Things we do that drive our SO's crazy

[polarbear 0]

I say "I know" waaaay too often.

If he says something like, "you dropped spagetti on your shirt", I shrug and say "yeah, I know" before cleaning it

I never eat all my food. I always leave something on the plate.

Old habit from being overweight, then learning to always leave food on the plate bc it was okay to not finish it. He always ends up finishing my food and then tells me I eat like an infant. I eat smaller portions more frequently so I'm always hungry again before him too. Drives him nuts because I didn't eat all my food the last time

I also have the problem of just buying it if I like it. He likes to shop around or haggle for the best deal, and I will just pay the money if I like it enough to buy it. He's soo much more carefull with the money and he gets this pained look on his face sometimes But we're not married yet and it's still up to me how I want to spend all my money, so for now he has to deal with it

[deadbird 2]

I say "I know" waaaay too often.

If he says something like, "you dropped spagetti on your shirt", I shrug and say "yeah, I know" before cleaning it

I never eat all my food. I always leave something on the plate.

Old habit from being overweight, then learning to always leave food on the plate bc it was okay to not finish it. He always ends up finishing my food and then tells me I eat like an infant. I eat smaller portions more frequently so I'm always hungry again before him too. Drives him nuts because I didn't eat all my food the last time

I also have the problem of just buying it if I like it. He likes to shop around or haggle for the best deal, and I will just pay the money if I like it enough to buy it. He's soo much more carefull with the money and he gets this pained look on his face sometimes But we're not married yet and it's still up to me how I want to spend all my money, so for now he has to deal with it

LOL Ramy doesn't mind that I don't eat a hell of a lot, but his mother does I think he's more surprised at how little I eat than upset about it.

Something that I KNOW drove him nuts is how he would always take me shopping because he wanted to buy me things, but I couldn't seem to find anything I liked enough to justify him having to spend a ton of money. I mean I got a beautiful engagement ring, what MORE could I want? lol. But I'm sick all the time so almost all of the stuff he bought me came from a pharmacy

[Imua 0]

hmmmmmmmm........................

1) I get nuts when I'm pmsing. He's now keeping track of it on a calendar and is SUPER sweet during the last 4 days. lol. I noticed that he was yessing me to death two months ago and he fessed up that he's keeping track now.

Smart man.

For some reason my cycle is in synch with his mom's even though we are on the other side of the world so he knows when I get a little touchy...

It drives my hubs crazy when I smack my forehead when I forget something (D'oh!) - he says dont do that, you'll get a headache.

He also doesn't like the way I rub my nose when it itches.

He can't understand why I have so many clothes - and I think my wardrobe is small compared to a lot of women's. Wait til he gets here and he sees that the temperature fluctuates so much that you really need 3 wardrobes - summer, winter, and in-between.

[doodlebug 3]

He hates when I say "whatever". He knows when I say that that he's in deep doo-doo. He'll say, "oh whatever.....ok go take some time for yourself and tell me when you want to talk about this thing".

I'm stubborn. He kept telling me to get a gold wedding ring and I was adamant that I wanted white gold. Well my white gold wedding ring sits on my nightstand now because it gives me a puffy red rash when I wear it so he has to buy another one now, this time gold.

[JVKn'CVO 11]

I ask this to Justin aaaaall the time, because I want to know if I'm doing something that bugs him before it comes up so we can work on it.

So far... he always answers he can't think of anything...and it drives me crazy!

Saludos,

Caro

[amal 4]

I'm indecisive. I want him to feel like he is in control of his life and what he does so I try to "allow" him to decide what we want to do. He gets irritated coz he will ask me and I'll just say.."whatever you want to do is fine with me". Now he says that he wants me to make some decisions too that the life is not only his.

I don't do this ONLY to make him happy...I'm really plain indecisive. I hate shopping coz there are too many choices. I hate deciding where to go to eat coz , again, too many choices. I'm strictly a routine kind of person. I find 1 thing and stick to it like glue. If it works, why change it. .. .. .. yeah, that is me in a nutshell.....

amal

[Dr. A ♥ O 203]

My emotional fluctuations right now.

Aren't your emotional fluctuations based on what your husband did with a 16 year old on myspace? And YOU are driving him crazy? That's just wrong.

Dearest Sarah,

I forgive him and myself for being foolish. We are human after all and we all make mistakes. Even though we may not realize we are fools everyday we do foolish things. Forgiveness is essential to correct our beliefs in victimhood. Neither of us are victims in this marriage as we're partners building a life together.

