The Place to VENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Sinergy 3]

I hate that everything id like to say can get me banned

[*JG* 2]

I hate when people who are blatently and publically attempting to circumvent the law publically go off on other people for doing another version of the same thing. Pot & Kettle.

[BYRON-LEIDY 0]

I am not a child.

I hate that when I vent people are always telling me to "Be patient. It will eventually happen" or "You knew it would take some time. There is no need to be angry". SHUT UP! I just need to vent. Just because I am angry and frustrated and pissed does not mean that I need to find something to occupy myself with. I do not need to be happy all the time. Since when was it wrong to be angry?

Why can't people understand that?

I love my mom but she has no idea what it is like to go through this process. I didn't want to say anything because I already knew that she would make me more upset than I already was but it makes me so angry that she sees my unhappiness/frustration/anger with all of this as me not "finding something to do". She thinks that if I go out to a park or something then it will take my mind off all this..WRONG!!! She thinks that there is something else I could be doing. She thinks that we should just be happy that we know what the process is like and that in the end he will be here. She says I should do something useful, something productive and the time will fly by and before I know it he will be here.

Like that is going to help me.

I just wanted to be by myself. I am not antisocial. I just do not feel like going out and doing stuff. Is that a crime? I told her I did not want to do anything. It was a conscious decision. And she says that she does not like to think of me being alone in my apartment staring at the walls. Heads up...that is what I would rather do. I have absolutely no desire to go out. None. Its not like I have anything in particular that I would like to do. Just because I want to sit on my couch all weekend does not mean that I need suggestions of what to do with my time. I think I am pretty capable of entertaining myself if I so choose.

No, I do not need to go out. Yes, I would like to remain on my couch all weekend. No, I do not need to go anywhere. Yes, I want to sit and eat a gallon or 2 of ice cream. No, I do not need to keep myself busy. Yes, I want to punch someone. No, I am NOT BORED. Yes, I have things to do. No, I do not feel like doing them. Yes, please leave me alone. No, you have not made me feel any better.

I hate that this stupid immigration process has taken over my life. And maybe it shouldn't but today, at this moment in time, it has. I am sure that I will feel differently tomorrow or the day after. But today this is how I feel.

I hate that I have NO OTHER OPTION but to wait it out.

I hate the unpredictabilty and randomness of this so called 'process'.

I hate that I have to keep explaining to people that "No, he can't just hop on a plane and live here".

I hate it when people feel sorry for me because my fiance is not here. This is not something I need to be coddled over. What is there to be sorry about? Yeah, it sucks that he is not here but we made the choice to bring him here so as much as it sucks I don't need to hear "I'm sorry he isn't here. Is there anything I can do for you?" Please. There is nothing anything can do for me. I appreciate that people are trying to sympathize but don't give me that look of pity.

***Wow, didn't realize that I had written so much. I feel so much better now though ***

If only the immigration department could see this they would understand what we go through!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This process SUCKS!!!!!

[Sinergy 3]

I am not a child.

I hate that when I vent people are always telling me to "Be patient. It will eventually happen" or "You knew it would take some time. There is no need to be angry". SHUT UP! I just need to vent. Just because I am angry and frustrated and pissed does not mean that I need to find something to occupy myself with. I do not need to be happy all the time. Since when was it wrong to be angry?

Why can't people understand that?

I love my mom but she has no idea what it is like to go through this process. I didn't want to say anything because I already knew that she would make me more upset than I already was but it makes me so angry that she sees my unhappiness/frustration/anger with all of this as me not "finding something to do". She thinks that if I go out to a park or something then it will take my mind off all this..WRONG!!! She thinks that there is something else I could be doing. She thinks that we should just be happy that we know what the process is like and that in the end he will be here. She says I should do something useful, something productive and the time will fly by and before I know it he will be here.

Like that is going to help me.

I just wanted to be by myself. I am not antisocial. I just do not feel like going out and doing stuff. Is that a crime? I told her I did not want to do anything. It was a conscious decision. And she says that she does not like to think of me being alone in my apartment staring at the walls. Heads up...that is what I would rather do. I have absolutely no desire to go out. None. Its not like I have anything in particular that I would like to do. Just because I want to sit on my couch all weekend does not mean that I need suggestions of what to do with my time. I think I am pretty capable of entertaining myself if I so choose.

