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you don't have to say sorry if it wasn't your fault.Just approach him and start talking, being lovable and all that. Or do to him what he does to you and see if he likes it. I bet if you try it once he'll approach you and appologise. be strong!

Agree..... while it's admirable that you are willing to take the high road, that doesn't make him accountable for his behaviour. He's being passive agressive by being silent and he KNOWS that it will get to you. He doesn't have to take any responsibility for the argument.

I'm not encouraging more marital conflict... I'm agreeing that there are other ways to deal with it besides simply apologizing and forgetting. Eventually, you'll get to the point where you're sick of it and it WILL become a big deal.... try to nip it in the bud now.

I have to admit, tho.... the floating fish must've been funny.....

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Thanks JenT.I think our relation goes on because I easily say sorry or I am the first one always start to talked whenever we have fights. I always ask him "what's the matter with you not talking to me" Talked to me frankly if you hate me rather than being silent!!!...that is always my "dialogue". Actually,I am his second wife,andI think his wife before has a high pride that is why they ended up married in just a short years.Not like me..I am a low profile person.I don't know if that is right. But...I love him...I always cried a lot whenever we have fights and I can't leave him...because I love him very much.he always told me that he will not marry me if he does't love me...and in that is the way for recicilation.Now adays..I am used to his behavior.He's so HOT TEMPERED but sometimes I just ignored him...there are times he can't no longer bear it...and eneded on talking to me....Well...Hopefully...for the sake of our child I need to be strong with this matter.
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He's being passive agressive by being silent and he KNOWS that it will get to you.

maybe not. sometimes i'll be silent too (yeah i know hard to imagine) because i figure it's better than running my mouth and saying something i regret.

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He's being passive agressive by being silent and he KNOWS that it will get to you.

maybe not. sometimes i'll be silent too (yeah i know hard to imagine) because i figure it's better than running my mouth and saying something i regret.

you're a wise man babe :-*



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