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Mawning Fam,

I hope everyone is doing well!!! JAEngy...you are ON POINT wid yuh son Chica!! That's exactly how I wouldda handle it! I think he is just having adjustment issues...give him a likkle while fi sttle in! He's had a lot of changes the last year! Tek time Chica and above all PRAY!!! He will be fine!

Luvtravlin...GURL, I AM SO DYAM HAPPY TO HEAR SEH YUH FINALLY GIT DAT DEH MONKEY OFF YOUR BACK!!!!

Ok, Prior K1 filers...QUESTION :ot:-

How many months of phone bills did you take with you to the interview...My initial petition contained ALL of my cell phone bills from Nov.2006-July.2007...Do you think from July 2007-present should be sufficient evidence?

Thanks ladies and have a good day Everyone!!!

As always...LOVE YA (L)(L)(L)(L) ,

Gill

P.S.- Lawny...your Meez is cracking me UP!!!! I guess that's one hairstyle that could work if you continue to be follically challenged! :lol:

Yes, Gil. That should be more then enough.

Life's just a crazy ride on a run away train

You can't go back for what you've missed

So make it count, hold on tight find a way to make it right

You only get one trip

So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast

You only get one trip

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To the mothers: anyone have children who have good leadership/responsibility qualities? I'm sure I'm doing an adequate job, but I wish my daughter wasn't so lazy. I was wondering to develope these qualities in your children?

BTW the cat ate our bird. The bird will get out of the cage when it was hungry they have been home an entire day and have not even noticed the bird is missing. There were feathers all over the floor and the bird is no wear to be found. I'm going to see how lond time passes before they notice. I told my daughter to feed the bird three days ago, there is no food or water in the dish :wacko:

Oh That is too bad about the bird!!!

My daughter tends to be lazy at home. I feel like she is so rude to me to. We often argue and she is only 5 years old. My mother says we are so much alike! :-) She will be 6 on the 20th of this month. Sometimes I dont know what to do or say to get her to be a better kid. Then.... I go to a parent teacher conference (she is in K) and her teacher tells me what a wonderful, nice, kind and helpful person she is. It makes me happy to know she hears the things I try to teach her!

I am sure you are doing a woderful job, I think we all may let our kids get away with too much at home. I know she has a more structured day at school. I am always looking for ways to let Tierra know consequences of being lazy. For instance if she leaves things out or on the floor... mommy only picks them up 1 time. And then they never have to be picked up again... cause mommy throws it away. That works most of the time. She is learning about responsibilty.

Maybe the bird's fate will each her a lesson about being lazy!?

Irie,

How is the weather in Maine today. I'll send you some of our 62 degree SUNSHINE we're having today :lol:

We hit 78 degrees yesterday after upper 60's Saturday. It was Bea---U---T---ful!

Today, it's raining. After this rain will come sleet and then 2-6 inches of snow! Unbelievable! I swear I feel this winter is never going to end!!!!!

Life's just a crazy ride on a run away train

You can't go back for what you've missed

So make it count, hold on tight find a way to make it right

You only get one trip

So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast

You only get one trip

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Mawning Fam,

I hope everyone is doing well!!! JAEngy...you are ON POINT wid yuh son Chica!! That's exactly how I wouldda handle it! I think he is just having adjustment issues...give him a likkle while fi sttle in! He's had a lot of changes the last year! Tek time Chica and above all PRAY!!! He will be fine!

Luvtravlin...GURL, I AM SO DYAM HAPPY TO HEAR SEH YUH FINALLY GIT DAT DEH MONKEY OFF YOUR BACK!!!!

Ok, Prior K1 filers...QUESTION :ot:-

How many months of phone bills did you take with you to the interview...My initial petition contained ALL of my cell phone bills from Nov.2006-July.2007...Do you think from July 2007-present should be sufficient evidence?

Thanks ladies and have a good day Everyone!!!

As always...LOVE YA (L)(L)(L)(L) ,

Gill

P.S.- Lawny...your Meez is cracking me UP!!!! I guess that's one hairstyle that could work if you continue to be follically challenged! :lol:

Mawnin Gill,

U always a kill mi wid joke...u and di one KIMMY. I will be bring everything from the first time I started communicating until the PRESENT. Gill, u see the joke. My cousin ex-fiance went and did his physical.

