My name ain't Stella....

[brownnskinn 0]

Never really been an issue for neither of us.

Ditto. I don't/won't dare suggest it cause hubby a pack him bags and been gone, just wonder why dem against it so, it's spoken about (against) in most all the artist dem songs, It's just not socially accepted.

[brownnskinn 0]

Hi everyone.

There are so many women married to Jamaican men, that feel it's not worth the effort.

You are always welcomed to reply, and we will all try to clear up the confusion. There are so many twists and turns, that I even get confused. LOL. Be blessed and likkle more.

JAWI

So sorry to hear that things are not going well, I hope tings get better soon! I will keep her in our prayers!

WHA!!!! NOT worth the effort!!!! What kinda ting dat???Mi luv learnin all I can learn about my hubbys culture You se see the smile on the face when he describes my willingness to at least TRY to communicate with him on another level. Yeah it's hard to follow but it's getting easier and easier buy the day. Thank u sooo much and please cont with the patwa??

Edited November 1, 2007 by brownnskinn

[Forever Young 1]

Hi everyone.

I lost my updated story again. I'm going through something personal with A, and I just didn't have the heart to retype it today.

Please keep him, his daughter and me in your prayers. I miss him, and it's just really hard today.

Raspberry,

I want to give you a standing ovation! Welcome to my story, and I will be happy to answer any questions through PM. I appreciate your attempt to translate the patwah and follow the story. There are so many women married to Jamaican men, that feel it's not worth the effort. I have gotten slack for typing in patwah because it's hard to follow. So, I continued for the few readers that continue to read and reply. The sucess of my story doesn't require the masses anyway.

You are always welcomed to reply, and we will all try to clear up the confusion. There are so many twists and turns, that I even get confused. LOL. Be blessed and likkle more.

JAWI

Hey Chica,

Look 'ere, we done tell yuh arready fi TEK YOUR TIME, mi chile!!! We can all ongly imagine what your going through wid your shoulder, the process, A., his daughter, plus your own responsibilities. That you find time to do this atall is amazing. We will be here and you are always in our prayers.

Much love ,

Gill

P.S.- We LOVE the story, but we LOVE our friend, Jawi even more...tek care and I'll call u later

[Jonesie 1]

Delmar: B-baby? BABY? Are you serious? When did he become baby Mya? I come over to tell you that I can’t bear being away from you, and now I find out that you sent me away so you could phock my own brother? Yuh DUTTY PUSS YEYE SKETTEL! Mi ago chop yuh bumbocl**!

Delmar: *laughs harshly* LOVE?? DUTTY MOUT SKETTEL! Yuh inna love wid a man nuh tell yuh im real name? Yuh inna love inna one day? Yuh rooks mi hoff two days ago skettel an now yuh chat phockery bout loving mi brodda? Mi name DELMAR…nuh TRAVIS!

Once again someone threaten to chop Mya and she still standing there

ROLLLLLIIINNNN you right DYT she a dunce fi real

[Jonesie 1]

Hi everyone.

I lost my updated story again. I'm going through something personal with A, and I just didn't have the heart to retype it today.

Please keep him, his daughter and me in your prayers. I miss him, and it's just really hard today.

JAWI

Yun dun knoa yuh have two shoulda fi lean pon ova yesso my girl ((hugs)) stay strong

Edited November 1, 2007 by Jonesie

[clairern 0]

Jawi, Sorry to hear about your problems. I hope they get resolved soon. You are in my prayers. Feel better.

Love you

Claire

[clairern 0]

Most JA men finds it taboo to "go down" as they call it, but they don't mind it being done to them. Mike and I have no issues with this. We are very open and love to explore new avenues and ways to satisfy each other.

[Yaads 0]

Hi everyone.

I lost my updated story again. I'm going through something personal with A, and I just didn't have the heart to retype it today.

Please keep him, his daughter and me in your prayers. I miss him, and it's just really hard today.

Raspberry,

I want to give you a standing ovation! Welcome to my story, and I will be happy to answer any questions through PM. I appreciate your attempt to translate the patwah and follow the story. There are so many women married to Jamaican men, that feel it's not worth the effort. I have gotten slack for typing in patwah because it's hard to follow. So, I continued for the few readers that continue to read and reply. The sucess of my story doesn't require the masses anyway.

You are always welcomed to reply, and we will all try to clear up the confusion. There are so many twists and turns, that I even get confused. LOL. Be blessed and likkle more.

JAWI

Hey Chica,

Look 'ere, we done tell yuh arready fi TEK YOUR TIME, mi chile!!! We can all ongly imagine what your going through wid your shoulder, the process, A., his daughter, plus your own responsibilities. That you find time to do this atall is amazing. We will be here and you are always in our prayers.

