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Hi

I dont know who will read my post today.. but i am devastated.. My wife is very MAD on me... and i dont know.. what to do .. she is very angry.. she is in so much stress that she wants to end all ties with me. I dont know I am done with my Life.... I give up..... NVC wins.... and i loose..... I dont know whose fault it is... Certainly not of my wife .... Am I at fault.... I dont know its better i go away from every one......

Bye Friends... I dont know whether I will come back ever.... Thanks you every one.. who have always responded to my messages, views and added me in their friends list. I am sorry to any one on this forum if I said them something wrong....

JIGI

Feb 1,2007 - I-130 Reached USCIS.

Feb 4,2007 - I-130 accepted > Get USCIS case Number NOA1.

May 8 ,2007- GET NVC Case Number > NOA2.

June 16 ,2007- Get Order from NVC to pay 70$.

July 2 ,2007- Get DS-3032 in India.

July 7,2007 - DS-3032 choice of address agent entered in NVC.

July 14 ,2007- Get I-864.

July 18 ,2007- I-864 Enters NVC.

July 29 ,2007- Get Order to Pay 380$ fee.

Aug 3 ,2007- 380$ Fee Reached St Louis.

Aug 25,2007 - NVC & St Louis People receive photocopy of my payment with USPS receipt.

After WAITING for 37 days.

Sept 10,2007 - 380$ fee encashed.

Sept 24,2007 - Receive DS-230 in Mail.

Sept 25,2007 - DS-230 despatched.

Sept 26,2007- DS-230 Delivered.

Oct 1,2007 - NVC has DS-230.

Oct 12, 2007 - DS-230 Reviewed. Case Complete

Oct 16, 2007 - Case at Embassy.

Oct 25, 2007- Interview Letter Despatched from Embassy.

Nov 3, 2007 - Recieved Interview Letter.

Dec 1, 2007 - Medical Exam .

I GOT IT

Jan 16 - I am in USA

April 15 2008 - Get my Drivers License.

I-751 Lifting Conditions at California Service Center

November 12, 2009 - I-751 Sent via USPS Express Mail

November 13, 2009 - Receipt of I-1751 Fee

November 20, 2009 - Arrested on Domestic Battery(Had argument with wife)

December 18, 2009 - Biometrics Completed at 9 am.

January 13, 2010 - Receive I-797E Notice for more evidence

February 16, 2010 - Mail reaches Californa Service Center( Next day of Preseidents Day)

February 19, 2010 - Card Production Ordered. Status now IR1

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Bassi and Zainab Proficient

Bassi and Zainab   1

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Hi

I dont know who will read my post today.. but i am devastated.. My wife is very MAD on me... and i dont know.. what to do .. she is very angry.. she is in so much stress that she wants to end all ties with me. I dont know I am done with my Life.... I give up..... NVC wins.... and i loose..... I dont know whose fault it is... Certainly not of my wife .... Am I at fault.... I dont know its better i go away from every one......

Bye Friends... I dont know whether I will come back ever.... Thanks you every one.. who have always responded to my messages, views and added me in their friends list. I am sorry to any one on this forum if I said them something wrong....

JIGI

Why is your wife angry with you? Is it because of waiting for the visa process? We all have to wait. There's not much we can do except move abroad and live with our loved ones there instead of here. Maybe she's lonely and you should plan a visit.

GHANA.GIFBassi and Zainab US1.GIF

I-129F Sent: 6-18-2007

Interview date: 6-24-2008

Pick up Visa: 6-27-2008

Arrive JFK POE: 7-2-2008

Marriage: 7-9-2008

AOS

mailed AOS, EAD, AP: 8-22-2008

NOA AOS, EAD, AP: 8-27-2008

Biometrics: 9-18-2008

AOS Transferred to CSC: 9-25-2008

Requested EAD Expedite: 11-12-2008

EAD Card production ordered: 11-12-2008 changed to 11/17/2008 Why? (I hope it doesn't change every week!)

Received AP: 11/17/2008

Received EAD: 11/22/08 (Praise God!!)

AOS RFE: 1/29/2009

AOS Approved: 3/24/2009

Called USCIS 4/1/2009 told no status change and case not yet reviewed from RFE request.

Received green card: 4/3/2009

Craig_Karina Explorer

Craig_Karina   0

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Hello Jigi,

Sorry to read your posting. You said your wife is very angry with YOU. Why...would she be angry when you are so far along in the process? Maybe she is just having a bad day...we all do from time to time. All I can suggest is to talk with her and see if there is some way to resolve the issue...whatever it may be. I wish you luck.

Sincerely,

Craig

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Amy B.   0

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Oh No what has happened??:( Maybe she is just having a bad day or something. We all go through that and this process is long, stressful and yes it really sux, but we have to stay strong and keep our Faith!!

I am sooo sorry to hear about this, but please don't give up and just try and talk to her. I mean look how far you have come in this process. Just talk to her and be positive , let her vent if she needs to, but don't give up so easily Jigi!!

