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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Belgium
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Tom made me believe again. And I make him grin ear to ear.

As others have said, it isn't the reason I'd want to get married but since it would happen anyway no regrets :)

2005

June: Met Tom for the first time

September 6: Began dating and start flying back and forth between Italy and Belgium to visit.

2006

June: Moved back to the USofA

July: Tom visits on a Tourist Visa

September 6: 1st Anniversary

2007

January: Tom flies back to Belgium

April: Filed Petition with Texas Service Center.

May 3rd: USCIS cashes K1 check

Forgot date: Never received NOA1 by mail but it is confirmed by phone with Ticket #.

Unknown: Transferred to California Service Center.

Sept. 6: Second Anniversary

Sept. 10: Received E-Mail notification that Evidence Request is on its way

Sept. 18: Received RFE (Dated 9/8/07) Circumstance of Meeting & Evidence of Meeting in the last 2 years

Sept. 19: Sending requested Evidence back to them

October 24: Received NOA 2: A P P R O V E D !

Waiting for instructions to arrive in Belgium. Putting together Support Affidavit and Evidence.

Hurdle One is Done!

Nov. 20: Packet 3 received in Belgium

Nov. 22: Medical Exam Done

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Brazil
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Tom made me believe again. And I make him grin ear to ear.

As others have said, it isn't the reason I'd want to get married but since it would happen anyway no regrets :)

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Thailand
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Wow man, you're in what we like to call in the law enforcement community "a magilla." Means you're pretty much up ######'s creek on this one, it will take a lot of work to figure this out and correct it.

On that note, while I get the general gist of what you're saying, I think you need to use punctuation a little more frequently. Not trying to be mean, it's just a little difficult to understand what you're trying to say here. Like from what I understand, you're married, and you're having an online affair with an older woman who is also married...but I might be completely wrong.

There's nothing wrong with flirting online when you're not in a monogamous relationship that you're truly committed to. I used to do that all of the time with a lot of girls, this is how I met Tik initially in a way. But a lot of the people here are applying for visas for people they truly want to get married to and want to have a monogamous, life-long relationship with. Once you make that commitment you should stop flirting with other girls online. While not physically cheating, this isn't honest and without trust you're going to have major problems down the line. Do you really love and respect this person? I really don't get the full scope of what you wrote, but from what I read you shouldn't be getting married at all, just my opinion.

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Thailand
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OK, I reread your post...it's giving me a little bit of a headache trying to figure out what you're saying, but really...I think if I did understand my prognosis would still be "You shouldn't be married, or at the least you need to start fixing things NOW."

"I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible."

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Ok i've promissed you guy i'ill tell my story

i posted that topic for a reason and that im a bit Sad and confused!

I met my wife online i enjoy chatting to her looking at her gorgeous face enjoying our jokes whatever were silly these jokes but we enjoyed saying it and seeing eachother laugh. although all of this but we did not involve in any relation yet just we both felt we miss eachother like be in touch so after that i noticed i miss her and that if im away from my pc i remember her and i just wana back home to talk to her and she was the same so it started to show something... will tell the rest after i tell the problem

as i used to chat online i talked to other women before my wife i used to be flirty with them i admit i had some relations online all knew i was not serious about it except one relation it been since three years with a married woman she was over the 40s i was still 22s we talked she shared me her problems i felt sorry for her in th begning and then turned to be a relation but i thought it would be the same as teh others so i will just cheer her sad days for a while so she will turn away , but it did not happen , to tell you something about me i dont like to piss people off i love to go slowly without noise , tried to leave her dont come online for long time but she never stoped getting in touch with me she only stuck in my words and felt i have to pay of for my fault i said ok may its your fate , was sadly trying to convince myself that i will be happy , in the same time i did not stop or chatting to other women i knwo what will you say (another cheating dog) okk but i did not realise i was this i thought im helping and sharing love online that i believed love online will never work and they we will only forget about this relation with time as its not real ... ok back to the story this lasy did not knwo what she wants she was still married and dont wana get divorce so hell it was knocking in me shes stil marroed and wants to talk to me(to make me feel good she told me her husband beats her alot and harrass other women) so i just asked if you wana me then get divorce and come to me anyways it did not happen she only wants to talk to me via phone and cheer up after that i gave up and said okk you just come to egypt and lets see if will we adapt , and warned her we wont do anything wrong you will just come to visit egypt so said okk and booked the tickets ....

