Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)

[brownnskinn 0]

tommorrow we will talk about jamaican men and their lyrics. mr jengles called me this morning and said "when I hear your voice or see u in the morning I don't need no more food for the rest of the day, i come in like breakfast." mi tell him seh he must ease of the bottle so early inna di morning. lol ,hear him nuh "no baby mi is natural" "natural like spring water" all i coulda do is laugh.

I swear some of them might be poor, but what come out of their mouths is priceless.

oh mike used to say something to me everytime i used to call him when he was in JA....i think it was something like you've got all the features like cell phone and beepers.. ..something like that....where do they come up with this stuff???

I can't remember much of the craziness my husband chat bout, if it wasn't bout my stars or my bumber it was sum odda foolishness. He was def full of shyt!! He keeps me smiling on the inside tho..cause what can you really say.

true....i used to say oh thanks.....

how are you feeling today???

kimmy how are with keeping things down???

I'm fine other than my thigh...sore, I must have pulled a muscle. Trying to sign up for classes for the summer.

[Forever Young 1]

tommorrow we will talk about jamaican men and their lyrics. mr jengles called me this morning and said "when I hear your voice or see u in the morning I don't need no more food for the rest of the day, i come in like breakfast." mi tell him seh he must ease of the bottle so early inna di morning. lol ,hear him nuh "no baby mi is natural" "natural like spring water" all i coulda do is laugh.

I swear some of them might be poor, but what come out of their mouths is priceless.

BULLET BULLET BULLET...mi sarry ...but yuh cyan't beat Yard men han dem lyrics!! Is like dem ago wan 'lyrics' school!!

Mi nah mad hat Missa Jengy still...DAT wan was NOICE!!!

Good Mawning Fam!! Hope all are well!!

-Question- How did you guys organize your papers...folders...binders...what? I bought an Attorney folder and just divided/labeled every dyam ting hup!

Like so:

I-129f-copies of original petition

Affidavit of Support

DS156,156k, 157 & 230(II)

USCIS Correspondence

Letters of Employment

Original Birth Ceritificates, Naturalization & Divorce Documents

Paystubs

Tax Returns/Tax Transcripts

Bank Statements/ Letter from Bank

Medical Forms

Cell Phone Bills

Phone Cards

Personal Letters, cards, & notes

Photos, Boarding passes, itinierary

Passport Photos

Yuh tink that good? I just want to be able to whip out whatever the hell they ask me for. Am I missing any catagories! Sorry to be such a psycho ...But just wondering what ya'll did

Blessed love always

,Gill

Edited March 4, 2008 by Deyoungting

[brownnskinn 0]

Yuh tink that good? I just want to be able to whip out whatever the hell they ask me for. Am I missing any catagories! Sorry to be such a psycho ...But just wondering what ya'll did

Blessed love always

,Gill

Huge notbook binder with labeled dividers. All that prep went unnoticed cause they didn't ask for any of it. Only thing we were asked about was my husband's daughter's BC. No need to buch such a psycho...you are well prepaired. Jus relax and go get yo man.

Yuh tink that good? I just want to be able to whip out whatever the hell they ask me for. Am I missing any catagories! Sorry to be such a psycho ...But just wondering what ya'll did

Blessed love always

,Gill

Huge notbook binder with labeled dividers. All that prep went unnoticed cause they didn't ask for any of it. Only thing we were asked about was my husband's daughter's BC. No need to buch such a psycho...you are well prepaired. Jus relax and go get yo man.

Have you ever been married before. IF so I don't see your documents listed above. OH! THERE THEY ARE!!

Edited March 4, 2008 by brownnskinn

[*JG* 2]

tommorrow we will talk about jamaican men and their lyrics. mr jengles called me this morning and said "when I hear your voice or see u in the morning I don't need no more food for the rest of the day, i come in like breakfast." mi tell him seh he must ease of the bottle so early inna di morning. lol ,hear him nuh "no baby mi is natural" "natural like spring water" all i coulda do is laugh.

I swear some of them might be poor, but what come out of their mouths is priceless.

BULLET BULLET BULLET...mi sarry ...but yuh cyan't beat Yard men han dem lyrics!! Is like dem ago wan 'lyrics' school!!

Mi nah mad hat Missa Jengy still...DAT wan was NOICE!!!

