Things we do that drive our SO's crazy

[Tunisianlover 0]

Khaled hates that eveytime I eat I get a stain on the left side of my shirt on my #######, he doesn't have to look at me to know I have a stain. Everytime I see a stain I say "oh damn" or something worse and he always replys "whats the bother of being surprised its always the same place it'll never change.

he hates that I snore also like a man sometimes when I'm really really tired

I'm loud he hates that I'm so loud----- Hey I'm puerto rican we're loud!

He hates when I call him from the kitchen he won't answer me which frustrates me, He always makes me walk into the bedroom to talk to him and after I ask the question he'll say " why do you find it necessay to scream all the time, I'm right here. Grrrr that frustrates me :ranting:

[Dr. A ♥ O 203]

And I forgive you for that too.

My emotional fluctuations right now.

Aren't your emotional fluctuations based on what your husband did with a 16 year old on myspace? And YOU are driving him crazy? That's just wrong.

Dearest Sarah,

I forgive him and myself for being foolish. We are human after all and we all make mistakes. Even though we may not realize we are fools everyday we do foolish things. Forgiveness is essential to correct our beliefs in victimhood. Neither of us are victims in this marriage as we're partners building a life together.

With love always,

Olivia

Riiiiight. Keep telling yourself that!

[sandinista! 1,816]

My emotional fluctuations right now.

Aren't your emotional fluctuations based on what your husband did with a 16 year old on myspace? And YOU are driving him crazy? That's just wrong.

Dearest Sarah,

I forgive him and myself for being foolish. We are human after all and we all make mistakes. Even though we may not realize we are fools everyday we do foolish things. Forgiveness is essential to correct our beliefs in victimhood. Neither of us are victims in this marriage as we're partners building a life together.

With love always,

Olivia

Riiiiight. Keep telling yourself that!

martyr complexes are terribly boring aren't they?

[Dr. A ♥ O 203]

My emotional fluctuations right now.

Aren't your emotional fluctuations based on what your husband did with a 16 year old on myspace? And YOU are driving him crazy? That's just wrong.

Dearest Sarah,

I forgive him and myself for being foolish. We are human after all and we all make mistakes. Even though we may not realize we are fools everyday we do foolish things. Forgiveness is essential to correct our beliefs in victimhood. Neither of us are victims in this marriage as we're partners building a life together.

With love always,

Olivia

Riiiiight. Keep telling yourself that!

martyr complexes are terribly boring aren't they?

Wow! And I don't even know you.

[mybackpages 0]

Wow! And I don't even know you.

The naturre of the internet- posting on a PUBLIC board invites comments from the PUBLIC. Im not saying yoru reaction is right or wrong to the comments, just offering something for consideration.

[Ban Hammer 13,337]

My emotional fluctuations right now.

Aren't your emotional fluctuations based on what your husband did with a 16 year old on myspace? And YOU are driving him crazy? That's just wrong.

Dearest Sarah,

I forgive him and myself for being foolish. We are human after all and we all make mistakes. Even though we may not realize we are fools everyday we do foolish things. Forgiveness is essential to correct our beliefs in victimhood. Neither of us are victims in this marriage as we're partners building a life together.

With love always,

Olivia

Riiiiight. Keep telling yourself that!

martyr complexes are terribly boring aren't they?

Wow! And I don't even know you.

ignore the azzhats

[sandinista! 1,816]

ignore the azzhats

this coming from the most misogynistic poster on this board is just too funny.

[sarah and hicham 3]

And I forgive you for that too.

My emotional fluctuations right now.

Aren't your emotional fluctuations based on what your husband did with a 16 year old on myspace? And YOU are driving him crazy? That's just wrong.

Dearest Sarah,

I forgive him and myself for being foolish. We are human after all and we all make mistakes. Even though we may not realize we are fools everyday we do foolish things. Forgiveness is essential to correct our beliefs in victimhood. Neither of us are victims in this marriage as we're partners building a life together.