To the mothers: anyone have children who have good leadership/responsibility qualities? I'm sure I'm doing an adequate job, but I wish my daughter wasn't so lazy. I was wondering to develope these qualities in your children?

BTW the cat ate our bird. The bird will get out of the cage when it was hungry they have been home an entire day and have not even noticed the bird is missing. There were feathers all over the floor and the bird is no wear to be found. I'm going to see how lond time passes before they notice. I told my daughter to feed the bird three days ago, there is no food or water in the dish :wacko:

Oh That is too bad about the bird!!!

My daughter tends to be lazy at home. I feel like she is so rude to me to. We often argue and she is only 5 years old. My mother says we are so much alike! :-) She will be 6 on the 20th of this month. Sometimes I dont know what to do or say to get her to be a better kid. Then.... I go to a parent teacher conference (she is in K) and her teacher tells me what a wonderful, nice, kind and helpful person she is. It makes me happy to know she hears the things I try to teach her!

I am sure you are doing a woderful job, I think we all may let our kids get away with too much at home. I know she has a more structured day at school. I am always looking for ways to let Tierra know consequences of being lazy. For instance if she leaves things out or on the floor... mommy only picks them up 1 time. And then they never have to be picked up again... cause mommy throws it away. That works most of the time. She is learning about responsibilty.

Maybe the bird's fate will each her a lesson about being lazy!?

Irie,

How is the weather in Maine today. I'll send you some of our 62 degree SUNSHINE we're having today :lol:

We hit 78 degrees yesterday after upper 60's Saturday. It was Bea---U---T---ful!

Today, it's raining. After this rain will come sleet and then 2-6 inches of snow! Unbelievable! I swear I feel this winter is never going to end!!!!!

Dag JG---

Where are you? We didn't even get that high here this weekend. I'm looking forward to the spring (even) though Spring allergies will KILL me.

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....when it hurts to look back and you're scared to look ahead LOOK beside you and I'll be there.....

There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore... and who always will.

So, don't worry about people from your past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future.

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tep aff a mi name

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Mawning Fam,

I hope everyone is doing well!!! JAEngy...you are ON POINT wid yuh son Chica!! That's exactly how I wouldda handle it! I think he is just having adjustment issues...give him a likkle while fi sttle in! He's had a lot of changes the last year! Tek time Chica and above all PRAY!!! He will be fine!

Luvtravlin...GURL, I AM SO DYAM HAPPY TO HEAR SEH YUH FINALLY GIT DAT DEH MONKEY OFF YOUR BACK!!!!

Ok, Prior K1 filers...QUESTION :ot:-

How many months of phone bills did you take with you to the interview...My initial petition contained ALL of my cell phone bills from Nov.2006-July.2007...Do you think from July 2007-present should be sufficient evidence?

Thanks ladies and have a good day Everyone!!!

As always...LOVE YA (L)(L)(L)(L) ,

Gill

P.S.- Lawny...your Meez is cracking me UP!!!! I guess that's one hairstyle that could work if you continue to be follically challenged! :lol:

Mawnin Gill,

U always a kill mi wid joke...u and di one KIMMY. I will be bring everything from the first time I started communicating until the PRESENT. Gill, u see the joke. My cousin ex-fiance went and did his physical.

To the mothers: anyone have children who have good leadership/responsibility qualities? I'm sure I'm doing an adequate job, but I wish my daughter wasn't so lazy. I was wondering to develope these qualities in your children?

BTW the cat ate our bird. The bird will get out of the cage when it was hungry they have been home an entire day and have not even noticed the bird is missing. There were feathers all over the floor and the bird is no wear to be found. I'm going to see how lond time passes before they notice. I told my daughter to feed the bird three days ago, there is no food or water in the dish :wacko:

Oh That is too bad about the bird!!!

My daughter tends to be lazy at home. I feel like she is so rude to me to. We often argue and she is only 5 years old. My mother says we are so much alike! :-) She will be 6 on the 20th of this month. Sometimes I dont know what to do or say to get her to be a better kid. Then.... I go to a parent teacher conference (she is in K) and her teacher tells me what a wonderful, nice, kind and helpful person she is. It makes me happy to know she hears the things I try to teach her!

I am sure you are doing a woderful job, I think we all may let our kids get away with too much at home. I know she has a more structured day at school. I am always looking for ways to let Tierra know consequences of being lazy. For instance if she leaves things out or on the floor... mommy only picks them up 1 time. And then they never have to be picked up again... cause mommy throws it away. That works most of the time. She is learning about responsibilty.

