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Perhaps you might put 2 + 2 together and realise that being rude, condescending and abrasive to people (which you did off that bat actually) doesn't exactly inspire people to be accommodating to you in return. But then again - you've said in previous threads that you don't care what anyone says on these forums, or indeed how your attitude is perceived by others, so why start now?

Maybe you will put 2+2 together and read the same into your own posts. It's there, but, see, like everyone else, you think of yourself as better than that. I do too.

Pay attention to content, 6. You are fixated on what you perceive to be the negative. Then, you spend so much time complaining about that and instructing people how to make YOU comfortable that you become boring and insignificant to the discussion. Start now. You can change.

So can you. If you don't see fit to adopt a civil mode of discourse, why should you expect me to do likewise?

I pointed out your rudeness in an off the cuff comment. That has translated into pages of back and forth with you about... well... nothing. Except of course who has the most biting wit (if we can even aspire to call it that). I have to wonder why it is you're so angry about that - seeing as you keep proving post after post that I was essentially correct in my assessment, at least from my POV. Suggesting that its ok to wind someone up because you disagree with them is petty - and IMO, as the other poster has said, makes you something of a bully.

Its all irrelevant at the end of the day - but I just wonder why a 54 year old woman can't display a level of interpersonal civility beyond that of a 6-year old. Moreover, it shouldn't be necessary to point this out - or that you don't serve whatever on-topic arguments you are making by insulting people. Which again - you did off the bat. All I've done is point that out.

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Like being so miltoast that you say nothing, and wasting time complaining about people not being nice to you. It doesn't make for pithy exchanges. Don't you notice that you get more mileage from complaining than you do from commenting? I do.

Nice dodge. But no cigar. I don't support illegal immigration. :no: Sorry to disappoint.

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Six, you shouldnt be preachin shite about civil discourse! you have been very uncivil to many.

Get off the hollier than tou #######.

"I swear by my life and my love of it that I will never live for the sake of another man, nor ask another man to live for mine."- Ayn Rand

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Green eyed girl you my as well give up! They are to invested in the koolaid.

Of course you know you gotten them when they reroute their comments! Like "if you werent so abbrasive" then things would be different. Its how they live. Shakey ground is their home. floppin around like a fish that just got caught.

Dodgy metaphors aside - I can honestly say I have never drunk Koolaid ;)

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Green eyed girl you my as well give up! They are to invested in the koolaid.

Of course you know you gotten them when they reroute their comments! Like "if you werent so abbrasive" then things would be different. Its how they live. Shakey ground is their home. floppin around like a fish that just got caught.

I totally understand your point and they do to.

Thank you, Carol. I know they understand my point. If they didn't, cutting me down would not be the new topic of discussion. Truth hurts.

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Perhaps you might put 2 + 2 together and realise that being rude, condescending and abrasive to people (which you did off that bat actually) doesn't exactly inspire people to be accommodating to you in return. But then again - you've said in previous threads that you don't care what anyone says on these forums, or indeed how your attitude is perceived by others, so why start now?

Maybe you will put 2+2 together and read the same into your own posts. It's there, but, see, like everyone else, you think of yourself as better than that. I do too.

Pay attention to content, 6. You are fixated on what you perceive to be the negative. Then, you spend so much time complaining about that and instructing people how to make YOU comfortable that you become boring and insignificant to the discussion. Start now. You can change.

So can you. If you don't see fit to adopt a civil mode of discourse, why should you expect me to do likewise?

I pointed out your rudeness in an off the cuff comment. That has translated into pages of back and forth with you about... well... nothing. Except of course who has the most biting wit (if we can even aspire to call it that). I have to wonder why it is you're so angry about that - seeing as you keep proving post after post that I was essentially correct in my assessment, at least from my POV. Suggesting that its ok to wind someone up because you disagree with them is petty - and IMO, as the other poster has said, makes you something of a bully.

Its all irrelevant at the end of the day - but I just wonder why a 54 year old woman can't display a level of interpersonal civility beyond that of a 6-year old. Moreover, it shouldn't be necessary to point this out - or that you don't serve whatever on-topic arguments you are making by insulting people. Which again - you did off the bat. All I've done is point that out.

If you are intent on proper civil discourse, try being a model of it and staying above the fray. As has been pointed out, you first post was a shot at me. Is that your idea of civil discourse?

The bottom line is, a thread that begins with a hit piece prompts negative commentary and sets a tone of embattled discourse. Reading over the first few contributions is enough to see that.

I wanna know why Steven asked me to point out the fluff, yet never commented on it....

Lisa, I got the same treatment; this has been par for the course with Steven during the entire debate.

Like being so miltoast that you say nothing, and wasting time complaining about people not being nice to you. It doesn't make for pithy exchanges. Don't you notice that you get more mileage from complaining than you do from commenting? I do.

Nice dodge. But no cigar. I don't support illegal immigration. :no: Sorry to disappoint.

Good, I expect to be able to discern that from you in the future without a problem.

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Green eyed girl you my as well give up! They are to invested in the koolaid.

Of course you know you gotten them when they reroute their comments! Like "if you werent so abbrasive" then things would be different. Its how they live. Shakey ground is their home. floppin around like a fish that just got caught.

I totally understand your point and they do to.

