Stupid fights....

[Marilyn. 340]

we have little stupid fights, i guess...

one thing that has been really bugging me lately is that he has taken over our table and uses it has his desk for school etc.... that part I really don't mind but he usually makes a big mess of it, papers everywhere etc, he says he has nowhere to put anything... I get tired of looking at it so i clean it up (somehow I find a place for everything ) and tell him to keep it that way and he says he will and then it gets messy again after a few days

[Ta Ta 1]

Crappy phone connections and no connections make me irritable and somtimes we have little stupid arguments about it ...then the time is up ....

Makes no sense I know

I am soo sick of the " can you hear me now " life. When he speaks softly and I can't hear I get upset so he shouts and

that makes me mad because I think he is shouting at me and he says just what do you want me to do now ?!

Every once in a real rare blue moon I can hear him like he is in the next room and have a decent conversation.......ah but those moments are

so rare.

[Ladylethal 12]

Oh yes, what would relationships be without these?

Well, Luis has myopia but will offer to do the dishes sometimes when he's feeling guilty of the mess he makes and I have to go cleaning after him. Problem is, whenever he does the dishes when I go put them away I notice they still have food on them and are dirty and I ALWAYS have to wash them again. I get mad at him for not washing properly and he always says "But I am blind!" which leads to the second fight theme, which is the fact that I've been telling him to go get an eye exam for new contacts or a pair of glasses for the past 8 months and he keeps putting it off.

Also, whenever I ask him for a favor (take the trash out, empty the washing machine, etc) he gets grumpy at me 'cus I only ask him to do stuff when he's playing on the comp or busy with something. Well, 100% of the time he's at home he's "busy" with something (meaning he's either taking a nap, playing on the computer, or watching TV) so obviously he's doing something when I ask for a favor. Drives me crazy!

And the top one that sets me off into nitpicking about the other 2. I usually do the heavy cleaning on Sunday, and he's supposed to help out, after all, it's just the 2 of us, he does the most mess, and we both work during the week. Well, I spend the day around the house scrubing, sweeping, dusting, etc., and see him playing on the comp, reading, or watching TV. He sees me going into a room with a broom, sees me asking him to stand up so I can mop, sees me going outside to hang up clothes, etc etc etc. When I am doing the final thing in the cleaning process (usually cleaning the kitchen floor) he'll say "Hey, what can I do to help?"

As you can imagine, the above issue of him getting grumpy when I ask for a favor is usually on cleaning day when I am sweaty scrubbing the floor and he's "busy" doing something.

Edited November 14, 2007 by Luis&Laura

[Ban Hammer 13,508]

Oh yes, what would relationships be without these?

Well, Luis has myopia but will offer to do the dishes sometimes when he's feeling guilty of the mess he makes and I have to go cleaning after him. Problem is, whenever he does the dishes when I go put them away I notice they still have food on them and are dirty and I ALWAYS have to wash them again. I get mad at him for not washing properly and he always says "But I am blind!" which leads to the second fight theme, which is the fact that I've been telling him to go get an eye exam for new contacts or a pair of glasses for the past 8 months and he keeps putting it off.

Also, whenever I ask him for a favor (take the trash out, empty the washing machine, etc) he gets grumpy at me 'cus I only ask him to do stuff when he's playing on the comp or busy with something. Well, 100% of the time he's at home he's "busy" with something (meaning he's either taking a nap, playing on the computer, or watching TV) so obviously he's doing something when I ask for a favor. Drives me crazy!

And the top one that sets me off into nitpicking about the other 2. I usually do the heavy cleaning on Sunday, and he's supposed to help out, after all, it's just the 2 of us, he does the most mess, and we both work during the week. Well, I spend the day around the house scrubing, sweeping, dusting, etc., and see him playing on the comp, reading, or watching TV. He sees me going into a room with a broom, sees me asking him to stand up so I can mop, sees me going outside to hang up clothes, etc etc etc. When I am doing the final thing in the cleaning process (usually cleaning the kitchen floor) he'll say "Hey, what can I do to help?"

As you can imagine, the above issue of him getting grumpy when I ask for a favor is usually on cleaning day when I am sweaty scrubbing the floor and he's "busy" doing something.

dare i mention paying the water bill?

[bostonparis 0]

One thing popped in mind - she's very talkative in the car to the point that it's distracting me from paying attention to the road. When I tell her how distracting it is and she gets offended.

My husband took his driving test today, and the man who tested him did not stop talking the ENTIRE time. Not, "turn here, turn there," but his life story. He could have driven down a one way street the wrong way, and the guy wouldn't have even noticed!

I'm less neat than my husband, and he gets really annoyed when I leave bills on the end table with my laptop. He doesn't want to see a mess. The last time there was a little pile there, he said something about it, and I said something immature back, and I moved EVERYTHING off the end table. He went to work, by the time he got home I was in bed.

