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  1. 1. Is it ok or not ok for someone who is engaged to continue going to those sites?

    • Nope not ok
      60
    • Yeah just fine
      1
    • As long as your SO knows about it and doesn't find anything wrong with it
      8
    • Everbody need's some secrets
      2
  2. 2. If you found out your SO is heavily involved on Single's site..

    • I'd be very upset and confront him/her about it
      65
    • Wouldn't matter to me
      1
    • Depends on the site
      5
  3. 3. Imagine you find out your SO is calling someone he met / she met on a Dating site AFTER you met and got engaged

    • I'd be mad as all heck
      69
    • Wouldn't bother me
      1


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Filed: AOS (pnd) Country: England
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Our K1 Journey

November 5th 2005 - ♥ Tash & Chris met ♥

June 11th 2007 - We posted the I129F :D

June 19th 2007 - USCIS received date

June 22nd 2007 - NOA1 received

November 16th 2007 - NOA2 - 156 days from filing

November 24th 2007 - Hard copy of NOA2 received

December 15th 2007 - Packet 3 received

January 18th 2008 - Packet 3 returned

February 13th 2008 - Packet 4 received

March 4th 2008 - Medical @ 1.00pm

March 5th 2008 - INTERVIEW @ 10.00am - APPROVED!!

March 11th 2008 - Visa received!

April 30th 2008 - Flying home at last!!!!! (POE: Dulles - Washington DC)

July 12th 2008 - Wedding date!

Now for AOS!

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I don't know whether we can work this out.

It's a little too much right now to know that he calls her sometimes several times a day while "it's so hard to talk to me cause it makes him miss me even more".........

Besides that he apparently doesn't know right from wrong since right now he's mad at ME for "invading his privacy" because her number showed up on his cell bill and since it was called so much I checked the White Pages and she popped up.......

Right now I'm actually thinking about cancelling the I 129F............

But also,my head and heart are too confused to make any decisions right now........

It'll take a while for me to figure ut what I'll do.

Thanks you all for your input.

Oh and by the way,

I absolutley DO NOT tolerate an open marriage/relationship!

That may work for other ppl but definitley NOT for me.

Nat

Met on May 17,2005

Got engaged on Sep 15th,2006

Came to the US for good on Jan 27th,2009

and we got married on March 28th,2009

GOD , grant me the serenity

to accept the things I can not change

the courage to change the things I can

and the wisdom to know the difference!

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I don't know whether we can work this out.

It's a little too much right now to know that he calls her sometimes several times a day while "it's so hard to talk to me cause it makes him miss me even more".........

Besides that he apparently doesn't know right from wrong since right now he's mad at ME for "invading his privacy" because her number showed up on his cell bill and since it was called so much I checked the White Pages and she popped up.......

Right now I'm actually thinking about cancelling the I 129F............

But also,my head and heart are too confused to make any decisions right now........

It'll take a while for me to figure ut what I'll do.

Thanks you all for your input.

Oh and by the way,

I absolutley DO NOT tolerate an open marriage/relationship!

That may work for other ppl but definitley NOT for me.

Nat

I'm sorry to hear about your situation (F) But all hell would break loose if this happened to me. I would not tolerate it. It, meaning the singles site. If it progressed to something more like calls, then that is totally crossing the line. You are not just friends, not just casually dating, you are engaged. Calling other women, or giving out numbers is strictly prohibited. The line "its hard to talk cause it makes me miss you more" to me is a line of BS to cover it up or make it seem like its this long distance thing. Its not, this just may well be a personality trait that hasn't come out yet. I truely feel for you, because its so horrible to experience something like this, especially during all the stress of the K1. When you think the light is at the end of the USCIS tunnel... this happens.

Maybe give it some time, and see where your feelings are. But definitely, I'd make him delete the profile. Its just an issue, can you regain trust in the relationship again.

I wish you well.

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(((NatashaBrenda))) (F)

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31 Dec 2003 MARRIED
26 Jan 2004 Filed I130; 23 May 2005 Received Visa
30 Jun 2005 Arrived at Chicago POE
02 Apr 2007 Filed I751; 22 May 2008 Received 10-yr green card
14 Jul 2012 Citizenship Oath Ceremony

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I don't know whether we can work this out.

It's a little too much right now to know that he calls her sometimes several times a day while "it's so hard to talk to me cause it makes him miss me even more".........

Besides that he apparently doesn't know right from wrong since right now he's mad at ME for "invading his privacy" because her number showed up on his cell bill and since it was called so much I checked the White Pages and she popped up.......

Right now I'm actually thinking about cancelling the I 129F............

But also,my head and heart are too confused to make any decisions right now........

It'll take a while for me to figure ut what I'll do.

Thanks you all for your input.

Oh and by the way,

I absolutley DO NOT tolerate an open marriage/relationship!

That may work for other ppl but definitley NOT for me.

Nat

I am so very sorry for your heartache.

Please know we are all thinking of you during this difficult time.

Hugs to you

(F)

~Laura

Let's Keep the Song Going!!!

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~Laura and Nicholas~

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Met online November 2005 playing City of Heroes

First met in Canada, Sept 22, 2006 <3

September 2006 to March 2008, 11 visits, 5 in Canada, 6 in NJ

Officially Engaged December 24th, 2007!!!

Moved to the U.S. to be with my baby on July 19th, 2008 on a K1 visa!!!!

***10 year green card in hand as of 2/2/2012, loving and living life***

Hmmm maybe we should move back to Canada! lol smile.png

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oh #######. after all you've been thru natasha, like tracking down the wayward wife so she can be served divorce papers and all that? :ranting:

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USE THE REPORT BUTTON INSTEAD OF MESSAGING A MODERATOR!

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