Is this all worth it?

[boardashell_2000 0]

Are you asking us if you should try to steal your ex back from his current fiancee?

Sounds like she is dsperate for a man.

RUDE! WHY oh why does this always have to happen...For once can't people just HELP! Let the rain come down on me from you and all your self-righteous followers..I don't care... I have been a member here for a while and don't normally get "into it" but that was so uncalled for...and if you and the "others" are as predictable as I think..I will just sit back, wait and let the fun begin! To the OP...follow your heart.... as others have said this process is long and can be quite taxing..if you truly love your man then it will all be worth it! If you have any doubts that would make it through this then i would reevaluate your situation.

[ya falaha! 0]

Read the OP's post again. She's asking if she should try to get her ex back because he doesn't require travel or "papers". I wasn't being rude, I was trying to clarify if that is really what she was asking. The current SO is almost an afterthought.

Are you asking us if you should try to steal your ex back from his current fiancee?

Sounds like she is dsperate for a man.

RUDE! WHY oh why does this always have to happen...For once can't people just HELP! Let the rain come down on me from you and all your self-righteous followers..I don't care... I have been a member here for a while and don't normally get "into it" but that was so uncalled for...and if you and the "others" are as predictable as I think..I will just sit back, wait and let the fun begin! To the OP...follow your heart.... as others have said this process is long and can be quite taxing..if you truly love your man then it will all be worth it! If you have any doubts that would make it through this then i would reevaluate your situation.

[♥JP♥ 5]

I don't think that was directed at your post.

Read the OP's post again. She's asking if she should try to get her ex back because he doesn't require travel or "papers". I wasn't being rude, I was trying to clarify if that is really what she was asking. The current SO is almost an afterthought.

Are you asking us if you should try to steal your ex back from his current fiancee?

Sounds like she is dsperate for a man.

RUDE! WHY oh why does this always have to happen...For once can't people just HELP! Let the rain come down on me from you and all your self-righteous followers..I don't care... I have been a member here for a while and don't normally get "into it" but that was so uncalled for...and if you and the "others" are as predictable as I think..I will just sit back, wait and let the fun begin! To the OP...follow your heart.... as others have said this process is long and can be quite taxing..if you truly love your man then it will all be worth it! If you have any doubts that would make it through this then i would reevaluate your situation.

[chaishai 1]

Are you asking us if you should try to steal your ex back from his current fiancee?

Sounds like she is dsperate for a man.

i fail to see that.

I dont.... Well maybe she isnt desperate for a man, she has this "SO" but she sounds like she doesnt want to be without a man, and that is probably what she needs the most - to be alone for a while and straighten out her head. If the ex engaged that isnt an option and if you are second guessing the SO then SURELY dont bring him here......

[LaL 418]

This discussion has potential to go out in left field, please take care with words.

[sarah and hicham 3]

Read the OP's post again. She's asking if she should try to get her ex back because he doesn't require travel or "papers". I wasn't being rude, I was trying to clarify if that is really what she was asking. The current SO is almost an afterthought.

Are you asking us if you should try to steal your ex back from his current fiancee?

Sounds like she is dsperate for a man.

RUDE! WHY oh why does this always have to happen...For once can't people just HELP! Let the rain come down on me from you and all your self-righteous followers..I don't care... I have been a member here for a while and don't normally get "into it" but that was so uncalled for...and if you and the "others" are as predictable as I think..I will just sit back, wait and let the fun begin! To the OP...follow your heart.... as others have said this process is long and can be quite taxing..if you truly love your man then it will all be worth it! If you have any doubts that would make it through this then i would reevaluate your situation.

[Fandango 1,439]

I'm actually curious to know that if your ex had agreed to 'friends with bennies', whether or not you'd pursue that whilst being in an LDR? And whether or not you'd actually tell your current partner?

[SqdnGuns 21]

Alwasy some good comical reading in MENA

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Hear ye, hear ye - The MENA Freakshow is now in session.

[sarah and hicham 3]

Hear ye, hear ye - The MENA Freakshow is now in session.

It is now that you showed up.

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

Hear ye, hear ye - The MENA Freakshow is now in session.

It is now that you showed up.

*bow*

No freakshow is complete without the Troll.

[simoholic 0]

if i wasnt sure i woudnt do anything, why does his family hate you and what does he feel about that?

[yassmine2878 1]

Hear ye, hear ye - The MENA Freakshow is now in session.

[sarah and hicham 3]

I don't think there is going to be an explosion here, at least not from me. I think it's pretty clear from the OP's post that she isn't over her ex. She also said she tried to do "friends with benefits" but that didn't work so now she has someone in Morocco or wherever that she is talking to and has visited. I almost think that she wants her ex to see her with a man so she can see his reaction since she herself is envious of her ex's relationship with his new fiancee.

The whole things sounds like not such a good situation and I think she should just focus on her children if she isn't sure what she wants.

[amal 4]

I don't think there is going to be an explosion here, at least not from me. I think it's pretty clear from the OP's post that she isn't over her ex. She also said she tried to do "friends with benefits" but that didn't work so now she has someone in Morocco or wherever that she is talking to and has visited. I almost think that she wants her ex to see her with a man so she can see his reaction since she herself is envious of her ex's relationship with his new fiancee.

The whole things sounds like not such a good situation and I think she should just focus on her children if she isn't sure what she wants.

I was kind of thinking the same thing. I've seen too many ppl do that very thing. I hope she makes the right decision.