Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)

[Forever Young 1]

i sorry still ... i keep gettin' invited to dis t'read, but i come in only so often. why? it kinda overwhelming for me. so much going on, and i can't keep up.

anywho, i just wanted you to know still.

i still struggling with my processing. The NOA2 arrived in the mail here today and the package from Kingston with our case number and instructions arrived at my parents today also. So, it's time for me to get my behind back to Kingston and start the running around.

/sigh

Just thought I'd keep you all updated.

Sorry I haven't participated in the ongoing discussion.

YUSH

CONGRATS SCOTT & CAMILLE!!!

Many blessings for a speedy journey!

Gill

Edited February 28, 2008 by Deyoungting

[Forever Young 1]

where everybody?

lol, your meez is cute but she looks like she NEEDS to pee!

She's doin a yoga pose...it doesn't show all of it.

Bwoy, Brownie...yuh keep yuh likkle Meez busy eh? Yuh a tek cyara har good! She get a nap, social activism, laughed a likkle...now she getttin' her workout in!

,

Gill

[brownnskinn 0]

Really, and this is just my belief-n If you don't have a family history of any thing major. Like sickle cell for instance. I don't really see the need for genetic testing. We had this bid discussion about it in class the other day. There are soo many things that cause birth defects, it's unreal. I can't believe he suggested it just because of your age. I've seen many older women have healthy babies. CONGRATS!!!

where everybody?

lol, your meez is cute but she looks like she NEEDS to pee!

She's doin a yoga pose...it doesn't show all of it.

Bwoy, Brownie...yuh keep yuh likkle Meez busy eh? Yuh a tek cyara har good! She get a nap, social activism, laughed a likkle...now she getttin' her workout in!

,

Gill

yep it's kinda fun..

nite all. She bout to get her rooks on

[Jengles 0]

mr jengles will not do laundry, but mi don't mind doing it. It's the putting away I can't stand. He will do everything else around the house.

boy i had to think hard about the one thing it was that i can't stand, because he's in J.Al, it seems I amost had a bad memory.

when he brushes his teeth, he brushes his tongue and makes the most g_d aweful sounds, at first i used to think the man was choking, just think cat with hairball. that i can't stand

what i love about him the most is the effort he's made since he been here, in being the man we as a family need him to be. the things that he does may seem little to some, but make a big difference in the quality of our life as a family. some of it goes totally against his idea of what men do, but he saw the need. by him doing these things with little complaint, (me not going to say the man didn't have anything to say), it shows me how much he loves me.

thanks Jaenglish, for this topic, having to think about what i love about him the most made me think about some things. I'm going to have to start being a little big nicer to mr jengles. lol

[Forever Young 1]

Great topics I'll post my experince soon.

But I have question - Is there anything your SO won't do in the house?

Damien and I share the housework. We both clean and do our own laundry. I do majority of the cooking. My daughter does the dishes. However, the first year we lived together he would get so upset when I asked him to take the trash out. I mean we would get into huge drag out fights over the trash....our neighbors knocked on the door once because we were too loud. It wasn't like I woke him up in the middle of the night to take it out or anything like that. He would simply get upset because I asked him....the nerve of me.

be right back...

Chris will do anything in the house he does not mind. He washes clothes, dishes, cooks straightens up stuff. However when he first got here he had an issue with washing our clothes together and also mention gettin his own towels/wash clothes i just laughed on that note but after we went to my moms and he saw they all wash their clothes together, he was like i guess its ok lol. I admit i did kinda get mad i said are ur clothes too good to wash with mine? So what is with the separate washing of men and womens clothes anyone know?

We had the same isssue with washing the clothes....I just laugh too. He's over it now. Thank G-d. My husband still uses that rag of a towel he brought ova from JA. I thought I threw it away but it keeps comin back

lol thats cute. lol...i remember havin this baby blanket i could not part with i wonder where it is lol it had clowns on speakin of babies im havin one im 6 weeks and 2 days ! pray for me guys i got those fibroids but dr said that good thing they are on the outside of my uterus but i have 3 big ones. Did any of u have the genetic testing to see if there are any deffects? Dr says cuz of my age theres a chance it could have deffects

OMGoodness JA-JA!!!

