shipping them back and you are pregnant

[Ban Hammer 13,489]

I have not heard one person on this board other than doodle talk about the benefits of sometimes swallowing things to do right by the child.

darnit doodle quit that, i'm

[Jenn! 918]

There is a world of difference between "things just didn't work out between us" and "my ex-husband is potentially dangerous to me and/or our child(ren)". We on this board won't ever have enough information to decide in which group a couple should be categorized and therefore really don't have the capability to make any recommendations, as it should be.

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

Wahrania was it you who posted that you have an ex-husband in the US who you and or our government have no idea where he is now?

I dont know where he is because he has a permanent injunction for domestic violence and has multiple financial judgements against him from other people but I am pretty sure the USA knows where he is. You would be very surprised as to what homeland security knows....What does that have to do with this post?

About this whole airing of laundry.... Has this been a common occurance on mena through the years? One spouse posting and then saying their whole lives and then the other party coming on and answering? I dont know because I have only been here 6 months and never saw it before and all of the sudden people are sending smoke signals to wayward husbands....through posts and people fighting online... and then between the girl with the dead womans fiancee and everthing else I have seen, it seems like MENA has become its own soap opera with plot twists...and cheaters.. and pregnancies.... and dead people... and I just dont know

I'm REALLY not trying to be ugly, but are you not perpetuating the whole "soap opera" thing by devoting a whole topic about it?

I am commenting on it certainly not perpetuating it. I also could never imagine trying to talk to someone I loved through posts...

Wahrania, you are advocating some pretty irresponsible behavior here. You have an ex-husband whom you have no idea where he is and DHS may or may not know where he is at this time. Now, you want other women here in this dire situations to keep their philanderers/abusers here just because they are being "selfish"for feeling betrayed? And what if the whereabouts of their husband/ex-husband become unknown like yours did? How about their husbands betrayed and broke their trust and have already shown that they do not hold the family in high esteem. Some of these women could possibly be financially responsible for a man who may or may not turn out to be a deadbeat at that! I just believe you are advocating some pretty irresponsible behavior on this board. Lastly I think it is unfortunate that you chose to create this thread. We have members here who created alternate Id's because they did not feel comfortable posting under their account and Mags asked the other couple to take it privately.Now I know your husband is not here yet,but if you are going to post here you should at least try to make it constructive. Oh and if someone is going to claim victim hood,it would be a good idea if he or she had clean hands.

Again I would never send smoke signals through posts if my husband read this board

Second, I think that no one has taken the Moroccan inlaws into account

Third, people are not cats you take to the pound. Very little has been said in terms of suggesting counseling. Sometimes marriages can be saved. You do not know if he and she discussed having the baby in advance. You also do not know their history or her behavior. I would suggest leaving in the case of battering.

Counseling if both still love each other is a great route..

It would be a good idea that you do not mention the words victim hood. It implies that battered person deserved it.

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

There is a world of difference between "things just didn't work out between us" and "my ex-husband is potentially dangerous to me and/or our child(ren)". We on this board won't ever have enough information to decide in which group a couple should be categorized and therefore really don't have the capability to make any recommendations, as it should be.

Thats where the police and the legal system come into play.... But people keep coming here airing laundry so you will have people offering advice.

The question I have is how much is the Moroccan family involved? If they knew and supported the marriage I am sure they would do things to rein in the husband. Then again if its a paper marriage and he is telling them all its a fake marriage then having a baby would kill that image. I am very curious as to what the mans family has to say

[JODO 2]

Wahrania was it you who posted that you have an ex-husband in the US who you and or our government have no idea where he is now?

I dont know where he is because he has a permanent injunction for domestic violence and has multiple financial judgements against him from other people but I am pretty sure the USA knows where he is. You would be very surprised as to what homeland security knows....What does that have to do with this post?

About this whole airing of laundry.... Has this been a common occurance on mena through the years? One spouse posting and then saying their whole lives and then the other party coming on and answering? I dont know because I have only been here 6 months and never saw it before and all of the sudden people are sending smoke signals to wayward husbands....through posts and people fighting online... and then between the girl with the dead womans fiancee and everthing else I have seen, it seems like MENA has become its own soap opera with plot twists...and cheaters.. and pregnancies.... and dead people... and I just dont know

I'm REALLY not trying to be ugly, but are you not perpetuating the whole "soap opera" thing by devoting a whole topic about it?

