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That´s wonderful news. :) Hope communication has just been opened for you guys and that future problems will be solved nicely. :)

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There are two betrayals here: using other women for sexual stimuli, and then continuing to do it after you've told him how you feel. This is not simply a harmless guy thing, in my opinion, but a sexua

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Hey Everyone, wow, I never thought that this thread would get this much of a response. It's kind of crazy. I just want to clear some things up that I think people kind of started going along with that

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well i may be back later, maybe not, LOST is coming on soon. Don't want to be late for that.

LOST isn't on tonight *cries* *sobs* *heaves uncontrollably*

i want my ari stuffed animal to snuggle with!!!!!! :crying:

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Yep, no LOST today, only next week.

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Well you said ladies only and I am not a lady but I have something to say. If he is not feeling loved or cared for he may go into his own little world and look at the pictures. Not that you are not providing all that you can but something in this mind is missing. I do not think he will talk to you about it but you could ask how he feels when he looks at the pictures and how he feels when he is with you. If he feels different something is wrong and you need to examine the marrage very close to figure out how to stop the seperation that is going on because if you do nothing it will just get worse..

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CanGal, very glad to hear you had such a breakthrough conversation. That's wonderful!!!! :yes:(F)

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:dance: Congratulations Cangal :dance: I knew he would understand, that shows how much he loves you. Im so happy for you. Well done girl :luv:

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I just don't buy the fact that a man in a long-term relationship with a healthy sex life still somehow "needs" to look at pictures of strangers.

I agree with that..... I guess in my beliefs i think that even though they aren't physically doing anything with someone else, It is still an issue if they are thinking about it in their heads. I don't know I am a christian, so i believe in the whole if you even look at a women with lust you have also commited adultery with her. Just how I grew up and I can't change that. I don't know ...

Just a guys opinion ... I agree with you, this is something that he should not be looking at. I too think your best course of action is to sit down and have an open talk with him, without being argumentative. I wish you the best.

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And that's how a veeeeery long thread on VJ didn't turn into a war (aka name calling)!

I'm proud of this thread actually..... it had a start, the development and the happy ending! I'm aware that it's not the ending for them because a marriage always needs maintenance, but it was the start of better times for them at least! :thumbs::star:(F)

very true, I agree :thumbs:

Cangal,

I'm very happy that you were both able to talk it out. :)

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Oh hell yeah! True love prevails.....crisis averted. I love it when a plan comes together. Congrats! That's a tough one to make it through...no doubt.

And a big round of applause to hubby for stepping up and initiating what is a very difficult conversation. It proves how much he cares about you and that should say a lot. Gotta give credit where it is deserved.

I think you handled things perfectly.

Now it's time for makeup sex. Enjoy.

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I've always said there's no harm in looking as long as there is no touching or tasting going on.

That goes for the woman as well as the man, in my book.

Im with you on that one. My fiance likes to look at porn once in awhile, if men didnt, HEFF would be poor. Im not a big fan of porn myself, but i look at it with him because i love him, and we learn to live with the things our loved ones like, even if they annoy us and he feels funny if he looks at it alone now that we are together and will ask me to join him. All we do is laugh anyway.

Another thing CanGal, he may have also been upset over the you "caught" him looking at porn on the computer, i mean, was he actually sitting there when you saw him or did you search it on the computer when he wasnt there? He could have been upset over you finding it on the computer, thinking you dont trust him all of a sudden confronting him over things he looks at on the computer.

Seriously sit down and talk to him, explain how you feel about it, but you cant change him. If you tell him you dont want him to look at it ever, and tell him you will be upset if he does, it will cause more tension and anger and problems in your relationship. If your asleep and hes not, and hes looking at porn, its not hurting anyone, especially if its just looking at models he cant touch. just my advice. HUGS, Tara

ps i just couldnt read all 33 pages, so i added my 2cents in :) if it was too late, ok :) but oh well

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