now lets back to my wife in this time my relation wth my wife started to get stronger but for me i thought its only an online relation and hmmmm even if i have feeling for her but i doubt it might be a deceiving feeling and it will fade away after time, but happened what i did not excpect just did not find any word to tell her i miss you just to say i miss youu do you think thsi can be love then she was there to say the same but hmmm we both used to joke much we did not assure it was real only we doubt eachother , the bomb was when she decided she wana come to see me i said omg that greattttttt i never expected that i will see that aweseome girl face to face (we did not talk about any relation) only she will come , so baby when will you come.....the biggest bomb she will come one week before the other lady arrival ...there we go i was upset about the idea but i said okk no problem i will meet my baby we ill take tour in egypt and then she will back usa with good memories with me and about the other lady hmmmmm it will be the same just lets see what she wantsss.......hmmmm i will complete it later inshallah

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And women keep marrying these guys... :angry::rolleyes:

Ok i've promissed you guy i'ill tell my story

i posted that topic for a reason and that im a bit Sad and confused!

I met my wife online i enjoy chatting to her looking at her gorgeous face enjoying our jokes whatever were silly these jokes but we enjoyed saying it and seeing eachother laugh. although all of this but we did not involve in any relation yet just we both felt we miss eachother like be in touch so after that i noticed i miss her and that if im away from my pc i remember her and i just wana back home to talk to her and she was the same so it started to show something... will tell the rest after i tell the problem

as i used to chat online i talked to other women before my wife i used to be flirty with them i admit i had some relations online all knew i was not serious about it except one relation it been since three years with a married woman she was over the 40s i was still 22s we talked she shared me her problems i felt sorry for her in th begning and then turned to be a relation but i thought it would be the same as teh others so i will just cheer her sad days for a while so she will turn away , but it did not happen , to tell you something about me i dont like to piss people off i love to go slowly without noise , tried to leave her dont come online for long time but she never stoped getting in touch with me she only stuck in my words and felt i have to pay of for my fault i said ok may its your fate , was sadly trying to convince myself that i will be happy , in the same time i did not stop or chatting to other women i knwo what will you say (another cheating dog) okk but i did not realise i was this i thought im helping and sharing love online that i believed love online will never work and they we will only forget about this relation with time as its not real ... ok back to the story this lasy did not knwo what she wants she was still married and dont wana get divorce so hell it was knocking in me shes stil marroed and wants to talk to me(to make me feel good she told me her husband beats her alot and harrass other women) so i just asked if you wana me then get divorce and come to me anyways it did not happen she only wants to talk to me via phone and cheer up after that i gave up and said okk you just come to egypt and lets see if will we adapt , and warned her we wont do anything wrong you will just come to visit egypt so said okk and booked the tickets ....

now lets back to my wife in this time my relation wth my wife started to get stronger but for me i thought its only an online relation and hmmmm even if i have feeling for her but i doubt it might be a deceiving feeling and it will fade away after time, but happened what i did not excpect just did not find any word to tell her i miss you just to say i miss youu do you think thsi can be love then she was there to say the same but hmmm we both used to joke much we did not assure it was real only we doubt eachother , the bomb was when she decided she wana come to see me i said omg that greattttttt i never expected that i will see that aweseome girl face to face (we did not talk about any relation) only she will come , so baby when will you come.....the biggest bomb she will come one week before the other lady arrival ...there we go i was upset about the idea but i said okk no problem i will meet my baby we ill take tour in egypt and then she will back usa with good memories with me and about the other lady hmmmmm it will be the same just lets see what she wantsss.......hmmmm i will complete it later inshallah

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Ok i've promissed you guy i'ill tell my story

i posted that topic for a reason and that im a bit Sad and confused!

I met my wife online i enjoy chatting to her looking at her gorgeous face enjoying our jokes whatever were silly these jokes but we enjoyed saying it and seeing eachother laugh. although all of this but we did not involve in any relation yet just we both felt we miss eachother like be in touch so after that i noticed i miss her and that if im away from my pc i remember her and i just wana back home to talk to her and she was the same so it started to show something... will tell the rest after i tell the problem

as i used to chat online i talked to other women before my wife i used to be flirty with them i admit i had some relations online all knew i was not serious about it except one relation it been since three years with a married woman she was over the 40s i was still 22s we talked she shared me her problems i felt sorry for her in th begning and then turned to be a relation but i thought it would be the same as teh others so i will just cheer her sad days for a while so she will turn away , but it did not happen , to tell you something about me i dont like to piss people off i love to go slowly without noise , tried to leave her dont come online for long time but she never stoped getting in touch with me she only stuck in my words and felt i have to pay of for my fault i said ok may its your fate , was sadly trying to convince myself that i will be happy , in the same time i did not stop or chatting to other women i knwo what will you say (another cheating dog) okk but i did not realise i was this i thought im helping and sharing love online that i believed love online will never work and they we will only forget about this relation with time as its not real ... ok back to the story this lasy did not knwo what she wants she was still married and dont wana get divorce so hell it was knocking in me shes stil marroed and wants to talk to me(to make me feel good she told me her husband beats her alot and harrass other women) so i just asked if you wana me then get divorce and come to me anyways it did not happen she only wants to talk to me via phone and cheer up after that i gave up and said okk you just come to egypt and lets see if will we adapt , and warned her we wont do anything wrong you will just come to visit egypt so said okk and booked the tickets ....

now lets back to my wife in this time my relation wth my wife started to get stronger but for me i thought its only an online relation and hmmmm even if i have feeling for her but i doubt it might be a deceiving feeling and it will fade away after time, but happened what i did not excpect just did not find any word to tell her i miss you just to say i miss youu do you think thsi can be love then she was there to say the same but hmmm we both used to joke much we did not assure it was real only we doubt eachother , the bomb was when she decided she wana come to see me i said omg that greattttttt i never expected that i will see that aweseome girl face to face (we did not talk about any relation) only she will come , so baby when will you come.....the biggest bomb she will come one week before the other lady arrival ...there we go i was upset about the idea but i said okk no problem i will meet my baby we ill take tour in egypt and then she will back usa with good memories with me and about the other lady hmmmmm it will be the same just lets see what she wantsss.......hmmmm i will complete it later inshallah

huh? :huh:

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huh? :huh:

Maybe OP likes to read the Washington Post :whistle: and thought we might benefit from some cheap phone calls that he is advertising on this site.

Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Egypt
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My anxiety just shot threw the roof reading the OP's post. I'm gonna vomit. :dead:

OP clean up your act and be faithful to your wife for heavens sake. You married her so you have to cut the cord with the other women.

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Thailand
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I think what thanksforthefish said may be true...not sure though. I mean all his other posts are nothing but advertisements. Also he doesn't seem to be very fluent in English (no offense mate if you are legitimate). At the same time the OP of this thread seemed to be somewhat genuine...I guess you never know.

"I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible."

-Harry Burns

Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Thailand
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OK, I read it again thoroughly (three times now, I am way too bored, good thing I work tonight). Here's what I got

1. He lives in Egypt

2. He is married, but his wife lives in another country.

3. He still flirts with other girls online, particularly this one woman who is also married.

4. His wife and this woman are visiting him in Egypt within a week of each other.

Not one to judge mate, but get your life sorted. This cannot end in a good way.

Anyway, funny how the rest of this thread was so sweet for the most part up until this point. Gotta' give him props for a sweet idea for a poll, though you really can't respect what he's doing to his wife and this other woman.

"I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible."

-Harry Burns

Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Pakistan
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strong character, fair, takes care of family,able to have fun,very loving, and a good cook.

do it again it still getting better!!

august 2004 I-129 filed (neb)

DEC 2004 Approved

interview: SEOUL

MArch 21st , 2005AR for special security clearance,washington

May 18th tranfer case from Seoul to Islammabad

June 21st security clearance done

June 28th online at the embassy in Islamabad

waiting for paper transfer and the good word

OCTOBER 14TH 2005 Interview Number 2: ISLAMABAD, PK

AR number 2 sent to DOS per Islamabad (2 cable request)

Nov 22 okd updated financial and etc proof accepted / embassy waiting for security cables

dec 20th one cable back waiting on 2nd

Jan 17th.. good word recieved. SECURITY CHECKS ALL CLEAR!!! DOS says embassy to contact him within two weeks!!!!!!

FEBRUARY 10th, 2006 VISA RECIEVED!!! They called him In via phone, stamped his passort and sent him on his way!!!

FEB 28th WELCOME HOME>>>POE CHICAGO did not even look at xray, few questions. one hour wait at Poe

march 10th marriage (nikkah at the islamic center)

aug 2006 AOS interview, cond 2 yr GC arrived september

June 2008 applied for removal of conditions on permant residency aka awaiting for 10 yr greencard

Dec 2008 10yr green card approved, no interview.

 
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