Maybe the bird's fate will each her a lesson about being lazy!?

Irie,

How is the weather in Maine today. I'll send you some of our 62 degree SUNSHINE we're having today :lol:

We hit 78 degrees yesterday after upper 60's Saturday. It was Bea---U---T---ful!

Today, it's raining. After this rain will come sleet and then 2-6 inches of snow! Unbelievable! I swear I feel this winter is never going to end!!!!!

Dag JG---

Where are you? We didn't even get that high here this weekend. I'm looking forward to the spring (even) though Spring allergies will KILL me.

Same here on the allergies. Mine are pretty much year round.

St. Louis, MO. We have some really crazy weather most of the time. They always say if you don't like the weather in St. Louis, just wait till tomorrow!

Life's just a crazy ride on a run away train

You can't go back for what you've missed

So make it count, hold on tight find a way to make it right

You only get one trip

So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast

You only get one trip

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To the mothers: anyone have children who have good leadership/responsibility qualities? I'm sure I'm doing an adequate job, but I wish my daughter wasn't so lazy. I was wondering to develope these qualities in your children?

BTW the cat ate our bird. The bird will get out of the cage when it was hungry they have been home an entire day and have not even noticed the bird is missing. There were feathers all over the floor and the bird is no wear to be found. I'm going to see how lond time passes before they notice. I told my daughter to feed the bird three days ago, there is no food or water in the dish :wacko:

Oh That is too bad about the bird!!!

My daughter tends to be lazy at home. I feel like she is so rude to me to. We often argue and she is only 5 years old. My mother says we are so much alike! :-) She will be 6 on the 20th of this month. Sometimes I dont know what to do or say to get her to be a better kid. Then.... I go to a parent teacher conference (she is in K) and her teacher tells me what a wonderful, nice, kind and helpful person she is. It makes me happy to know she hears the things I try to teach her!

I am sure you are doing a woderful job, I think we all may let our kids get away with too much at home. I know she has a more structured day at school. I am always looking for ways to let Tierra know consequences of being lazy. For instance if she leaves things out or on the floor... mommy only picks them up 1 time. And then they never have to be picked up again... cause mommy throws it away. That works most of the time. She is learning about responsibilty.

Maybe the bird's fate will each her a lesson about being lazy!?

Irie,

How is the weather in Maine today. I'll send you some of our 62 degree SUNSHINE we're having today :lol:

62! I am jealous!!!! The sun is out - that makes me happy! But it is cooooold! I got a cute little strapless dress from Old Navy in the mail this morning and I cannot wait to wear it! LOL Except I am so pasty white I need a good tan!

More snow coming this week.... :crying::crying::crying:

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Mawnin Gill,

U always a kill mi wid joke...u and di one KIMMY. I will be bring everything from the first time I started communicating until the PRESENT. Gill, u see the joke. My cousin ex-fiance went and did his physical.

NO Gurl, I 've been RUNNING all weekend!! STOP YUH DYAM LYING!!! HE DID NOT!!! Seriously, What is his issue!!!!! Please PM mi a picture of him!! I swear if his ### is there next Tuesday...that will be GREAT comic relief fuh mi!!! :lol::lol::lol::lol:

Bless,

Gill

P.S.- Thanks JG!!! I FEEL CRAZY!!!!!! Pray for me guys...pray that I git throught this week inna ONE Piece...wid ONE head still deh pon mi shoulders!!

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Hey there everyone,

I know it's been quite awhile....and thank you to those that have PM'd me to touch base, I truly apologize that I haven't responded.

Life, just has been ....crazy....as always. Five months of the thread was just way to much catching up on .. I'm sure there are loads of congratulations, sorrows and challenges.....never ever ever know which way our lives are going to go, especially in this craziness of the VISA journey.

First and foremost....Craig FINALLY moved out !!! It is a TOTAL blessing and was LONG overdue, but he HAS to stand on his own 2 feet "as a man" and be responsible, learn how to pay bills, work hard, etc etc etc. He has changed so incredibly much, I just can't deal anymore!!! TRUST ME I've compromised and those that know me, I have been VERY veeeeeery patient, but.............just could not live with him for one more day. We had a major issue come up in the beginning of Feb and I gave him an ultimatum ....get out or I will be nasty about getting you out !!!! I still think when he moved that "I" was going to give in, yeah right ....like that was ever going to happen !!!

