Failed Relationship

[VNP 0]

Please advise on what to do if the relationship failed prior to AOS. My wife is already here in the states but I am planning on sending her back home. Who do i notify?

Edited April 17, 2006 by VNP

[babybunny 2]

she is here on K-3?

she has to leave once the divorce is final. thats all I know about that.

[iceyspots 0]

[dmartmar 1]

We need more info. before we can give you any advice.

What('s) went/going on?

[meauxna 15]

We need more info. before we can give you any advice.

What('s) went/going on?

What difference would the juicy details make?

If the K-3 has not completed her AOS, and they divorce, she has no basis to stay.

[gimygirl 0]

Please advise on what to do if the relationship failed prior to AOS. My wife is already here in the states but I am planning on sending her back home. Who do i notify?

i would first notify your wife that you are buying tickets so she can return home!

[Euro 3]

Please advise on what to do if the relationship failed prior to AOS. My wife is already here in the states but I am planning on sending her back home. Who do i notify?

i would first notify your wife that you are buying tickets so she can return home!

[easycome00 0]

my advice is to try to fix it and try to start over and then if u failed again then tell her bye bye

[yogib37 3]

Please advise on what to do if the relationship failed prior to AOS. My wife is already here in the states but I am planning on sending her back home. Who do i notify?

were you married in the Philippines? Do you know the Philippines Law concerning Divorce?

Just in case you dont, Divorce in the Philippines is agaist the law. If you want to you have to get a allnument and that is about $4K or more and can take about 5-10 yrs to complete. You know your soon to be ex wife wont ever be allowed to get married again now until the alimument is final? I hope you will think before making it final. I just pray you are not going to make her future dismial and hard and sad.

I suggest that you work things out. Filpina's are great wifes and they are very dedicated to their husbands.

You need to tell us more so we can help you and best advice you what is best for both of you

To be honest, It is sad and it is brothering me that this marriage is failing..I hope you can work it out, talk to a priest.

Take care

[john_and_marlene 162]

Please advise on what to do if the relationship failed prior to AOS. My wife is already here in the states but I am planning on sending her back home. Who do i notify?

were you married in the Philippines? Do you know the Philippines Law concerning Divorce?

Just in case you dont, Divorce in the Philippines is agaist the law. If you want to you have to get a allnument and that is about $4K or more and can take about 5-10 yrs to complete. You know your soon to be ex wife wont ever be allowed to get married again now until the alimument is final? I hope you will think before making it final. I just pray you are not going to make her future dismial and hard and sad.

I suggest that you work things out. Filpina's are great wifes and they are very dedicated to their husbands.

You need to tell us more so we can help you and best advice you what is best for both of you

To be honest, It is sad and it is brothering me that this marriage is failing..I hope you can work it out, talk to a priest.

Take care

If a divorce is filed by the USC spouse, then the Philippines government will recognize the divorce and she will be allowed to remarry, even in the Philippines, without an annulment.

[yogib37 3]

Please advise on what to do if the relationship failed prior to AOS. My wife is already here in the states but I am planning on sending her back home. Who do i notify?

were you married in the Philippines? Do you know the Philippines Law concerning Divorce?

Just in case you dont, Divorce in the Philippines is agaist the law. If you want to you have to get a allnument and that is about $4K or more and can take about 5-10 yrs to complete. You know your soon to be ex wife wont ever be allowed to get married again now until the alimument is final? I hope you will think before making it final. I just pray you are not going to make her future dismial and hard and sad.

I suggest that you work things out. Filpina's are great wifes and they are very dedicated to their husbands.

You need to tell us more so we can help you and best advice you what is best for both of you

To be honest, It is sad and it is brothering me that this marriage is failing..I hope you can work it out, talk to a priest.

Take care

If a divorce is filed by the USC spouse, then the Philippines government will recognize the divorce and she will be allowed to remarry, even in the Philippines, without an annulment.

can you show me where that law is. Cause my ex wife and I divorce also and she is filpina and we got married in the Philippines.. I would like to know that so I can tell her..

take care

[CarolineM 0]

ugh was going to type something but I guess it's too mean.

ugh never mind. This post bothers me.

Edited April 18, 2006 by karo112

[john_and_marlene 162]

Please advise on what to do if the relationship failed prior to AOS. My wife is already here in the states but I am planning on sending her back home. Who do i notify?

were you married in the Philippines? Do you know the Philippines Law concerning Divorce?

Just in case you dont, Divorce in the Philippines is agaist the law. If you want to you have to get a allnument and that is about $4K or more and can take about 5-10 yrs to complete. You know your soon to be ex wife wont ever be allowed to get married again now until the alimument is final? I hope you will think before making it final. I just pray you are not going to make her future dismial and hard and sad.

I suggest that you work things out. Filpina's are great wifes and they are very dedicated to their husbands.

You need to tell us more so we can help you and best advice you what is best for both of you

To be honest, It is sad and it is brothering me that this marriage is failing..I hope you can work it out, talk to a priest.

Take care

If a divorce is filed by the USC spouse, then the Philippines government will recognize the divorce and she will be allowed to remarry, even in the Philippines, without an annulment.

can you show me where that law is. Cause my ex wife and I divorce also and she is filpina and we got married in the Philippines.. I would like to know that so I can tell her..

take care

Philippine law (Article 26, paragraph (2), of the Family Code).

[Kajikit 65]

ugh was going to type something but I guess it's too mean.

ugh never mind. This post bothers me.

The language of it bothers me too 'planning on sending her home'... she's not a package to mark 'return to sender' if you don't want it any more.

To the Original Poster, I REALLY hope you have considered all your options here before divorcing your wife. She turned her life upside down for you and moved eleven thousand miles on the hope of a future... and at the time you wanted her. What went wrong? Marriage is a process, not a one-time event. Every marriage has rough patches, and an international marriage can have even more difficulty because you have to renegotiate your relationship more than once... of course there are 'deal breakers' like drugs or affairs or violence or finding out that you were only being used instead of being loved... I'm sorry if you have had something like that going on.

If you really want to divorce your wife and not do AOS she'll have to leave the country once you are legally divorced. The only legal reason she had to be here was her marriage to you. So file the paperwork and buy her a plane ticket home...

[ariel_2005 0]

ugh was going to type something but I guess it's too mean.

ugh never mind. This post bothers me.

The language of it bothers me too 'planning on sending her home'... she's not a package to mark 'return to sender' if you don't want it any more.

i was gonna say exactly the same thing and totally agree with you..... soooo wrong to consider your partner "a packeage" ....wrong ....