Good Mawning Fam!! Hope all are well!!

-Question- How did you guys organize your papers...folders...binders...what? I bought an Attorney folder and just divided/labeled every dyam ting hup!

Like so:

I-129f-copies of original petition

Affidavit of Support

DS156,156k, 157 & 230(II)

USCIS Correspondence

Letters of Employment

Original Birth Ceritificates, Naturalization & Divorce Documents

Paystubs

Tax Returns/Tax Transcripts

Bank Statements/ Letter from Bank

Medical Forms

Cell Phone Bills

Phone Cards

Personal Letters, cards, & notes

Photos, Boarding passes, itinierary

Passport Photos

Yuh tink that good? I just want to be able to whip out whatever the hell they ask me for. Am I missing any catagories! Sorry to be such a psycho ...But just wondering what ya'll did

Blessed love always

,Gill

That sounds great, Gill. I bound all of ours.

Andre's not a lyrics man. I think I love that more about him then anything else. Having been fed more lines then I'll ever remember in my life and from Yard Men, it's nice not to be.

[Jengles 0]

Jengles, wah REALLY a gwaan wid MrJengles and di passport??

Yuh nuh si dem have him dung a JA a guh mad?

The truth is I don't know what to do. I'm stuck. he wants to come back but since I didn't send him. i don't think i should have to pay his fare. he was supposed to sell the car and then he would have his fare to come back. put now the car can't sell, the engine serial number doesn't match what is on some paper and the previous owner doesn't have the reciept for the engineso the car will never be able to pass inspection. I know all that is not mr jengles fault. but I told him not to go to j.a. unless he spoke to the buyer, confirmed when money would change hands and all that. and do not go unless the title came. he didn't listen. I told him i wasn't going to pay for him to come back before he left here. his people lied to him,, there was no buyer.

so anyway now i'm stuck, he wants to come back, i want him to come back but i don't want to pay. just for the fact that he has to realize the value of MY dollar. As u guys now it was a rough couple of weeks, then i got locked out yesterday and i'm always late for work now and can't stay late and i'm an AVP and i just put Jenelle in daycare yesterday, so that is more money i will be spending and on my son's afterschool. if mr jengles were here. i wouldn't have to pay for afterschool for now until mr jengles got a job

Oh and yes, he had gotten his EAD before he went so i told him to stay and get a job, because of course he was stressing because with the car being out of commission, his kids weren't getting any money. he figured if he could sell the car then he could give them money to tide them over until he got a job up here.

he had good intentions

so now i'm stuck. i think he should be able to pay for at least half of his fare, yes??

oh and of course his fam isn't willing to help him but they sure encouraged him to go down.

[Jengles 0]

tommorrow we will talk about jamaican men and their lyrics. mr jengles called me this morning and said "when I hear your voice or see u in the morning I don't need no more food for the rest of the day, i come in like breakfast." mi tell him seh he must ease of the bottle so early inna di morning. lol ,hear him nuh "no baby mi is natural" "natural like spring water" all i coulda do is laugh.

I swear some of them might be poor, but what come out of their mouths is priceless.

oh mike used to say something to me everytime i used to call him when he was in JA....i think it was something like you've got all the features like cell phone and beepers.. ..something like that....where do they come up with this stuff???

I can't remember much of the craziness my husband chat bout, if it wasn't bout my stars or my bumber it was sum odda foolishness. He was def full of shyt!! He keeps me smiling on the inside tho..cause what can you really say.

right, and mr jengles thinks chatting about my bumper is romantic??!!! some of the stuff he says cracks me up. he's already called me for the morning. he felt Bad last night, between me getting locked outand just being TIRED like all hell and now the baby is sick.

[Black Velvet 4]

tommorrow we will talk about jamaican men and their lyrics. mr jengles called me this morning and said "when I hear your voice or see u in the morning I don't need no more food for the rest of the day, i come in like breakfast." mi tell him seh he must ease of the bottle so early inna di morning. lol ,hear him nuh "no baby mi is natural" "natural like spring water" all i coulda do is laugh.

I swear some of them might be poor, but what come out of their mouths is priceless.

BULLET BULLET BULLET...mi sarry ...but yuh cyan't beat Yard men han dem lyrics!! Is like dem ago wan 'lyrics' school!!