That's wonderful news!!! CONGRATS TO YOU & CHRIS!!!!I had testing for my eldest...but at 5 months...the needle in the womb thing (I can't memba deh name right now) Everything came back OK

MANY MANY BLESSINGS TO YOU & CHRIS!!!

Love ya,

Gill

Really, and this is just my belief-n If you don't have a family history of any thing major. Like sickle cell for instance. I don't really see the need for genetic testing. We had this bid discussion about it in class the other day. There are soo many things that cause birth defects, it's unreal. I can't believe he suggested it just because of your age. I've seen many older women have healthy babies. CONGRATS!!!

where everybody?

lol, your meez is cute but she looks like she NEEDS to pee!

She's doin a yoga pose...it doesn't show all of it.

Bwoy, Brownie...yuh keep yuh likkle Meez busy eh? Yuh a tek cyara har good! She get a nap, social activism, laughed a likkle...now she getttin' her workout in!

,

Gill

yep it's kinda fun..

nite all. She bout to get her rooks on

No Meez fuh dat one...yet!

[Marie876 0]

Wow di tread have nuff ppl in tonite so mi come outta mi duppy status lol.

JALove - Congrats girl! What a blessing

Classy - Yuh meez hot bout she inna shawt skirt! lol

[SupportOAFJF 0]

good evening everyone....wow lots of talking this afternoon...

was at my nephews b-ball game tonight...keep in mind these are 8-9 year olds...blows my mind how political these games are....

feeling better this evening...i hope i can get better sleep tonight!!

Kimmy how are you doing with keeping things down?

oh some intersting info about being left handed...i heard awhile ago that researchers think that if you are left handed that when you were in the womb at one time you may have had a twin..

ooonuh si mi missin today...bwoy Shaun..today was BAD no rass...i bawled my eyes out...NOTHING stayed down..mi girl fren seh u nah go di doc..i'm like wah him a go do gimme meds wah mi no waan tek.... it's bad..I REALLY PRAY THAT NO ONE EVER HAS TO GO THRU THIS...

[SupportOAFJF 0]

good evening everyone....wow lots of talking this afternoon...

was at my nephews b-ball game tonight...keep in mind these are 8-9 year olds...blows my mind how political these games are....

feeling better this evening...i hope i can get better sleep tonight!!

Kimmy how are you doing with keeping things down?

oh some intersting info about being left handed...i heard awhile ago that researchers think that if you are left handed that when you were in the womb at one time you may have had a twin..

hmm..a patient explained to me that it was said that lefties were made out of love...something she did a seh it mek sense but now mi figet it so neva mind

[classychic77 0]

Wow di tread have nuff ppl in tonite so mi come outta mi duppy status lol.

JALove - Congrats girl! What a blessing

Classy - Yuh meez hot bout she inna shawt skirt! lol

Thanks! Thats the one thing I show off on my body. I love short skirts, I'm 5 11 and have great legs

I have some suggestions for the makers of Meez

1) You need to make a bigger girl, I'm still too skinny

2) Bigger chest sizes

3) and a lil rooksin for our hot girls, lol

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Great topics I'll post my experince soon.

But I have question - Is there anything your SO won't do in the house?

Damien and I share the housework. We both clean and do our own laundry. I do majority of the cooking. My daughter does the dishes. However, the first year we lived together he would get so upset when I asked him to take the trash out. I mean we would get into huge drag out fights over the trash....our neighbors knocked on the door once because we were too loud. It wasn't like I woke him up in the middle of the night to take it out or anything like that. He would simply get upset because I asked him....the nerve of me.

be right back...

Chris will do anything in the house he does not mind. He washes clothes, dishes, cooks straightens up stuff. However when he first got here he had an issue with washing our clothes together and also mention gettin his own towels/wash clothes i just laughed on that note but after we went to my moms and he saw they all wash their clothes together, he was like i guess its ok lol. I admit i did kinda get mad i said are ur clothes too good to wash with mine? So what is with the separate washing of men and womens clothes anyone know?