With love always,

Olivia

Riiiiight. Keep telling yourself that!

Look Olivia- you shared what your husband did to you with everyone here. If you are just looking for pure support and sunshine then you came to the wrong group. Be honest with yourself. Your husband was chatting with a 16 year old on myspace. You actually are a victim of your husbands actions. You're doing a great job playing his game- forgive him for his foolishness and proceed to bring him to America. Yay for him!

[lion_lioness 0]

What was the topic about again? I forget ....

But while we are off topic, I have a question. If someone does post something f'ed up that their SO did because in that moment they felt they had no one to relate to. Then the various responses here concluded that the person should kick their SO to the curb. Then that poster goes through doubts, worry, fear of being alone, whatever you call it. Is that not allowed here?

Just want to make sure I have the rules down so I can give some of the newbies, who have asked for advice my opinion. Which today is don't post about anything outside of immigration questions. Everything else comes back to bite you in the azz.

Then again, if you are having that kind of doubt - I would NOT rush into anything at all. What's wrong with postponing for a while and taking another couple months and visits just to be sure.

Anyway, just my two cents. Carry on with the happy endings and bashing

[Ban Hammer 13,337]

ignore the azzhats

this coming from the most misogynistic poster on this board is just too funny.

back under your bridge.

[doodlebug 3]

What was the topic about again? I forget ....

But while we are off topic, I have a question. If someone does post something f'ed up that their SO did because in that moment they felt they had no one to relate to. Then the various responses here concluded that the person should kick their SO to the curb. Then that poster goes through doubts, worry, fear of being alone, whatever you call it. Is that not allowed here?

Just want to make sure I have the rules down so I can give some of the newbies, who have asked for advice my opinion. Which today is don't post about anything outside of immigration questions. Everything else comes back to bite you in the azz.

Then again, if you are having that kind of doubt - I would NOT rush into anything at all. What's wrong with postponing for a while and taking another couple months and visits just to be sure.

Anyway, just my two cents. Carry on with the happy endings and bashing

I learned the hard way that the internet is public and that anything you type here is up for grabs. My nana always said never put anything down in writing that you don't want the whole world to see. She's very right. I also read somewhere never type anything on the internet that you don't want your future boss to see. That one makes me think a bit though I still put things down that I'd rather my future boss doesn't read. lol.

In any event, Olivia uses this board to communicate with her husband, so in my opinion I cannot take anything at face value and whenever she posts I'm assuming that it's for his benefit. That is why I don't really respond. To me lately she's trying to tell him that she forgives him and that she's trying to get help, since apparently that's what is going to keep them together. My opinion, Olivia, is that unless you are very comfortable with the idea of your husband constantly cheating or even getting a cowife, I'd really think hard before bringing him here. I hope you are being totally honest with your counselor and not being selective because it is a wonderful opportunity for you to perhaps have some light shed on the dynamics of your situation.

[sarah and hicham 3]

What was the topic about again? I forget ....

But while we are off topic, I have a question. If someone does post something f'ed up that their SO did because in that moment they felt they had no one to relate to. Then the various responses here concluded that the person should kick their SO to the curb. Then that poster goes through doubts, worry, fear of being alone, whatever you call it. Is that not allowed here?

Just want to make sure I have the rules down so I can give some of the newbies, who have asked for advice my opinion. Which today is don't post about anything outside of immigration questions. Everything else comes back to bite you in the azz.

Then again, if you are having that kind of doubt - I would NOT rush into anything at all. What's wrong with postponing for a while and taking another couple months and visits just to be sure.

Anyway, just my two cents. Carry on with the happy endings and bashing

Bashing? I think that what he did is messed up. Am I not allowed to share my opinion? Why is it ok for you to say don't rush into anything, but it's not ok for me to say that I think she is making a mistake? Olivia doesn't have to even listen to anyone's opinion but that doesn't mean that we can't say what we think or what we would do in her situation.