No, I do not need to go out. Yes, I would like to remain on my couch all weekend. No, I do not need to go anywhere. Yes, I want to sit and eat a gallon or 2 of ice cream. No, I do not need to keep myself busy. Yes, I want to punch someone. No, I am NOT BORED. Yes, I have things to do. No, I do not feel like doing them. Yes, please leave me alone. No, you have not made me feel any better.

I hate that this stupid immigration process has taken over my life. And maybe it shouldn't but today, at this moment in time, it has. I am sure that I will feel differently tomorrow or the day after. But today this is how I feel.

I hate that I have NO OTHER OPTION but to wait it out.

I hate the unpredictabilty and randomness of this so called 'process'.

I hate that I have to keep explaining to people that "No, he can't just hop on a plane and live here".

I hate it when people feel sorry for me because my fiance is not here. This is not something I need to be coddled over. What is there to be sorry about? Yeah, it sucks that he is not here but we made the choice to bring him here so as much as it sucks I don't need to hear "I'm sorry he isn't here. Is there anything I can do for you?" Please. There is nothing anything can do for me. I appreciate that people are trying to sympathize but don't give me that look of pity.

***Wow, didn't realize that I had written so much. I feel so much better now though ***

If only the immigration department could see this they would understand what we go through!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This process SUCKS!!!!!

Have you ever concidered they may understand what your going thru, they are just doing their jobs and they cant do anything more than what they are doing? just a thought.

i agree the process sucks, but we cant bash the workers. i mean without them there, we wouldnt have any chance at having our loved ones here at all.

Edited October 8, 2007 by Ionescu

[Ban Hammer 13,337]

I hate that everything id like to say can get me banned

[BYRON-LEIDY 0]

I am not a child.

I hate that when I vent people are always telling me to "Be patient. It will eventually happen" or "You knew it would take some time. There is no need to be angry". SHUT UP! I just need to vent. Just because I am angry and frustrated and pissed does not mean that I need to find something to occupy myself with. I do not need to be happy all the time. Since when was it wrong to be angry?

Why can't people understand that?

I love my mom but she has no idea what it is like to go through this process. I didn't want to say anything because I already knew that she would make me more upset than I already was but it makes me so angry that she sees my unhappiness/frustration/anger with all of this as me not "finding something to do". She thinks that if I go out to a park or something then it will take my mind off all this..WRONG!!! She thinks that there is something else I could be doing. She thinks that we should just be happy that we know what the process is like and that in the end he will be here. She says I should do something useful, something productive and the time will fly by and before I know it he will be here.

Like that is going to help me.

I just wanted to be by myself. I am not antisocial. I just do not feel like going out and doing stuff. Is that a crime? I told her I did not want to do anything. It was a conscious decision. And she says that she does not like to think of me being alone in my apartment staring at the walls. Heads up...that is what I would rather do. I have absolutely no desire to go out. None. Its not like I have anything in particular that I would like to do. Just because I want to sit on my couch all weekend does not mean that I need suggestions of what to do with my time. I think I am pretty capable of entertaining myself if I so choose.

No, I do not need to go out. Yes, I would like to remain on my couch all weekend. No, I do not need to go anywhere. Yes, I want to sit and eat a gallon or 2 of ice cream. No, I do not need to keep myself busy. Yes, I want to punch someone. No, I am NOT BORED. Yes, I have things to do. No, I do not feel like doing them. Yes, please leave me alone. No, you have not made me feel any better.

I hate that this stupid immigration process has taken over my life. And maybe it shouldn't but today, at this moment in time, it has. I am sure that I will feel differently tomorrow or the day after. But today this is how I feel.

I hate that I have NO OTHER OPTION but to wait it out.

I hate the unpredictabilty and randomness of this so called 'process'.

I hate that I have to keep explaining to people that "No, he can't just hop on a plane and live here".

I hate it when people feel sorry for me because my fiance is not here. This is not something I need to be coddled over. What is there to be sorry about? Yeah, it sucks that he is not here but we made the choice to bring him here so as much as it sucks I don't need to hear "I'm sorry he isn't here. Is there anything I can do for you?" Please. There is nothing anything can do for me. I appreciate that people are trying to sympathize but don't give me that look of pity.