I wish you and your wife the best of luck !!

hugz to you

Aisha

I-130 Journey

06/06/2007 I-130 sent

06/22/2007 I-130 NOA1

02/20/2008 I-130 NOA2 (259 days)

05/20/2008 Case complete @ NVC

Interview Time

07/31/2008 INTERVIEW @8am --------AP

08/04/2008 Our file reached Washingtown for AP ( called DOS)

09/10/2008 US Embassy called for his Passport ( On AP 37 days)

09/11/2008 Submitted passport to AMEX

09/18/2008 Picked up passport w/visa!!!!!!

POE--Washington 12-11-2008

Qasim is Home!!!!!-12-12-2008

Petition to remove conditions

Vermont Service Center

Date Filed : 11/23/2010

NOA Date : 12/06/2010

RFE(s) :

Bio. Appt. : 01/12/2011

Interview Date :

Approval / Denial Date :

Approved :

Got I551 Stamp :

Green Card Received :

Filing N-400

bakofoil Proficient

bakofoil   27

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Hi

I dont know who will read my post today.. but i am devastated.. My wife is very MAD on me... and i dont know.. what to do .. she is very angry.. she is in so much stress that she wants to end all ties with me. I dont know I am done with my Life.... I give up..... NVC wins.... and i loose..... I dont know whose fault it is... Certainly not of my wife .... Am I at fault.... I dont know its better i go away from every one......

Bye Friends... I dont know whether I will come back ever.... Thanks you every one.. who have always responded to my messages, views and added me in their friends list. I am sorry to any one on this forum if I said them something wrong....

JIGI

I'm sad to read your post. I'm a K1 filer so not really familiar with the marriage visa process but having looked at the NVC flowchart on here you seem so close to having your details forwarded to the embassy.

I don't know exactly why your wife is angry but if it is visa process related then I assume the stress levels have got a little high but I'm sure her anger is not really focussed on you as much as the system itself. It is hard being separated from the one you love and people feel helpless and angry at a process which offers no certainty.

Try to encourage her that the process is underway, you appreciate it is hard but there are no short-cuts for anyone. She is probably super-stressed, missing you and feeling despondent wondering whether you will ever be together. Whenever I get stressed out my fiance reminds me that the process is relatively short compared with a lifetime together.

I'm afraid it all boils down to patience and a belief that at the end of the tunnel you will both feel this time spent apart was worthwhile.

Beauty for Ashes Experienced

Beauty for Ashes   257

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Hi

I dont know who will read my post today.. but i am devastated.. My wife is very MAD on me... and i dont know.. what to do .. she is very angry.. she is in so much stress that she wants to end all ties with me. I dont know I am done with my Life.... I give up..... NVC wins.... and i loose..... I dont know whose fault it is... Certainly not of my wife .... Am I at fault.... I dont know its better i go away from every one......

Bye Friends... I dont know whether I will come back ever.... Thanks you every one.. who have always responded to my messages, views and added me in their friends list. I am sorry to any one on this forum if I said them something wrong....

JIGI

No one is mad at you.. dont leave.. she is being very witchy and you need to tell her to stop and be patient.. this is NOT NICE OR NORMAL

*JG* Grand Master

*JG*   2

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I agree with everyone on here. You are so far along and it hasn't been an overly long amount of time. Both of you need to hang in there. Good luck to you.

Life's just a crazy ride on a run away train

You can't go back for what you've missed

So make it count, hold on tight find a way to make it right

You only get one trip

So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast

You only get one trip

xuemei Explorer

xuemei   0

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I can't imagine why your wife is so angry with you. You have come along way. You situation could be like mines. I have waited over a year and I still have not received my NOA2. I'm very stressed over this and so is my wife, but we are not "losing it" over the process. You are almost there.

I say maybe your wife is having a bad day or a bad time now... You need to be understanding and be calm. If she loves you, she will calm down. Life goes on with or without your spouse, I understand it would be very unhappy, but life does go on. Still, be calm and try to find out what is the problem and keep yoruself calm. Good Luck.

Sent I-130 to TSC

Received NOA1 from CSC with a date of 8/15/06

I-130 petition approved 4/16/2008 after 19 months.

Got IIN from NVC 5-13-08

Paid AOS fee online 5-14-08, Paid IV Fee online 5-27-08

Sent I-864 forms 5-27-08

Sent DS-230 forms 5-28-08

6-2-08 called NVC and msg says "received all information,processing will take 4-6 weeks"

6-13-08 called NVC, CR1 is complete, sent RFE for CR2. returned to NVC, waitn on result

6-26-08 case complete/approved. Waiting to be transferred to U.S. Embassy in Guangzhou, China for interview date

7-7-08 Petition forwarded to Guanzhou, China. Awaiting interview letter.

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vsmtghdy   2

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Hi

I dont know who will read my post today.. but i am devastated.. My wife is very MAD on me... and i dont know.. what to do .. she is very angry.. she is in so much stress that she wants to end all ties with me. I dont know I am done with my Life.... I give up..... NVC wins.... and i loose..... I dont know whose fault it is... Certainly not of my wife .... Am I at fault.... I dont know its better i go away from every one......

