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Hey everyone, I hope your afternoon is going well. :yes: I am having this issue with my husband and I just want to know others oppinions and if I am only overreacting. I know everyone has different views but post them all. I came across some pretty skankly clothed bikini model slide show yesterday that he apparently was scrolling through early yesterday morning while I was sleeping yesterday. I don't know if that was the issue that bothered me but the issue is that I know of times it was more than that just before we got married. I was upset. I am upset, I told him it bothered me and he doesn't understand why. He slept on the couch last night (i didn't make him) and all day today he wouldn't talk to me, but it wasn't like I was making an effort either. He then tried just before he left for work which made me more angry because he was pretending as if nothing happened, as if he didn't care that it bothered me and because he didn't understand why it did he thought it wasn't a big deal. I know alot of you are going to say it's a man thing, just let it go but its more than that. I am his wife, and if he wouldn't feel comfortable or right about doing something if I was sitting there with him what makes it right when I am not. Maybe my views are different than most but I know that this kind of thing bothers a lot of us women and I don't know what to do, because it does bother me and I don't think it's right and it just makes me feel less of a women to him. Especially when I am going through this entire process and I feel kind of trapped right now, unable to work, drive etc, so I am stuck home all day because of the gov't and I just feel more trapped now. I guess I just feel really disrespected.

I don't know, someone help me out

CanGal

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I came across some pretty skankly clothed bikini model slide show yesterday

Isn't language like that against VJ's TOS?

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I'm eating white cheddar flavored cheez-its and they are delicious.

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i'm eating popcorn. it too is yummy but white cheddar would really make it better.

I wanted the potato skins but it was not possible in the machine. There was an empty spot before them, so I would have had to pay $1.50 for a little bag. No deal.

I'm going to go back to the machine now and get some chocolate milk......I love that stuff.

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mmmmmmmmmm...chocolate milk; I want, I want, I want!!! :content:

*sipping*

1% Deans....my favorite

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mmmmmmmmmm...chocolate milk; I want, I want, I want!!! :content:

*sipping*

1% Deans....my favorite

*snatches choccie milk and runs..........*

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mmmmmmmmmm...chocolate milk; I want, I want, I want!!! :content:

*sipping*

1% Deans....my favorite

*snatches choccie milk and runs..........*

That's a crime of the highest order.....plus it has my cooties on it!

You don't think I will.....but I will tell mom

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eeeeeeeeeew..Merc cooties... :ph34r:

*snatches chocie milk back*

12/5/05 Sent I129F Petition to Nebraska via Express Mail

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12/9/05 Check cashed (Never been so happy to have money leave my account)

12/12/05 Receive NOA1 snail mail - 30-60 day processing estimate

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1/20/06 NVC letter in mail...will ship within a week.

2/1/06 Packet 3 and 4 in the mail

3/15/06 Interview - neither approved nor declined need to send in Migratory Movement Certificate AP

3/20/06 Migratory Movement Certificate for myself and fiancee sent to US Embassy in Lima

3/23/06 Visa Approved

5/19/06 I leave for Peru to pick up mi amor

5/25/06 Lucia and I arrive in Chicago

7/01/06 Legal Marriage

9/09/06 Religious Wedding

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too late...I drank it......... :dead: I've got Merc cooties...eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeek!

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