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I really don´t think looking at pics and masturbating to them is cheating. Cheating for me begins if he´s having second intentions conversations with a woman, even if online (hey, we met online, so if he´s chitty chatty romantic like and thinking of another woman on a chat, he´s cheating) appart from the actual cheating.

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There are two betrayals here: using other women for sexual stimuli, and then continuing to do it after you've told him how you feel. This is not simply a harmless guy thing, in my opinion, but a sexua

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Hey Everyone, wow, I never thought that this thread would get this much of a response. It's kind of crazy. I just want to clear some things up that I think people kind of started going along with that

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"Don't go looking for stuff, because you will always find something"

An old German wisdom supports that point of view. It goes like this:

Eifersucht ist eine Leidenschaft, die mit Eifer sucht was Leiden schafft. ;)

You guys figure it out! :P

"Don't go looking for stuff, because you will always find something"

An old German wisdom supports that point of view. It goes like this:

Eifersucht ist eine Leidenschaft, die mit Eifer sucht was Leiden schafft. ;)

German is an interesting language at times. You guys figure it out! :P

jealousy is a passion, which looks for with eagerness which looking for creates suffering

how'd i do???? B)

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I think it's cheating...again based on past experience...

Checking out pictures of chicks in bikinis online is CHEATING? Funny.

Well every married man who reads this post and does not have images turned off... close your eyes NOW if you don't want to cheat on your wife.

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OMG I can't believe just fricking cheated on my wife!!!! ARGH!!!! :wacko:

Better contact the divorce lawyer now!!! :whistle:

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That was a problem (the biggest) Dave and I had when we moved in together. For some reason I had never thought about it before we started sharing the same computer and the same life. I don't know why but I couldn't accept the fact he liked to look at those kind of pictures while he could have me instead, anytime he wanted. I used to think "wait a minute..... I'm here sleeping and he's looking at pictures...... why won't he come here and be with me instead?" So I talked to him, he talked to me..... a lot of times.... we both tried to understand each other. Guys and girls are really different but we can all work together! They're visual and we're emotional.... so it's hard to understand each other's needs sometimes.

I finally understood that he didn't do that to hurt me, he didn't do that because he thought the other girls were better and he didnt do that because he was tired of me!

Of course that if you're not comfortable with it, the best you can do is talk to him and you'll both agree on something! I did that and it was the best thing I could've done.... talking to him at first allowed me to understand his side and it allowed him to understand mine.

Now he's free to look at pics and download videos if he wants, if I wake up and realize he's looking at them I look at them with him and we have fun together... he feels comfortable enough to tell me "I downloaded this great video today" and he knows I'm not gonna freak out. Getting him to trust me that way made me trust him more.... because I know that he won't hide anything from me simply because he doesn't have to.

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Looking at pics of other women is cheating? :lol: Wow thats a new one to me. What is the difference in seeing pics, in person, or mentally. You can't control a person's thoughts.

I don't see it as cheating in any way shape or form. Window shopping is ok :yes: Making a purchase is not :no:

Michelle - agreed, sharing my point of view, that was not directed at ya :thumbs:

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Looking at pics of other women is cheating? :lol: Wow thats a new one to me. What is the difference in seeing pics, in person, or mentally. You can't control a person's thoughts.

I don't see it as cheating in any way shape or form. Window shopping is ok :yes: Making a purchase is not :no:

Or like the saying goes... "Doesn't matter where you get your appetite, just as long as you eat at home!"

My god, if looking at other women was cheating, whether in real, in pics, on the computer... then you better gouge out my eyeballs!!!

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I really don´t think looking at pics and masturbating to them is cheating. Cheating for me begins if he´s having second intentions conversations with a woman, even if online (hey, we met online, so if he´s chitty chatty romantic like and thinking of another woman on a chat, he´s cheating) appart from the actual cheating.

:thumbs::thumbs:

Except that I think that cheating is anything you do and hide and feel the need to lie about to your SO.

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Latest steps:

10/26/2006- Consulate receives case (seriously, one month to receive the case?? BS!), and packet 3 that I sent even before they had received the case.

01/02/2007- Interview!!!!!!!!!!!!! Got a 221(g)

01/23/2007- Second Interview. VISA granted!!!

01/29/2007- VISA arrived.... no envelope though. I'm gonna contact them and see what happened this time!

01/31/2007- I'll have to send them one last financial support evidence.

02/01/2007- Evidence sent

02/02/2007- Evidence received by Consulate

02/06/2007- Consulate sends envelope!

02/07/2007- Envelope received!!!

02/10/2007- Flew to the USA!!!!!!

04/17/2007- Wedding day!!!

--- Wish us luck!!! ---

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*Robert*   2

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Has anybody seen my copy of "Behind the Green Door"?

LMAO... It's right behind your copy of "Debbie Does Dallas"!!!

Beca is sooooooo right about men being visual creatures. I'm jealous that women can masterbate at the drop of a hat without anything but their own mental images. I need to see something! It's all about stimulation, and what kind and how much.

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09-08-06: Biometrics Appointment

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men mainly use porn to masturbate to because it feels great and there are no performance issues. the women are always hot & ready on the internet. there is no criticism, 'not now honey, his authority is unchallenged ... even though it's only an illusion.

it becomes more serious when porn becomes his reality. it is an addiction because it becomes 'mood-altering' ... then you want more because of the relief you just got from it.

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Eifersucht ist eine Leidenschaft, die mit Eifer sucht was Leiden schafft. ;)

jealousy is a passion, which looks for with eagerness which looking for creates suffering

how'd i do???? B)

Babelfish...

Very close, though.

Jealousy is an obsession which makes one eagerly search for that which will cause suffering.

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Has anybody seen my copy of "Behind the Green Door"?

lose it again, becca?? maybe wes lent it to coyote man!!! :P

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~Winston Churchill~

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Eifersucht ist eine Leidenschaft, die mit Eifer sucht was Leiden schafft. ;)

jealousy is a passion, which looks for with eagerness which looking for creates suffering

how'd i do???? B)

Babelfish...

Very close, though.

Jealousy is an obsession which makes one eagerly search for that which will cause suffering.

heehee .... i have a FireFox add-on that translates for me! :thumbs:

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Faith: not wanting to know what is true.~Nietzsche~

“The truth is incontrovertible, malice may attack it, ignorance may deride it, but in the end; there it is.”

~Winston Churchill~

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