With love always,

Olivia

Edited October 28, 2007 by OlivianWaleed

[Bassi and Zainab 1]

Well, the first one he always says is biting. I feel horrible admitting that, but I bite him in bed. And I truly have no control over it. I've never done it before. I didn't do it with my ex-husband. I don't know why I started doing this now. He doesn't like it.

He thinks I don't think enough about myself. He gets upset if I come home and have brought things for him and my daughter or the house and nothing for myself. It's a habit I developed because my ex used to get very upset at anything I bought for myself, so I never bought myself anything. I'm growing out of it slowly.

He hates that I say "whatever". That drives him crazy. He always says what does that mean.

He thinks I worry way too much. And he's right. I told him worrying is what I do best. He says it will kill me early. I think it makes him nervous too cause he thinks that I'm unhappy cause I worry so much. I kind of think that I am happiest if I have something to worry about. I've never NOT been worrying about something. That's why I had to have kids. Cause I can't fix the world peace problems, so I need something more manageable to worry about.

I'm sure there are many many more.

[Ban Hammer 13,283]

Well, the first one he always says is biting. I feel horrible admitting that, but I bite him in bed. And I truly have no control over it. I've never done it before. I didn't do it with my ex-husband. I don't know why I started doing this now. He doesn't like it.

[doodlebug 3]

Well, the first one he always says is biting. I feel horrible admitting that, but I bite him in bed. And I truly have no control over it. I've never done it before. I didn't do it with my ex-husband. I don't know why I started doing this now. He doesn't like it.

Do you draw blood? I guess if you don't actually ingest him that's cool.

[yassmine2878 1]

Well, the first one he always says is biting. I feel horrible admitting that, but I bite him in bed. And I truly have no control over it. I've never done it before. I didn't do it with my ex-husband. I don't know why I started doing this now. He doesn't like it.

Do you draw blood? I guess if you don't actually ingest him that's cool.

It would be even funnier if she woke up with indigestion

[Bassi and Zainab 1]

Well, the first one he always says is biting. I feel horrible admitting that, but I bite him in bed. And I truly have no control over it. I've never done it before. I didn't do it with my ex-husband. I don't know why I started doing this now. He doesn't like it.

Do you draw blood? I guess if you don't actually ingest him that's cool.

It would be even funnier if she woke up with indigestion

Your imaginations have gone the wrong way. It's not while I"m sleeping. It's when we are intimate. That's the only time it happens and I don't break the skin, but I think it hurts him cause he doesn't like it. And I can't control it. It just happens and I don't know why.

[sarah and hicham 3]

My emotional fluctuations right now.

Aren't your emotional fluctuations based on what your husband did with a 16 year old on myspace? And YOU are driving him crazy? That's just wrong.

Dearest Sarah,

I forgive him and myself for being foolish. We are human after all and we all make mistakes. Even though we may not realize we are fools everyday we do foolish things. Forgiveness is essential to correct our beliefs in victimhood. Neither of us are victims in this marriage as we're partners building a life together.

With love always,

Olivia

Riiiiight. Keep telling yourself that!

[doodlebug 3]

Well, the first one he always says is biting. I feel horrible admitting that, but I bite him in bed. And I truly have no control over it. I've never done it before. I didn't do it with my ex-husband. I don't know why I started doing this now. He doesn't like it.

Do you draw blood? I guess if you don't actually ingest him that's cool.

It would be even funnier if she woke up with indigestion

Your imaginations have gone the wrong way. It's not while I"m sleeping. It's when we are intimate. That's the only time it happens and I don't break the skin, but I think it hurts him cause he doesn't like it. And I can't control it. It just happens and I don't know why.

rofl!!! PHEW!!! That's pretty normal I would think. I thought you meant he was kind of a midnight snack of sorts.

[Bassi and Zainab 1]

Well, the first one he always says is biting. I feel horrible admitting that, but I bite him in bed. And I truly have no control over it. I've never done it before. I didn't do it with my ex-husband. I don't know why I started doing this now. He doesn't like it.

Do you draw blood? I guess if you don't actually ingest him that's cool.

It would be even funnier if she woke up with indigestion

Your imaginations have gone the wrong way. It's not while I"m sleeping. It's when we are intimate. That's the only time it happens and I don't break the skin, but I think it hurts him cause he doesn't like it. And I can't control it. It just happens and I don't know why.

rofl!!! PHEW!!! That's pretty normal I would think. I thought you meant he was kind of a midnight snack of sorts.

Oh my gosh, no no no!