Mi nah mad hat Missa Jengy still...DAT wan was NOICE!!!

Good Mawning Fam!! Hope all are well!!

-Question- How did you guys organize your papers...folders...binders...what? I bought an Attorney folder and just divided/labeled every dyam ting hup!

Like so:

I-129f-copies of original petition

Affidavit of Support

DS156,156k, 157 & 230(II)

USCIS Correspondence

Letters of Employment

Original Birth Ceritificates, Naturalization & Divorce Documents

Paystubs

Tax Returns/Tax Transcripts

Bank Statements/ Letter from Bank

Medical Forms

Cell Phone Bills

Phone Cards

Personal Letters, cards, & notes

Photos, Boarding passes, itinierary

Passport Photos

Yuh tink that good? I just want to be able to whip out whatever the hell they ask me for. Am I missing any catagories! Sorry to be such a psycho ...But just wondering what ya'll did

Blessed love always

,Gill

Gill,

Your list looks great. However, at the interview we were asked for the DS-230 Part I. Since the Embassy already had a copy, I thought why is this chick asking me for this? If I were you, it is better to be safe than sorry. Bring another completed DS-230 (Part I). Part II is really for the CR-1 folks, but bring that too. Also, be to sure to have your interview confirmation letter AKA Packet 4. Dem nah let unnu in if the letter no de deh. Call or text me with the good news.

Kelia

[brownnskinn 0]

Jengles, wah REALLY a gwaan wid MrJengles and di passport??

Yuh nuh si dem have him dung a JA a guh mad?

The truth is I don't know what to do. I'm stuck. he wants to come back but since I didn't send him. i don't think i should have to pay his fare. he was supposed to sell the car and then he would have his fare to come back. put now the car can't sell, the engine serial number doesn't match what is on some paper and the previous owner doesn't have the reciept for the engineso the car will never be able to pass inspection. I know all that is not mr jengles fault. but I told him not to go to j.a. unless he spoke to the buyer, confirmed when money would change hands and all that. and do not go unless the title came. he didn't listen. I told him i wasn't going to pay for him to come back before he left here. his people lied to him,, there was no buyer.

so anyway now i'm stuck, he wants to come back, i want him to come back but i don't want to pay. just for the fact that he has to realize the value of MY dollar. As u guys now it was a rough couple of weeks, then i got locked out yesterday and i'm always late for work now and can't stay late and i'm an AVP and i just put Jenelle in daycare yesterday, so that is more money i will be spending and on my son's afterschool. if mr jengles were here. i wouldn't have to pay for afterschool for now until mr jengles got a job

Oh and yes, he had gotten his EAD before he went so i told him to stay and get a job, because of course he was stressing because with the car being out of commission, his kids weren't getting any money. he figured if he could sell the car then he could give them money to tide them over until he got a job up here.

he had good intentions

so now i'm stuck. i think he should be able to pay for at least half of his fare, yes??

oh and of course his fam isn't willing to help him but they sure encouraged him to go down.

Hey Jens I hope I don't offend you but you's a married woman and there's no such ting as your dollar....help yo man come home already! You seh it wasn't his fault. Mek em wuk when he come back to put the money back in your guys account.

[brownnskinn 0]

tommorrow we will talk about jamaican men and their lyrics. mr jengles called me this morning and said "when I hear your voice or see u in the morning I don't need no more food for the rest of the day, i come in like breakfast." mi tell him seh he must ease of the bottle so early inna di morning. lol ,hear him nuh "no baby mi is natural" "natural like spring water" all i coulda do is laugh.

I swear some of them might be poor, but what come out of their mouths is priceless.

oh mike used to say something to me everytime i used to call him when he was in JA....i think it was something like you've got all the features like cell phone and beepers.. ..something like that....where do they come up with this stuff???

I can't remember much of the craziness my husband chat bout, if it wasn't bout my stars or my bumber it was sum odda foolishness. He was def full of shyt!! He keeps me smiling on the inside tho..cause what can you really say.

right, and mr jengles thinks chatting about my bumper is romantic??!!! some of the stuff he says cracks me up. he's already called me for the morning. he felt Bad last night, between me getting locked outand just being TIRED like all hell and now the baby is sick.