We had the same isssue with washing the clothes....I just laugh too. He's over it now. Thank G-d. My husband still uses that rag of a towel he brought ova from JA. I thought I threw it away but it keeps comin back

MINE TOO !!!..he will not throw it away..and when he came he had a brand new pack of rag waiting for him..weird !

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Great topics I'll post my experince soon.

But I have question - Is there anything your SO won't do in the house?

Damien and I share the housework. We both clean and do our own laundry. I do majority of the cooking. My daughter does the dishes. However, the first year we lived together he would get so upset when I asked him to take the trash out. I mean we would get into huge drag out fights over the trash....our neighbors knocked on the door once because we were too loud. It wasn't like I woke him up in the middle of the night to take it out or anything like that. He would simply get upset because I asked him....the nerve of me.

be right back...

Chris will do anything in the house he does not mind. He washes clothes, dishes, cooks straightens up stuff. However when he first got here he had an issue with washing our clothes together and also mention gettin his own towels/wash clothes i just laughed on that note but after we went to my moms and he saw they all wash their clothes together, he was like i guess its ok lol. I admit i did kinda get mad i said are ur clothes too good to wash with mine? So what is with the separate washing of men and womens clothes anyone know?

We had the same isssue with washing the clothes....I just laugh too. He's over it now. Thank G-d. My husband still uses that rag of a towel he brought ova from JA. I thought I threw it away but it keeps comin back

lol thats cute. lol...i remember havin this baby blanket i could not part with i wonder where it is lol it had clowns on speakin of babies im havin one im 6 weeks and 2 days ! pray for me guys i got those fibroids but dr said that good thing they are on the outside of my uterus but i have 3 big ones. Did any of u have the genetic testing to see if there are any deffects? Dr says cuz of my age theres a chance it could have deffects

ahhaayeah yeah Gill sorry she told ..welcome to the club...what's ur due date Kim ? if u no mind how old u be so ? i didn't have any testing done with Kimora and Dr ask mi same ting again fi dis one and mi a ponder....i'll proly only do the down syndrome test

[SweetSugahDumplin 0]

Great topics I'll post my experince soon.

But I have question - Is there anything your SO won't do in the house?

Damien and I share the housework. We both clean and do our own laundry. I do majority of the cooking. My daughter does the dishes. However, the first year we lived together he would get so upset when I asked him to take the trash out. I mean we would get into huge drag out fights over the trash....our neighbors knocked on the door once because we were too loud. It wasn't like I woke him up in the middle of the night to take it out or anything like that. He would simply get upset because I asked him....the nerve of me.

be right back...

Chris will do anything in the house he does not mind. He washes clothes, dishes, cooks straightens up stuff. However when he first got here he had an issue with washing our clothes together and also mention gettin his own towels/wash clothes i just laughed on that note but after we went to my moms and he saw they all wash their clothes together, he was like i guess its ok lol. I admit i did kinda get mad i said are ur clothes too good to wash with mine? So what is with the separate washing of men and womens clothes anyone know?

We had the same isssue with washing the clothes....I just laugh too. He's over it now. Thank G-d. My husband still uses that rag of a towel he brought ova from JA. I thought I threw it away but it keeps comin back

lol thats cute. lol...i remember havin this baby blanket i could not part with i wonder where it is lol it had clowns on speakin of babies im havin one im 6 weeks and 2 days ! pray for me guys i got those fibroids but dr said that good thing they are on the outside of my uterus but i have 3 big ones. Did any of u have the genetic testing to see if there are any deffects? Dr says cuz of my age theres a chance it could have deffects

ahhaayeah yeah Gill sorry she told ..welcome to the club...what's ur due date Kim ? if u no mind how old u be so ? i didn't have any testing done with Kimora and Dr ask mi same ting again fi dis one and mi a ponder....i'll proly only do the down syndrome test

Im 38... Due date is supposed to be oct 18... ok today i got bad news boss says i cant move to tx unless i find a tx person to swap places with me so here i go bawling at work all these thoughts come to my head of how in the ####### im do this all one bedroom apt, 1565 a month one car chris no license we broke live paycheck to paycheck oh boy what im do i jsut see more expenses coming our way will need another car/insurance/75 bucks for another parkin space i know ead will soon come we did biometrics today but wow and if we move to cheaper place in jersey no guarantee what that place will be like the cheaper places i have looked at i would sleep wid one eye open i just ready to go i want a nice settle environment. I cant afford a home here!!! calgon take me awaaayyyyy....

