Daddy's Corner

[almaty 19]

what kind of beer you drink?

[natty bumppo 297]

what kind of beer you drink?

Given the title ....

Not Enough ??

[almaty 19]

lol..

take allot of naps? i do...after several beers ...plus, with that baby crying i need to be sedated

[*JG* 2]

what kind of beer you drink?

Are you an AB man, Almaty?

[almaty 19]

what kind of beer you drink?

Are you an AB man, Almaty?

i drink AB ...but mainly german beer....lol..sanita calls american beer women beer..it is a term in kazakhstan for light beer

[one...two...tree 2,762]

what kind of beer you drink?

If I'm at restaurant, I prefer to drink whatever is on tap over bottled. Also depends on the weather.

[*JG* 2]

what kind of beer you drink?

Are you an AB man, Almaty?

i drink AB ...but mainly german beer....lol..sanita calls american beer women beer..it is a term in kazakhstan for light beer

Just wondered.

Andre used to drink strictly Guinness or Red Stripe. Due to cost issues with those two, he's switched to Busch. He calls my favorite (AB-Beach Bum) #######! I'm just not a big beer drinker.

[almaty 19]

i also, like beer from the tap in the bar...allot of times htey will ahve an import on tap or a microbrew,.,,if not the old bud select

[brnidokiegurl 0]

what kind of beer you drink?

Given the title ....

Not Enough ??

[one...two...tree 2,762]

i also, like beer from the tap in the bar...allot of times htey will ahve an import on tap or a microbrew,.,,if not the old bud select

I tried this Red Trolley microbrew last time...it was pretty good.

[Sinergy 3]

since my son calls me dada, and daddy mama, am i allowed here?

[one...two...tree 2,762]

since my son calls me dada, and daddy mama, am i allowed here?

Do you drink beer? That's all that matters to me.

[DeadPoolX 9]

Hmm... considering I have to take some prescription medication everyday (I have asthma and migraine headaches), I rarely drink beer (or any alcohol) and when I do, I limit myself considerably. This isn't such a bad thing, really. I can honestly say I've never been drunk.

My father did give me some advice for marriage a while back. Now remember, some of this is probably outdated. He got married to my mother in 1974 and for some odd reason, thinks everything is relatively the same as it was back then. I've tried telling him that some situations have changed, but he won't listen. Maybe he doesn't want to believe it or perhaps he just doesn't care, since it doesn't affect him. Whatever the case, here's what he told me...

1. No matter how well you debate and whether or not your point was correct, you will be wrong. She might come back later, after the fact, and say you had a good idea or were even right, but during the argument? Forget it. You will be wrong. There's no getting around it.

2. Expect to be the one apologizing. Even if you weren't in the wrong, because somehow, everything will get turned around so you'll feel like saying you're sorry.

3. Women can act, at times, completely indescribable. A good example is crying. As men, we've mostly learned that we're "not supposed to cry" and if we do, it's either because we've severely injured ourselves or lost a close loved one. Women, on the other hand, can cry if their sad, happy, excited, or almost any state of emotion. It can become a virtual guessing game.

4. Whatever you do, DO NOT offer "friendly advice" about anything physical on her body. If she dislikes something on or about her body, shut up and listen. That's what they want anyway. The chances are very slim she's actually looking for a solution since most women are smart enough to figure out the answer for themselves. She merely wants to talk to you about her problems. Any advice you offer may be met with resistance and hostility, since it might be seen as a criticism of her.

5. If something affects or bothers her, it will affect and bother you.

6. DO NOT make weight-related jokes if and while she is pregnant. Unless you want to see your wife have a complete breakdown, reign in that sense of humor and use some common sense. Save those jokes for friends or other family members. In fact, never tell weight-related jokes to your wife to begin with. It's just not a good idea.

7. Here's a secret I've found that's important to know. Your wife will most likely be doing the majority of the housework and childrearing, and this is all very tough and exhausting. So if you lend a hand and do some of that for her, she'll probably be very appreciative. You wouldn't have to clean the entire house or take care of the kids for a week, but take out the garbage, do the dishes, and clean up after yourself so you don't leave a mess. As far as the children are concerned, on a weekend, take care of them and have her take a day or the entire weekend to herself. I know it doesn't sound like much and it really isn't, but it's more the gesture than the actual action which will be appreciated -- the fact that you care enough to do this.

8. Although it works for some couples, I'd recommend against working together with your wife. While it's true you want to have lots of time together, you probably don't want to associate some of that time with work. In addition, if there are any problems at home, it'll carry over to the office and vice-versa. All in all, it could make for a very difficult, stressful and unpleasant situation.

