just freaking Lovely

[sarahaziz 0]

ok listen. all women who are american who are english who are canadian uk if you are white in skin color american western looking im telling u 100% these arabs are you using you for a green card. i know im gonna get alot of hate responses but this is fact and only time will show u the truth to all you american ladies out there. its commonly happened with overweight females and arab males. im telling u right now the arab will use you for the green card and take whatever sexual or whatnot experiences with u then he will marry again back home or find an arab girl in the states. THEY ALL WANT women from their own countries. if ur an american converting from christianity to islam lol i promise you it wont make him respect u or love u ITS IN THE QURAN TO CONVERT THE WOMEN AND MEN by marriage or whatever the option is. goodluck to the women who posted this. he wont get to stay in america

[ya falaha! 0]

Just sickening. You probably feel like you've been punched in the gut. That's gotta hurt. I'm so sorry you've had to endure all of this, Dee. My heart breaks for you and others who have dealt with men (and women) like this. Keep your head up, Dee. You're always in my thoughts.

Dee, from experience I can truley say the people on here will give good advice.

I went to immigrations to do an info pass, I spoke to an officer, had evidence. Very important you have evidence to prove he married u for the reason for him a green card, they are willing to talk with you because they want the green card scam to stop.

the problem is I dont have concrete evidence.. I already know through the grape vine that he has already tried to contact immigration.. and that he is already asking around to hurry up and get another wife.. *vomit*

Its funny how "heart broken" he is.. and that He DIDNT marry me for papers.. *roll eyes* but now the divorce papers are Not even signed yet.. and he is already looking for a replacement...

[~~~water~~~ 0]

Dee Im so sorry for what you are going through..... Just move on and let go , if he gets kicked out GREAT ... but if not you have to move forward

ok listen. all women who are american who are english who are canadian uk if you are white in skin color american western looking im telling u 100% these arabs are you using you for a green card. i know im gonna get alot of hate responses but this is fact and only time will show u the truth to all you american ladies out there. its commonly happened with overweight females and arab males. im telling u right now the arab will use you for the green card and take whatever sexual or whatnot experiences with u then he will marry again back home or find an arab girl in the states. THEY ALL WANT women from their own countries. if ur an american converting from christianity to islam lol i promise you it wont make him respect u or love u ITS IN THE QURAN TO CONVERT THE WOMEN AND MEN by marriage or whatever the option is. goodluck to the women who posted this. he wont get to stay in america

As one of thoose overweight americans involoved with an arab I know your wrong. Just by the mere fact that your 100% certain proves that. It is unfortunate what happenend with Dee - without a doubt , but to pull such generalzations into the discussion is racist and wrong. My fiance would be happpppppy as a clam to live in Egypt with me forever and never come here, Im the one who needs him to come here as I can't move there now, Not everyone is the same and it is ignorant and rude to generalize in such ways.

Edited December 3, 2007 by water is wide

[Nutty 2]

Nothing is a 100%.

But I agree that if the man comes from a "traditional" background, then the pressure from the family to marry a woman from his own culture is there.

As for the "white skin" and being "fat"...that really is a generalization.

I wonder if Iranian men count in your classification...since they are not Arab, but rather persian?

I am lucky I have two very good friends (american women) married to muslim men (one a Libyan, the other an Iranian)...Happily so for over twenty years, with children, to prove you wrong on the 100% theory.

I also have one acquentence (American woman) who married her Iranian husband and moved to Iran.

Still, it doesn't hurt to be careful.

Edited December 7, 2007 by Nutty

[~~~water~~~ 0]

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Edited December 7, 2007 by water is wide

[zqt3344 21]

You got scammed by this guy based on what you provide. If you, and you are wanting to right an injustice here, you need to find and provide any evidence you can to prove a fraud relationship, then contact ICE and go see lawyer to divorce him you do not have to remain married to him.

well.. dont post much on here anymore due to my situation at home..

currently.. I am going to persue a divorce with my husband - after his physical, emotional and mental abuse to me and my kids..

my husband has only been in the country since July (sooo 4 months?) He has already lived out of the house for 2 of those months..

Not 100% positive it was Fraud.. BUT there has been this HUGE tie with bringing his family especially his mom into the country...

I contacted USCIS today.. asking what I can do...

APPARENTLY... nothing..

he has the K3 Visa.. and he can stay until it expires..

so i guess thats it.. I was his meal ticket into the country

he refuses to go home... and now rumor has it.. as soon as i divorce him.. He plans on moving to Philly and asap marrying again.

So another man will slip through the cracks... a person who talked SOOO much sh!t about america.. and still does.. will stay here.. and take all the benefits it can offer.

and I feel guilty for bringing this man into the country.. an abuser.. who could then subject another woman

####### kind of system is this? all these tax dollars going for?! Billions at this point POURED into Homeland Security.. for WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Caladan 19]

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[Welshcookie 17]

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[zqt3344 21]

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[MichelleandCraig 1]

I haven't been around much so dont' know you (unless under a dif. name?) but I'm so very sorry this has happened to you.

Diaddie...I know it's not PROOF in ANY way...but if he's moving and remarrying asap...and only lived with her 2 of 4 months...that's pretty strong proof, IMO. Not the type of proof that USCIS needs, certainly....but it would be enough for my own mind.

Ugh, disgusting! Hugs, Dee. M.

[diadromous mermaid 36]

I haven't been around much so dont' know you (unless under a dif. name?) but I'm so very sorry this has happened to you.

Diaddie...I know it's not PROOF in ANY way...but if he's moving and remarrying asap...and only lived with her 2 of 4 months...that's pretty strong proof, IMO. Not the type of proof that USCIS needs, certainly....but it would be enough for my own mind.

Ugh, disgusting! Hugs, Dee. M.

Interesting viewpoint, Michelle, but I am of the belief that re-marriage of an alien doesn't really indicate much other than that the alien wasn't a committed partner. It alone doesn't necessarily show that the alien used the petitioner unless the new partner is an alien him/herself.

Now, what is important, in my opinion, is that whatever the OP does in terms of formally notifying USCIS of any suspicions, in this situation could colour the alien's success in securing permanent residency through a second marriage. Bear in mind that both marriages are looked at.