Thank you, Carol. I know they understand my point. If they didn't, cutting me down would not be the new topic of discussion. Truth hurts.

Thanks but its Marc :P Heres how they play. You make a comment, They make a verbal slight of hand comment to distract you and then bait you into engaging on a totally different subject all the while trying to make you look like a bad person, and them trying to look morally superior. Six your momma been givin you koolaid since birth.

"I swear by my life and my love of it that I will never live for the sake of another man, nor ask another man to live for mine."- Ayn Rand

“Your freedom to be you includes my freedom to be free from you.”

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Six, you shouldnt be preachin shite about civil discourse! you have been very uncivil to many.

Get off the hollier than tou #######.

I rarely initiate it. IMHO of course.

IMHO, you often do. The only person you can control is yourself. Because we have no other stimuli to evaluate, the tone fo the postings are exaggerated. I accept this and do not waste time postulating on the tone of others. That's way too subjective, and rarely acknowledged by the accused party.

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Thank you, Carol. I know they understand my point. If they didn't, cutting me down would not be the new topic of discussion. Truth hurts.

And you fundamentally refuse to understand ours. No-one likes being the subject of gross generalisations that don't represent the reality of their opinions. You seem to think about these topics, as Al Pacino does of acting - that "winning" is dependent on how loud you can shout.

Oddly enough - what's I find a little strange (and perhaps you can help me with this) is that I stated quite clearly what I thought about the article in the OP post. In that we seem to agree, unless I am much mistaken. Your beef is with that I haven't addressed your subsequent posts. Well the reason for that is really quite simple. I'm merely interested in the OP article, not the tangential side-issues.

To be honest I'm sick of these illegal immigration threads - hence I posted in specific regard to the original article.

In fact unless I'm much mistaken you've said much the same in the past - that you're only interested in dicussing specific aspects of a single topic and not wanting to get drawn on others. You have done this. Am I not allowed the same latitude without it being 'suspicious'?

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Green eyed girl you my as well give up! They are to invested in the koolaid.

Of course you know you gotten them when they reroute their comments! Like "if you werent so abbrasive" then things would be different. Its how they live. Shakey ground is their home. floppin around like a fish that just got caught.

I totally understand your point and they do to.

Thank you, Carol. I know they understand my point. If they didn't, cutting me down would not be the new topic of discussion. Truth hurts.

Thanks but its Marc :P Heres how they play. You make a comment, They make a verbal slight of hand comment to distract you and then bait you into engaging on a totally different subject all the while trying to make you look like a bad person, and them trying to look morally superior. Six your momma been givin you koolaid since birth.

Thanks, Marc! I have pointed this out in earlier posts. It is a well-known tactic in board debate. The argument toward me fell apart pages ago, so the only thing left is to try to discredit me as a person. Saw that coming from miles away.

Glad to know others see it too.

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IMHO, you often do. The only person you can control is yourself. Because we have no other stimuli to evaluate, the tone fo the postings are exaggerated. I accept this and do not waste time postulating on the tone of others. That's way too subjective, and rarely acknowledged by the accused party.

Well without reiterating what I've already said - these posts are out there for everyone to read and form their own opinions. But lets not pretend that I'm the first to point it out.

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Thank you, Carol. I know they understand my point. If they didn't, cutting me down would not be the new topic of discussion. Truth hurts.

And you fundamentally refuse to understand ours. No-one likes being the subject of gross generalisations that don't represent the reality of their opinions. You seem to think about these topics, as Al Pacino does of acting - that "winning" is dependent on how loud you can shout.

Oddly enough - what's I find a little strange (and perhaps you can help me with this) is that I stated quite clearly what I thought about the article in the OP post. In that we seem to agree, unless I am much mistaken. Your beef is with that I haven't addressed your subsequent posts. Well the reason for that is really quite simple. I'm merely interested in the OP article, not the tangential side-issues.

To be honest I'm sick of these illegal immigration threads - hence I posted in specific regard to the original article.

In fact unless I'm much mistaken you've said much the same in the past - that you're only interested in dicussing specific aspects of a single topic and not wanting to get drawn on others. You have done this. Am I not allowed the same latitude without it being 'suspicious'?

Guess what? Gross generalizations about my position have been aimmed at me too, and they are used as red herrings to escape the obvious - that there are few who have really thought out their positions. If they were solid in their ability to discuss the topic without reserting to character assassination to halt the debate, they wouldn't fall back on that.

Notice that no one is discussing immigration anymore?

But, this has been said before and is ignored. There is a pattern there.

IMHO, you often do. The only person you can control is yourself. Because we have no other stimuli to evaluate, the tone fo the postings are exaggerated. I accept this and do not waste time postulating on the tone of others. That's way too subjective, and rarely acknowledged by the accused party.

Well without reiterating what I've already said - these posts are out there for everyone to read and form their own opinions. But lets not pretend that I'm the first to point it out.

Don't be so self-righteous, 6. The same goes for your posts, too.

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Thanks, Marc! I have pointed this out in earlier posts. It is a well-known tactic in board debate. The argument toward me fell apart pages ago, so the only thing left is to try to discredit me as a person. Saw that coming from miles away.

Glad to know others see it too.

Before you get too carried away about that, it rather helps to understand who it is who is actually agreeing with you, certainly before you accept their endorsement.

 
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