So don't know where we are going to go from here......if anywhere. "I" am TOTALLY fine and so is my son!! better than ever. My son has made honor roll 2 quarters in a row and was "student of the month" last month. The weight of Craig's BS ####### has been lifted off of my (well, both of our) shoulders. No more bickering and fighting....is such a relief !!!

Well, it took forever...since last summer when we filed for AOS and after just sitting there in California since Nov with no touches or anything, I contacted the Senators office and then got an email this past Friday that his GC is on its way. He doesn't know and I'm not going to share that with him...yet.

My business has been extremely busy, which is a blessing as well.

We're in full swing with soccer and the start of this years season is just around the corner. Our coach likes to have 3 tournaments before the start of the season and they just had their 1st tournament in Virginia over the weekend.

Anyway, I hope all is well with everyone. If anyone needs to reach me, please email me instead of PMing..... because I don't get to come on here ... my email is up and running all of the time.

a-and-k-travel@verizon.net

OH and I finally (I know a travel agent and being in the travel industry for the past 17 1/2 yrs... I should have had one, but I never really needed to) but ....I got our (me and my sons) passports (in 8 days) and those arrived last week. I would really like to go to Jamaica for my birthday weekend....May 18th.... but we'll see.... I haven't been anywhere fun and exciting for almost 2 flippin years !!!

Take care everyone !

Love,

Kelly

Hey, Kel. Glad to hear from you.

:ot:

Ladies, (particularly the wives), how does your husband feel about birth control (and judging from the posts recently, I'm not sure how many folx this really applies too!! :lol::lol::lol: ). I ask because my husband confuses me on his thoughts. On the one hand, he says to me that he wants us to wait to have children until he is able to be here and he has a job (smart man...I agree 1000%). A couple of days later, he can't seem to understand why I have to take the birth control pill---he will say something to the effect of--"we're married now, so you don't need to take it". I try to remind him that we both agreed that we would wait so that he can experience every moment of pregnancy and parenthood together (the good and the bad!!) Sometimes the explanation works, sometimes it doesn't. I think that he gets a lot of questions from his friends (ask me why they know I'm on the pill!!?? :huh: ) I also think it may have something to do with the fact that some of his older friends are now new fathers, and its what he wants, it just can't be right now. I just find it frustrating because it turns into unecessary arguments...I'd much rather argue over something else--like why the RASSCLAT phone disconnects every 20 minutes or so!! :ranting::ranting:

Yaad men always try fe breed.

My husband and I talked about it and both want to wait til he is here. I don't want to be pregant by myself. I am already stressed enough by myself. He's made me promise to not let his child grow up without him. However, he has the males in his fam and friends yelling up and down bout when he gwaan breed me. :angry: So maybe your hubby is getting pressure from some folks. It seems ...to me...that having babies is like some status symbol in JA. Don't matter if yuh married and take care of the pickney just to "breed" is more than enough to flex your 'man' muscle. That may be why he goes back and forth on his decision. Just keep reminding him about your decision you 2 made and how hard and stressful it could be on you to take care and have a baby by yourself. Lawd then mention poor lil Kimmy and how hard her pregnancy has been these past weeks. I wouldn't know what to do with myself if I was that sick and alone too! That should make him understand that its also a health and safety issue for you to be pregnant when you have someone around who can take care of you if you need it. :blush:

I would not do well with my husband putting pressure on me because the people around him are hounding him to breed. No, I wouldn't do well with that at all.

I don't like that team 'breed", like I'm sort of animal :blink: . He dosen't like the fact I have BC but understands it was ness. in the begining because we were not settled. He has asked me to remove it as mentioned before, but I'm not ready. Many of his friends back home..men and women told me they don't beleive in BC. His friends wife had 5 kids. I think she was in her late fourties and said the pregnacy was natural if it was meant to happen she should let it happen. I agree but it will happen when I say it will happen this time :blush: I agree he should as least wait until he's here for support. It's a shame they depend on thier seed as a sign of 'man hood" my husband as never surmised as much, but did mention my removing it after a conversation about my X saying I'd bet he'll fip after he breeds" :blink:

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Mawnin Gill,

U always a kill mi wid joke...u and di one KIMMY. I will be bring everything from the first time I started communicating until the PRESENT. Gill, u see the joke. My cousin ex-fiance went and did his physical.

