JUNE FILERS STILL WAITING

[ric 0]

Hi Guys......I am laying in bed in the cardiac ward in the hospital......I am all implanted with the pacer and the cardioverter.....I talked with Oscar while I was in the recovery room.....I really love him.....He was crying on the phone...anyway I went to the stress lab and they wanted me to make my heart rate go up so they were goin to give me a med I said no I know how.....VSC....NO ...NOA2......it worked and so did the pacer....hahaha...a little humour in my pain.......thanks for all of your best wishes......I get to go home around 5 pm.....Now I am ready for my approval....PLEASE.....Love you guys Lora

Lora I hope you feel better soon! And get your approval!

[*julez* 124]

Hi Guys......I am laying in bed in the cardiac ward in the hospital......I am all implanted with the pacer and the cardioverter.....I talked with Oscar while I was in the recovery room.....I really love him.....He was crying on the phone...anyway I went to the stress lab and they wanted me to make my heart rate go up so they were goin to give me a med I said no I know how.....VSC....NO ...NOA2......it worked and so did the pacer....hahaha...a little humour in my pain.......thanks for all of your best wishes......I get to go home around 5 pm.....Now I am ready for my approval....PLEASE.....Love you guys Lora

Lora I hope you feel better soon! And get your approval!

I second that! And shouldn't you be resting???? You need to take care of yourself!

[OsLoraTamm 0]

Hi Guys......I am laying in bed in the cardiac ward in the hospital......I am all implanted with the pacer and the cardioverter.....I talked with Oscar while I was in the recovery room.....I really love him.....He was crying on the phone...anyway I went to the stress lab and they wanted me to make my heart rate go up so they were goin to give me a med I said no I know how.....VSC....NO ...NOA2......it worked and so did the pacer....hahaha...a little humour in my pain.......thanks for all of your best wishes......I get to go home around 5 pm.....Now I am ready for my approval....PLEASE.....Love you guys Lora

Lora I hope you feel better soon! And get your approval!

I second that! And shouldn't you be resting???? You need to take care of yourself!

Actually I love my Iphone.....and you can see why everyone here is mad at me........I am a little sore but good......It helps me pass the time....

[Steph1973 0]

Hi to all waiting june fillers .. i am to nervouse depresed frustrated sterees what eles you feel also .. after recived Rfe replay yestrday and chnage of status for very first time Current Status: Response to request for evidence received, and case processing has resumed. we got touch tday again .. what is going on could somebody tell me .. just hardly try not become mad

IF you are touched again, someone is updating your file or working on it since they recieved the RFE..hang in there..this is so hard for all us April, May, June filers. Im worried I will end up with RFE just so they can save their butts on the 6 month time limit. I to feel the stress and frustration, I fight the tears every time I see someone else from late July or August approved...Im happy for them...but at same time wanting my own noa2 as well...Feel free to stop here often, there is a small group just like you that are still waiting. God Bless.

I don't even have the energy today to deal with these emotions. I am just sitting at my desk crying. I am happy for everyone, but am doing the "why me" thing. I am just so upset. I feel so helpless. I feel like I will never get approved.

[Mel and Syl 0]

Oh Steph, dont give up the hope PLEASE!!!! We all gone get our approvals, i too know what you are going through. It is just human to get weak every now and then, OMG i have to cry with you

[*julez* 124]

Hi to all waiting june fillers .. i am to nervouse depresed frustrated sterees what eles you feel also .. after recived Rfe replay yestrday and chnage of status for very first time Current Status: Response to request for evidence received, and case processing has resumed. we got touch tday again .. what is going on could somebody tell me .. just hardly try not become mad

IF you are touched again, someone is updating your file or working on it since they recieved the RFE..hang in there..this is so hard for all us April, May, June filers. Im worried I will end up with RFE just so they can save their butts on the 6 month time limit. I to feel the stress and frustration, I fight the tears every time I see someone else from late July or August approved...Im happy for them...but at same time wanting my own noa2 as well...Feel free to stop here often, there is a small group just like you that are still waiting. God Bless.

I don't even have the energy today to deal with these emotions. I am just sitting at my desk crying. I am happy for everyone, but am doing the "why me" thing. I am just so upset. I feel so helpless. I feel like I will never get approved.

Steph I feel so terrible. I simply cannot understand why you and so many others are still waiting. I won't insult you by telling you to hang in there. I know this is killing you. I am praying for you and for all the others who have yet to be approved! Please let it happen soon. Big hugs for you.

[Steph1973 0]

Hi to all waiting june fillers .. i am to nervouse depresed frustrated sterees what eles you feel also .. after recived Rfe replay yestrday and chnage of status for very first time Current Status: Response to request for evidence received, and case processing has resumed. we got touch tday again .. what is going on could somebody tell me .. just hardly try not become mad

IF you are touched again, someone is updating your file or working on it since they recieved the RFE..hang in there..this is so hard for all us April, May, June filers. Im worried I will end up with RFE just so they can save their butts on the 6 month time limit. I to feel the stress and frustration, I fight the tears every time I see someone else from late July or August approved...Im happy for them...but at same time wanting my own noa2 as well...Feel free to stop here often, there is a small group just like you that are still waiting. God Bless.

