My name ain't Stella....

[phatmadame81 0]

nothing like Jomo's girl, I am one who believes you better safe than sorry.......

[brownnskinn 0]

mi nuh no at all, at one point mr jengles said he would have to send down money twice a month and i told him no, because of the fees, but he said no because his money is supporting the mother, the new pickney and her new man plus his pickney...so this way he feels his child would get at least a little somthing, my jaw dropped and this has been going on since mr jengles has been in ja. He tried getting the mother to give the little girl to his mother until we can file for her but the mother isn't going for that, since that is her only source of income.

a nuh so it go........no mr.jengles a crazyiness dat......

...I think we support the mother, her sister, their kids AND the Granmudda

[*JG* 2]

Don't even get me started on that support topic again today. I've just calmed down again.

I think stress and being tired got to me yesterday. I got home at 4:30 and fell into bed. Slept till 8. Took a shower and got back into bed till 6:30 this morning. Didn't eat, drink, talk to anyone............

Feel like doing it again today.

[brownnskinn 0]

Don't even get me started on that support topic again today. I've just calmed down again.

I think stress and being tired got to me yesterday. I got home at 4:30 and fell into bed. Slept till 8. Took a shower and got back into bed till 6:30 this morning. Didn't eat, drink, talk to anyone............

Feel like doing it again today.

Ok, Ok sorry

[phatmadame81 0]

mi nuh no at all, at one point mr jengles said he would have to send down money twice a month and i told him no, because of the fees, but he said no because his money is supporting the mother, the new pickney and her new man plus his pickney...so this way he feels his child would get at least a little somthing, my jaw dropped and this has been going on since mr jengles has been in ja. He tried getting the mother to give the little girl to his mother until we can file for her but the mother isn't going for that, since that is her only source of income.

a nuh so it go........no mr.jengles a crazyiness dat......

...I think we support the mother, her sister, their kids AND the Granmudda

I personally amnot in that situation, infact I can hardly even support myself and my child. If I was still with Paul after he got here I would have to help support his mumma and him sistah dem , di pickneys and dem puppah too...dudge that bullet right there...............I have seen it over and over, and I don't understand WHY.

I know they are the fathers and I am glad they are more than willing to support their kids but come on now........why take the bottle from one pickney to feed the next ( don't get me wrong, support is support, but mek the mumma dem get involve too)......what is wrong with these ooman now a days...makes me sick..........

Don't even get me started on that support topic again today. I've just calmed down again.

I think stress and being tired got to me yesterday. I got home at 4:30 and fell into bed. Slept till 8. Took a shower and got back into bed till 6:30 this morning. Didn't eat, drink, talk to anyone............

Feel like doing it again today.

skip over what I just said Jomo's girl.I did not see that you are so stressed over this topic...........rest up ok.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Madame me nah skip..cause mi agree wid u pon dis yah one ...pisses me off

mi wouldn't so pissed if she did a work fi something..even if a no much at least ua try u see mi..

[*JG* 2]

mi nuh no at all, at one point mr jengles said he would have to send down money twice a month and i told him no, because of the fees, but he said no because his money is supporting the mother, the new pickney and her new man plus his pickney...so this way he feels his child would get at least a little somthing, my jaw dropped and this has been going on since mr jengles has been in ja. He tried getting the mother to give the little girl to his mother until we can file for her but the mother isn't going for that, since that is her only source of income.

a nuh so it go........no mr.jengles a crazyiness dat......

...I think we support the mother, her sister, their kids AND the Granmudda

I personally amnot in that situation, infact I can hardly even support myself and my child. If I was still with Paul after he got here I would have to help support his mumma and him sistah dem , di pickneys and dem puppah too...dudge that bullet right there...............I have seen it over and over, and I don't understand WHY.

I know they are the fathers and I am glad they are more than willing to support their kids but come on now........why take the bottle from one pickney to feed the next ( don't get me wrong, support is support, but mek the mumma dem get involve too)......what is wrong with these ooman now a days...makes me sick..........

Don't even get me started on that support topic again today. I've just calmed down again.

I think stress and being tired got to me yesterday. I got home at 4:30 and fell into bed. Slept till 8. Took a shower and got back into bed till 6:30 this morning. Didn't eat, drink, talk to anyone............

Feel like doing it again today.

skip over what I just said Jomo's girl.I did not see that you are so stressed over this topic...........rest up ok.

Nope....not stressed over this topic. There are so many others to stress over.

Just thought I was too worked up about the subject lately and not going to go there today.

I have to agree....there comes a time when you have to say I can't do it all. There is no reason EVERY single able bodied adult in the the Jamaican household cannot help support.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

I say the same thing..if my husband can give 75% and she was trying to make up the other 25% it would make such a difference. In my case I will dem damned if she thinks that she will call here and get what she wants when she wants..before that Kimora needs every blasted thing all what she doens't need it's time to buy...how are suppose to send for the kids if u try to suck everything outta we eye...eediat dem no tink....

[Shemmy 4]

I feel 'ya. That's why I didn't post my blow-up with Damien over the weekend. Just thinking about supporting some members of his family wears me out. Until now, I didn't have problems helping his family out.