NO Gurl, I 've been RUNNING all weekend!! STOP YUH DYAM LYING!!! HE DID NOT!!! Seriously, What is his issue!!!!! Please PM mi a picture of him!! I swear if his ### is there next Tuesday...that will be GREAT comic relief fuh mi!!! :lol::lol::lol::lol:

Bless,

Gill

P.S.- Thanks JG!!! I FEEL CRAZY!!!!!! Pray for me guys...pray that I git throught this week inna ONE Piece...wid ONE head still deh pon mi shoulders!!

I'll see if my cousin will send me a picuture (probably not)...yes girl, HE WENT TO THE PHYSICAL. HE WENT AND DID HIS PHYSICAL...then called left a message to ask what he should do next... :lol: Girl that M#(*&$#*&k. He's been calling her non-stop since Friday. Gill, I guarantee you that he will SHOW up, because he is so pressed to come up here. I think because she has forgiven him in the past, he's thinking she'll do it this time and she's spent so much $$$$. Sarry fi im...like NANNY and Jengs said...I wish I could be a damn FLY on the wall on 3/11.

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....when it hurts to look back and you're scared to look ahead LOOK beside you and I'll be there.....

There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore... and who always will.

So, don't worry about people from your past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future.

6002239865101_1_27247687.jpg (cost of the IMMIGRATION PROCESS)

tep aff a mi name

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Nothing is taken out of her pay :(

She lives right beside where she works, so no transportation costs.

She says initially the landlord was trying to charge $250 each and there was a big ruckus so it's now $150 each. She said she knows that they are underpaid and the landlord is in league with the company she works for, but she says nobody will report them as they want the money.

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To the mothers: anyone have children who have good leadership/responsibility qualities? I'm sure I'm doing an adequate job, but I wish my daughter wasn't so lazy. I was wondering to develope these qualities in your children?

BTW the cat ate our bird. The bird will get out of the cage when it was hungry they have been home an entire day and have not even noticed the bird is missing. There were feathers all over the floor and the bird is no wear to be found. I'm going to see how lond time passes before they notice. I told my daughter to feed the bird three days ago, there is no food or water in the dish :wacko:

Oh That is too bad about the bird!!!

My daughter tends to be lazy at home. I feel like she is so rude to me to. We often argue and she is only 5 years old. My mother says we are so much alike! :-) She will be 6 on the 20th of this month. Sometimes I dont know what to do or say to get her to be a better kid. Then.... I go to a parent teacher conference (she is in K) and her teacher tells me what a wonderful, nice, kind and helpful person she is. It makes me happy to know she hears the things I try to teach her!

I am sure you are doing a woderful job, I think we all may let our kids get away with too much at home. I know she has a more structured day at school. I am always looking for ways to let Tierra know consequences of being lazy. For instance if she leaves things out or on the floor... mommy only picks them up 1 time. And then they never have to be picked up again... cause mommy throws it away. That works most of the time. She is learning about responsibilty.

Maybe the bird's fate will each her a lesson about being lazy!?

Irie,

How is the weather in Maine today. I'll send you some of our 62 degree SUNSHINE we're having today :lol:

We hit 78 degrees yesterday after upper 60's Saturday. It was Bea---U---T---ful!

Today, it's raining. After this rain will come sleet and then 2-6 inches of snow! Unbelievable! I swear I feel this winter is never going to end!!!!!

I know it was wonderful.....Now, today the high is only 32 :blink:

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Cases complete!Enjoying life!!

PM me if you have questions

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Hey there everyone,

I know it's been quite awhile....and thank you to those that have PM'd me to touch base, I truly apologize that I haven't responded.

Life, just has been ....crazy....as always. Five months of the thread was just way to much catching up on .. I'm sure there are loads of congratulations, sorrows and challenges.....never ever ever know which way our lives are going to go, especially in this craziness of the VISA journey.

First and foremost....Craig FINALLY moved out !!! It is a TOTAL blessing and was LONG overdue, but he HAS to stand on his own 2 feet "as a man" and be responsible, learn how to pay bills, work hard, etc etc etc. He has changed so incredibly much, I just can't deal anymore!!! TRUST ME I've compromised and those that know me, I have been VERY veeeeeery patient, but.............just could not live with him for one more day. We had a major issue come up in the beginning of Feb and I gave him an ultimatum ....get out or I will be nasty about getting you out !!!! I still think when he moved that "I" was going to give in, yeah right ....like that was ever going to happen !!!