***Wow, didn't realize that I had written so much. I feel so much better now though ***

If only the immigration department could see this they would understand what we go through!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This process SUCKS!!!!!

Have you ever concidered they may understand what your going thru, they are just doing their jobs and they cant do anything more than what they are doing? just a thought.

i agree the process sucks, but we cant bash the workers. i mean without them there, we wouldnt have any chance at having our loved ones here at all.

It has been considered, but today seeing that a petition that was filed on June 21st got approved and imstill waiting for an approval since May 21st...there is something really wrong...or that VSC has had 1 approval since the beginning of September, not right! Today will be day 140 for me waitin to hear something.

[Sinergy 3]

I am not a child.

I hate that when I vent people are always telling me to "Be patient. It will eventually happen" or "You knew it would take some time. There is no need to be angry". SHUT UP! I just need to vent. Just because I am angry and frustrated and pissed does not mean that I need to find something to occupy myself with. I do not need to be happy all the time. Since when was it wrong to be angry?

Why can't people understand that?

I love my mom but she has no idea what it is like to go through this process. I didn't want to say anything because I already knew that she would make me more upset than I already was but it makes me so angry that she sees my unhappiness/frustration/anger with all of this as me not "finding something to do". She thinks that if I go out to a park or something then it will take my mind off all this..WRONG!!! She thinks that there is something else I could be doing. She thinks that we should just be happy that we know what the process is like and that in the end he will be here. She says I should do something useful, something productive and the time will fly by and before I know it he will be here.

Like that is going to help me.

I just wanted to be by myself. I am not antisocial. I just do not feel like going out and doing stuff. Is that a crime? I told her I did not want to do anything. It was a conscious decision. And she says that she does not like to think of me being alone in my apartment staring at the walls. Heads up...that is what I would rather do. I have absolutely no desire to go out. None. Its not like I have anything in particular that I would like to do. Just because I want to sit on my couch all weekend does not mean that I need suggestions of what to do with my time. I think I am pretty capable of entertaining myself if I so choose.

No, I do not need to go out. Yes, I would like to remain on my couch all weekend. No, I do not need to go anywhere. Yes, I want to sit and eat a gallon or 2 of ice cream. No, I do not need to keep myself busy. Yes, I want to punch someone. No, I am NOT BORED. Yes, I have things to do. No, I do not feel like doing them. Yes, please leave me alone. No, you have not made me feel any better.

I hate that this stupid immigration process has taken over my life. And maybe it shouldn't but today, at this moment in time, it has. I am sure that I will feel differently tomorrow or the day after. But today this is how I feel.

I hate that I have NO OTHER OPTION but to wait it out.

I hate the unpredictabilty and randomness of this so called 'process'.

I hate that I have to keep explaining to people that "No, he can't just hop on a plane and live here".

I hate it when people feel sorry for me because my fiance is not here. This is not something I need to be coddled over. What is there to be sorry about? Yeah, it sucks that he is not here but we made the choice to bring him here so as much as it sucks I don't need to hear "I'm sorry he isn't here. Is there anything I can do for you?" Please. There is nothing anything can do for me. I appreciate that people are trying to sympathize but don't give me that look of pity.

***Wow, didn't realize that I had written so much. I feel so much better now though ***

If only the immigration department could see this they would understand what we go through!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This process SUCKS!!!!!

Have you ever concidered they may understand what your going thru, they are just doing their jobs and they cant do anything more than what they are doing? just a thought.

i agree the process sucks, but we cant bash the workers. i mean without them there, we wouldnt have any chance at having our loved ones here at all.

It has been considered, but today seeing that a petition that was filed on June 21st got approved and imstill waiting for an approval since May 21st...there is something really wrong...or that VSC has had 1 approval since the beginning of September, not right! Today will be day 140 for me waitin to hear something.

have you called them? i know sometimes it seems useless but sometimes can get something going if you do.

[BYRON-LEIDY 0]

I am not a child.

I hate that when I vent people are always telling me to "Be patient. It will eventually happen" or "You knew it would take some time. There is no need to be angry". SHUT UP! I just need to vent. Just because I am angry and frustrated and pissed does not mean that I need to find something to occupy myself with. I do not need to be happy all the time. Since when was it wrong to be angry?