I am commenting on it certainly not perpetuating it. I also could never imagine trying to talk to someone I loved through posts...

Wahrania, you are advocating some pretty irresponsible behavior here. You have an ex-husband whom you have no idea where he is and DHS may or may not know where he is at this time. Now, you want other women here in this dire situations to keep their philanderers/abusers here just because they are being "selfish"for feeling betrayed? And what if the whereabouts of their husband/ex-husband become unknown like yours did? How about their husbands betrayed and broke their trust and have already shown that they do not hold the family in high esteem. Some of these women could possibly be financially responsible for a man who may or may not turn out to be a deadbeat at that! I just believe you are advocating some pretty irresponsible behavior on this board. Lastly I think it is unfortunate that you chose to create this thread. We have members here who created alternate Id's because they did not feel comfortable posting under their account and Mags asked the other couple to take it privately.Now I know your husband is not here yet,but if you are going to post here you should at least try to make it constructive. Oh and if someone is going to claim victim hood,it would be a good idea if he or she had clean hands.

Again I would never send smoke signals through posts if my husband read this board

Second, I think that no one has taken the Moroccan inlaws into account

Third, people are not cats you take to the pound. Very little has been said in terms of suggesting counseling. Sometimes marriages can be saved. You do not know if he and she discussed having the baby in advance. You also do not know their history or her behavior. I would suggest leaving in the case of battering.

Counseling if both still love each other is a great route..

It would be a good idea that you do not mention the words victim hood. It implies that battered person deserved it.

Look Wahrania,

I am talking about YOU. You claim victim hood, to be bullied and yet you create threads like this. Your hands are not clean. You perpetuate nonsense here as much as anyone else. Your bolded words above are apt, so why don't you stop beating a dead horse? I mean I know sadly some people think a piece of a man is better than no man,but if a man is not a good influence then just because he provided sperm does not mean he will make a good father and or will be a positive influence in a child's life.

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

Wahrania was it you who posted that you have an ex-husband in the US who you and or our government have no idea where he is now?

I dont know where he is because he has a permanent injunction for domestic violence and has multiple financial judgements against him from other people but I am pretty sure the USA knows where he is. You would be very surprised as to what homeland security knows....What does that have to do with this post?

About this whole airing of laundry.... Has this been a common occurance on mena through the years? One spouse posting and then saying their whole lives and then the other party coming on and answering? I dont know because I have only been here 6 months and never saw it before and all of the sudden people are sending smoke signals to wayward husbands....through posts and people fighting online... and then between the girl with the dead womans fiancee and everthing else I have seen, it seems like MENA has become its own soap opera with plot twists...and cheaters.. and pregnancies.... and dead people... and I just dont know

I'm REALLY not trying to be ugly, but are you not perpetuating the whole "soap opera" thing by devoting a whole topic about it?

I am commenting on it certainly not perpetuating it. I also could never imagine trying to talk to someone I loved through posts...

Wahrania, you are advocating some pretty irresponsible behavior here. You have an ex-husband whom you have no idea where he is and DHS may or may not know where he is at this time. Now, you want other women here in this dire situations to keep their philanderers/abusers here just because they are being "selfish"for feeling betrayed? And what if the whereabouts of their husband/ex-husband become unknown like yours did? How about their husbands betrayed and broke their trust and have already shown that they do not hold the family in high esteem. Some of these women could possibly be financially responsible for a man who may or may not turn out to be a deadbeat at that! I just believe you are advocating some pretty irresponsible behavior on this board. Lastly I think it is unfortunate that you chose to create this thread. We have members here who created alternate Id's because they did not feel comfortable posting under their account and Mags asked the other couple to take it privately.Now I know your husband is not here yet,but if you are going to post here you should at least try to make it constructive. Oh and if someone is going to claim victim hood,it would be a good idea if he or she had clean hands.

Again I would never send smoke signals through posts if my husband read this board

Second, I think that no one has taken the Moroccan inlaws into account

Third, people are not cats you take to the pound. Very little has been said in terms of suggesting counseling. Sometimes marriages can be saved. You do not know if he and she discussed having the baby in advance. You also do not know their history or her behavior. I would suggest leaving in the case of battering.

