Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)

[JA Tam 7]

Tamisha, that is one sticky situation. I agree that you should look let her know what's up, you have a dilemma in trying to figure out how to let her know. I know you love your friend, but you know she knew in her heart of hearts that he was not the one for her. Mi sorry, but if me love somebody so much, church caan tell mi seh mi caan get a divorce and be with the one mi love. I am so sorry that she ended up pregnant for him and this is going to hurt her heart because she really wanted this to work out. What a wickid #######!!!

Mi nuh know wha fi tell yuh?

[brownnskinn 0]

Hi guys...

He is such an A!#@ and my husband despises him. Always has. What should I do? And how should I approach my friend to let her know what I know. Unfortunately, I wasn't blessed with tact, so I need to figure out my approach. Can you guys help? This dude really has my blood boiling because he is hurting SO many people!! Thanks for letting me vent!!

Tamisha

Sorry, you weren't bless with tact but I think you should at least tell her how you feel.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Hey Tamisha,

Bwoy a don't know wah fi tell u...she bettah open her eyes cause dis is bad news waiting to happen. Don't know how much u can do but try talk to her and state the obvious..that's all

good luck to her

[Forever Young 1]

Bwoy,

Mrs. P., like Tam Tam and Brownie said this is a tough one! Unfortunately, I stay the same weh. If some one hurts mi or my loved ones...I strike out! Not always the best solution...but Lawd it does mek yuh feel better when yuh do it!

Look, sleep pon it ONE more night! If yuh wake hup tomorrow han feel like yuh wan fi Blast him name pon VJ...then go for it. However, realize that whether his fiancee is on VJ or Not, his lying #### will probably still be able to git ova! The ooman will probably choose to believe his lies...Unfortunately like your friend did! He will probably ton hoff his JA phone eventually hennyweh!

You han your friend are probably better off CUTTING HIM OFF!!! Then too have him control the lines of communication suh!

I would talk to HIM wan LAST time...han LACE HIS CLAAT!! Mek him knoa HEXACTLY how yuh feel bout him claat!! That should be the end of henny communication between you, hubby & him! Then just be there for your friend! She is going to need all the help she can. Trying to raise a child and get ova a broken heart is tough!

Regardless, of what you do. Just know that you are in my prayers cause this is a horrible spot to be in and I can only imagine how difficult this whole ordeal must be! Don't worry he WILL git his inna deh end!

Bless-ed ,

Gill

P.S.- Don't mek dem madness effect you han your happiness wid hubby...zeen?

[brownnskinn 0]

Bwoy,

Mrs. P., like Tam Tam and Brownie said this is a tough one! Unfortunately, I stay the same weh. If some one hurts mi or my loved ones...I strike out! Not always the best solution...but Lawd it does mek yuh feel better when yuh do it!

Look, sleep pon it ONE more night! If yuh wake hup tomorrow han feel like yuh wan fi Blast him name pon VJ...then go for it. However, realize that whether his fiancee is on VJ or Not, his lying #### will probably still be able to git ova! The ooman will probably choose to believe his lies...Unfortunately like your friend did! He will probably ton hoff his JA phone eventually hennyweh!

Bless-ed ,

Gill

P.S.- Don't mek dem madness effect you han your happiness wid hubby...zeen?

I knew jill would kno jus wha fi seh

[JA Tam 7]

Fi real, mi always ah wait fi Gill gi give her "pearls of wisdom". Mi did ah wonda weh she did deh

[SupportOAFJF 0]

U see it..she know everything

Claire check u PM

[JA Tam 7]

U see it..she know everything

Claire check u PM

Kimmy, mi did ah wait pon fi yuh response too

[SupportOAFJF 0]

U see it..she know everything

Claire check u PM

Kimmy, mi did ah wait pon fi yuh response too

ahahha..MEEEE !!! dumb as door nail..mi no know how mi end up wid husband and pickney..hehheheeee...ahahaha

[JA Tam 7]

Kimmy, you are a trip , you have some pearls of wisdom too and the passion with which you deliver it

Hey All, I wanted to share this with you on this MLK day: Reclaiming King: Beyond "I have a Dream"

Edited January 21, 2008 by JA Tam

[JA Tam 7]

Ok Yardies, let me ask you: Is it Fashion First? I thought you would love the read.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Kimmy, you are a trip , you have some pearls of wisdom too and the passion with which you deliver it

Hey All, I wanted to share this with you on this MLK day: Reclaiming King: Beyond "I have a Dream"

I read this Tam..like it..so true

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Fashion 1st mi baxside..mi food nah bun mi fi no dyam shoes i tell u dat blinkin much..mi sistah cuss mi everyday..mi tell her lou mi man mi rather be comfy dan in pain fi di night u mad !

[JA Tam 7]

I am right there with you Kimmy! Mi haffi comfortable. Mi nah grow nuh corn pon fi mi toesies fi nuh pretty pair ah shoes

Kimmy, how Kimora feeling?

[SupportOAFJF 0]

I am right there with you Kimmy! Mi haffi comfortable. Mi nah grow nuh corn pon fi mi toesies fi nuh pretty pair ah shoes

Kimmy, how Kimora feeling?

we deh a mi modda so mommy wipe out her mouth with some glysterine and it seem fi help..don't know why but she a move round..still nah eat nothing dou

Thanks TAm