Why can't people understand that?

I love my mom but she has no idea what it is like to go through this process. I didn't want to say anything because I already knew that she would make me more upset than I already was but it makes me so angry that she sees my unhappiness/frustration/anger with all of this as me not "finding something to do". She thinks that if I go out to a park or something then it will take my mind off all this..WRONG!!! She thinks that there is something else I could be doing. She thinks that we should just be happy that we know what the process is like and that in the end he will be here. She says I should do something useful, something productive and the time will fly by and before I know it he will be here.

Like that is going to help me.

I just wanted to be by myself. I am not antisocial. I just do not feel like going out and doing stuff. Is that a crime? I told her I did not want to do anything. It was a conscious decision. And she says that she does not like to think of me being alone in my apartment staring at the walls. Heads up...that is what I would rather do. I have absolutely no desire to go out. None. Its not like I have anything in particular that I would like to do. Just because I want to sit on my couch all weekend does not mean that I need suggestions of what to do with my time. I think I am pretty capable of entertaining myself if I so choose.

No, I do not need to go out. Yes, I would like to remain on my couch all weekend. No, I do not need to go anywhere. Yes, I want to sit and eat a gallon or 2 of ice cream. No, I do not need to keep myself busy. Yes, I want to punch someone. No, I am NOT BORED. Yes, I have things to do. No, I do not feel like doing them. Yes, please leave me alone. No, you have not made me feel any better.

I hate that this stupid immigration process has taken over my life. And maybe it shouldn't but today, at this moment in time, it has. I am sure that I will feel differently tomorrow or the day after. But today this is how I feel.

I hate that I have NO OTHER OPTION but to wait it out.

I hate the unpredictabilty and randomness of this so called 'process'.

I hate that I have to keep explaining to people that "No, he can't just hop on a plane and live here".

I hate it when people feel sorry for me because my fiance is not here. This is not something I need to be coddled over. What is there to be sorry about? Yeah, it sucks that he is not here but we made the choice to bring him here so as much as it sucks I don't need to hear "I'm sorry he isn't here. Is there anything I can do for you?" Please. There is nothing anything can do for me. I appreciate that people are trying to sympathize but don't give me that look of pity.

***Wow, didn't realize that I had written so much. I feel so much better now though ***

If only the immigration department could see this they would understand what we go through!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This process SUCKS!!!!!

Have you ever concidered they may understand what your going thru, they are just doing their jobs and they cant do anything more than what they are doing? just a thought.

i agree the process sucks, but we cant bash the workers. i mean without them there, we wouldnt have any chance at having our loved ones here at all.

It has been considered, but today seeing that a petition that was filed on June 21st got approved and imstill waiting for an approval since May 21st...there is something really wrong...or that VSC has had 1 approval since the beginning of September, not right! Today will be day 140 for me waitin to hear something.

have you called them? i know sometimes it seems useless but sometimes can get something going if you do.

I called about a month ago and they told me my petition was with an officer, after 3 weeks and not hearing anything i called again and was told...." i dont know where the person that told you that it was with an officer got that from because my computer just shows you are still pending and it is not with an officer" .....now that really stressed me to hear that!!!!!!!!!

[almaty 19]

i am pissed it is moday..columbus day..and my employer is anti- italian...where is the love for columbus?

[eric&gen 0]

I hate that everything id like to say can get me banned

Go ahead let it all out if you dont mind getting banned for a few weeks like me lol.

Edited October 8, 2007 by evdogg412

[Ovaltine Jenkins 5]

I hate doing laundry!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And imagine how you would feel in the old days where there was no washing machine and they spent the day washing bed sheets in the river

[eric&gen 0]

I love doing laundry at night

[almaty 19]

QUOTE(BYRON-LEIDY @ Oct 6 2007, 09:00 PM)

I hate doing laundry!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i see brother bryon..you do not know the code ....

all of us on vj..enjoy laundry....

[BYRON-LEIDY 0]

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!

I have the sudden urge to do laundry!

[almaty 19]

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!

I have the sudden urge to do laundry!

lol.. i thought so...