Couple divorce after online 'affair'

[featherB 1]

lol..." do you like pina coladas..getting caught in the rain....'

Darn, I was going to post that!!

Two great minds think alike.

So was I!!

Aren't they supposed to realise they're perfect for each other and stay together now? Haven't they ever heard the song?!

[Addie_Goodvibes 0]

lol..." do you like pina coladas..getting caught in the rain....'

I thought of the same song when i read this! Escape ( Pina Colada Song) .. Ruppert Holmes

Funny one would think this story should end similiarly to that of the song.

too funny

Edited September 18, 2007 by Addie_Goodvibes

[Sister Fracas 5]

D'OH!

[Jaseball 0]

Although this story seems pretty far fetched - thousands of chat rooms with millions of users, telling the same story and not getting details that would set alarms off, not getting a picture before meeting, etc., let's just consider it the truth.

It just shows that being romantic and keeping the spark has more to do with how you treat each other, maintaining a level of mystery and space from each other, and not having crazy expectations.

[rebeccajo 14]

It just shows that being romantic and keeping the spark has more to do with how you treat each other, maintaining a level of mystery and space from each other, and not having crazy expectations.

Sounds like they had K1 syndrome to me.

[Peikko 1,575]

I see two problems:

One, there is little to no real communication between this couple.

Two, they have unrealistic expectations about what it is to be married.

Neither of them will find true happiness until they understand that what they are looking for they already have.

[maya62 7]

I see two problems:

One, there is little to no real communication between this couple.

Two, they have unrealistic expectations about what it is to be married.

Neither of them will find true happiness until they understand that what they are looking for they already have.

I agree with these observations and I'd add a third:

They have lost one thing that they may have had: trust. I think it's tragic, really, because they each clearly had within themselves those qualities that the other was seeking.

It's a lesson to all of us to put forth that little extra effort it takes to be solicitous, communicative, affectionate, respectful, etc... even if we don't really feel like it or have had a rough day. I feel very fortunate to have found a partner who is all of these things (even though I had wait til my dotage, kiss a lot of frogs, and ultimately go to the other side of the planet to find him ).

Maya

[one...two...tree 2,762]

That's why we keep a blond wig in the closet.

[Peikko 1,575]

A closet transvestite? Or the 'let's disguise ourselves as someone else to keep the spice in the relationship'?

Personally, I don't need that kinda spice

[Mags 112]

If they put half as much effort into the marriage as they did into the "affair" they'd be very happily married. Sometimes people just can't see the wood for the trees.

[Donna A 4]

i read the same type of story about a year ago only it was an arab setting. i wonder if someone makes these things up just to have something to write about. it was almost the same exact story.

Edited September 18, 2007 by Donna A

[one...two...tree 2,762]

If they put half as much effort into the marriage as they did into the "affair" they'd be very happily married. Sometimes people just can't see the wood for the trees.

Mags said, 'wood' ...hehehe.

[one...two...tree 2,762]

A closet transvestite? Or the 'let's disguise ourselves as someone else to keep the spice in the relationship'?

Personally, I don't need that kinda spice

You mean you don't let your husband wear a sky mask while you wear a wig and have him pretend to be a burglar breaking in? You're missing out on a lot of fun if you don't.

[Mags 112]

If they put half as much effort into the marriage as they did into the "affair" they'd be very happily married. Sometimes people just can't see the wood for the trees.

Mags said, 'wood' ...hehehe.

Ding ding ding, first prize goes to Steven! :lol:

[rebeccajo 14]

A closet transvestite? Or the 'let's disguise ourselves as someone else to keep the spice in the relationship'?

Personally, I don't need that kinda spice

You mean you don't let your husband wear a sky mask while you wear a wig and have him pretend to be a burglar breaking in? You're missing out on a lot of fun if you don't.

BWAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAH!