Why you got Married/engaged to your spouse/fiance?!!!

[deadbird 2]

Jackie you're too much.

Why did Ramy and I get engaged? Because we're both crazy. And being crazy for each other helps too.

He's the only man I still trust.....and I have a lot of trust issues so for me to trust someone 100%, well, that says a lot about him

And if he breaks that trust, I'll be the old lady on the block who yells at the hellion whippersnappers while sitting in a rocking chair on her porch with 20 cats, and an afghan and rifle on her lap.

[caybee 21]

hmmmm....hmmmm I believe that He ismy "SOUL MATE" We were enaged 20 years ago for 6 years ...parted from each other... because were still young to marry...and won't you believe that we met again after 13 years...with the same feelings...like nothing hapen got crazy again with each other...born our cute son...I think that's why We married...to give name for our son ...and most of all...We don't want to be separated from each other again...Hop-efully to live happily ever after.....

Miles

A marriage 13 years in the making, wow! Hope you get your wish.

[mikeport2010 0]

Well everybody you heard the half of the story there is the rest of it

you know this lady booked the ticket after one week of my wifes arrival that for the lastest moment i was not sure of anyone coming but it happened my wife came first

and i went to meet her in the air port that something happened soo i just met her in the hotel

People before i see her by 5 minutes was in my mind she is a sweet , gorgeous girl i only miss her on the web and hmmmmm only we will stay this week together taking tourss

people that all changeddd the time i sawher coming towards me i felt my heart beats fast and that do have something strong for that girl coming towards me i said she is MINE my baby. she felt so good with me free and happy i did moree i was soo happyy but i was in a shock still telling myself can this happen dont let yourself go so far she will leave at the end of thsi week but it did not help me i loved her with everymoment i stayed with her my friends were with me in this time we all had great time we used to pick her up from the hotel and just back there sooo latee and start the other day early so. all my friends loved her soul reallyy felt close all of us they were like man you look great together you look so sweet i was quiet did not response was thinking ,we never talked about marriage all what we did we hanged out with friends and at the night she back to her hotel,in the fifth day we both had it out WE SHOULD MARRY we looked at eachother like we both know it was fast and we might did not know eachother well, but we end up doing it IT WAS MY BEST DAY when i married her so i stayed with my wife one day after our marriage and me experience a big sadnest one of the rearest times i ever had seeing her leaving!!1

now People comes my problem this week with the most precious girl ever let me forget or just was not so ready for the lady that is coming after two days hmmmm asking my friends what i should do noww i dont wana her come what i should do i dont really feel that will be right then they told me everything will be okk when she come just we will let her see Egypt and then she will leave in peace i told them im not sure and also im like whats wrong with this we are not going to do anything wrong she will only come and leave in peace and after this week i will cut thsi relation forever

people for me i was A MARRIED MAN, but helll me was not aware what that means or whats its commitments only know that i only will love my wifee and dont cheat on my wife , anyways she came omg the first time i saw her i felt so bad did not know what is this only felt bad,, and that i meant to meet her in good way and treat her good but i could nott i was soo badd i could not help this as i believed im not cheating and that i only wana this lady back in peace without being hurt but i did feel im doing something if NOT WRONG but its STILL NOT RIGHT, anyways i stayed one week of the worst weeks i had , she was not able to understand why i dont even wana hold her hands or even look at her face alot , my freinds said i should treat her more better but hmmm she wanted something i cant give because it all belongs to my wife now i even could not give a fake facee of happiness i felt sorry for my wife and sorry for this lady i felt soo down as she already know i told her we wont do anything wrong she did not stop trying to touch me it gave me more stress and could not help it i treatd her more cheap telling her you are married and im going to marry lets stay this week when we are good my freinds were there to easy things only felt so cheap felt what the holy shitt i did to this lady and to myself at the end with my friends recommendation i smiled we went out leting her see egypt and then she left i stayed all the week on drugs because i did not want to see the shitt i did and the fighting feelings inside me and at the end of thsi week we were good accepted the idea that as we see i dont want this relation and that we can have good memories as friends and that we will let eachother go , SHE LEFT WHEN I KNOW SHE WONT GIVE IT UP MANY TIMES I LEFT HER AND TOLD HER ITS NOT GOING TO WORK THAT WERE ONLINE AND LEFT HER FOR MONTHSS BUT SHE NEVER STOPPED SHE WOULD ASK ME TO BE FRIENDS ONLY FRIENDS AND THAT SHE NEEDS A FRIEND I WAS ALWAYS WEAK I ALWAYS SAID ITS FINE I DONT SEE ANY PROBLEM BUT SHE ALWAYS WANTED MORE AND SHE THOUGHT I ONLY SAY IT LIKE BEFORE AND WITH TIME I WILL BACK TO MY MIND AND BACK TO HER.

anyways when she left i felt happy that i was good i did not do anything wrong and that i wana my wife noww

soo afterthat people this lady did not stop as i excpected she called me called my friends to know seek them to convince me thats when i started to feel so bad again and felt she wont leave me alone i felt omg what the hell i did to myself it only wanted to share her problems and maybe give her something she needs and that wont cost me anything only some chat and i onlu listen to her then i felt it follows me and intensivly blamed myself of what i was doing and wished i never been in thiss

soo when my wife came next time i was sooooo happyy it was for almost two months we really did very good togetherr i felt soo good and appricated the feeling i have , then when it any time i see my wifes face i feel so happy but feel there is something incomplete fights mee and that i do wana everything be clean within this marriage , i was looking at myself and say you never been like thiss you do love this woman and respect her , and thats when the lady called me again i knew it was this who is fighting inside me, and i felt incomplete when i looked at my wifes face because i felt she has to know about what happened ,, i was omg ,am i going to do this , IM SOMEONE WHO DONT PREFER TO FACE PROBLEMS, soo thsi decision grow inside me anytime i feel i really need it clean so i can enjoy it and then start again.

so that day came when i got my wife sitting and told her " i know this will rock the relation but ims orry i cant help it i really need to tell you" and i told her thats when she started crying and me seeing this tore me off and i was like a hell i feel im punished that i will have the day to tell my wife what happened on my own and her crying telling her baby i did not cheat, but it was not enough she did not trust me like before but i felt after i told her that im really doing the right thing and that if i really wana this marriage to wrok out then i have to be get things clean so i was ready for any consquences only because i felt i cant let this hidden , soo at the end my wife talked to that ladyy and she told her we did not have sex but she told her many other lies because she wanted to break thsi marriage okk thats what she thought but hmmm i felt strong that i did what i think its what my wife deserve and she deserve to know everything and dont smile at her facee when im inside keep something hidden i respect my wife soo much as i despisedmyself before i tell her

now guys i wana clarify somethings i read in your posts

1- i dont talk to any girl online after my marriage

2- if money was my aim this lady is kinda rich she offered money offered more i denied so please dont think your money can buy you anything and my wife is not rich at all .

3- MY BIGGEST MISTAKE THAT I SHOULD TELL THAT LADY TO DONT COME AFTER MY MARRAIGE.

4 i had relations offline too , i cut it all after marraige

5 i dont hang out with friends and do drungs as before

6 if my wife does not trust me like before but she trust i will go and tell her if i did anything wrong.

7 you dont blame me of what i was before i marry my wife

8 i never thought i would marry when im in this age never asked my wife for marriage before she come to me

9 I DONT HAVE ANY FEELINGS FOR ANY WOMAN IN HIS WORLD NOW BUT MY WIFE AND I WILL DO EVERYTHING TO GAIN HER TRUST AGAIN

10-MAYBE MEN ONLY CAN UNDERSTAND MY SITUATION.

11- my punishmen now that when i asked my wife again would you marry me if you have the chance again she said NO ,, thats why i posted that Topic

have fun guyssss and best wishes for all of you

heeeeeeeeehawwwwwww

[Jenn! 918]

Oh, well in THAT case....

[mybackpages 0]

I didn't know fishing could cause so many problems. They should post warning signs in the cyber cafes.

[Aymerlu 3]

Geez.....I have a headache now.

[chaishai 1]

oy vey

im so lost!

[Ban Hammer 13,490]

10-MAYBE MEN ONLY CAN UNDERSTAND MY SITUATION.

[Aymerlu 3]

All I can say is that if my husband did the same thing you did, he would not be my husband now.

[mikeport2010 0]

Aymerlu you have the right to do what you want, but can you tell me what i did.

and if i were your husband and know you leave me for such thing i would leave you way early first.

we are human Mrs angel i was not caught i told her everything myself otherwise Enjoy your angel husband im sure he must be Mr Perfect to fulfil your needs lol

heeeeeeeeehawwwwwwww

[Aymerlu 3]

Aymerlu you have the right to do what you want, but can you tell me what i did.

and if i were your husband and know you leave me for such thing i would leave you way early first.

we are human Mrs angel i was not caught i told her everything myself otherwise Enjoy your angel husband im sure he must be Mr Perfect to fulfil your needs lol

heeeeeeeeehawwwwwwww

IF my husband did do that I would hope he would leave me because I wouldn't want to be around his lyin cheatin a$$ Oh, and by the way.....my husband IS perfect to me Really, I don't think many women would put up with something like this. If I have of gone to Egypt, only to find out that another women came right after I left I would be sooooo hurt. And then to think that his friends were helping you so this gal a good time? I really feel so sorry for both women.

[doodlebug 3]

Suddenly I understand Lorena Bobbitt.

[Jenn! 918]

10-MAYBE MEN DOGS ONLY CAN UNDERSTAND MY SITUATION.

[Aymerlu 3]

Suddenly I understand Lorena Bobbitt.

LOL! No kidding! Maybe he should consider himself lucky

10-MAYBE MEN DOGS ONLY CAN UNDERSTAND MY SITUATION.

[caybee 21]

Aymerlu you have the right to do what you want, but can you tell me what i did.

and if i were your husband and know you leave me for such thing i would leave you way early first.

we are human Mrs angel i was not caught i told her everything myself otherwise Enjoy your angel husband im sure he must be Mr Perfect to fulfil your needs lol

And if you new bride had returned home and two days later a married man you knew nothing about had then come to visit her her for a week and hit on her repeatedly during that time, would you be cool with that? If she swore to you that nothing happened? If so, yes, you're a better person than I am.

Sorry if folks are a little sensitive here, but when it looks like someone is shaking two or three trees at the same time to see what falls out, we get a little cynical. And why the post (with cliffhanger) in the first place? Seeking support? Advice?

I do congratulate you though on arranging the wedding so quickly. Your girlfriend (you weren't planning to marry) visited you for a week. Five days into the visit, you decided to marry. She was with you for a day after the wedding. Sounds like it took no more than a day or two to get your paperwork together and do the deed. Awesome!

heeeeeeeeeeehawwwwwwww!

By the way, is that a donkey braying or an impression of Slim Pickens riding the bomb in "Dr. Strangelove"?