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<opinion> Personally, I think that regardless of religion, the expectation that it's a "man's responsibility" to take care of his wife is pretty freaking backward. (and this is coming from someone who was raised in a religion where that was expcted of the men, and it was expected of the women to sit at home and squirt out babies)

I feel that if you are going to be spending the rest of your life with someone, you should be entering into a partnership. There are going to be times when one or the other person may not be able to work, and then the other person will help support in that case... but more often than not, both people wil be contributing financially, emotionally, and spiritually to the relationship as a whole. I didn't have that kind of partnership in my previous marriage, and it's something that I definitely want in my coming one.

I prefer to walk NEXT to my SO, not behind him.

And I refuse to be treated like property. </opinion>

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no my husband is not here so what? ####### you want me to do about it? we are at AR mercy

so what.

gotta love karma! :thumbs:

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for all those interested ... click here and then to the left you will see: profile options ... click on the dragdown menu and simply click on ignore!!

viola! you will no longer see her posts ... although, if you like to laugh & read incoherent, misspelled, nonsensical posts ... don't do it!

i'm getting a great deal of amusement out of her, as is my fiancee. i've told her about american women and along this poster comes and validates everything i've said. the prosecution rests, your honor :devil:

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dayum you send your fiancee money? its supposed to be the other way around.

#######?!?!

you go clear around the world to buy a man. dayum thats pretty low. my husband is my husband not my

daddy he had no control over what I say on this message board. type all this shiyt to jusify why you gotta buy a man. you dont have to tell me why. I dont care. all I know is the marriage contract sayes its the other way around. btw, you forgot your the raciest one against jewish persons. I am ME

there are alot of people I can not stand. none of these fake personas rule my life.

Man..... someone here is having a bad day!

I'm not here to agree or disagree with your beliefs, but being nice doesn't hurt anyone. You can get attention without being rude you know!

I've read other things you've posted and you're always rude to people that don't share the same point of views with you... well someday you'll realize that doesn't work. :no:

none of these fake personas rule my life

Great, I'm happy for you but, what are you doing trying to rule someone else's life by telling them what to do according to your beliefs?!?

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OUR COMPLETE TIMELINE

Latest steps:

10/26/2006- Consulate receives case (seriously, one month to receive the case?? BS!), and packet 3 that I sent even before they had received the case.

01/02/2007- Interview!!!!!!!!!!!!! Got a 221(g)

01/23/2007- Second Interview. VISA granted!!!

01/29/2007- VISA arrived.... no envelope though. I'm gonna contact them and see what happened this time!

01/31/2007- I'll have to send them one last financial support evidence.

02/01/2007- Evidence sent

02/02/2007- Evidence received by Consulate

02/06/2007- Consulate sends envelope!

02/07/2007- Envelope received!!!

02/10/2007- Flew to the USA!!!!!!

04/17/2007- Wedding day!!!

--- Wish us luck!!! ---

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this topic is about some woman< islamic woman > paying for a lazy < islamic > man. apprently she is gonna pay her own dowry too.

oh this topic is in line with the opener. Icy is muslim..

perhaps you should review page one, top of it :thumbs:

if you wish to discuss islamic woman paying for the dowry, a new thread might be in order.

Whether the OP is muslim or not thats her business and how she lives is also her business - some muslims are strict some are not it doesnt matter anyways this isnt the topic to have an indepth conversation. Dam it really infuriates me when muslims go on ranting about muslim this, muslim that - expecting others to agree with them. I am not a prejudice person, and my family members have also married into the muslim culture. BUt I have noticed alot of this lately and some muslims think they can convert you right of the bat. I have plenty of muslim female friends and none f them sound like this woman (thank god) and as i say 2 of my sisters are married to muslim men and even they share all the ups and downs of marraige and support each other. as I say this is the year 2006 grow with the times.

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27 Feb. 2006: K1 petition sent to Nebraska Service Centre

2 March 2006: NOA1 dated (received in mail on 9 March 2006)

4 May 2006: NOA2!!!!! (DAY 66)

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24 May 2006: NVC sends our file to London Embassy

8 June 2006: Packet 3 arrives (DAY 101)

25 August 2006: Pack 3 sent to London Embassy registered post

29 August 2006: London Embassy receives my Pack 3 - 9/9/06 pack 4 arrives

SEPT 2006:APPLICATION PUT ON HOLD - WE HAD A FALLING OUT.

MAY 2007:RESUMED THE VISA APPLICATION

6 June 2007: Medical @ 2.30pm - need to get anew GP letter and psychiatric evaluation

7 June 2007: INTERVIEW @ 10am - waiting for new police record letter

3 July 2007: APPROVED/Visa arrives

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for all those interested ... click here and then to the left you will see: profile options ... click on the dragdown menu and simply click on ignore!!

viola! you will no longer see her posts ... although, if you like to laugh & read incoherent, misspelled, nonsensical posts ... don't do it!

i'm getting a great deal of amusement out of her, as is my fiancee. i've told her about american women and along this poster comes and validates everything i've said. the prosecution rests, your honor :devil:

oh please don't group her in with the normal american women!!! :lol: she can hardly spell and her grammar is just atrocious! but i, too, get a great deal of amusement by reading her posts ... i just wish people wouldn't take her so seriously ... it would delay her gratification.