Counseling if both still love each other is a great route..

It would be a good idea that you do not mention the words victim hood. It implies that battered person deserved it.

Look Wahrania,

I am talking about YOU. You claim victim hood, to be bullied and yet you create threads like this. Your hands are not clean. You perpetuate nonsense here as much as anyone else. Your bolded words above are apt, so why don't you stop beating a dead horse? I mean I know sadly some people think a piece of a man is better than no man,but if a man is not a good influence then just because he provided sperm does not mean he will make a good father and or will be a positive influence in a child's life.

First and foremost, I have not been particularly bullied but a hell of a lot of other peope have and they have left the boards. I can drag post after post of people leaving in disgust or frustration. You just made that part of this thread. I did not. I do think bullying goes on in MENA and before I started actively posting I witnessed it repeatedly. The poll shows the results. Apparently lots of other people think so too. Overwhelmingly people voted yes.

Second point, I frequently post about politics, history and poetry so I cannot see how I am the main perpetuator of these non sense posts. My last two topics were the Algerian War and Jinns. I have other things to write about and that is evidenced by my last 2 threads.

[doodlebug 3]

I have not heard one person on this board other than doodle talk about the benefits of sometimes swallowing things to do right by the child.

darnit doodle quit that, i'm

why do I think I'll *never* live that down...

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

Wahrania was it you who posted that you have an ex-husband in the US who you and or our government have no idea where he is now?

I dont know where he is because he has a permanent injunction for domestic violence and has multiple financial judgements against him from other people but I am pretty sure the USA knows where he is. You would be very surprised as to what homeland security knows....What does that have to do with this post?

About this whole airing of laundry.... Has this been a common occurance on mena through the years? One spouse posting and then saying their whole lives and then the other party coming on and answering? I dont know because I have only been here 6 months and never saw it before and all of the sudden people are sending smoke signals to wayward husbands....through posts and people fighting online... and then between the girl with the dead womans fiancee and everthing else I have seen, it seems like MENA has become its own soap opera with plot twists...and cheaters.. and pregnancies.... and dead people... and I just dont know

I'm REALLY not trying to be ugly, but are you not perpetuating the whole "soap opera" thing by devoting a whole topic about it?

I am commenting on it certainly not perpetuating it. I also could never imagine trying to talk to someone I loved through posts...

Wahrania, you are advocating some pretty irresponsible behavior here. You have an ex-husband whom you have no idea where he is and DHS may or may not know where he is at this time. Now, you want other women here in this dire situations to keep their philanderers/abusers here just because they are being "selfish"for feeling betrayed? And what if the whereabouts of their husband/ex-husband become unknown like yours did? How about their husbands betrayed and broke their trust and have already shown that they do not hold the family in high esteem. Some of these women could possibly be financially responsible for a man who may or may not turn out to be a deadbeat at that! I just believe you are advocating some pretty irresponsible behavior on this board. Lastly I think it is unfortunate that you chose to create this thread. We have members here who created alternate Id's because they did not feel comfortable posting under their account and Mags asked the other couple to take it privately.Now I know your husband is not here yet,but if you are going to post here you should at least try to make it constructive. Oh and if someone is going to claim victim hood,it would be a good idea if he or she had clean hands.

Again I would never send smoke signals through posts if my husband read this board

Second, I think that no one has taken the Moroccan inlaws into account

Third, people are not cats you take to the pound. Very little has been said in terms of suggesting counseling. Sometimes marriages can be saved. You do not know if he and she discussed having the baby in advance. You also do not know their history or her behavior. I would suggest leaving in the case of battering.

Counseling if both still love each other is a great route..

It would be a good idea that you do not mention the words victim hood. It implies that battered person deserved it.

Look Wahrania,

I am talking about YOU. You claim victim hood, to be bullied and yet you create threads like this. Your hands are not clean. You perpetuate nonsense here as much as anyone else. Your bolded words above are apt, so why don't you stop beating a dead horse? I mean I know sadly some people think a piece of a man is better than no man,but if a man is not a good influence then just because he provided sperm does not mean he will make a good father and or will be a positive influence in a child's life.

