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Oh no! be calm icey!

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11-15-2005: Sent in I-129F to VSC

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1-11-2006: Sent packet 3 forms, etc. to Dublin

2-03-2006: Interview Date :)APPROVED!!!

2-05-2006: Flying to Logan Airport

2-11-2006: Wedding Date

3-14-2006: Filed AOS and EAD

3-22-2006: NOA1 (AOS and EAD)

4-07-2006: Biometrics

6-07-2006: EAD approved!!

7-24-2006: AOS Interview APPROVED!!!

7-27-2006: Received Welcome to America letter

8-03-2006: Green Card Received :)

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There are two betrayals here: using other women for sexual stimuli, and then continuing to do it after you've told him how you feel. This is not simply a harmless guy thing, in my opinion, but a sexua

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Hey Everyone, wow, I never thought that this thread would get this much of a response. It's kind of crazy. I just want to clear some things up that I think people kind of started going along with that

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Things a computer programmer says during sex

Oh baby....that's it....yeah.....scroll down

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almaty Grand Master

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Things a computer programmer says during sex

Oh baby....that's it....yeah.....scroll down

or if a female to an IT geek..damn, that is a small hard drive you got..

Peace to All creatures great and small............................................

But when we turn to the Hebrew literature, we do not find such jokes about the donkey. Rather the animal is known for its strength and its loyalty to its master (Genesis 49:14; Numbers 22:30).

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Things a computer programmer says during sex

Oh baby....that's it....yeah.....scroll down

or if a female to an IT geek..damn, that is a small hard drive you got..

*Marge wasn't a computer whiz, but she knew a 3.5 inch floppy when she saw it.....*

Lady, people aren't chocolates. Do you know what they are mostly? Bastards. ####### coated bastards with ####### filling. But I don't find them half as annoying as I find naive bobble-headed optimists who walk around vomiting sunshine.
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Things a computer programmer says during sex

Oh baby....that's it....yeah.....scroll down

or if a female to an IT geek..damn, that is a small hard drive you got..

*Marge wasn't a computer whiz, but she knew a 3.5 inch floppy when she saw it.....*

:lol::lol::lol: good one

Peace to All creatures great and small............................................

But when we turn to the Hebrew literature, we do not find such jokes about the donkey. Rather the animal is known for its strength and its loyalty to its master (Genesis 49:14; Numbers 22:30).

Peppi_drinking_beer.jpg

my burro, bosco ..enjoying a beer in almaty

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Things a computer programmer says during sex

Oh baby....that's it....yeah.....scroll down

or if a female to an IT geek..damn, that is a small hard drive you got..

*Marge wasn't a computer whiz, but she knew a 3.5 inch floppy when she saw it.....*

where's your hand now..he answers it's around my mouse

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Things a computer programmer says during sex

Oh baby....that's it....yeah.....scroll down

or if a female to an IT geek..damn, that is a small hard drive you got..

*Marge wasn't a computer whiz, but she knew a 3.5 inch floppy when she saw it.....*

where's your hand now..he answers it's around my mouse

lol

If R Kelly was a computer programmer.....the song might have gone like:

We'll keep on the down-load......nobody has to know

12/5/05 Sent I129F Petition to Nebraska via Express Mail

12/6/05 Packaged received at 10:38 am in Nebraska

12/9/05 Check cashed (Never been so happy to have money leave my account)

12/12/05 Receive NOA1 snail mail - 30-60 day processing estimate

01/04/06 Receive NOA2 via e-mail

1/20/06 NVC letter in mail...will ship within a week.

2/1/06 Packet 3 and 4 in the mail

3/15/06 Interview - neither approved nor declined need to send in Migratory Movement Certificate AP

3/20/06 Migratory Movement Certificate for myself and fiancee sent to US Embassy in Lima

3/23/06 Visa Approved

5/19/06 I leave for Peru to pick up mi amor

5/25/06 Lucia and I arrive in Chicago

7/01/06 Legal Marriage

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Things a computer programmer says during sex

Oh baby....that's it....yeah.....scroll down

or if a female to an IT geek..damn, that is a small hard drive you got..

*Marge wasn't a computer whiz, but she knew a 3.5 inch floppy when she saw it.....*

where's your hand now..he answers it's around my mouse

lol

If R Kelly was a computer programmer.....the song might have gone like:

We'll keep on the down-load......nobody has to know

that includes her I take it :ppppp

James & Sara - Aug 12, 05

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It is a make or break for me. I jsut hate those kind of conversations. And its not even really the bikini, least they were clothed right, its that fact that he hides it from me when he knows it bothers me and then when I confront him about it he avoids talking about it and makes me scrounge out some kind of apology from him. I know he's probably just sorry he got caught, I don't know. And yes it is male instinct and if they see a good looking women they have to look, k they don't "HAVE" too but fine if your walking and see a good lookin gal fine, but when you are purposely at home and your "LOOKING" to "Look" then I haven an issue.

The fact that you are making a big deal about him looking at bikini pictures is completely ridiculous. He will eventually come to resent your controlling attitude.. and it will permanently harm your relationship. The sooner you get over your insecurity, and realize that every straight man looks at sexy women (clothed or not) the better.

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I read what you write :) I just get caught up in what I want to say and end up being redundant :(

Scrapbooking is relaxing...fair enough.

I'm sure drug addicts find using Cocaine relaxing too - doesn't mean I'd let my husband do it every day as his little "Relaxation" technique.

You've obviously never tried cocaine if you think it somehow promotes relaxation. Wrong drug analogy. :wacko:

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the issue is that he did tell me he would stop and is doing it behind my back

would you concede a single day for him to look at them? or is this a 100% done deal on your end?

Lemme ask you this....your wife spends money out of control and you ask her to give it a rest, she agrees and you find out she's hitting the mall on a daily basis and stashing the Gucci shoes and Fendi purses under the bed....you are

  • annoyed that she broke a promise
  • don't care because all women are just hard-wired to shop anyway
  • ignore the incident and let it fester, knowing she's spending more and more money

Wow... I've been reading this thread, and have realized how lucky I am to be with my wife.

Women are not hard-wired to shop.... most men ARE hardwired to be attracted to the opposite sex.

the issue is he's sneaking behind my back. the issue is he obviously doesn't respect my feelings. the issue is that i can't trust him. the issue is that we've had coversations before and it seems he just tells me what i may want to hear or what he thinks i want to hear. the issue is that it was sort of bad before we got married but i didn't find out till just before so i was kind of caught off guard not thinking anything of it. not bad enough anyways to think anything of it. maybe i should have been more forward about it, i never required much out of him when we talked about it because i guess i didn't talk with much authority or whatever. maybe he truly doesn't know its a REALLY big deal to me.

Wow.. you are seriously treating him like a child. Is this your first serious relationship?

i give up on the snooping thing, i don't snoop. sometimes you happen to fall upon stuff that you weren't meant to fall upon. it happens.

What are you doing on his computer if you're not snooping??

i am just more nervous over the conversation, everyone i'm not upset upset, i'm just trying to talk through all this , with all of you of course. i don't want it to turn out bad . he's a great guy, he just hides stuff ffrom me. he did it before and now he's doing it again. why need to hide

Then tell him "no need to hide!"... let him look at whatever he wants with no shame. He's an adult... right?

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To thread: sit DOWN. Where do you think YOU'RE going ????*yawn* Yeah, I know. I'm not really awake yet. In fact, think I'm goin back to sleep...why not?? :lol:

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