The next morning when I got up, I saw that he had moved a couple of things back. So I moved them off again (maybe that was a little immature too). He said, "Are you seriously going to fight about this again today?" That shamed me.

[bhajishah 4]

Sunday leaf fight

was raking leaves. neighbors landlord (big lesbian couple) came over said that i was raking thier leaves on thier land. i showed them the roperty line and stakes. husband jumps in arguing with them saying im not to rake thier leaves. Agreeing with them and arguing @ same time. I stpped in and he upset. I started to clean up my piles of leaves. he came and said you are not thier slave. i threw leaves on him. he took the rake and shovel away..He went to mow back acre. i went back to the leaves. he came around the corner parked the mower in the yard and qui working.. Had daughter and mom explain to him the situation. I gave him silent treatment rest of day. I then made a very nice homemade meal. ate it alone.He said i interuppted him during discussion etc. i told him next time he is on his own with discussions with the weirdo neighbors. ehhe We made up later that evening until about 2 am heheh

[almaty 19]

lol..it was really over nothing..i brought home these two strippers .

[one...two...tree 2,762]

lol..it was really over nothing..i brought home these two strippers .

:lol:

[MissStacey 1]

lol..it was really over nothing..i brought home these two strippers .

[Alex+R 0]

We used to fight all the time about who would do dishes, so we bought a countertop dishwasher. It was like $200. It saved our relationship from stupid fights! I highly recommend the dishwasher, which does a really good job cleaning, but we expect will at some point break down and need to be replaced (and fingers crossed our next apartment will have a built-in one).

[Ban Hammer 13,508]

We used to fight all the time about who would do dishes, so we bought a countertop dishwasher. It was like $200. It saved our relationship from stupid fights! I highly recommend the dishwasher, which does a really good job cleaning, but we expect will at some point break down and need to be replaced (and fingers crossed our next apartment will have a built-in one).

i've so gotta tell rey why the bride wears white..........

(so the dishwasher matches the rest of the kitchen appliances)

[Fandango 1,440]

The silliest fight we ever had was while we were driving through a town called Metter, GA. We were on some highway and it was raining, yet he told me that my wiper was on too fast. I told him it wasn't too fast. He said that the wiper arm couldn't sustain it going that fast for so long. I said 'well if it wasn't able to sustain it, they wouldn't have made that speed'

We were still fighting while my wiper arm broke off and flew off my car And my car actually has only one huge azzed wiper, so it was really scary for a bit cos I couldn't see sh!t.

It was quite an adventure which involved many hours on the side of this highway, the cops, a tow to Savannah (closest dealership), a crappy motel (it was still raining when got towed & that's where the tow truck guy left us)....erm, and the next day when I called the Merc dealership, they were backordered on the part so we just got some rainX and drove straight home with our fingers crossed.

How long has it lasted? I'll let you know when it's over Why WOULD they make a speed that the wiper can't sustain???? There must have been a defect or something, hahahha.

[one...two...tree 2,762]

The silliest fight we ever had was while we were driving through a town called Metter, GA. We were on some highway and it was raining, yet he told me that my wiper was on too fast. I told him it wasn't too fast. He said that the wiper arm couldn't sustain it going that fast for so long. I said 'well if it wasn't able to sustain it, they wouldn't have made that speed'

We were still fighting while my wiper arm broke off and flew off my car And my car actually has only one huge azzed wiper, so it was really scary for a bit cos I couldn't see sh!t.

It was quite an adventure which involved many hours on the side of this highway, the cops, a tow to Savannah (closest dealership), a crappy motel (it was still raining when got towed & that's where the tow truck guy left us)....erm, and the next day when I called the Merc dealership, they were backordered on the part so we just got some rainX and drove straight home with our fingers crossed.

How long has it lasted? I'll let you know when it's over Why WOULD they make a speed that the wiper can't sustain???? There must have been a defect or something, hahahha.

:lol:

[Fandango 1,440]

I have a few pics of us waiting on the side of the road. Hrmm...I should find them!

[Ban Hammer 13,508]

The silliest fight we ever had was while we were driving through a town called Metter, GA. We were on some highway and it was raining, yet he told me that my wiper was on too fast. I told him it wasn't too fast. He said that the wiper arm couldn't sustain it going that fast for so long. I said 'well if it wasn't able to sustain it, they wouldn't have made that speed'

We were still fighting while my wiper arm broke off and flew off my car And my car actually has only one huge azzed wiper, so it was really scary for a bit cos I couldn't see sh!t.

It was quite an adventure which involved many hours on the side of this highway, the cops, a tow to Savannah (closest dealership), a crappy motel (it was still raining when got towed & that's where the tow truck guy left us)....erm, and the next day when I called the Merc dealership, they were backordered on the part so we just got some rainX and drove straight home with our fingers crossed.

How long has it lasted? I'll let you know when it's over Why WOULD they make a speed that the wiper can't sustain???? There must have been a defect or something, hahahha.

see what happens when a woman doesn't listen to the man?

*runs off and hides again*