So don't know where we are going to go from here......if anywhere. "I" am TOTALLY fine and so is my son!! better than ever. My son has made honor roll 2 quarters in a row and was "student of the month" last month. The weight of Craig's BS ####### has been lifted off of my (well, both of our) shoulders. No more bickering and fighting....is such a relief !!!

Well, it took forever...since last summer when we filed for AOS and after just sitting there in California since Nov with no touches or anything, I contacted the Senators office and then got an email this past Friday that his GC is on its way. He doesn't know and I'm not going to share that with him...yet.

My business has been extremely busy, which is a blessing as well.

We're in full swing with soccer and the start of this years season is just around the corner. Our coach likes to have 3 tournaments before the start of the season and they just had their 1st tournament in Virginia over the weekend.

Anyway, I hope all is well with everyone. If anyone needs to reach me, please email me instead of PMing..... because I don't get to come on here ... my email is up and running all of the time.

a-and-k-travel@verizon.net

OH and I finally (I know a travel agent and being in the travel industry for the past 17 1/2 yrs... I should have had one, but I never really needed to) but ....I got our (me and my sons) passports (in 8 days) and those arrived last week. I would really like to go to Jamaica for my birthday weekend....May 18th.... but we'll see.... I haven't been anywhere fun and exciting for almost 2 flippin years !!!

Take care everyone !

Love,

Kelly

Hey, Kel. Glad to hear from you.

:ot:

Ladies, (particularly the wives), how does your husband feel about birth control (and judging from the posts recently, I'm not sure how many folx this really applies too!! :lol::lol::lol: ). I ask because my husband confuses me on his thoughts. On the one hand, he says to me that he wants us to wait to have children until he is able to be here and he has a job (smart man...I agree 1000%). A couple of days later, he can't seem to understand why I have to take the birth control pill---he will say something to the effect of--"we're married now, so you don't need to take it". I try to remind him that we both agreed that we would wait so that he can experience every moment of pregnancy and parenthood together (the good and the bad!!) Sometimes the explanation works, sometimes it doesn't. I think that he gets a lot of questions from his friends (ask me why they know I'm on the pill!!?? :huh: ) I also think it may have something to do with the fact that some of his older friends are now new fathers, and its what he wants, it just can't be right now. I just find it frustrating because it turns into unecessary arguments...I'd much rather argue over something else--like why the RASSCLAT phone disconnects every 20 minutes or so!! :ranting::ranting:

Yaad men always try fe breed.

My husband and I talked about it and both want to wait til he is here. I don't want to be pregant by myself. I am already stressed enough by myself. He's made me promise to not let his child grow up without him. However, he has the males in his fam and friends yelling up and down bout when he gwaan breed me. :angry: So maybe your hubby is getting pressure from some folks. It seems ...to me...that having babies is like some status symbol in JA. Don't matter if yuh married and take care of the pickney just to "breed" is more than enough to flex your 'man' muscle. That may be why he goes back and forth on his decision. Just keep reminding him about your decision you 2 made and how hard and stressful it could be on you to take care and have a baby by yourself. Lawd then mention poor lil Kimmy and how hard her pregnancy has been these past weeks. I wouldn't know what to do with myself if I was that sick and alone too! That should make him understand that its also a health and safety issue for you to be pregnant when you have someone around who can take care of you if you need it. :blush:

I would not do well with my husband putting pressure on me because the people around him are hounding him to breed. No, I wouldn't do well with that at all.

I don't like that team 'breed", like I'm sort of animal :blink: . He dosen't like the fact I have BC but understands it was ness. in the begining because we were not settled. He has asked me to remove it as mentioned before, but I'm not ready. Many of his friends back home..men and women told me they don't beleive in BC. His friends wife had 5 kids. I think she was in her late fourties and said the pregnacy was natural if it was meant to happen she should let it happen. I agree but it will happen when I say it will happen this time :blush: I agree he should as least wait until he's here for support. It's a shame they depend on thier seed as a sign of 'man hood" my husband as never surmised as much, but did mention my removing it after a conversation about my X saying I'd bet he'll fip after he breeds" :blink:

that term has always bothered me...just like BABY MAMMA OR BABY MOTHER. I just don't like it. I always correct men when they try to introduce their woman as their BABY MOTHER.

