Am I Overreacting??

[Jaylen Brit 0]

wow I didnt see her mention she didnt want him jacking off! Who got that? I cant see her saying dont jack off..

Not something Id say for sure - the pics part - maybe ... the jacking off part no - lmao - no way Id 'ask' anyone not to do that - thats not the same thing at all.

Edit due to bad spacing changing sentence to mean something else!

Edited April 19, 2006 by Jaylen Brit

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

anytime ANY man sees a cutie he IMMEDIATELY thinks what her breasts look like, what it would be like to sleep with her, what color panties is she wearing, does she swallow .... and these thoughts happen within mere seconds of each other and then they are out of his head until the next woman prances along!! am i wrong guys??

Yeah. Sometimes I'm just too tired to think about all that. Really.

there is a difference in seeing brad pitts butt appear in a movie and searching for brad pitts butt creating a slide show and masterbating to it.

Yes i am reading all your input and advice. I've said many times i appreciate it all. *Smiles*

Maybe you should give him some pre-approved material to jack off to.

I do think he should stop since it bothers you so much. But I'm afraid he may not until he really wants to. Will power and self control have to be there.

A lot of people are addicted to online porn. He might be too. The solution isn't to threaten him, maybe counselling?

[gimygirl 0]

anytime ANY man sees a cutie he IMMEDIATELY thinks what her breasts look like, what it would be like to sleep with her, what color panties is she wearing, does she swallow .... and these thoughts happen within mere seconds of each other and then they are out of his head until the next woman prances along!! am i wrong guys??

Yeah. Sometimes I'm just too tired to think about all that. Really.

funny ....... i don't believe you!!!

*runs & hides behind becca*

[*Robert* 2]

sweetie .... do you know how many guys do that on a daily basis?!?!?!

anytime ANY man sees a cutie he IMMEDIATELY thinks what her breasts look like, what it would be like to sleep with her, what color panties is she wearing, does she swallow .... and these thoughts happen within mere seconds of each other and then they are out of his head until the next woman prances along!! am i wrong guys??

i know that you weren't talking about masturbation ... but i'm sure you know he's not reading the newspaper or clipping his nails while the porn slideshow is going on ...

i think you need to work through some of your own issues before you try to tackle this one as a couple. there are ways to reduce your insecurity and to make you feel better about yourself.

Oh my...that was graphic

Actually, I hope that she doesn't have panties so I don't have to worry about what color they are! Thinking about sex is a 24/7 job for men. The day I stop looking, is the day I die! Guess you have to choose where the line is drawn. No looking and no touching. Or just no touching. I'd be happy with the no touching.

When I was in the Navy there were 2 types of men...

1. ones that masterbated

2. liers

LMAO

Double that!!! LMAO!!!

[Fuzzness 2]

A lot of people are addicted to online porn. He might be too. The solution isn't to threaten him, maybe counselling?

It's a mental addiction. if he is indeed addicted to porn, he can beat it. he just has to want to. of course threatening him wont help, it will just enable him even more.

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

A lot of people are addicted to online porn. He might be too. The solution isn't to threaten him, maybe counselling?

It's a mental addiction. if he is indeed addicted to porn, he can beat it. he just has to want to. of course threatening him wont help, it will just enable him even more.

Yeah any addiction can be beat. I've had my share of behaviors that I knew I should stop but couldn't in the past and I got past all of them. Needless to say, I don't plan to share details.

Edit: I just realized I still have one... VJ!

Edited April 19, 2006 by Agent Smith

[Fuzzness 2]

A lot of people are addicted to online porn. He might be too. The solution isn't to threaten him, maybe counselling?

It's a mental addiction. if he is indeed addicted to porn, he can beat it. he just has to want to. of course threatening him wont help, it will just enable him even more.

Yeah any addiction can be beat. I've had my share of behaviors that I knew I should stop but couldn't in the past and I got past all of them. Needless to say, I don't plan to share details.

don't need to. you got past them and thats what matters

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

This thread reminds me of a movie I saw on my onDemand menu - I am a Sex Addict. Has anyone seen it? I'm wondering if it's worth the $4.95 or not.

[gimygirl 0]

This thread reminds me of a movie I saw on my onDemand menu - I am a Sex Addict. Has anyone seen it? I'm wondering if it's worth the $4.95 or not.

want me to rent it and then give you the low down??? *wink*

[*Robert* 2]

want me to rent it and then give you the low down??? *wink*

Your review would probably be better than watching it!!!

[MichelleandCraig 1]

That said, just for the sake of conversation:

What if she HAD been snooping?? What does that actually have to do with it?

This is wrong on soooooooooo many angles. If you actually get to a point in your relationship and you have to snoop there is something seriously wrong. A friend of mine gave me some really good advice one time.

"Don't go looking for stuff, because you will always find something"

Its true. You can argue the point of "why should there be anyting to find?" But you can turn nothing into something if you want.

Trust...trust...trust, everyone is entitled to some privacy. What if he saw the pics and didn't save them? Would that make it better? What if looked at pics and found a way to leave no trace on the pc. Is that better?

I'm not disagreeing with anything you have said...at all. That wasn't even the point. I was just trying to play Devil's Advocate. I don't agree with snooping on any level either(if she was..I'm not convinced that was the case...if she was, then she was..only she knows) Craig has his own email, I have the password to it if I want to go in there but I never ever do..what he gets is his business. So...not saying that's ok. All I was getting at is that if it REALLY bothers her THAT much(and obviously it does) and he DID agree to stop(which he did) there shouldn't have been anything to find. He's not being honest either. If he couldn't stop the least he should have done was admit to that so they can both try to talk things out,and he should acknowledge her feelings about it. Your last sentence above is exactly what I was getting at....if he's still doing it, it doesn't matter if she finds it or not...she'll know he is and it will bother her. Not really agreeing with anyone, just sharing a viewpoint with you. M.

[CarolineM 0]

Jackie....for one of the first times on this forum - I agree with you!

I think it's cheating...again based on past experience...

[Mr. Big Dog 10,747]

"Don't go looking for stuff, because you will always find something"

An old German wisdom supports that point of view. It goes like this:

Eifersucht ist eine Leidenschaft, die mit Eifer sucht was Leiden schafft.

You guys figure it out!

"Don't go looking for stuff, because you will always find something"

An old German wisdom supports that point of view. It goes like this:

Eifersucht ist eine Leidenschaft, die mit Eifer sucht was Leiden schafft.

German is an interesting language at times. You guys figure it out!

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

I think it's cheating...again based on past experience...

Checking out pictures of chicks in bikinis online is CHEATING? Funny.

Well every married man who reads this post and does not have images turned off... close your eyes NOW if you don't want to cheat on your wife.

[almaty 19]

arijit, you bast##d,,i been married less than 6 mionths and already cheated...