Bye Friends... I dont know whether I will come back ever.... Thanks you every one.. who have always responded to my messages, views and added me in their friends list. I am sorry to any one on this forum if I said them something wrong....

JIGI

This is just so sad to read. But they are right, Don't give up. You are almost through with your petition, since your timeline said that you had sent the DS-230 to NVC Oct. 1 and you started your petition last February (that is just 7 months). Me and my husband had to wait for a year before I can get here in the US. The waiting time always sucks but we all have to wait and be patient. Just hang in there, take some time off to de-stress. Good Luck and God Bless.

HELEN

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22 February 2010 - mailed the N-400 packet

02 March 2010 - Check encashed/I-797C NOA

03 March 2010 - USCIS Acceptance Confirmation via e-mail and text message

06 March 2010 - received I-797C, Notice of Action/Receipt

01 April 2010 - Biometrics Appointment (Biometrics done 4/7/10)

27 April 2010 - received I-797C/ Request to Appear for Naturalization Interview

02 June 2010 - Interview schedule

17 June 2010 - Oath Taking (Memorial Auditorium, Sacramento, CA)

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ze22   0

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Hey Jigi you are at the end of the race you just can't give up man! :no: I am sure your wife must have had a bad day.... People usually vent their anger and frustration on their loved ones.... so just hang in there buddy I wish everything goes fine for you and your wife...

USCIS Process

15th May 07 - Mailed the I-130 package

16th May 07 - Recvd by NSC

04th Jun 07 - Recvd by CSC

06th Jun 07 - Cheque Cashed

24th Aug 07 - Finally received NOA1

31st Aug 07 - Touched looks like finally things are on a move :)

18th Sep 07 - Touched again

19th Sep 07 - Case Approval (NOA2) sent on 18th sep (just received an email update) :)

NVC Process

02nd Oct 07 - NVC Received and assigned case number

08th Oct 07 - DS-3032 and AOS bill generated

22nd Oct 07 - Received DS-3032 and AOS bill

23rd Oct 07- AOS bill sent

29th Oct 07- DS-3032 sent

31st Oct 07- DS-3032 entered into the system

05th Nov 07- IV bill generated

20th Nov 07- IV bill received

21st Nov 07- IV bill money order sent

26th Nov 07- IV bill processed

27th Nov 07- I-864 received

03rd Dec 07- I-864 sent

03rd Dec 07- DS230 generated

19th Dec 07- DS230 received

31st Dec 07- DS230 sent

03rd Jan 08- NVC received

18th Jan 08- Case complete :)

26th Feb 08- Finally case forwarded to Embassy, got the interview date Yoo Hoo

Chennai Embassy

20th Mar 08 - Medicals completed

1st Apr 08 - Interview done I got the visa..... yoo hooooo

13th Apr 08 - arrived in USA

24th Apr 08 - SS card arrived in mail

09th May 08 - Greencard arrived in mail

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mgk   0

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Hi jigi!

Hang in there and talk to your wife after cooling down little bit....its should work out...don't give up! Recommend your wife to keep herself busy with something...it should do it.

Hope I am not going over board saying this.

Cheers

I-130

07/27/2007 : Mailed I130 for spouse (VSC)

09/20/2007 : NOA1

11/07/2007 : NOA2

NVC

11/20/2007 : Case # Assigned

03/10/2008 : Case Completed!

03/20/2008 : Interview Scheduled & Interview letter mailed

03/25/2008 : Beneficiary received interview letter

03/25/2008 : Case forwarded to consulate. NVC message updated on 3/28/08.

Consulate

05/22/2008 : Interview

05/22/2008 : Visa granted and passport collected same day.

05/26/2008 : POE (Newark, NJ).

Our Timeline (more detailed events)

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chaingang   7

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Hey Jigi you are at the end of the race you just can't give up man! :no: I am sure your wife must have had a bad day.... People usually vent their anger and frustration on their loved ones.... so just hang in there buddy I wish everything goes fine for you and your wife...

brother , by saying i give up wont slove your problem , try to think what exactly wrong is right now, saying i give up , is not sloving the problem , what is indeed 7 months nothing, man, look at me i repeat my self in every post but this is true i am waiting for 4 years, then what happened to me i was rejected, we lost our twins, Miscarrige, denials, waiting for long time, and still waiting and fighting for our cause and all those things neither made me or my wife to say give up , we dont belive on these things coz we had commitment it takes 4 years or 400 years we will not give up , be brave man, this is the true test of your love, how could u run and leave everything like this? dont even think like this , stand up and say loudly I WILL NOT GIVE UP AND I WILL FIGHT TILL TO MY LAST BULLETS.

your on ur right path and close to your destination now

my prayers are with you

Allah bless us all

Amin

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*Maureen*   0

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This is definitely a rollercoaster ride! throwing in the towel doesnt make the pain go away! Your timeline doesnt seem that there was an excessive amount of waiting. All I can say is to hang in there and im sure that your wife is just at her wits end with this process. She will calm down and realize what she is waiting for. I hope everything works out for the both of you!

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