9. Make sure to do things together as a couple. This is even more important after you've had children, since once that happens, your life becomes about your kids. If you don't take time out for each other, then you make grow apart and that could eventually put undue stress on the marriage. What happens when your kids grow up, go to college and become adults of their own? You're left with someone who you don't really know anymore. So you need to keep doing things together as a couple and this includes an active sex life. Just make sure to use some form of birth control (unless you want more children) and to keep the door locked; you probably don't want to scar any of the kids by letting them see "mom and dad do the deed."

10. Don't tell your wife this one, but after you've had a child and he or she cries in the middle of the night, make sure you remain asleep. If you do wake up, pretend you're asleep. I know this sounds somewhat dirty and underhanded, but chances are your wife will be up and attending the kid faster than you, so it probably won't even matter. The best thing you can do is lend "moral support" while you remain comatose. Just make sure you don't screw up the next morning or a couple of days later and refer to that night or she'll know you were up. Then you'll be in hot water!

[almaty 19]

since my son calls me dada, and daddy mama, am i allowed here?

sister tare. you are always welcome in my thread..you give it class...

Hmm... considering I have to take some prescription medication everyday (I have asthma and migraine headaches), I rarely drink beer (or any alcohol) and when I do, I limit myself considerably. This isn't such a bad thing, really. I can honestly say I've never been drunk.

My father did give me some advice for marriage a while back. Now remember, some of this is probably outdated. He got married to my mother in 1974 and for some odd reason, thinks everything is relatively the same as it was back then. I've tried telling him that some situations have changed, but he won't listen. Maybe he doesn't want to believe it or perhaps he just doesn't care, since it doesn't affect him. Whatever the case, here's what he told me...

1. No matter how well you debate and whether or not your point was correct, you will be wrong. She might come back later, after the fact, and say you had a good idea or were even right, but during the argument? Forget it. You will be wrong. There's no getting around it.

2. Expect to be the one apologizing. Even if you weren't in the wrong, because somehow, everything will get turned around so you'll feel like saying you're sorry.

3. Women can act, at times, completely indescribable. A good example is crying. As men, we've mostly learned that we're "not supposed to cry" and if we do, it's either because we've severely injured ourselves or lost a close loved one. Women, on the other hand, can cry if their sad, happy, excited, or almost any state of emotion. It can become a virtual guessing game.

4. Whatever you do, DO NOT offer "friendly advice" about anything physical on her body. If she dislikes something on or about her body, shut up and listen. That's what they want anyway. The chances are very slim she's actually looking for a solution since most women are smart enough to figure out the answer for themselves. She merely wants to talk to you about her problems. Any advice you offer may be met with resistance and hostility, since it might be seen as a criticism of her.

5. If something affects or bothers her, it will affect and bother you.

6. DO NOT make weight-related jokes if and while she is pregnant. Unless you want to see your wife have a complete breakdown, reign in that sense of humor and use some common sense. Save those jokes for friends or other family members. In fact, never tell weight-related jokes to your wife to begin with. It's just not a good idea.

7. Here's a secret I've found that's important to know. Your wife will most likely be doing the majority of the housework and childrearing, and this is all very tough and exhausting. So if you lend a hand and do some of that for her, she'll probably be very appreciative. You wouldn't have to clean the entire house or take care of the kids for a week, but take out the garbage, do the dishes, and clean up after yourself so you don't leave a mess. As far as the children are concerned, on a weekend, take care of them and have her take a day or the entire weekend to herself. I know it doesn't sound like much and it really isn't, but it's more the gesture than the actual action which will be appreciated -- the fact that you care enough to do this.

8. Although it works for some couples, I'd recommend against working together with your wife. While it's true you want to have lots of time together, you probably don't want to associate some of that time with work. In addition, if there are any problems at home, it'll carry over to the office and vice-versa. All in all, it could make for a very difficult, stressful and unpleasant situation.

9. Make sure to do things together as a couple. This is even more important after you've had children, since once that happens, your life becomes about your kids. If you don't take time out for each other, then you make grow apart and that could eventually put undue stress on the marriage. What happens when your kids grow up, go to college and become adults of their own? You're left with someone who you don't really know anymore. So you need to keep doing things together as a couple and this includes an active sex life. Just make sure to use some form of birth control (unless you want more children) and to keep the door locked; you probably don't want to scar any of the kids by letting them see "mom and dad do the deed."

10. Don't tell your wife this one, but after you've had a child and he or she cries in the middle of the night, make sure you remain asleep. If you do wake up, pretend you're asleep. I know this sounds somewhat dirty and underhanded, but chances are your wife will be up and attending the kid faster than you, so it probably won't even matter. The best thing you can do is lend "moral support" while you remain comatose. Just make sure you don't screw up the next morning or a couple of days later and refer to that night or she'll know you were up. Then you'll be in hot water!

wow, your father was a wise man

[Sinergy 3]

yes i drink beer!!!

and thanks bro dean