I think that the Moroccan family hands down needs to be consulted

[ya falaha! 0]

"His family is furious with him (I called and told them)."

That is from itsfinallyover's first post. I believe they were "consulted". Just because she chooses to leave her philandering husband and possibly shipping him back home doesn't mean she's cutting him or his family out of her child's life. She can send them photos, call them with updates, possibly take the child for a visit there, etc. It would basically be the same as if she stayed with the father of her child. It's not like the Moroccan family could just come over for visits anyways.

[JODO 2]

Wahrania was it you who posted that you have an ex-husband in the US who you and or our government have no idea where he is now?

I dont know where he is because he has a permanent injunction for domestic violence and has multiple financial judgements against him from other people but I am pretty sure the USA knows where he is. You would be very surprised as to what homeland security knows....What does that have to do with this post?

About this whole airing of laundry.... Has this been a common occurance on mena through the years? One spouse posting and then saying their whole lives and then the other party coming on and answering? I dont know because I have only been here 6 months and never saw it before and all of the sudden people are sending smoke signals to wayward husbands....through posts and people fighting online... and then between the girl with the dead womans fiancee and everthing else I have seen, it seems like MENA has become its own soap opera with plot twists...and cheaters.. and pregnancies.... and dead people... and I just dont know

I'm REALLY not trying to be ugly, but are you not perpetuating the whole "soap opera" thing by devoting a whole topic about it?

I am commenting on it certainly not perpetuating it. I also could never imagine trying to talk to someone I loved through posts...

Wahrania, you are advocating some pretty irresponsible behavior here. You have an ex-husband whom you have no idea where he is and DHS may or may not know where he is at this time. Now, you want other women here in this dire situations to keep their philanderers/abusers here just because they are being "selfish"for feeling betrayed? And what if the whereabouts of their husband/ex-husband become unknown like yours did? How about their husbands betrayed and broke their trust and have already shown that they do not hold the family in high esteem. Some of these women could possibly be financially responsible for a man who may or may not turn out to be a deadbeat at that! I just believe you are advocating some pretty irresponsible behavior on this board. Lastly I think it is unfortunate that you chose to create this thread. We have members here who created alternate Id's because they did not feel comfortable posting under their account and Mags asked the other couple to take it privately.Now I know your husband is not here yet,but if you are going to post here you should at least try to make it constructive. Oh and if someone is going to claim victim hood,it would be a good idea if he or she had clean hands.

Again I would never send smoke signals through posts if my husband read this board

Second, I think that no one has taken the Moroccan inlaws into account

Third, people are not cats you take to the pound. Very little has been said in terms of suggesting counseling. Sometimes marriages can be saved. You do not know if he and she discussed having the baby in advance. You also do not know their history or her behavior. I would suggest leaving in the case of battering.

Counseling if both still love each other is a great route..

It would be a good idea that you do not mention the words victim hood. It implies that battered person deserved it.

Look Wahrania,

I am talking about YOU. You claim victim hood, to be bullied and yet you create threads like this. Your hands are not clean. You perpetuate nonsense here as much as anyone else. Your bolded words above are apt, so why don't you stop beating a dead horse? I mean I know sadly some people think a piece of a man is better than no man,but if a man is not a good influence then just because he provided sperm does not mean he will make a good father and or will be a positive influence in a child's life.

First and foremost, I have not been particularly bullied but a hell of a lot of other peope have and they have left the boards. I can drag post after post of people leaving in disgust or frustration. You just made that part of this thread. I did not. I do think bullying goes on in MENA and before I started actively posting I witnessed it repeatedly. The poll shows the results. Apparently lots of other people think so too. Overwhelmingly people voted yes.

Second point, I frequently post about politics, history and poetry so I cannot see how I am the main perpetuator of these non sense posts. My last two topics were the Algerian War and Jinns. I have other things to write about and that is evidenced by my last 2 threads.

No you think you post about politics and history when most of the time you get corrected in your own thread by someone more knowing. As far as the "pooretry", I won't even comment on that. Basically, I believe all of your posts are pretty much nonsense,but you may have one sentence out of six long paragraphs that make sense. Anyway, by all means carry on because I am done and I have made myself clear.

[doodlebug 3]

Wahrania was it you who posted that you have an ex-husband in the US who you and or our government have no idea where he is now?

