place this issue would not be coming up now where it was felt he had to hide it.

Other then that.....I'm not getting involved in this discussion as I will get myself in trouble

porno name

D!cks Ahoy

[Welshcookie 17]

Hello....I am Fluffy Cumsalot....

[aussiewench 9]

porno name

D!cks Ahoy

right on merc

Hello....I am Fluffy Cumsalot....

[almaty 19]

Dean's Milk....100% Phat

hmmmmmmm got milk?

[Yodrak 7]

CanGal,

I don't seek out this kind of viewing material myself any more, but my wife frequently gets these kinds of pictures by e-mail from her girlfriends back home and passes them on to me. The expected response is for me to tell her how much better she looks than the women in the photos. I perform as expected, she rewards me appropriately for my flattery, and peace reigns. We understand each other.

You and your husband clearly have different views on the subject, what's not so clear is whether or not either of you is going about resolving the issue in a manner that promotes rather than discourages understanding.

Yodrak

Hey everyone, I hope your afternoon is going well. I am having this issue with my husband and I just want to know others oppinions and if I am only overreacting. I know everyone has different views but post them all. I came across some pretty skankly clothed bikini model slide show yesterday that he apparently was scrolling through early yesterday morning while I was sleeping yesterday. I don't know if that was the issue that bothered me but the issue is that I know of times it was more than that just before we got married. I was upset. I am upset, I told him it bothered me and he doesn't understand why. He slept on the couch last night (i didn't make him) and all day today he wouldn't talk to me, but it wasn't like I was making an effort either. He then tried just before he left for work which made me more angry because he was pretending as if nothing happened, as if he didn't care that it bothered me and because he didn't understand why it did he thought it wasn't a big deal. I know alot of you are going to say it's a man thing, just let it go but its more than that. I am his wife, and if he wouldn't feel comfortable or right about doing something if I was sitting there with him what makes it right when I am not. Maybe my views are different than most but I know that this kind of thing bothers a lot of us women and I don't know what to do, because it does bother me and I don't think it's right and it just makes me feel less of a women to him. Especially when I am going through this entire process and I feel kind of trapped right now, unable to work, drive etc, so I am stuck home all day because of the gov't and I just feel more trapped now. I guess I just feel really disrespected.

I don't know, someone help me out

CanGal

pax,

Are we making an assumption of some sort here?

Yodrak

...

I just don't buy the fact that a man in a long-term relationship with a healthy sex life still somehow "needs" to look at pictures of strangers.

Edited April 26, 2006 by Yodrak

[Welshcookie 17]

awwww....I thought Yodrak was going to give us his porn name....

[almaty 19]

oh! i see the professor in on the site...

awwww....I thought Yodrak was going to give us his porn name....

no way, all he cares about is a swallow..or spitter..

[mercuryroad 0]

CanGal,

I don't seek out this kind of viewing material myself any more, but my wife frequently gets these kinds of pictures by e-mail from her girlfriends back home and passes them on to me. The expected response is for me to tell her how much better she looks than the women in the photos. I perform as expected, she rewards me appropriately for my flattery, and peace reigns. We understand each other.

You and your husband clearly have different views on the subject, what's not so clear is whether or not either of you is going about resolving the issue in a manner that promotes rather than discourages understanding.

Yodrak

Hey everyone, I hope your afternoon is going well. I am having this issue with my husband and I just want to know others oppinions and if I am only overreacting. I know everyone has different views but post them all. I came across some pretty skankly clothed bikini model slide show yesterday that he apparently was scrolling through early yesterday morning while I was sleeping yesterday. I don't know if that was the issue that bothered me but the issue is that I know of times it was more than that just before we got married. I was upset. I am upset, I told him it bothered me and he doesn't understand why. He slept on the couch last night (i didn't make him) and all day today he wouldn't talk to me, but it wasn't like I was making an effort either. He then tried just before he left for work which made me more angry because he was pretending as if nothing happened, as if he didn't care that it bothered me and because he didn't understand why it did he thought it wasn't a big deal. I know alot of you are going to say it's a man thing, just let it go but its more than that. I am his wife, and if he wouldn't feel comfortable or right about doing something if I was sitting there with him what makes it right when I am not. Maybe my views are different than most but I know that this kind of thing bothers a lot of us women and I don't know what to do, because it does bother me and I don't think it's right and it just makes me feel less of a women to him. Especially when I am going through this entire process and I feel kind of trapped right now, unable to work, drive etc, so I am stuck home all day because of the gov't and I just feel more trapped now. I guess I just feel really disrespected.

I don't know, someone help me out

CanGal

pax,

Are we making an assumption of some sort here?

Yodrak

...

I just don't buy the fact that a man in a long-term relationship with a healthy sex life still somehow "needs" to look at pictures of strangers.

porno name

Yosak

[Welshcookie 17]

[Yodrak 7]

welshcookie,

Porn is a very common nickname for women in my wife's country, and it starts or ends many given names.

Yodrak

awwww....I thought Yodrak was going to give us his porn name....

[Welshcookie 17]

welshcookie,

Porn is a very common nickname for women in my wife's country, and it starts or ends many given names.

Yodrak

awwww....I thought Yodrak was going to give us his porn name....

is that regarded as good or bad?

[mercuryroad 0]

welshcookie,

Porn is a very common nickname for women in my wife's country, and it starts or ends many given names.

Yodrak

awwww....I thought Yodrak was going to give us his porn name....

porno name

Mysakattakporno

[almaty 19]

welshcookie,

Porn is a very common nickname for women in my wife's country, and it starts or ends many given names.

Yodrak

awwww....I thought Yodrak was going to give us his porn name....

is that regarded as good or bad?

neither ..just in names

alright merc..that was a good one for yodrah..whhat about welch cake ?