All Americans marrying Arabs from Morrocco, Tunisia, Egypt, etc...

[~Jackie~ 30]

(Lexapro) :energetic: (sorry, when I see that 'D' word, I get a little goofy, forgive me ya'll)

Jackie

[sarah and hicham 3]

Know what another great test is? Tell him you want to live in his country not in the US. That one's a doozy!

Duuuuuh, if you tell him you want to live in his country and he accepts, then it's true love! Especially when after he says yes, you say "that's good to know, now let's get crackin' on your immigration papers".

[~Jackie~ 30]

Yea, like that.

J

[brnidokiegurl 0]

darn guess i might as well file the divorce now and go back to all the lovely true faithful american men that never lie or cheat on their wife

[~PalmTreeGurl~ 154]

bwahaha well since its the 85% fraud as she seems to think... then i will think of my sister and gfs who are married to Foreign guys and say 8 out of 10 of them have fraudulent suave husbands ... bwahahahah oh oh oh they going to be sooo mad to hear that their husbands are going to divorce them, run away with their kids and remarry SOON!

Just kidding gals ! maybe her intentions were good but they were WAYYY wrong and inaccurate... and YES, there is Fraud regardless of what country people come from. Maybe its a bit higher than other countries, then again maybe not. It happens bcz people will be people and only do whats in their heart and intentions to do. Doesnt mean most of our husbands are going to leave us... Take chances with love in life and be wise. Im not going to cry and think my husbands going to leave me bcz he's Egyptian... I have been treated terrible by American men but that doesnt mean that 85 % of them are evil !

[sarahaziz 0]

This is the problem with women. When a woman trys to help another woman for now or future problems or cautions they dont take heed until a sign pops up then they'll run back to this post. Im studying law in immigration and part of what im studying we look at reality statistics. In our essays and assignments we actually have to GO and take note of whats going on. We've gone on yahoo, hotmail live messanger, hi5, etc.. and we've found that 85% of men who were married to american citizens or british women they didnt indicate they were married they still left the discussion of marriage open between them and our "bate-girl" on the webcam. Usually these men came from Egypt and Jordan and they were the men who spoke a bit of correct english. I am so interested into studying this because women deserve great lives but when they dont follow signs its really frustrating bec you start to feel the pain of that woman whos going thru being USED by a man who married her to only help his family with money. Im not saying every woman here her husband or bf or fiance is going to use her. Im talking to the women who are scared and they are unsure about their husbands or fiances because of certain gut feelings. Follow your gut feelings ladies God gave them for a REASON. Im just saying remember what respect you have as a woman. If you enjoy christianity religion you stick with it dont change it for your husband. Don't grasp his culture 100% and forget about your own culture. You are your own person. Another thing I wanted to add. In our polls the Arab/ Muslim men they were more likely to respect the women with a clear sexual history meaning women who were virgins before marriage, didnt have boyfriends, etc.. Some of the things we talked with Arab men online were scary about how they would "marry a nice old lady" to use her for a green card status or "its ok if the girl is young she can marry again" its not RIGHT to take a young american girls virginity and visa! and then throw her out there for another man to take her. To the ladies who agree with me Im glad you saw my intentions through my posts, and to the ignorant ones God be with you. Only time will tell and I pray everyone here has a great husband or fiance he wont abuse you for his family or neglect you and married you for the RIGHT reasons. I have come to know an american woman very beautiful but she was used by a Morroccan man. He would speak arabic with his family and leave her out of all conversations he didnt make her a part of what they were discussing. His sisters would complain about her and she didnt even know it His family was great to her but she stayed in one room all day sometimes with his sisters while her husband was with friends he said he was going to do papers for immigration but he was in the cafe or net cafe talking to other women. By Gods grace she found a picture of another girl in his email account she was a French Morroccan woman who he was explaining personal details about his visa and found out this woman was his 1st wife and the american was his 2nd wife. Its not to scare you but its for you to use caution until you have a gut feeling he is truthful with you. Goodluck ladies Sarah_aziz5535@yahoo.com is my email if you need any further help

[sarahaziz 0]

Ladies DO be careful Arab men are usually very slick and they know what buttons to push and what not to push. Telling him you want to stay in his country he probably will know you want to stay in USA and are testing him. Don't follow by words only ACTIONS speak very loud and they will prove what a great husband you have. Goodluck!

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

Its easy to be blind in love and not believing into what bad things you have gut feelings about.

I can honestly say 85% of american women who are married with arabs or muslim men they are getting used and within 2 years they will be divorced becausee thats how long it takes for their husbands to obtain citzenship. Some men have gfs or wives before they meet these women and use them only because they are in poor situations or otherwise discovered. Alot of women get defensive when this kind of topic are brought up and those are the ones who usually are getting cheated on. Some ways to tell if your guy is true is if he is making input in calling you. My friend is married with an arab and he called her before he came to usa she didnt call him and he has 6 sisters to take care of. USA money is more than arab money units. He prooved alot to his wife and he was a poor man. ladies you should check your man. And another test you should proove is create a new id if you met him online because this is obviously how arabs are meeting other country women. Talk to him by another id as a different women from a different country. Ask him for his password to all his ids make him swear to his father or mothers life. I think all women in america and british countries they are searching for love but in wrong places. Be smart in your decisions ladies. if anybody needs help they can contact me because i have alot of knowledge about this type of experiences.

