Am I Overreacting??

[Welshcookie 17]

It's just my opinion. It can't be wrong. It's an opinion. At least be honest. Most people here aren't.

Is that clear enough for you or do you want me to repeat it at a better time of the month for you?

hehehehehe.......

[Fandango 1,439]

It's just my opinion. It can't be wrong. It's an opinion. At least be honest. Most people here aren't.

Is that clear enough for you or do you want me to repeat it at a better time of the month for you?

Cmon Rich....not the pms thing again! You can do better than that...I'm sure!

PS I happen to agree with you in the instance that it was snooping. I don't buy the popup thing at all.

Edited April 19, 2006 by LisaD

[rbhigday 0]

A few thing I notice one she stated in her original post that she came across some slideshow of women. That would imply that she was looking at either things in her history or bookmarks on her computer.

You can not get pop-ups unless you have gone to the page, anyone with computer knowledge can tell you that pops are programs that happen after you have gone to the page not before and not out of the blue.

The only expection to this is if you install a program that ask you at random times but since these are annoying and prone to viruses most people tend not to install them intentionally.

It appears to me that there are trust issuses here. But like others said she must sit down and tell him how it hurts her, not just that she does not like it but explain it to him. Then she should trust him enough not to go checking up on him.

My 2 cents worth, if it worth that much

[Fandango 1,439]

People keep mentioning porn.,...but if I'm correct, the OP said he was looking at women in bikinis....there's a difference to me....or else I'm never laying out in the sun without David ever again

[ChristinaM 0]

Spyware is a wonderful thing....

Edited April 19, 2006 by clmarsh

[CarolineM 0]

it was bikini clad womn, but the OP stated that it USED to be MUCH more than that.

[Traviesa 0]

As far as being naive, all I can say is... you let your SO do whatever you feel comfortable with and I will do the same. If he/she does manage to be with you for the rest of you life without ever cheating then Praise God! It's not likely though so it sounds like I'm not the one being naive. Over half of all marriages end in divorce nowadays and it's usually due to one of the partners exploring their sexuality outside of the relationship or seeking greener grass. And obviously the OP is not comfortable with the fact her SO is doing this if she's asking the question. And if it makes her uncomfortable then why would her SO want to continue to cause her to feel that way?

IMHO, one of the problems in our society today is the lack of shame or modesty. By looking at these vile pics of nearly or totally nude people, not only are the models showing NO amount of modesty but the veiwer is slowly breaking down the level of shame they feel in looking at such things. Once that shame is removed completely what stops them from pursuing more than pics on the internet to look at? Or to touch for that matter? How long will it be before their urges overtake them and they start looking for gratification?

I'm not saying this is true in all cases obviously it's not true for everyone. Some have higher levels of self control than others but why even take the risk? I'm sorry I even replied to this post to begin with. I was just offering my support for the OP.

Princess, I would venture to say that more marriages end in divorce because one partner feels trapped in that relationship-like smothered.

[Fandango 1,439]

it was bikini clad womn, but the OP stated that it USED to be MUCH more than that.

You capped the most important word there, Karo.

I can't imagine how hard it must have been for you to live thru what you did...I suppose you can look at it tho that that situation brought you here with your fiancee/husband...so it all paid off in the end!!

....but not every situation is the same....Cangirl is not you & her hubby is not your ex....not every situation will be and end as badly like yours did...and I happen to think you're projecting a bit here.

Of course, you're the one with the degree...so what the hell do I know, eh?

[CarolineM 0]

Eh. Degrees are just expensive pieces of paper.

[ddave 0]

Communication has to be the key here. This is obviously something the guy is compelled to do, and something the girl is compelled to despise. A middle ground has to be found, and that needs compromise rather than bullying to stop.

I've never found porn that appealing and pictures of strangers in bikinis even less so, but whatever floats your boat. I do see correlations tho in aspects of mine and Lisa's life where we've had differences of opinions on certain matters, and compromise had to be found. It all gets a lot easier once you get there

As with everybody else tho, just my opinion!

[Fandango 1,439]

Eh. Degrees are just expensive pieces of paper.

Yeah don't I know that! hahahha Mine did nothing for me & funnily enough you don't even need one for what I do now.

btw, David you are so wise....can anyone say PUBQUIZ! *HURL*

[ddave 0]

Eh. Degrees are just expensive pieces of paper.

Yeah don't I know that! hahahha Mine did nothing for me & funnily enough you don't even need one for what I do now.

btw, David you are so wise....can anyone say PUBQUIZ! *HURL*

nowt wrong with the quiz woman

[Fandango 1,439]

Eh. Degrees are just expensive pieces of paper.

Yeah don't I know that! hahahha Mine did nothing for me & funnily enough you don't even need one for what I do now.

btw, David you are so wise....can anyone say PUBQUIZ! *HURL*

nowt wrong with the quiz woman

I'd rather have a root canal performed thru my nostrils while hot pokers are stuck in my eyes

[ddave 0]

Eh. Degrees are just expensive pieces of paper.

Yeah don't I know that! hahahha Mine did nothing for me & funnily enough you don't even need one for what I do now.

btw, David you are so wise....can anyone say PUBQUIZ! *HURL*

nowt wrong with the quiz woman

I'd rather have a root canal performed thru my nostrils while hot pokers are stuck in my eyes

I'm sure we can reach a far better compromise than that :P

[ChristinaM 0]

Get a freakin' room

(Or at least, get a freakin' visa )