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HEY! :angry: I'm still waiting for the UPS man to bring my package of "suth'ren delights" from you.........grrrrrrrrrr :protest:

hmmm. when i was growing up suth'ern delights was a passed out date :lol:

bwahahahaa :lol:

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There are two betrayals here: using other women for sexual stimuli, and then continuing to do it after you've told him how you feel. This is not simply a harmless guy thing, in my opinion, but a sexua

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Hey Everyone, wow, I never thought that this thread would get this much of a response. It's kind of crazy. I just want to clear some things up that I think people kind of started going along with that

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about every 4 or 5 months... sometimes not that often... but they last for a good week...

I have the same issue with pooping.

12/5/05 Sent I129F Petition to Nebraska via Express Mail

12/6/05 Packaged received at 10:38 am in Nebraska

12/9/05 Check cashed (Never been so happy to have money leave my account)

12/12/05 Receive NOA1 snail mail - 30-60 day processing estimate

01/04/06 Receive NOA2 via e-mail

1/20/06 NVC letter in mail...will ship within a week.

2/1/06 Packet 3 and 4 in the mail

3/15/06 Interview - neither approved nor declined need to send in Migratory Movement Certificate AP

3/20/06 Migratory Movement Certificate for myself and fiancee sent to US Embassy in Lima

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5/25/06 Lucia and I arrive in Chicago

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:lol::lol: ..looks slow and painful

Peace to All creatures great and small............................................

But when we turn to the Hebrew literature, we do not find such jokes about the donkey. Rather the animal is known for its strength and its loyalty to its master (Genesis 49:14; Numbers 22:30).

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I don't usually post here, but I would like to on this topic. There is no ultimate right or wrong here... there is what is right and wrong for the individual and the couple. Their life and comfort zones are by their own agreements. If his need to look at female form bothers you, you have the right to tell him exactly how it makes you feel. Please don't feel you have to compromise your feelings. Feelings are a huge part of our realities and they are what they are. To deny your feelings is just to stuff them away where they can grow into resentment. Communicating emotional issues is difficult without them spinning out of control, but I think if it can be approached in a "this is how I feel" rather then a "you make me feel like..." manner, the other party is usually a wee bit more receptive to hear.

In a previous marriage I had to confront this same issue. In my "reality" my husband intentionally perusing other female forms after making the commitment of marriage was a hard knock on my ego. The Playboy magazines and porn movies were just too much for me to handle. Right or wrong, I perceive it as a lack of commitment and respect to one's SPOUSE, particularly if they have voiced discomfort about it.

Sure we will all ocassionally take notice of others, male and female alike. It's quite natural. I, however, tend to just brush it away when it happens to me because it is inconsequential to my life and my commitment to my chosen is more meaningful to me then "scratching some itch". I don't acknowledge it. I know it would hurt my fiance tremendously if I gawked. I just can't do that. As I said, this is my reality and I know it doesn't apply to others.

This is something I discussed with my fiance. We discussed a lot of issues like this openly and frankly. I am blessed that his reality is very much in alignment with mine in these matters. I am feeling your pain, I remember it well. All you can do is communicate it as best you can and I hope that your situation becomes more comfortable for you.

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about every 4 or 5 months... sometimes not that often... but they last for a good week...

I have the same issue with pooping.

really? u poop every 4 - 5 months :lol: jk jk i have a pooping issue too :P my diet is the highest fiber/fruits/vegetables on earth! :P

anyway g'afternoon people!! :dance: it's wednesday, halfway to weekend be happy! :star::luv:



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* 04/07/06: I-129F Sent to NSC
* 10/02/06: Interview date - APPROVED!
* 10/10/06: POE Houston
* 11/25/06: Wedding day!!!

* AOS/EAD/AP Timeline *
*01/05/07: AOS/EAD/AP sent
*02/19/08: AOS approved
*02/27/08: Permanent Resident Card received

* LOC Timeline *
*12/31/09: Applied Lifting of Condition
*01/04/10: NOA
*02/12/10: Biometrics
*03/03/10: LOC approved
*03/11/10: 10 years green card received

* Naturalization Timeline *
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*12/29/10: NOA date
*01/19/11: biometrics
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:lol::lol: ..looks slow and painful

Frances has good smileys

12/5/05 Sent I129F Petition to Nebraska via Express Mail

12/6/05 Packaged received at 10:38 am in Nebraska

12/9/05 Check cashed (Never been so happy to have money leave my account)

12/12/05 Receive NOA1 snail mail - 30-60 day processing estimate

01/04/06 Receive NOA2 via e-mail

1/20/06 NVC letter in mail...will ship within a week.