[aisha kandisha 0]

What was the topic about again? I forget ....

But while we are off topic, I have a question. If someone does post something f'ed up that their SO did because in that moment they felt they had no one to relate to. Then the various responses here concluded that the person should kick their SO to the curb. Then that poster goes through doubts, worry, fear of being alone, whatever you call it. Is that not allowed here?

Just want to make sure I have the rules down so I can give some of the newbies, who have asked for advice my opinion. Which today is don't post about anything outside of immigration questions. Everything else comes back to bite you in the azz.

Then again, if you are having that kind of doubt - I would NOT rush into anything at all. What's wrong with postponing for a while and taking another couple months and visits just to be sure.

Anyway, just my two cents. Carry on with the happy endings and bashing

As you have just done

[sarah and hicham 3]

What was the topic about again? I forget ....

But while we are off topic, I have a question. If someone does post something f'ed up that their SO did because in that moment they felt they had no one to relate to. Then the various responses here concluded that the person should kick their SO to the curb. Then that poster goes through doubts, worry, fear of being alone, whatever you call it. Is that not allowed here?

Just want to make sure I have the rules down so I can give some of the newbies, who have asked for advice my opinion. Which today is don't post about anything outside of immigration questions. Everything else comes back to bite you in the azz.

Then again, if you are having that kind of doubt - I would NOT rush into anything at all. What's wrong with postponing for a while and taking another couple months and visits just to be sure.

Anyway, just my two cents. Carry on with the happy endings and bashing

I learned the hard way that the internet is public and that anything you type here is up for grabs. My nana always said never put anything down in writing that you don't want the whole world to see. She's very right. I also read somewhere never type anything on the internet that you don't want your future boss to see. That one makes me think a bit though I still put things down that I'd rather my future boss doesn't read. lol.

In any event, Olivia uses this board to communicate with her husband, so in my opinion I cannot take anything at face value and whenever she posts I'm assuming that it's for his benefit. That is why I don't really respond. To me lately she's trying to tell him that she forgives him and that she's trying to get help, since apparently that's what is going to keep them together. My opinion, Olivia, is that unless you are very comfortable with the idea of your husband constantly cheating or even getting a cowife, I'd really think hard before bringing him here. I hope you are being totally honest with your counselor and not being selective because it is a wonderful opportunity for you to perhaps have some light shed on the dynamics of your situation.

How dare you bash Olivia and her husband! Only positive opinions are welcome here!

I do agree with you.

[lion_lioness 0]

What was the topic about again? I forget ....

But while we are off topic, I have a question. If someone does post something f'ed up that their SO did because in that moment they felt they had no one to relate to. Then the various responses here concluded that the person should kick their SO to the curb. Then that poster goes through doubts, worry, fear of being alone, whatever you call it. Is that not allowed here?

Just want to make sure I have the rules down so I can give some of the newbies, who have asked for advice my opinion. Which today is don't post about anything outside of immigration questions. Everything else comes back to bite you in the azz.

Then again, if you are having that kind of doubt - I would NOT rush into anything at all. What's wrong with postponing for a while and taking another couple months and visits just to be sure.

Anyway, just my two cents. Carry on with the happy endings and bashing

Bashing? I think that what he did is messed up. Am I not allowed to share my opinion? Why is it ok for you to say don't rush into anything, but it's not ok for me to say that I think she is making a mistake? Olivia doesn't have to even listen to anyone's opinion but that doesn't mean that we can't say what we think or what we would do in her situation.

Excuse me Sarah but did I call your name? Or refer to your post? I know you personally and if I have a problem with you specifically I know how to reach you. I think bashing takes place all over the site and I think a whole lotta fairy tailin' goes on too. What gives me the right to post what I did? The fact that its a public forum. The fact that in some cases some of the users may chat and know each other outside the group could be another reason.

So unless I specifically pointed you out, and I ask you to please call me on it. Lighten up.