Affidavit of Support

[David&Erin_Owens 0]

I am torn as to whether to delay the K-3 interview or tell them i wish to proceed with I-130 which was approved in march. Last week, my wife said she had received info, but i dont know what and that she was going to collect the information but still wasnt sure she wanted to be with me.

I'm so sorry you are going through this. Are you absolutely sure you won't work things out? I remember how stressful things were with David for a long time because of USCIS and the fact he wasn't allowed to go home to visit and it put SO much strain on our marriage, and as much as we love each other, we almost called it quits more than once. It's a very difficult situation to be in, and just like marriage, divorce is nothing to be rushed into. I hope everything works out ok for you.

[meauxna 15]

I am torn as to whether to delay the K-3 interview or tell them i wish to proceed with I-130 which was approved in march. Last week, my wife said she had received info, but i dont know what and that she was going to collect the information but still wasnt sure she wanted to be with me.

Oh for gods' sake, dave--how immature of her. I'm sorry you're facing this.

I like the idea of postponing your K-3 interview. It sounds like anything could change at any time and this will leave you with the most options. Simple postponement, can be done by email. Do not "overshare"; London does not need all the details at this moment. This is not uncommon, btw.

2nd. The IV interview might never happen (CR-1). If she is not sending an I-864 in to the NVC, London will never get your file for that visa.

I won't throw in any marital advice; I'm sure you'll get plenty here. But, I feel badly at how it played out for you, and really empathize that you've been living a half life on borrowed time while waiting for her.

If you have other trouble with the Consulate, post back.

Hang in there pal, and don't make any sudden moves.

best wishes,

mo

[meddykomp 0]

Sorry you are going through this. What state does your wife live in? That affects the way divorce is handled. Hopefully you do not really need to know about divorce and the 2 of you can work it out. Either way you are smart to be looking for information instead of getting completely blind sided by it all. I wish you luck in this.

Angel

[sassasdave 0]

Thanks everyone for your kind words and thoughts. Our State is Ohio, Im in a rush so Ill write more later.