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dayum you send your fiancee money? its supposed to be the other way around.

#######?!?!

you go clear around the world to buy a man. dayum thats pretty low. my husband is my husband not my

daddy he had no control over what I say on this message board. type all this shiyt to jusify why you gotta buy a man. you dont have to tell me why. I dont care. all I know is the marriage contract sayes its the other way around. btw, you forgot your the raciest one against jewish persons. I am ME

there are alot of people I can not stand. none of these fake personas rule my life.

Man..... someone here is having a bad day!

I'm not here to agree or disagree with your beliefs, but being nice doesn't hurt anyone. You can get attention without being rude you know!

I've read other things you've posted and you're always rude to people that don't share the same point of views with you... well someday you'll realize that doesn't work. :no:

none of these fake personas rule my life

Great, I'm happy for you but, what are you doing trying to rule someone else's life by telling them what to do according to your beliefs?!?

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of course not .. she is muslim. so she should know what her contract will say!

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dayum you send your fiancee money? its supposed to be the other way around.

I have no problem sending him money. I'll see it all when he comes back. He'll be supporting me through the next couple years of school (the program is intense and I cannot work during it). It's not a large sum of money anyways, ever heard of sharing?

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its the other way around! I would never pay for some man.

It's OK the other way around? Sexist. Shame on you.

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for all those interested ... click here and then to the left you will see: profile options ... click on the dragdown menu and simply click on ignore!!

viola! you will no longer see her posts ... although, if you like to laugh & read incoherent, misspelled, nonsensical posts ... don't do it!

i'm getting a great deal of amusement out of her, as is my fiancee. i've told her about american women and along this poster comes and validates everything i've said. the prosecution rests, your honor :devil:

oh please don't group her in with the normal american women!!! :lol: she can hardly spell and her grammar is just atrocious! but i, too, get a great deal of amusement by reading her posts ... i just wish people wouldn't take her so seriously ... it would delay her gratification.

Gal,

you can go back under your rock. you have nothing to say in my world you know where you stand with me!

dayum you send your fiancee money? its supposed to be the other way around.

I have no problem sending him money. I'll see it all when he comes back. He'll be supporting me through the next couple years of school (the program is intense and I cannot work during it). It's not a large sum of money anyways, ever heard of sharing?

:no:

its the other way around! I would never pay for some man.

It's OK the other way around? Sexist. Shame on you.

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It's OK the other way around? Sexist. Shame on you.

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you're late .... shon already agreed that her husband has paid for her ... although she has yet to divulge which street corner she was on! :P

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She is full of #######. Don't worry about it...I've sent money to Javier twice since he's been in Mexico and he's sent me money once (the one time was greater than the two amounts I sent him put together). But that's what a relationship is about-supporting each other in times of need and you cannot tell me with a straight face that Javier is lazy, he works his butt off from sunrise past sunset. Sometimes...it's not enough. I guess that concept is beyond Shon's grasp-I hope he doesn't call her one day mentioning that he's broke and hungry, because Shon surely won't help him. She'll tell him to get off his lazy butt and find a job. Now THAT'S love if I've ever seen it.

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no my husband is not here so what? ####### you want me to do about it? we are at AR mercy

so what.

gotta love karma! :thumbs:

yep i agree - i dont think she understood what i was getting at lol

PLEASE REMEMBER TO UPDATE YOUR TIMELINE AS THE STATISTICS ON THIS FORUM ARE CALCULATED VIA THE TIMELINES. PLEASE GO TO: http://www.visajourney.com/timeline/

WAITING FOR AN INTERVIEW DATE AT LONDON? COME JOIN US HERE: <a

London Interview list

http://www.frappr.com/visaapplicantsvianebraska/map]http://www.frappr.com/visaapplicantsvianebraska/map</a>

Frapper map of the world for those who applied for marriage based visa through Nebraska, It's a good way to actually see where people are, if anyone is near you, send messages to discuss, vent, or share even meet up!!!

27 Feb. 2006: K1 petition sent to Nebraska Service Centre

2 March 2006: NOA1 dated (received in mail on 9 March 2006)

4 May 2006: NOA2!!!!! (DAY 66)

8 May 2006: File Sent to NVC (as stated on email dated 9 May)

24 May 2006: NVC sends our file to London Embassy

8 June 2006: Packet 3 arrives (DAY 101)

25 August 2006: Pack 3 sent to London Embassy registered post

29 August 2006: London Embassy receives my Pack 3 - 9/9/06 pack 4 arrives

SEPT 2006:APPLICATION PUT ON HOLD - WE HAD A FALLING OUT.

MAY 2007:RESUMED THE VISA APPLICATION

6 June 2007: Medical @ 2.30pm - need to get anew GP letter and psychiatric evaluation

7 June 2007: INTERVIEW @ 10am - waiting for new police record letter

3 July 2007: APPROVED/Visa arrives

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It's OK the other way around? Sexist. Shame on you.

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so that explains why she is on the internet and not cooking dinner. her man is out of town. but when he gets back, the contract comes out. para 4 section 3 - dinner will be ready :lol:

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