5 signs he may be a cheater

[JODO 2]

Cheating Sign #1: He Doesn't Pay His Bills On Time

Some research shows that unreliability and carelessness is part of a personality trait called "low consciousness," which is a marker for infidelity. Makes sense. A guy who's careless about his own responsibilities is going to be just as careless about his relationships.

Cheating Sign #2: He's A Do-Gooder

What? Your guy contributes to the local orchestra fund, the church, and the alumni association, plus he volunteers to build houses for the homeless. How could a guy like that give into the temptation of midnight motel rooms?

A study just published in the November issue of the Journal of Applied Psychology found that when there's a blurry line between right and wrong (as there often is with matters of infidelity), the people who become the worst cheaters are actually the ones who think of themselves as having the highest moral standards.

Why? The speculation is that these people can justify their wrongdoings with explanations that they weren't doing anything wrong at all. Simply put, not following the Monogamy Rules (a faithfully popular Men's Health story) makes it hard for the Do-Gooder to live in his skin.

Cheating Sign #3: He's Rolling In The Dough

A study in the Journal of Marital and Family Therapy found that those people who earned more money were more likely to cheat than those who earned less. It's not because they have more income to open new credit cards, carry more cash, or spend more coin on mistress gifts. Some researchers theorize that those with lower salaries - and thus those who are more dependent on others in a relationship - are less likely to risk ruining the relationship.

Cheating Sign #4: He's A Yeller

While yelling and anger may not seem to be all that connected to cheating, a recent Australian study found that unfaithful partners show many of the same personality characteristics as abusive ones. Those who are more likely to be abusive (verbally or physically) are simply more likely to be unfaithful. What's already bad has the potential of getting even worse.

Cheating Sign #5: He's A Mirror Hog

Some research has shown that the single biggest trait of cheaters is-surprise, surprise-narcissism. These self-loving folks are so wrapped up in their own self-importance that they don't even consider the effect that cheating has on the other person. So what if I stray and have the occasional one-nightstand? I deserve to be happy. Have you seen these guns, baby!

http://health.yahoo.com/experts/menlovesex...-of-infidelity/

[no name 1]

What a lovely post for a site based on marriage!

[almaty 19]

# 6...when he takes off his boxers..they are starched

[LuzyC 0]

Nope! I didn't see those signs at all to my hubby.. :luv:

# 6...when he takes off his boxers..they are starched

:lol:

[JODO 2]

<br /># 6...when he takes off his boxers..they are starched<br />

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LOL

[JODO 2]

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<br /># 6...when he takes off his boxers..they are starched<br />

<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />LOL<br />

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Is anyone else's screen acting screwy? I do not have any icons or anything!!!

[Jasman0717 9]

Wow, I wonder if my ex-boss is a cheater

[*JG* 2]

Well, besides #5, Andre is pretty safe.

Note to self: tell all my friends to make sure to avoid rich church going men who simultaneously yell at bill collectors while they check out their reflection in the mirror!

[Sheriff Uling 3]

# 6...when he takes off his boxers..they are starched

You are so crazy...

[Welshcookie 17]

Well, besides #5, Andre is pretty safe.

Yep! That's all I have to worry about too... :lol:

[Chica Yeyé 41]

# 6...when he takes off his boxers..they are starched

Brother, you just won my weekly award to EEEEEWWWWWWW

[ya falaha! 0]

LOL! My husband doesn't have any of those. Bald men generally don't have to spend much time looking in the mirror.

[desert_fox 32]

Number 7..

When the laundry calls to tell you that they can't get the lipstick off his shorts.

[Bootylicious!! 2]

I know a guy that has every single one of those traits. I also know he cheats on his girlfriend. I was laughing my butt off after reading it when I realized they all fit him perfectly. Huh, maybe I should forward this on to his girlfriend.

[Alex+R 0]

Lawl, that just means that anyone could be a cheater...