Letter from kids and ex wife

[Mike n Huong 1]

Let me expalin the situation first. I got married very young, and have been divorced for over 10 years. I have a son 14 and a daughter 12. At first my ex wife and I did not get along well after our divorce, but after realizing that our kids were more important, we have become good friends. She has been married now for about 9 years, and I also get along well with her husband, because I have respect for him because he treats my kids very good. After my first visit to see Huong, and to see if we did have true love, I came home and gradually gave details to my ex wife, and my kids, because Huong bought my kids some gifts and they should know the person I fell in love with. Now, my kids and Huong email each other, as well as my ex wife. Today, after my kids got done speaking to Huong on the phone, and them telling me that they can't wait to meet her and her son, I started thinking. This is very important at her interview, and maybe if they wrote about our relationship and have them sign it in front of a notary, that it would be very good for her interview. Why would someone with a fraudulaent case get their kids involved in a fake realtionship? My kids would be totally crushed if she failed her interview, as well as Huon, her son, and me.

What are your thoughts?

If I was to do this, should I obtain both of their birth certificates for her interview?

Thanks for your comments!

[scy 0]

If you do what you propose, prepare your fiancee for questions about your children. Those questions might include their birthdates, where they currently live, who they live with. Also tell your fiancee about where your ex-wife lives.

I think what you're thinking of doing is a good idea. Just prepare ahead for questions.

[dalegg 143]

Yeah, I agree. This is a good thing to do. Wish my ex-wife was even a fraction as civilized as yours is to your fiance. Mine is just a Bi**ch. I totally respect her new man though. Anyone that can deal with that.

[wait4ever 0]

Now, my kids and Huong email each other, as well as my ex wife. Today, after my kids got done speaking to Huong on the phone, and them telling me that they can't wait to meet her and her son, I started thinking.

Thanks for your comments!

I agree, this is good idea. At the very least, have Huong save the e-mails between your family and herself. That does show good, legitimate ties to your family.