Bonified marriage with Africans

[diadromous mermaid 36]

What can i do leagley I thin he only married me for his status.

Let's move past the generalizations, does anyone have anything to add on this regard quoted above?

I thank every one for your input I did not mean for it to seem like bashing that one race of people. Before I got married to my husband I heard nothing but neg. experiences others had I then didn't beleive my husband was that type of person.

He received his green and work card and was in another state within days. Found out I was pregrent and now he's saying lets get divorce, he's been on single line looking for a wife.

That in irself lead me to only beleive one thing. I was told if im pregrent, he would not need me the baby would be his petition.

Well, it would be a rather circuitous way to gain residency, in my opinion. Father a child and then wait 21 years for the child to petition the father to gain permanent residency. Perhaps, however, it is a guilty man's way of trying to evade an answer posed of him. Perhaps he thinks that by saying that, you will no longer suspect him of using you for his ulterior motives.

Either way, if you do have strong reason to believe that he has used you for immigration benefit, then by all means report your concerns to USCIS.

[johnosey 0]

What can i do leagley I thin he only married me for his status.

Let's move past the generalizations, does anyone have anything to add on this regard quoted above?

I thank every one for your input I did not mean for it to seem like bashing that one race of people. Before I got married to my husband I heard nothing but neg. experiences others had I then didn't beleive my husband was that type of person.

He received his green and work card and was in another state within days. Found out I was pregrent and now he's saying lets get divorce, he's been on single line looking for a wife.

That in irself lead me to only beleive one thing. I was told if im pregrent, he would not need me the baby would be his petition.

baby im sorry your husband john

[Donna A 4]

i dont know but is it your husband who posted here saying he has a addiction to internet woman and u are in councelling for it?

[Mel and Syl 0]

I am very sorry for what has happened to you guys!

Yes it's not right to generlize people but it is a fact that many african or if you want nigerians do get married to a foreign woman to get out of their country wich i dont blame them for. If they are lucky to find a stupid person who goes along with it than hey, dont blame them for it. I have been that stupid myslef. I am a very proud african myself but i do not agree with many things that some of them do.

It's also true that both men and women cheat on their partners but it's not often that they leave their lifes and familiy, move to an other country or continent to ruin their SO lifes like people from a poorer countrie/continent do. How many times have you ever heard that an american or european left his country to marry a foreign lady for paper issues?

I know so many females that have experience that, it happens every where here in Europe but i still believe that there some honest once out there. We have good and bad people all over the world.

What is there to do is to take your time and get to know the person you'd like to marry. Yes distance is a MF but hey why dont wait and know the person first? Of course there is no guarantie for an ever lasting marrige but no one said that marrige is easy. Marrige is just the first step into the real thing, there is where the work starts. A relationship or a marriage should be handeled like a plant, you need to water it, every time remove the weeds and dung it in other for it grow and look beautiful. I have learnd from my mistakes and thats what you guys should do. Blaming african or men in general wont help, as you can see in my timeline i have known my SO for almost 4yrs before we submitted the petition and im sure there are some people out there who waited longer then i did. Put yourself together an go on with your life!

PS: Taking words personal on this issue is a waste of time!

Good luck and best wishes!

Syl

[rashell 0]

What can i do leagley I thin he only married me for his status.

Let's move past the generalizations, does anyone have anything to add on this regard quoted above?

I thank every one for your input I did not mean for it to seem like bashing that one race of people. Before I got married to my husband I heard nothing but neg. experiences others had I then didn't beleive my husband was that type of person.

He received his green and work card and was in another state within days. Found out I was pregrent and now he's saying lets get divorce, he's been on single line looking for a wife.

That in irself lead me to only beleive one thing. I was told if im pregrent, he would not need me the baby would be his petition.

baby im sorry your husband john

yes

[libyloba 0]

We are all here because we need advice and we are looking for support, lets not forget. Reading most of quotes just makes me very sad, all this animosity against another ethnicity. STOP IT!!!

[rashell 0]

We are all here because we need advice and we are looking for support, lets not forget. Reading most of quotes just makes me very sad, all this animosity against another ethnicity. STOP IT!!!

This is our own oppion. Although it didn't go well with my husband im looking to start another relationship with an Africian. My husband didn't mess it up for other Africians, he only messed it up for him.

[Enlighten one :) 5]

I have no life and my son his at his Grammies house tonight. I have read about months of post, which has lead me to the realization that this person who started the thread is rashel. Rachel is posting as her husband in another thread to. this is really weird.