I don't even have the energy today to deal with these emotions. I am just sitting at my desk crying. I am happy for everyone, but am doing the "why me" thing. I am just so upset. I feel so helpless. I feel like I will never get approved.

Steph I feel so terrible. I simply cannot understand why you and so many others are still waiting. I won't insult you by telling you to hang in there. I know this is killing you. I am praying for you and for all the others who have yet to be approved! Please let it happen soon. Big hugs for you.

Thank you both so much for your support. I know that everyone understands the feeling here and I am just so thankful that you all are here.

[OsLoraTamm 0]

Hi to all waiting june fillers .. i am to nervouse depresed frustrated sterees what eles you feel also .. after recived Rfe replay yestrday and chnage of status for very first time Current Status: Response to request for evidence received, and case processing has resumed. we got touch tday again .. what is going on could somebody tell me .. just hardly try not become mad

IF you are touched again, someone is updating your file or working on it since they recieved the RFE..hang in there..this is so hard for all us April, May, June filers. Im worried I will end up with RFE just so they can save their butts on the 6 month time limit. I to feel the stress and frustration, I fight the tears every time I see someone else from late July or August approved...Im happy for them...but at same time wanting my own noa2 as well...Feel free to stop here often, there is a small group just like you that are still waiting. God Bless.

I don't even have the energy today to deal with these emotions. I am just sitting at my desk crying. I am happy for everyone, but am doing the "why me" thing. I am just so upset. I feel so helpless. I feel like I will never get approved.

Steph I feel so terrible. I simply cannot understand why you and so many others are still waiting. I won't insult you by telling you to hang in there. I know this is killing you. I am praying for you and for all the others who have yet to be approved! Please let it happen soon. Big hugs for you.

I am there with you......I feel your pain......and I keep thinking that what my grandma said......Good things come to those who wait......well with this wait all of us June filers...and May and really Mel for April we should have a special special special life with our loved ones.......Maybe when our approval comes we should play lotto with our numbers...who knows....maybe we will win........Oh I have to stop laughing......a little sore......Love you guys...Lora

[Steph1973 0]

Hi to all waiting june fillers .. i am to nervouse depresed frustrated sterees what eles you feel also .. after recived Rfe replay yestrday and chnage of status for very first time Current Status: Response to request for evidence received, and case processing has resumed. we got touch tday again .. what is going on could somebody tell me .. just hardly try not become mad

IF you are touched again, someone is updating your file or working on it since they recieved the RFE..hang in there..this is so hard for all us April, May, June filers. Im worried I will end up with RFE just so they can save their butts on the 6 month time limit. I to feel the stress and frustration, I fight the tears every time I see someone else from late July or August approved...Im happy for them...but at same time wanting my own noa2 as well...Feel free to stop here often, there is a small group just like you that are still waiting. God Bless.

I don't even have the energy today to deal with these emotions. I am just sitting at my desk crying. I am happy for everyone, but am doing the "why me" thing. I am just so upset. I feel so helpless. I feel like I will never get approved.

Steph I feel so terrible. I simply cannot understand why you and so many others are still waiting. I won't insult you by telling you to hang in there. I know this is killing you. I am praying for you and for all the others who have yet to be approved! Please let it happen soon. Big hugs for you.

I am there with you......I feel your pain......and I keep thinking that what my grandma said......Good things come to those who wait......well with this wait all of us June filers...and May and really Mel for April we should have a special special special life with our loved ones.......Maybe when our approval comes we should play lotto with our numbers...who knows....maybe we will win........Oh I have to stop laughing......a little sore......Love you guys...Lora

Please feel better and get well soon. I am sending thoughts your way!

I am just feeling sorry for myself today. I keep thinking about how after having a previous marriage end, going through all that pain then this friggin process has to be hard too.... You'd think after rebounding and finally being happy with someone else that it would be smoother. Ugh-life is so hard sometimes. I know people have it a lot worse then me, but today I am wallowing in my own self pity.

[amrssnowangel 0]

Hi Guys......I am laying in bed in the cardiac ward in the hospital......I am all implanted with the pacer and the cardioverter.....I talked with Oscar while I was in the recovery room.....I really love him.....He was crying on the phone...anyway I went to the stress lab and they wanted me to make my heart rate go up so they were goin to give me a med I said no I know how.....VSC....NO ...NOA2......it worked and so did the pacer....hahaha...a little humour in my pain.......thanks for all of your best wishes......I get to go home around 5 pm.....Now I am ready for my approval....PLEASE.....Love you guys Lora

Just take care of you.....Come home safe and soon...good to hear from you!!

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[amrssnowangel 0]

I am just feeling sorry for myself today. I keep thinking about how after having a previous marriage end, going through all that pain then this friggin process has to be hard too.... You'd think after rebounding and finally being happy with someone else that it would be smoother. Ugh-life is so hard sometimes. I know people have it a lot worse then me, but today I am wallowing in my own self pity.