Much love ,

Gill

P.S.- We LOVE the story, but we LOVE our friend, Jawi even more...tek care and I'll call u later

Very well said! I totally agree

[Yaads 0]

So I asked hubby about the forbidden fruit thing last night and he said that he thinks it stems from a lot of the religious beliefs from back in the day about it being unclean. He said that growing up it was always described as socially unacceptable and taboo. If you ever heard of anyone doing it, it was done secretively and it was something that was hidden from general knowledge. He also said that growing up and even now it was considered to be something that gay people do. So basically it came down to "that's just the way we were all grown...to think it isn't ok to do". He doesn't necessarily agree with it all but he says that seems to be the general vibe he gets from society.

[Forever Young 1]

So I asked hubby about the forbidden fruit thing last night and he said that he thinks it stems from a lot of the religious beliefs from back in the day about it being unclean. He said that growing up it was always described as socially unacceptable and taboo. If you ever heard of anyone doing it, it was done secretively and it was something that was hidden from general knowledge. He also said that growing up and even now it was considered to be something that gay people do. So basically it came down to "that's just the way we were all grown...to think it isn't ok to do". He doesn't necessarily agree with it all but he says that seems to be the general vibe he gets from society.

Hmmmm...I was REALLY trying fi keep mi BIG mouth shut bout dis 'ere topic. Cause Ken hall ready feel like mi chat tuh much a wi bizniz pon deh 'blasted' internet ('im and Shawn99 mussi brethren ).

But, Yardie, I just wanted to say I think your answer best sums it up! That's it... that's all I'm saying...mi nuh waan fi seh nuttin else dat can & will be held against mi inna deh court of our bedroom

-Gill

Edited November 1, 2007 by Deyoungting

[Yaads 0]

So I asked hubby about the forbidden fruit thing last night and he said that he thinks it stems from a lot of the religious beliefs from back in the day about it being unclean. He said that growing up it was always described as socially unacceptable and taboo. If you ever heard of anyone doing it, it was done secretively and it was something that was hidden from general knowledge. He also said that growing up and even now it was considered to be something that gay people do. So basically it came down to "that's just the way we were all grown...to think it isn't ok to do". He doesn't necessarily agree with it all but he says that seems to be the general vibe he gets from society.

Hmmmm...I was REALLY trying fi keep mi BIG mouth shut bout dis 'ere topic. Cause Ken hall ready feel like mi chat tuh much a wi bizniz pon deh 'blasted' internet ('im and Shawn99 mussi brethren ).

But, Yardie, I just wanted to say I think your answer best sums it up! That's it... that's all I'm saying...mi nuh waan fi seh nuttin else dat can & will be held against mi inna deh court of our bedroom

-Gill

I hear what you are saying...

I think I did good by not putting personal business out there and being very broad and general with my statement...Shawn would be proud

[Forever Young 1]

So I asked hubby about the forbidden fruit thing last night and he said that he thinks it stems from a lot of the religious beliefs from back in the day about it being unclean. He said that growing up it was always described as socially unacceptable and taboo. If you ever heard of anyone doing it, it was done secretively and it was something that was hidden from general knowledge. He also said that growing up and even now it was considered to be something that gay people do. So basically it came down to "that's just the way we were all grown...to think it isn't ok to do". He doesn't necessarily agree with it all but he says that seems to be the general vibe he gets from society.

Hmmmm...I was REALLY trying fi keep mi BIG mouth shut bout dis 'ere topic. Cause Ken hall ready feel like mi chat tuh much a wi bizniz pon deh 'blasted' internet ('im and Shawn99 mussi brethren ).

But, Yardie, I just wanted to say I think your answer best sums it up! That's it... that's all I'm saying...mi nuh waan fi seh nuttin else dat can & will be held against mi inna deh court of our bedroom

-Gill

I hear what you are saying...

I think I did good by not putting personal business out there and being very broad and general with my statement...Shawn would be proud

Dyam right Yardie, Shawn wouldda very proud a yuh!!! ...Jus enuff, but not too much!!!

Gill

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Thanks to everyone that sent condolence..funeral went and mi still miss 'im but time heal dem seh..now lets keep on keeping on...

Mi off fi one day and so much 'appen inna di likkle time..what the heck is going on...

Ian a ketch a JA..mek 'im gwaan cause 'im no know seh Fritz a wait pon 'im wid a lass..ehhehee

Ok..Mya girl...wah u a run dung di man fah now..mi tink u neva waan fall in love...

Weh di res

[SupportOAFJF 0]

WHERE IS EVERYONE !! actually where is JAWI puttus

[Jonesie 1]

Welcome back Kimmy

If I'm not mistaken she's at the doc for PT on Tues and Thurs - I'm gonna call her in a few to check on her. I'll give an update when I talk to her.