I can't tell you bout de stuff he seh bout de buff bey...it's x rated

Edited March 4, 2008 by brownnskinn

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

tommorrow we will talk about jamaican men and their lyrics. mr jengles called me this morning and said "when I hear your voice or see u in the morning I don't need no more food for the rest of the day, i come in like breakfast." mi tell him seh he must ease of the bottle so early inna di morning. lol ,hear him nuh "no baby mi is natural" "natural like spring water" all i coulda do is laugh.

I swear some of them might be poor, but what come out of their mouths is priceless.

BULLET BULLET BULLET...mi sarry ...but yuh cyan't beat Yard men han dem lyrics!! Is like dem ago wan 'lyrics' school!!

Mi nah mad hat Missa Jengy still...DAT wan was NOICE!!!

Good Mawning Fam!! Hope all are well!!

-Question- How did you guys organize your papers...folders...binders...what? I bought an Attorney folder and just divided/labeled every dyam ting hup!

Like so:

I-129f-copies of original petition

Affidavit of Support

DS156,156k, 157 & 230(II)

USCIS Correspondence

Letters of Employment

Original Birth Ceritificates, Naturalization & Divorce Documents

Paystubs

Tax Returns/Tax Transcripts

Bank Statements/ Letter from Bank

Medical Forms

Cell Phone Bills

Phone Cards

Personal Letters, cards, & notes

Photos, Boarding passes, itinierary

Passport Photos

Yuh tink that good? I just want to be able to whip out whatever the hell they ask me for. Am I missing any catagories! Sorry to be such a psycho ...But just wondering what ya'll did

Blessed love always

,Gill

Gill, u lef out di kitchen SINK...girl I think you've got it covered. You back yet?

[*JG* 2]

Jengles, wah REALLY a gwaan wid MrJengles and di passport??

Yuh nuh si dem have him dung a JA a guh mad?

The truth is I don't know what to do. I'm stuck. he wants to come back but since I didn't send him. i don't think i should have to pay his fare. he was supposed to sell the car and then he would have his fare to come back. put now the car can't sell, the engine serial number doesn't match what is on some paper and the previous owner doesn't have the reciept for the engineso the car will never be able to pass inspection. I know all that is not mr jengles fault. but I told him not to go to j.a. unless he spoke to the buyer, confirmed when money would change hands and all that. and do not go unless the title came. he didn't listen. I told him i wasn't going to pay for him to come back before he left here. his people lied to him,, there was no buyer.

so anyway now i'm stuck, he wants to come back, i want him to come back but i don't want to pay. just for the fact that he has to realize the value of MY dollar. As u guys now it was a rough couple of weeks, then i got locked out yesterday and i'm always late for work now and can't stay late and i'm an AVP and i just put Jenelle in daycare yesterday, so that is more money i will be spending and on my son's afterschool. if mr jengles were here. i wouldn't have to pay for afterschool for now until mr jengles got a job

Oh and yes, he had gotten his EAD before he went so i told him to stay and get a job, because of course he was stressing because with the car being out of commission, his kids weren't getting any money. he figured if he could sell the car then he could give them money to tide them over until he got a job up here.

he had good intentions

so now i'm stuck. i think he should be able to pay for at least half of his fare, yes??

oh and of course his fam isn't willing to help him but they sure encouraged him to go down.

I think you are pretty much stuck with getting him back or he's not coming back. Don't really see too many more options.

Whatever happened with getting the title? I know there were issues; but I thought he was working on them.

[Jengles 0]

Jengles, wah REALLY a gwaan wid MrJengles and di passport??

Yuh nuh si dem have him dung a JA a guh mad?