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Mawning Fam,

I hope everyone is doing well!!! JAEngy...you are ON POINT wid yuh son Chica!! That's exactly how I wouldda handle it! I think he is just having adjustment issues...give him a likkle while fi sttle in! He's had a lot of changes the last year! Tek time Chica and above all PRAY!!! He will be fine!

Luvtravlin...GURL, I AM SO DYAM HAPPY TO HEAR SEH YUH FINALLY GIT DAT DEH MONKEY OFF YOUR BACK!!!!

Ok, Prior K1 filers...QUESTION :ot: -

How many months of phone bills did you take with you to the interview...My initial petition contained ALL of my cell phone bills from Nov.2006-July.2007...Do you think from July 2007-present should be sufficient evidence?

Thanks ladies and have a good day Everyone!!!

As always...LOVE YA (L)(L)(L)(L) ,

Gill

P.S.- Lawny...your Meez is cracking me UP!!!! I guess that's one hairstyle that could work if you continue to be follically challenged! :lol:

Yes, Gil. That should be more then enough.

Ditto I had more than that, they didn't even look at it....

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Hey My Yardie Sistren;

How are you all doing? Got back from West Virginia last night and the first thing I did after unpacking and showering is log on and caught up with all I missed since Friday. You guys are really a hoot, but I got my medicine that I missed for three days. I was up till 2am reading. Boy, you guys can chat. I love it though, it keeps me entertained.

I hope all is doing well.

Lawny, your NAO2 soon forward. How is your shoulder?

Kimmie, I hope your nausea resolves itself without medicine.

Gill, I can get over how exciting it must be for you preping for your trip. Good luck.

Tonisha, you go girl. Congrats again on getting such a fast interview date.

English, my dear, you did the right thing by your son. I know it irks you but try not to hit him.

If I left antone out, just take a great big hug and lots of smoochies from me.

Love you all.

Claire

MAWNIN my BEAUTIFUL SISTAHS....

Dear Lord, please watch over us as we face another week and as we go through our daily routines. Please guide us with your love and strength, dear Lord and this we pray, Amen.

Hope ya'll have a blessed week.

Come onnnnnn NOA2

Thank you for that prayer, Lawny :thumbs::thumbs:

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Mawnin Gill,

U always a kill mi wid joke...u and di one KIMMY. I will be bring everything from the first time I started communicating until the PRESENT. Gill, u see the joke. My cousin ex-fiance went and did his physical.

NO Gurl, I 've been RUNNING all weekend!! STOP YUH DYAM LYING!!! HE DID NOT!!! Seriously, What is his issue!!!!! Please PM mi a picture of him!! I swear if his ### is there next Tuesday...that will be GREAT comic relief fuh mi!!! :lol::lol::lol::lol:

Bless,

Gill

P.S.- Thanks JG!!! I FEEL CRAZY!!!!!! Pray for me guys...pray that I git throught this week inna ONE Piece...wid ONE head still deh pon mi shoulders!!

Been there, done that, and survived. You will be just fine.

Life's just a crazy ride on a run away train

You can't go back for what you've missed

So make it count, hold on tight find a way to make it right

You only get one trip

So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast

You only get one trip

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Hey My Yardie Sistren;

How are you all doing? Got back from West Virginia last night and the first thing I did after unpacking and showering is log on and caught up with all I missed since Friday. You guys are really a hoot, but I got my medicine that I missed for three days. I was up till 2am reading. Boy, you guys can chat. I love it though, it keeps me entertained.

I hope all is doing well.

Lawny, your NAO2 soon forward. How is your shoulder?

Kimmie, I hope your nausea resolves itself without medicine.

Gill, I can get over how exciting it must be for you preping for your trip. Good luck.

Tonisha, you go girl. Congrats again on getting such a fast interview date.

English, my dear, you did the right thing by your son. I know it irks you but try not to hit him.

If I left antone out, just take a great big hug and lots of smoochies from me.

Love you all.

Claire

MAWNIN my BEAUTIFUL SISTAHS....

Dear Lord, please watch over us as we face another week and as we go through our daily routines. Please guide us with your love and strength, dear Lord and this we pray, Amen.

Hope ya'll have a blessed week.

Come onnnnnn NOA2

Thank you for that prayer, Lawny :thumbs::thumbs:

Anytime Claire...mi just deyah a wait. I'm so happy for Gill and Tonisha.

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There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore... and who always will.

So, don't worry about people from your past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future.

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