Ball is in Washington's court

[Ron/Sharon 0]

Thank you all for the wishes and support it does the heart good to see what is written and by who.

I'm hoping that something good comes from my action that will help others in the same or similar situation in the future; being that making a notation in one’s file that jeopardizes the complete process without having any proof of the assumption and that the noted assumption is false and proved within the medical report and presently in hand documentation and on top of that having a second CO state that the previous CO’s assumption in their view was not correct as they could not detect what the first CO noted that they did.

I am hoping that my action will cause a change that will make it necessary for a second CO to confirm the first’s belief as that is not the present case and nor was it in our case. I am not disputing the fact that I had a criminal record and on that alone I would have done the I-601, I never denied have a past drinking problem and on that I would have done an RFE willingly. I have proof documented proof of the fact that I had a criminal record, that documentation was presented in its entirety, I don’t deny that I had a drinking problem, I admitted to that and also stated how long ago I gave it up. My medical stated and confirmed that I was alcohol free yet I doubt that was taken into consideration or the medical results even consulted as it should have because of the CO's assumption, all the information presented should have been taken into consideration regardless of what the CO thought.

What I do not like is as per my thinking the CO’s written comment in my file was taken for gold when in fact it was lead and that a new analysis of the matter y another CO would have proven that. The CO’s written assumption influenced/tainted the decision making process and brought on the I-601 which in again my opinion would not have come into consideration because of the time gone by.

I have no idea of what will happen regarding what I sent to Washington I do hope that it falls on someone’s desk that will take a good look at it and actually read through what is there and then ask Montreal for the files they have and see what was said to place us in this situation. I am hoping that further correspondence with them will be positive and if a second interview is scheduled it is without prejudice and fair for all concerned.

[Ron/Sharon 0]

Only four things can happen:

1. They review and make a decission in our favour.

2. They review and make a decission in their favour.

3. I get barred for life for fear that I will get drunk steal their car.

4. I get invited to lunch with the Director in Washington.

Any bets on which one I get?

I'm not sure what will happen - but I hope you get the lunch invitation!!

I think we deserve lunch and Debbie should be the one paying for it and it should nothing but filet mignon. IF we get an invitation we'll ask if a few friends can come along and bring each on of you with us. Cross you fingers on that one if you want o join in.

[Ron/Sharon 0]

Ron and Sharon, thinking good thoughts for you both!! Best of luck!!!

Thanks Kimmbo, I am surprised that you don't have a date yet, I hope you get one very soon, you must be going out of your mind with worry, but soon you too will be saying We have it the visa is on its way. All the best to you.

[Ron/Sharon 0]

Here's hoping that a human has some humanity.

Bradcanuck, we are hoping the same thing you are, we need a human being not a bureaucrate to look at our case.

[Ron/Sharon 0]

Best of luck to you both!

Thank you PfcsBaby, Just 2 more weeks before you make the trip to your interview. Wishing you the best in Montreal, come out of there smiling.

[vnoe 0]

Ron and Sharon I just want to wish you both the best of luck.

My thoughts and prayers will be with you both.

Big hugs

V

[Ron/Sharon 0]

Here's a whole bunch of fingers crossed for ya ... I know that you'll let us all know when you hear anything.

Thanks Lynette, I read your last post and am really sorry that it didn't turn out as it should have, Canadian family get-to-gethers usually last until the host boots everyone out. I wish more family attended your wedding also or at least replied to what you took the time to send them. The world is turning into a very sad state of affaires.

I really should have just rolled over and done the waiver thing as they want but this is one Canadian that just has to see what would happen if. In this case if I sent to whole danmed thing to the biggest person available (the director). Only four things can happen:

1. They review and make a decission in our favour.

2. They review and make a decission in their favour.

3. I get barred for life for fear that I will get drunk steal their car.

4. I get invited to lunch with the Director in Washington.

Any bets on which one I get?

Thanks Ron ... I'm sure that if they knew what a lovely man you are with all of the honesty and integrity that you have ... that invitation for lunch would be a hands down.

Lynette, you can thank Sharon for the way I am today she has been a big influance in my life since we met. I'm not so sure I can agree with your lovely evaluation of me but I do know that Sharon agrees whole heartedly with you because I read to her what is written about us and she can't beleive that others see in my writing what she herself sees in me. It is nice to be thought of as a good guy.

[Ron/Sharon 0]

good luck hun!

Thank you Liz, for everything and keeping me informed of the progress evryone is doing, without you I would be lost. I am happy to see that you are only 3 weeks away from your interview, I'm keeping an eye on you. All the best in Montreal

[Ron/Sharon 0]

Best of luck

Laura and Nick, thank you very much, I really appreciate you wish for us, it helps. I hope everything is going well for both of you and that you are together and if not at least close to being so.

[MaryandMian 1]

Just saw your update and praying all goes well for you now. Good luck.

Mary

[Ron/Sharon 0]

Best of luck, Alan and I will be thinking of you and Sharon. You have been one of many who has got us this far without pulling out our hairs xoxooxox

I wanna bet on the lunch also

Sharon thank you and Alan, knowing someone is with us brings the knowledge that we are not going through everything alone and that is very much appreciated by both of us. I don't know that what I ever wrote was helpful to anyone, to me my words self medicating helping me be retain my focus.

[SonoranSongbird 3]

Lynette, you can thank Sharon for the way I am today she has been a big influance in my life since we met. I'm not so sure I can agree with your lovely evaluation of me but I do know that Sharon agrees whole heartedly with you because I read to her what is written about us and she can't beleive that others see in my writing what she herself sees in me. It is nice to be thought of as a good guy.

Aww, that is one of the sweetest things I've ever heard!

Best of luck to you and Sharon. As far as I can tell, you really are a good guy. You've always been supportive and kind to people on here.

[trailmix 77]

I am hoping that my action will cause a change that will make it necessary for a second CO to confirm the first’s belief as that is not the present case and nor was it in our case.

all the information presented should have been taken into consideration regardless of what the CO thought.

What I do not like is as per my thinking the CO’s written comment in my file was taken for gold when in fact it was lead and that a new analysis of the matter y another CO would have proven that. The CO’s written assumption influenced/tainted the decision making process and brought on the I-601 which in again my opinion would not have come into consideration because of the time gone by.

You are so right about this. What is the point of presenting evidence at all if the above is the case? You do your due dilligence and jump through all the hoops and provide all of the documentation you have worked hard at getting and THEN someone behind a bullet proof pane decides it isn't true or misinterprests the information?

Absolutely in cases such as this a second or third CO's opinion should be sought. Anyway, I admire you taking this on and attempting to make a difference.

[~Nini~ 2]

Just wanted to throw my best wishes out of there. It's been a long and arduous process for you both, and you guys only deserve good things after all that you've done for all of us here.

PS. I like filet mignon

[Ron/Sharon 0]

I'm positive you have a very organized, well versed package there Ron! We're always anxious for news from you and Sharon on your journey. All the vibes from Canadians here can surely do no harm.

Wishing you only the best of news to come!

Carla

Hi Carla, thank for dropping by, Boy I wish I was organized and the package well done but to be honest I just sent in a copy of everything we worked on plus everything they ever asked for. I'm hoping that the news I can bring here after hearing from Washington is good and could be helpful to others that feel they were mistreated at their respective consulates. All the Canadian vibes coming our way are calming and soothing.