The truth is I don't know what to do. I'm stuck. he wants to come back but since I didn't send him. i don't think i should have to pay his fare. he was supposed to sell the car and then he would have his fare to come back. put now the car can't sell, the engine serial number doesn't match what is on some paper and the previous owner doesn't have the reciept for the engineso the car will never be able to pass inspection. I know all that is not mr jengles fault. but I told him not to go to j.a. unless he spoke to the buyer, confirmed when money would change hands and all that. and do not go unless the title came. he didn't listen. I told him i wasn't going to pay for him to come back before he left here. his people lied to him,, there was no buyer.

so anyway now i'm stuck, he wants to come back, i want him to come back but i don't want to pay. just for the fact that he has to realize the value of MY dollar. As u guys now it was a rough couple of weeks, then i got locked out yesterday and i'm always late for work now and can't stay late and i'm an AVP and i just put Jenelle in daycare yesterday, so that is more money i will be spending and on my son's afterschool. if mr jengles were here. i wouldn't have to pay for afterschool for now until mr jengles got a job

Oh and yes, he had gotten his EAD before he went so i told him to stay and get a job, because of course he was stressing because with the car being out of commission, his kids weren't getting any money. he figured if he could sell the car then he could give them money to tide them over until he got a job up here.

he had good intentions

so now i'm stuck. i think he should be able to pay for at least half of his fare, yes??

oh and of course his fam isn't willing to help him but they sure encouraged him to go down.

Hey Jens I hope I don't offend you but you's a married woman and there's no such ting as your dollar....help yo man come home already! You seh it wasn't his fault. Mek em wuk when he come back to put the money back in your guys account.

No you will not offend me, I'm not going to get offended by your honest opnion and i'm looking for a way to look at this from a different light. I've been helping out with this car since he's been up here and put it in front of my responsibilities and now I have to take care of my responsibilites. I've fixed the car after it got in the accident, insurance and when it needed repairs let's just say albatross. so that is where my money's been going not to where it was supposed to be going.

[Forever Young 1]

Jengles, wah REALLY a gwaan wid MrJengles and di passport??

Yuh nuh si dem have him dung a JA a guh mad?

The truth is I don't know what to do. I'm stuck. he wants to come back but since I didn't send him. i don't think i should have to pay his fare. he was supposed to sell the car and then he would have his fare to come back. put now the car can't sell, the engine serial number doesn't match what is on some paper and the previous owner doesn't have the reciept for the engineso the car will never be able to pass inspection. I know all that is not mr jengles fault. but I told him not to go to j.a. unless he spoke to the buyer, confirmed when money would change hands and all that. and do not go unless the title came. he didn't listen. I told him i wasn't going to pay for him to come back before he left here. his people lied to him,, there was no buyer.

so anyway now i'm stuck, he wants to come back, i want him to come back but i don't want to pay. just for the fact that he has to realize the value of MY dollar. As u guys now it was a rough couple of weeks, then i got locked out yesterday and i'm always late for work now and can't stay late and i'm an AVP and i just put Jenelle in daycare yesterday, so that is more money i will be spending and on my son's afterschool. if mr jengles were here. i wouldn't have to pay for afterschool for now until mr jengles got a job

Oh and yes, he had gotten his EAD before he went so i told him to stay and get a job, because of course he was stressing because with the car being out of commission, his kids weren't getting any money. he figured if he could sell the car then he could give them money to tide them over until he got a job up here.

he had good intentions

so now i'm stuck. i think he should be able to pay for at least half of his fare, yes??

oh and of course his fam isn't willing to help him but they sure encouraged him to go down.

Chica, I knoa EXACTLY how you fell...rock and a hard place!

From last year Ken was to get his BLINKING drivers license...so I finally remembered to ask him about it in Early Feb. only tuh hear..."Baby Gurl, hit nah look like dat a guh run!" I WAS SOOOOO PISSED!!!! Because we had TALKED AND TALKED AND TALKED, plus I had sent down a likkle piece of $$ a while ago for him to add to getting it done! B/C in NY you CAN driver with an international driver's license til yuh git yuh green card! That would help me enormously!

So I went off...never had he heard me go off like this ! 1). because when EXACTLY was he going to tell me that he wasn't getting it? 2). I sent $$ for it & WHEN did HE decide that he shouldn't get it and NOT consult me? (I will tell you I have trust issues. If you tell me you are going to do something...THEN DO IT!!!)

So, with everthing else he had to pay for for the interview he wouldn't have enough $$ to do it before he came!

I REFUSED TO SEND DOWN ANY MORE $$ for the dyam ting!

Gurl, I sat there for a few days and just stewed and made him stew...until I realized who am I really hurting if he comes up here without it? RIGHT...ME!!!! So, I bought a 2 hour phone card and I talked to him about how this can seriously NEVER happen again. After my ex- I need to be able to trust you at your word...ray tay tay! I sent him half the $$ for it and told him to figure out the rest! (I needed to see how vested he was in my needs!) He got up the rest of the $$ and will have his license before he comes up (Of course not by next week ) Now, I have to drive!!

