Couple divorce after online 'affair'

[featherB 1]

Hah, lookit everyone gettin tickled by the word 'wood'

Although saying that, you should see me on the tube when it stops at 'St John's Wood'.....like really, WHY am I the only one laughing damnit!?!?!!?

You just made me all homesick!

[Mags 112]

Hah, lookit everyone gettin tickled by the word 'wood'

Although saying that, you should see me on the tube when it stops at 'St John's Wood'.....like really, WHY am I the only one laughing damnit!?!?!!?

You just made me all homesick!

Cockfosters was the one that always made me laugh...

[Fandango 1,439]

Hah, lookit everyone gettin tickled by the word 'wood'

Although saying that, you should see me on the tube when it stops at 'St John's Wood'.....like really, WHY am I the only one laughing damnit!?!?!!?

You just made me all homesick!

Cockfosters was the one that always made me laugh...

Yeah, that one always made me giggle, but SJW made me belly laugh even after years...D would be all 'focking hell, it's like the 50th time we've been here!'

Sorry featherB, didn't mean to make ya homesick....in fact, I think I'm a little 'second home'sick now too

[Ban Hammer 13,334]

There is a street in Calgary called Shaganappi Trail.

[Caladan 19]

It just shows that being romantic and keeping the spark has more to do with how you treat each other, maintaining a level of mystery and space from each other, and not having crazy expectations.

Sounds like they had K1 syndrome to me.

That was my first thought, too. 'We're exactly the same online as we are in person...' Mmmmhmmmm. And no one ever gets fat or wears sweatpants, either.

Funny, though. Sounds like a movie with Meg Ryan and Tom Hanks except they would have reconciled.

[Kazan' Tiger 1]

Ridiculous! One can not cheat online! It requires physical contact. I would not be happy if my girl were ever to do it and could forgive her over a long period of time. I could not forgive the REAL thing.

Is is wrong, yes. Is it an affair or cheating, no.

[Fandango 1,439]

Ridiculous! One can not cheat online! It requires physical contact. I would not be happy if my girl were ever to do it and could forgive her over a long period of time. I could not forgive the REAL thing.

Is is wrong, yes. Is it an affair or cheating, no.

Interesting.

You two met online, yes?

[GaryC 7]

Ridiculous! One can not cheat online! It requires physical contact. I would not be happy if my girl were ever to do it and could forgive her over a long period of time. I could not forgive the REAL thing.

Is is wrong, yes. Is it an affair or cheating, no.

The point is they were both committing to meeting someone else in person. At that point it would be cheating. The intent was there.

[Pinocchio Liberal 268]

In the ninth grade there was a kid named Greg #######, when he would get called over the intercom you could hear laughter all down the hall. Poor kid.

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Ridiculous! One can not cheat online! It requires physical contact. I would not be happy if my girl were ever to do it and could forgive her over a long period of time. I could not forgive the REAL thing.

Is is wrong, yes. Is it an affair or cheating, no.

The point is they were both committing to meeting someone else in person. At that point it would be cheating. The intent was there.

I agree with Gary...cheating isn't just a physical endeavor. In fact, it's the emotional aspect of it that would crush me more than anything.

Edited September 19, 2007 by Mister Fancypants

[Kazan' Tiger 1]

Yes, we met online and I also spoke with many other women online too. Neither I nor my fiancée considered I cheated on her. Even though I kept in communication with some women right up until we decided to become engaged. Did I do it after that? No, because, to me, it is wrong. But I don't see it as cheating. I have never been one to subscribe to the theory that the thought is just the same as the act. It is not!

Interesting.

You two met online, yes?

[GaryC 7]

Luz and I did a few things online that I would consider cheating if she did it with someone else.

[Jasman0717 9]

There is a street in Calgary called Shaganappi Trail.

Imus goes there often....

Imus, he still alive

[Jaseball 0]

This is why it is critical to be on the same page with your fiancee and anyone important in your life. If you define cheating as any consistent flirtatious contact with another human being, while she defines cheating as intercourse, but kissing, oral, and other stuff is just for fun, then that would be a big, big problem.

[Fandango 1,439]

Yes, we met online and I also spoke with many other women online too. Neither I nor my fiancée considered I cheated on her. Even though I kept in communication with some women right up until we decided to become engaged. Did I do it after that? No, because, to me, it is wrong. But I don't see it as cheating. I have never been one to subscribe to the theory that the thought is just the same as the act. It is not!

Interesting.

You two met online, yes?

I'm not saying the thought is the same as the act, what I'm saying is developing an emotional bond with someone you're not physical with is not something to scoff at. Many people here made the decision to start this vj based on the strength of the emotional connection.

Of course we all have our own definition of what constitutes fidelity....if I found out that my boo was talkin to other women right up til our engagement...omG, there'd be hell on.