What concerns me is that Damien feels that he can't go home with taking thousands and thousands of dollars. He was suppose to go home in March but he feels that he cannot afford it. Although he's been saving since last year. I have access to his accounts so I know he has more than enough money to go home for a few days. Of course, he has my help but won't accept it. The airfare is reasonable and he doesn't need a hotel. So what's the problem?

I think his family put too much pressure on him. It really upsets me that they would rather take his money than for him to visit.

[Forever Young 1]

Hello Ladies,

Sorry I have not been by to say hello.

But I think there is somethign wrong with my baby.....He has constant nosebleeds and yesterday I took him to the homotology clinic in Brokdale and they said he seems ok, and of cousre as soon as we left the hospital, he statrs bleeding form his nose again. I am so friggin fustrated.....enough about me.

How is every one doing ?

Intereasting topic, let me go read up and se where everyone is at.

Where is everybody..mi know it a no still holiday fi oonuh...Yardie,Madame,Sonny,Jengs,Marlita mi no see u all week, Gill a pretty up fi JA ,

Jonsie how u 1st day of school...who takes care of the munchkin while u go ?

MI BORED !!! can you'll tell !

Hello ms Kim, how are you Tiddeh?

My dear, whenyour child is ill, take him to Kings County. They have the best pediatric department in Brooklyn. I use to work at Downstate and never took my children to anywhere else but Kings County. I hope he feels better. It's been really cold lately and the blood vessels in your nose are very fragile and will break from the harsh cold and heat that dries the nares. Try using a humidifier at nights to moisten the air and if and when he starts bleeding just apply gentle pressure to the bridge of his nose and that should help.

That's 10 cents. Give me my change back

Bwoy, I was just gonna tell Maddy fi PM yuh! Me love yuh Clariey...it's guh fi ave a medical professional pon deh thread!! Maddy, Sweets mi pray hope yuh son feel better Love!

,

Gill

[Marlita 0]

What's everyone wearing to Tonya's wedding

I was thinking about this juss deh udda dey! Hmmm.....mi waan fi compete wid Mya and har dress, cause it was hot!!

[Marlita 0]

My dear, whenyour child is ill, take him to Kings County. They have the best pediatric department in Brooklyn. I use to work at Downstate and never took my children to anywhere else but Kings County. I hope he feels better. It's been really cold lately and the blood vessels in your nose are very fragile and will break from the harsh cold and heat that dries the nares. Try using a humidifier at nights to moisten the air and if and when he starts bleeding just apply gentle pressure to the bridge of his nose and that should help.

That's 10 cents. Give me my change back

Good Advice!! I get nose bleeds during the dry time too. I purchased a humidifier and it has a thermostat that measures the humidity in the air. I turn it on every night in my bedroom once the level gets below 70% humidity. It workd wonders. Get the hot air humidifer not the cold air one. Its heats the water up nice and hot and then forces it into the air. Feels like JA in my room at night.

[Marlita 0]

Ladies, I just have to ask this question?

A friend of mine is trying to get his B1/B2 and apparently when he went there thye said effective 1/2/2008 the fee is now $135........

Are you guys aware that they raised the visa fe at the embassy to $135?

Or are they playing somethign on me......... I am not doign this process anymore but i would like to know

This is correct. It went up $35 dollars.Its was $100 previously. There's been some talk on VJ bout ie.

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

Did you hear about how you can pay utilities online? We are thing bout dat far hubby's parents. Dem same wey. Have big people living in der house seh dem can't find work, making pickeny all ova de place. I understand but, when did this become our responsibility and better yet, WHY are you making this YOUR problem in the first. Dem neva want you from when, now all of a sudden dem your "parent"

Brownie,

I couldn't agree MORE!!! Mi nuh seh yuh cyan elp dem hout now han den, But fuh your income tuh be deh ongly source of THEIR INCOME....I'm sorry I have a problem wid that! They are suppose to be setting the example...nuh suh? Bwoy, if people back home inna Yard knoa deh TRIALS AND TRIBULATIONS we haffi guh through fi mek a dolla...I honestly think dem wouldda SHOCK!!!

If wan more person back home tell mi seh job hard fi find...I AM GOING TO SCREAM!!!!! Look 'ere, hit may NOT be deh job yuh want, but yuh mek hit wuk! Yuh a git a regular pissa food every few weeks and yuh nuh haffi beg nuh boddah NUTTIN'!!!!

For me especially inna deh MoBay area...yuh see HALL dem hotel dem a put hup! Yuh mean fi tell mi seh HALLA dem BIG BIG hotel fi build han yuh cyan find nuh work? Fi deh ooman dem HALLA dem BIG BIG hotel fi clean han yuh cyan find nuh wuk! Come on Man!!! That is NOT the YARD I memba!! Heverybody used to git out deh han bust dem claat fi a penny...but yuh had pride inna yuhself!

Dyam disgrace!

Blessed,

Gill

Agree with both a unu....

When I left school, and was looking for a job, I got the Jamaican telephone directory and wrote to EVERY bank and EVERY large hotel there..I got maybe 15 interviews, mi pick chose and refuse jobs!!

[SupportOAFJF 0]

my point exactly all when u no have no education..something deh dere fi u..