Im with you...feeling your pain and tears. I cried reading your post...cause i know the despair you speak of. Its as if some person I dont know is keeping us apart. And its killing me. Whats WORSE is the feeling of not being able to do anything about it..that there is no recourse..that no one cares about our plight, that there is no source for information or help....NOTHING. THIS HAS to change...MUST change. I cant imagine what those waiting longer feel like...My prayers are with you...

BUT........WE CAN DO THIS. In the GRAND scheme of things...5 years from now..will this wait matter? Will it make an impact on our lives? Its hard for now..but stay focused on the future...the GOAL....keep THAT in our sights....

What are some future goals you have with your SO's??? Lets share some FUTURE things...

For us...we want to start an EBAY business for modest dressers...I want to call it "Modesty Matters". He has access there to inexpensive dresses, scarves and such. ($8 for a cute dress, $3 scarves) So we want to do that to make him feel he is "working" till he can find a job here. And of course we will renovate the basement here so we have our own living space from my parents....I cant move from them right now...they need help.

[OsLoraTamm 0]

Hi to all waiting june fillers .. i am to nervouse depresed frustrated sterees what eles you feel also .. after recived Rfe replay yestrday and chnage of status for very first time Current Status: Response to request for evidence received, and case processing has resumed. we got touch tday again .. what is going on could somebody tell me .. just hardly try not become mad

IF you are touched again, someone is updating your file or working on it since they recieved the RFE..hang in there..this is so hard for all us April, May, June filers. Im worried I will end up with RFE just so they can save their butts on the 6 month time limit. I to feel the stress and frustration, I fight the tears every time I see someone else from late July or August approved...Im happy for them...but at same time wanting my own noa2 as well...Feel free to stop here often, there is a small group just like you that are still waiting. God Bless.

I don't even have the energy today to deal with these emotions. I am just sitting at my desk crying. I am happy for everyone, but am doing the "why me" thing. I am just so upset. I feel so helpless. I feel like I will never get approved.

Steph I feel so terrible. I simply cannot understand why you and so many others are still waiting. I won't insult you by telling you to hang in there. I know this is killing you. I am praying for you and for all the others who have yet to be approved! Please let it happen soon. Big hugs for you.

I am there with you......I feel your pain......and I keep thinking that what my grandma said......Good things come to those who wait......well with this wait all of us June filers...and May and really Mel for April we should have a special special special life with our loved ones.......Maybe when our approval comes we should play lotto with our numbers...who knows....maybe we will win........Oh I have to stop laughing......a little sore......Love you guys...Lora

Please feel better and get well soon. I am sending thoughts your way!

I am just feeling sorry for myself today. I keep thinking about how after having a previous marriage end, going through all that pain then this friggin process has to be hard too.... You'd think after rebounding and finally being happy with someone else that it would be smoother. Ugh-life is so hard sometimes. I know people have it a lot worse then me, but today I am wallowing in my own self pity.

Same here.....I had the first marriage from h*ll.......and finding Oscar in such a manner....I was not looking.......makes all of this surreal......I almost feel it is a test....I started to cry the other day and 3 hours later I looked like Rocky.....Swollen and so very unattractive......I was feeling bad for being upset at others approvals.....I just can only be so happy......Does that sound bad?

OMG.....this sucks......and I hate it for all of us....Lora

[amrssnowangel 0]

Its not bad to feel this way Lora, its human. Thats why we have this thread. I knew how I was feeling and KNEW others had to be gritting teeth with every new approval like I was. I just hated to keep up the negativity I have brewing in me in the presence of all those new approvals...its not their fault..and they are entitled to their happiness. Plus I hate to be the rain on a parade.

Just feel better..take care...

[amrssnowangel 0]

JAMES 1

1 James, a servant of God and of the Lord Jesus Christ, to the twelve tribes which are bscattered abroad, greeting.

2 My brethren, count it all joy when ye fall into divers btemptations;

3 Knowing this, that the trying of your faith worketh patience.

4 But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing.

5 If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.

6 But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed.

7 For let not that man think that he shall receive any thing of the Lord.

8 A double minded man is unstable in all his ways.

[Steph1973 0]

Its not bad to feel this way Lora, its human. Thats why we have this thread. I knew how I was feeling and KNEW others had to be gritting teeth with every new approval like I was. I just hated to keep up the negativity I have brewing in me in the presence of all those new approvals...its not their fault..and they are entitled to their happiness. Plus I hate to be the rain on a parade.

Just feel better..take care...

Wow-you are not an awful person for feeling this way. I am right there with ya.

I love your modestly matters idea. So cute. I have to keep for eyes out for that in the future. It is my understanding that once you have the fiance visa you are permitted to work in the U.S. Is there another reason why you think getting employment for him will be difficult?

Our goals: First and foremost-Buying a home. I have wanted to buy a house for so long but there was always some annoying reason why I couldn't. My ex-husband was getting his PHd and writing his dissertation so I was always waiting for that to finish (8 years later...), then because he was going to be a professor we never knew what part of the country he would find a job so I wanted to wait for that, the list goes on.... Now I am ready and so is Darren.

Have a baby. We really want kids and I ain't getting any younger....

These are big things for me and I hate that everything is on hold!!!!