[SweetSugahDumplin 0]

oh yeah and whats the cost of daycare? is that like 2-300 a week i have no clue! im not ready to leave my job but i may have to to get to a cheaper place. Maybe if i start posting out they will work something out for me, they manage to work wonders for others so why cant they for me.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

AWWW....kIM GIRL ur head is gonna go crazy right now..u have 9mths...Chris soon get work permit and can mek things happen..God is with you so ...look to him don't believe u made these decisions HE did and HE will not leave you alone no matter how hard it gets. If uever si weh wi lived in JA before we moved to portmore one shack everytime i go visit my granny i say WOW..but 4 kids and 2 parents and trust mi girl it worked we ate everyday went to school unless it's a storm and we had clothes mi nah talk no foolishness either...AND THANKS BE TO GOD HE DIDN'T FORGET US NOT ONE DAY...so u better stop it and let GOD....wait til Gill come fi preach to yuh wid har emotional self...

YOU WILL BE JUST FINE !!!!

BY THE WAY U DON'T LOOK A DEAY OVER 25..yuh look good...my due dat eis september 25th..but who know's Kimora was October 7th and she came september 2nd

Edited February 28, 2008 by kimmykashi

[classychic77 0]

Great topics I'll post my experince soon.

But I have question - Is there anything your SO won't do in the house?

Damien and I share the housework. We both clean and do our own laundry. I do majority of the cooking. My daughter does the dishes. However, the first year we lived together he would get so upset when I asked him to take the trash out. I mean we would get into huge drag out fights over the trash....our neighbors knocked on the door once because we were too loud. It wasn't like I woke him up in the middle of the night to take it out or anything like that. He would simply get upset because I asked him....the nerve of me.

be right back...

Chris will do anything in the house he does not mind. He washes clothes, dishes, cooks straightens up stuff. However when he first got here he had an issue with washing our clothes together and also mention gettin his own towels/wash clothes i just laughed on that note but after we went to my moms and he saw they all wash their clothes together, he was like i guess its ok lol. I admit i did kinda get mad i said are ur clothes too good to wash with mine? So what is with the separate washing of men and womens clothes anyone know?

We had the same isssue with washing the clothes....I just laugh too. He's over it now. Thank G-d. My husband still uses that rag of a towel he brought ova from JA. I thought I threw it away but it keeps comin back

lol thats cute. lol...i remember havin this baby blanket i could not part with i wonder where it is lol it had clowns on speakin of babies im havin one im 6 weeks and 2 days ! pray for me guys i got those fibroids but dr said that good thing they are on the outside of my uterus but i have 3 big ones. Did any of u have the genetic testing to see if there are any deffects? Dr says cuz of my age theres a chance it could have deffects

ahhaayeah yeah Gill sorry she told ..welcome to the club...what's ur due date Kim ? if u no mind how old u be so ? i didn't have any testing done with Kimora and Dr ask mi same ting again fi dis one and mi a ponder....i'll proly only do the down syndrome test

Im 38... Due date is supposed to be oct 18... ok today i got bad news boss says i cant move to tx unless i find a tx person to swap places with me so here i go bawling at work all these thoughts come to my head of how in the ####### im do this all one bedroom apt, 1565 a month one car chris no license we broke live paycheck to paycheck oh boy what im do i jsut see more expenses coming our way will need another car/insurance/75 bucks for another parkin space i know ead will soon come we did biometrics today but wow and if we move to cheaper place in jersey no guarantee what that place will be like the cheaper places i have looked at i would sleep wid one eye open i just ready to go i want a nice settle environment. I cant afford a home here!!! calgon take me awaaayyyyy....

Awww hun it will all work out! We always find a way. God only gives you what you can handle.