2/1/06 Packet 3 and 4 in the mail

3/15/06 Interview - neither approved nor declined need to send in Migratory Movement Certificate AP

3/20/06 Migratory Movement Certificate for myself and fiancee sent to US Embassy in Lima

3/23/06 Visa Approved

5/19/06 I leave for Peru to pick up mi amor

5/25/06 Lucia and I arrive in Chicago

7/01/06 Legal Marriage

9/09/06 Religious Wedding

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Good morning all ya'll!!! :D

*waving*

I didn't realize Sarah is just a young pup!!! hahahah Woo Hoo... the big Four-Ohhh!!! :dance:

Remember, they say life begins at 40!!! (but is over shortly afterwards!!! :lol: )

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12-06-05: NOA1

03-02-06: NOA2

03-23-06: Interview Date May 16

05-17-06: K-1 Visa Issued

05-20-06: Arrived at POE, Honolulu

07-17-06: Married

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08-14-06: Mailed I-485 to Chicago

08-24-06: NOA for I-485

09-08-06: Biometrics Appointment

09-25-06: I-485 transferred to CSC

09-28-06: I-485 received at CSC

10-18-06: AOS Approved

10-21-06: Approval notice mailed

10-23-06: Received "Welcome Letter"

10-27-06: Received 2 yr Green Card

I-751 Timeline

07-21-08: Mailed I-751 to VSC

07-25-08: NOA for I-751

08-27-08: Biometrics Appointment

02-25-09: I-751 transferred to CSC

04-17-09: I-751 Approved

06-22-09: Received 10 yr Green Card

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07-20-09: Mailed N-400 to Lewisville, TX

07-23-09: NOA for N-400

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09-08-09: Interview Date Oct 07

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11-20-09: Received Passport!!!

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nudge

nudge - nudged, or nudzhed or noodged nudg·ing, or nudzh·ing or noodg·ing nudg·es or nudzh·es or noodg·es

- v. tr.: To annoy persistently; pester.

- v. intr.: To complain or carp persistently.

- tr.v. nudged, nudg·ing, nudg·es: To push against gently, especially in order to gain attention or give a signal. To come close to; near: “The temperature was nudging 105 degrees in the shade” (Scouting).

-n.: A gentle push.

hehehe and i thought nudge was a msn buzz system :lol:



* K1 Timeline *
* 04/07/06: I-129F Sent to NSC
* 10/02/06: Interview date - APPROVED!
* 10/10/06: POE Houston
* 11/25/06: Wedding day!!!

* AOS/EAD/AP Timeline *
*01/05/07: AOS/EAD/AP sent
*02/19/08: AOS approved
*02/27/08: Permanent Resident Card received

* LOC Timeline *
*12/31/09: Applied Lifting of Condition
*01/04/10: NOA
*02/12/10: Biometrics
*03/03/10: LOC approved
*03/11/10: 10 years green card received

* Naturalization Timeline *
*12/17/10: package sent
*12/29/10: NOA date
*01/19/11: biometrics
*04/12/11: interview
*04/15/11: approval letter
*05/13/11: Oath Ceremony - Officially done with Immigration.

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:lol::lol: ..looks slow and painful

Frances has good smileys

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02 Apr 2007 Filed I751; 22 May 2008 Received 10-yr green card
14 Jul 2012 Citizenship Oath Ceremony

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about every 4 or 5 months... sometimes not that often... but they last for a good week...

I have the same issue with pooping.

OUCHIES!!! merc... ever seen the commercials for metamucil? lol

thank goodness... no problems there...

i wonder where frances, lorell and welshie get their smilies from... hehe...

Tho' lovers be lost, love shall not... and death shall have NO dominion!

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Hi everyone! *waves* How's it going today??? beautiful day here..not hot, not cold...breezy..window open...FINALLY! :) My son's last day of school so on a field trip to bowling and then the lake to cook out/swim all day...lucky kid! And a week today, my honey will already be home..yay! :)

Hope you're all havinga good one! :) M.

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Hi everyone! *waves* How's it going today??? beautiful day here..not hot, not cold...breezy..window open...FINALLY! :) My son's last day of school so on a field trip to bowling and then the lake to cook out/swim all day...lucky kid! And a week today, my honey will already be home..yay! :)

Hope you're all havinga good one! :) M.

awwwwwwwwww... Mich... i am so glad that craig will be home soon! that is great news! and i am so jealous of corey!!! i wanna go to the lake swimming! :crying::crying:

heya welshiebaby! i see ya down there! :goofy:

Tho' lovers be lost, love shall not... and death shall have NO dominion!

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