wash biki girlfriend..

first let me clue you into something...Not all Algerians are arabs to begin with. Second , I know plenty of Algerians in happy long term relationships with westerners. Third, why would you come on the boards and insult Americans or westerners married to Algerians when it is very known that Algerian women themselves in France get used for papers? Who is to say that you ouechti are not going to be used for papers? You are not living in the bled and if your ideas are as back ### as I think they are.,,, You are actually in the kahba territory because you are living over here. Many hooker and dirty Algerian girls go abroad and try to wipe away their past so do not think so quickly about bashing western women. There was a radio transmission tonight on Algerian National Radio with Algerian men married to reverts and how happy they are and in fact there are many very happy American women with children living in Algeria, runnning different organizations, teaching school as well as Algerians living here and in Europe who have built families with western women..... You have no right to come on here and purport to speak for Algerian men whatsoever because frankly Algerian women living abroad have a terrible reputation back home. They are called Smagria and known for sleeping around..... yes there are women that get used for papers.... but there are people who have found the love of their life with MENA men... For you to come on these boards,,,, especially as an Algerian and bash your own people ( actually did you mention Algerian men?) oh you said arab is just pathetic...

I know what I said about dirty algerian women living abroad will ring a bell.... Many will take a much tougher look at An algerian who has left her family and isnt supervised than a western woman who has had to live that way all her life.

MARRIAGE BLANCHE can happen to Algerian, Moroccan or ARABIC women and it does... Discouraging women from being with who they love doesn't help... Each person is an individual...

[sereia 0]

*yawn* again. someone comes along every few weeks to say this same tired story. don't you think everyone here has thought about all that already? everyone here is an adult and is fully capable (i hope) of making their own decisions. if they have huge red flags warning them against there husband, and they choose to ignore it...so be it. we'll all find out in two years from when they get their permanent green card, right?

[JODO 2]

This is the problem with women. When a woman trys to help another woman for now or future problems or cautions they dont take heed until a sign pops up then they'll run back to this post. Im studying law in immigration and part of what im studying we look at reality statistics. In our essays and assignments we actually have to GO and take note of whats going on. We've gone on yahoo, hotmail live messanger, hi5, etc.. and we've found that 85% of men who were married to american citizens or british women they didnt indicate they were married they still left the discussion of marriage open between them and our "bate-girl" on the webcam. Usually these men came from Egypt and Jordan and they were the men who spoke a bit of correct english. I am so interested into studying this because women deserve great lives but when they dont follow signs its really frustrating bec you start to feel the pain of that woman whos going thru being USED by a man who married her to only help his family with money. Im not saying every woman here her husband or bf or fiance is going to use her. Im talking to the women who are scared and they are unsure about their husbands or fiances because of certain gut feelings. Follow your gut feelings ladies God gave them for a REASON. Im just saying remember what respect you have as a woman. If you enjoy christianity religion you stick with it dont change it for your husband. Don't grasp his culture 100% and forget about your own culture. You are your own person. Another thing I wanted to add. In our polls the Arab/ Muslim men they were more likely to respect the women with a clear sexual history meaning women who were virgins before marriage, didnt have boyfriends, etc.. Some of the things we talked with Arab men online were scary about how they would "marry a nice old lady" to use her for a green card status or "its ok if the girl is young she can marry again" its not RIGHT to take a young american girls virginity and visa! and then throw her out there for another man to take her. To the ladies who agree with me Im glad you saw my intentions through my posts, and to the ignorant ones God be with you. Only time will tell and I pray everyone here has a great husband or fiance he wont abuse you for his family or neglect you and married you for the RIGHT reasons. I have come to know an american woman very beautiful but she was used by a Morroccan man. He would speak arabic with his family and leave her out of all conversations he didnt make her a part of what they were discussing. His sisters would complain about her and she didnt even know it His family was great to her but she stayed in one room all day sometimes with his sisters while her husband was with friends he said he was going to do papers for immigration but he was in the cafe or net cafe talking to other women. By Gods grace she found a picture of another girl in his email account she was a French Morroccan woman who he was explaining personal details about his visa and found out this woman was his 1st wife and the american was his 2nd wife. Its not to scare you but its for you to use caution until you have a gut feeling he is truthful with you. Goodluck ladies Sarah_aziz5535@yahoo.com is my email if you need any further help

Hmmm... Now where have I seen this writing style ( I use it loosely)before?

[PalestineMyHeart 1,897]

[Ban Hammer 13,538]

hokay! who wants popcorn?

[yassmine2878 1]

I have been treated terrible by American men but that doesnt mean that 85 % of them are evil !

I beg to differ. 100% of the American men I have dated are evil. That's why I didnt pick one of them. Im quite happy with my Arab, 'slick' though he may be.

*yawn* again. someone comes along every few weeks to say this same tired story. don't you think everyone here has thought about all that already? everyone here is an adult and is fully capable (i hope) of making their own decisions. if they have huge red flags warning them against there husband, and they choose to ignore it...so be it. we'll all find out in two years from when they get their permanent green card, right?

Thank you!

[Ban Hammer 13,538]

I beg to differ. 100% of the American men I have dated are evil. That's why I didnt pick one of them.

and i think i dated their sisters, the apple didn't fall far from the tree in that family

[sereia 0]

life isn't black and white. its a million shades of grey.