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but its like us saying we have PMS and can't control it, thats a crock. Ya it's there but it doesn't mean you can't do anything about it.

Man, I sure wish men were allowed to comment here!

g'wan Slim, you aren't usually one to mince words....

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Hey Everyone, wow, I never thought that this thread would get this much of a response. It's kind of crazy. I just want to clear some things up that I think people kind of started going along with that

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Let's summarize, shall we?

1 CanGirl did not know about her husband's proclivities before she married him. She has to take some ownership in that.

2 They're both Christians who belief porn and masturbating are wrong but he refuses to give it up.

3 CanGirl has two choices: stay or leave. But she's in a muddle, will probably stay, and the cycle will continue.

Did I get it right?

you forgot

4 she's snooping behind his back (but she's in denial like her husband)

Oh my gosh you're annoying. She has every right to look through her computer!! He shouldn't be looking at porn if his wife feels threatened by it. Would you say that a wife who finds empty liqour bottles in her alcoholic husbands car is snooping? Honestly, she has just as much right to see what's happening on her computer as I have a right to see what's happening on mine. Trust is important, but people shouldn't go through life with blinders on, thinking, "What I don't know won't hurt me."

I'm annoying and she's snooping. At least I'm being honest. She has every right but she is in complete denial about the snooping. DO YOU GET IT YET?

Oh sweetie. I get it. You're wrong and you can't admit it. Just like SOOOOO many other men I know! :D

It's just my opinion. It can't be wrong. It's an opinion. At least be honest. Most people here aren't.

Is that clear enough for you or do you want me to repeat it at a better time of the month for you?

:lol::lol::lol: Oh man, you are one funny guy. I feel sorry for your significant other buddy. If that is, you have one. And if you do, I doubt she'll be able to put up with you for long.

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I don't think any religion teaches that sex is bad....

Thank God for that!

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Let's summarize, shall we?

1 CanGirl did not know about her husband's proclivities before she married him. She has to take some ownership in that.

2 They're both Christians who belief porn and masturbating are wrong but he refuses to give it up.

3 CanGirl has two choices: stay or leave. But she's in a muddle, will probably stay, and the cycle will continue.

Did I get it right?

you forgot

4 she's snooping behind his back (but she's in denial like her husband)

Oh my gosh you're annoying. She has every right to look through her computer!! He shouldn't be looking at porn if his wife feels threatened by it. Would you say that a wife who finds empty liqour bottles in her alcoholic husbands car is snooping? Honestly, she has just as much right to see what's happening on her computer as I have a right to see what's happening on mine. Trust is important, but people shouldn't go through life with blinders on, thinking, "What I don't know won't hurt me."

I'm annoying and she's snooping. At least I'm being honest. She has every right but she is in complete denial about the snooping. DO YOU GET IT YET?

Oh sweetie. I get it. You're wrong and you can't admit it. Just like SOOOOO many other men I know! :D

It's just my opinion. It can't be wrong. It's an opinion. At least be honest. Most people here aren't.

Is that clear enough for you or do you want me to repeat it at a better time of the month for you?

:lol::lol::lol: Oh man, you are one funny guy. I feel sorry for your significant other buddy. If that is, you have one. And if you do, I doubt she'll be able to put up with you for long.

I guess opinionated men intimidate you? You'll get over it. ;)

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is still going??? havent you all run of out poo yet?

This is VJ.....the poo is always plentiful.... :lol:

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is still going??? havent you all run of out poo yet?

This is VJ.....the poo is always plentiful.... :lol:

Yeah....some people are more full of it than others

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Let's summarize, shall we?

1 CanGirl did not know about her husband's proclivities before she married him. She has to take some ownership in that.

2 They're both Christians who belief porn and masturbating are wrong but he refuses to give it up.

3 CanGirl has two choices: stay or leave. But she's in a muddle, will probably stay, and the cycle will continue.

Did I get it right?

you forgot

4 she's snooping behind his back (but she's in denial like her husband)

Oh my gosh you're annoying. She has every right to look through her computer!! He shouldn't be looking at porn if his wife feels threatened by it. Would you say that a wife who finds empty liqour bottles in her alcoholic husbands car is snooping? Honestly, she has just as much right to see what's happening on her computer as I have a right to see what's happening on mine. Trust is important, but people shouldn't go through life with blinders on, thinking, "What I don't know won't hurt me."

I'm annoying and she's snooping. At least I'm being honest. She has every right but she is in complete denial about the snooping. DO YOU GET IT YET?

Oh sweetie. I get it. You're wrong and you can't admit it. Just like SOOOOO many other men I know! :D

It's just my opinion. It can't be wrong. It's an opinion. At least be honest. Most people here aren't.

Is that clear enough for you or do you want me to repeat it at a better time of the month for you?

:lol::lol::lol: Oh man, you are one funny guy. I feel sorry for your significant other buddy. If that is, you have one. And if you do, I doubt she'll be able to put up with you for long.

I guess opinionated men intimidate you? You'll get over it. ;)

lol Ok, I'm calling a truce. You make me laugh, and I can't debate anything with someone who makes me laugh. :)

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9/26/03- After much talk with USCIS we decide to go ahead and get married during David's third visit, with David planning on returning to Ireland the following week.

9/30/03- Phone USCIS to ask questions on filling out paper work and USCIS officer informs us that if David is already here he doesn't need to leave. After numerous calls to the Irish Embassy and two more calls to USCIS to confirm, we decide he will stay.

12/02/03- Petition for AOS recieved

10/8/04- EAD FINALLY arrives

11/10/2004- Our Son Colin Michael Kieran born two years to the minute after our first face to face meeting!

1/26/06- Recieved interview appointment letter.

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is still going??? havent you all run of out poo yet?

This is VJ.....the poo is always plentiful.... :lol:

Yeah....some people are more full of it than others

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What's wrong with watching porn???

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It's funny how some people say her husband should completely stop doing what he likes to do (and she shouldn't have to compromise at all).... but if a woman posted that her husband was forcing her to stop doing something she liked then we'd hear he was abusive!

Every story has two sides......

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Perhaps your husband is not compromising because he feels you're just dictating rules to him?
And I SO agree with that!!

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It's funny how some people say her husband should completely stop doing what he likes to do (and she shouldn't have to compromise at all).... but if a woman posted that her husband was forcing her to stop doing something she liked then we'd hear he was abusive!

Every story has two sides......

LisaD said:

Perhaps your husband is not compromising because he feels you're just dictating rules to him?
And I SO agree with that!!

*sigh* he'd already agreed........!!! he went back on the agreement.

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*sigh* he'd already agreed........!!! he went back on the agreement.
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This is the crotch of the matter, he did agree and then decided to do it anyway without talking to the OP about it, I still say if the OP does not like it then she really only has one choice ..put up and shut up..it is as simple as that because she has already stated that she will not leave her husband.

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