So I say all this to say...Baby Gurl, if you think he has learned his lesson...give in and bring yuh man home! Yuh need him and he needs you...don't let a bad mistake ruin a wonderful marriage ( and a good man)!

Love ya,

Gill

Edited March 4, 2008 by Deyoungting

[Jengles 0]

Jengles, wah REALLY a gwaan wid MrJengles and di passport??

Yuh nuh si dem have him dung a JA a guh mad?

The truth is I don't know what to do. I'm stuck. he wants to come back but since I didn't send him. i don't think i should have to pay his fare. he was supposed to sell the car and then he would have his fare to come back. put now the car can't sell, the engine serial number doesn't match what is on some paper and the previous owner doesn't have the reciept for the engineso the car will never be able to pass inspection. I know all that is not mr jengles fault. but I told him not to go to j.a. unless he spoke to the buyer, confirmed when money would change hands and all that. and do not go unless the title came. he didn't listen. I told him i wasn't going to pay for him to come back before he left here. his people lied to him,, there was no buyer.

so anyway now i'm stuck, he wants to come back, i want him to come back but i don't want to pay. just for the fact that he has to realize the value of MY dollar. As u guys now it was a rough couple of weeks, then i got locked out yesterday and i'm always late for work now and can't stay late and i'm an AVP and i just put Jenelle in daycare yesterday, so that is more money i will be spending and on my son's afterschool. if mr jengles were here. i wouldn't have to pay for afterschool for now until mr jengles got a job

Oh and yes, he had gotten his EAD before he went so i told him to stay and get a job, because of course he was stressing because with the car being out of commission, his kids weren't getting any money. he figured if he could sell the car then he could give them money to tide them over until he got a job up here.

he had good intentions

so now i'm stuck. i think he should be able to pay for at least half of his fare, yes??

oh and of course his fam isn't willing to help him but they sure encouraged him to go down.

Chica, I knoa EXACTLY how you fell...rock and a hard place!

From last year Ken was to get his BLINKING drivers license...so I finally remembered to ask him about it in Early Feb. only tuh hear..."Baby Gurl, hit nah look like dat a guh run!" I WAS SOOOOO PISSED!!!! Because we had TALKED AND TALKED AND TALKED, plus I had sent down a likkle piece of $$ a while ago for him to add to getting it done! B/C in NY you CAN driver with an international driver's license til yuh git yuh green card! That would help me enormously!

So I went off...never had he heard me go off like this ! 1). because when EXACTLY was he going to tell me that he wasn't getting it? 2). I sent $$ for it & WHEN did HE decide that he shouldn't get it and NOT consult me? (I will tell you I have trust issues. If you tell me you are going to do something...THEN DO IT!!!)

So, with everthing else he had to pay for for the interview he wouldn't have enough $$ to do it before he came!

I REFUSED TO SEND DOWN ANY MORE $$ for the dyam ting!

Gurl, I sat there for a few days and just stewed and made him stew...until I realized who am I really hurting if he comes up here without it? RIGHT...ME!!!! So, I bought a 2 hour phone card and I talked to him about how this can seriously NEVER happen again. After my ex- I need to be able to trust you at your word...ray tay tay! I sent him half the $$ for it and told him to figure out the rest! (I needed to see how vested he was in my needs!) He got up the rest of the $$ and will have his license before he comes up (Of course not by next week ) Now, I have to drive!!

So I say all this to say...Baby Gurl, if you think he has learned his lesson...give in and bring yuh man home! Yuh need him and he needs you...don't let a bad mistake ruin a wonderful marriage ( and a good man)!

Love ya,

Gill

[Jengles 0]

yes i do think he has learned from his mistakes and there have been quite a few that i left out in regards to him in j.a.

i told him last night that if and when he comes back (he hates to hear the if and when) he has to prove to me he wants this relationship, he realizes how much he messed up. but he is a good man and we do love each other. but i will start off the convo with him and see how much money he has. he has been trying to get the fare, mind u he did get the fare to go down there, but now the fare has doubled since it's high season