I dont know where he is because he has a permanent injunction for domestic violence and has multiple financial judgements against him from other people but I am pretty sure the USA knows where he is. You would be very surprised as to what homeland security knows....What does that have to do with this post?

About this whole airing of laundry.... Has this been a common occurance on mena through the years? One spouse posting and then saying their whole lives and then the other party coming on and answering? I dont know because I have only been here 6 months and never saw it before and all of the sudden people are sending smoke signals to wayward husbands....through posts and people fighting online... and then between the girl with the dead womans fiancee and everthing else I have seen, it seems like MENA has become its own soap opera with plot twists...and cheaters.. and pregnancies.... and dead people... and I just dont know

I'm REALLY not trying to be ugly, but are you not perpetuating the whole "soap opera" thing by devoting a whole topic about it?

I am commenting on it certainly not perpetuating it. I also could never imagine trying to talk to someone I loved through posts...

Wahrania, you are advocating some pretty irresponsible behavior here. You have an ex-husband whom you have no idea where he is and DHS may or may not know where he is at this time. Now, you want other women here in this dire situations to keep their philanderers/abusers here just because they are being "selfish"for feeling betrayed? And what if the whereabouts of their husband/ex-husband become unknown like yours did? How about their husbands betrayed and broke their trust and have already shown that they do not hold the family in high esteem. Some of these women could possibly be financially responsible for a man who may or may not turn out to be a deadbeat at that! I just believe you are advocating some pretty irresponsible behavior on this board. Lastly I think it is unfortunate that you chose to create this thread. We have members here who created alternate Id's because they did not feel comfortable posting under their account and Mags asked the other couple to take it privately.Now I know your husband is not here yet,but if you are going to post here you should at least try to make it constructive. Oh and if someone is going to claim victim hood,it would be a good idea if he or she had clean hands.

Again I would never send smoke signals through posts if my husband read this board

Second, I think that no one has taken the Moroccan inlaws into account

Third, people are not cats you take to the pound. Very little has been said in terms of suggesting counseling. Sometimes marriages can be saved. You do not know if he and she discussed having the baby in advance. You also do not know their history or her behavior. I would suggest leaving in the case of battering.

Counseling if both still love each other is a great route..

It would be a good idea that you do not mention the words victim hood. It implies that battered person deserved it.

Look Wahrania,

I am talking about YOU. You claim victim hood, to be bullied and yet you create threads like this. Your hands are not clean. You perpetuate nonsense here as much as anyone else. Your bolded words above are apt, so why don't you stop beating a dead horse? I mean I know sadly some people think a piece of a man is better than no man,but if a man is not a good influence then just because he provided sperm does not mean he will make a good father and or will be a positive influence in a child's life.

First and foremost, I have not been particularly bullied but a hell of a lot of other peope have and they have left the boards. I can drag post after post of people leaving in disgust or frustration. You just made that part of this thread. I did not. I do think bullying goes on in MENA and before I started actively posting I witnessed it repeatedly. The poll shows the results. Apparently lots of other people think so too. Overwhelmingly people voted yes.

Second point, I frequently post about politics, history and poetry so I cannot see how I am the main perpetuator of these non sense posts. My last two topics were the Algerian War and Jinns. I have other things to write about and that is evidenced by my last 2 threads.

No you think you post about politics and history when most of the time you get corrected in your own thread by someone more knowing. As far as the "pooretry", I won't even comment on that. Basically, I believe all of your posts are pretty much nonsense,but you may have one sentence out of six long paragraphs that make sense. Anyway, by all means carry on because I am done and I have made myself clear.

don't mince words now Jodo, tell us how you REALLY feel!!!

[allousa 1]

AGH!!!!!! I'm about to hang myself with my last nerve!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Ban Hammer 13,489]

I have not heard one person on this board other than doodle talk about the benefits of sometimes swallowing things to do right by the child.

darnit doodle quit that, i'm

why do I think I'll *never* live that down...

one of the better times in mena imo

[chaishai 1]

AGH!!!!!! I'm about to hang myself with my last nerve!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Allousa, please, your moroccan family sould be consulted before you hang yourself....

[sarah and hicham 3]

Finally someone said SOMETHING! Good!