the benefits to marrying a former hooker (joking)?

[almaty 19]

I just meant that there are guys who prefer the idea of a girl who hasn't 'slept around'. If the girl isn't a ho, she can probably maintain that illusion whatever her actual past is. Not so easy if you are an ex prostitute.

I guess I am thinking that what's sauce for the goose isn't always sauce for the gander in some men's mind and some women allow their men to carry on thinking that way

yes, different strokes for different folks

[BYRON-LEIDY 0]

Can you tell i dealt with an ex stripper... ...LOL...but its not bad cause it just makes me appreciate my baby even more now!!!

[almaty 19]

Can you tell i dealt with an ex stripper... ...LOL...but its not bad cause it just makes me appreciate my baby even more now!!!

i agree.. i never dated a stripper or a hooker..but had a fling with a girl in maine..who was an exotic dancer while in college..she had stopped when i met her and in fact, was a counselor....she was frisky as hell..ran me and my son out of maine....damn, i come home and she be passed out on my picnic table...temperature at zero..snow covered...

[BYRON-LEIDY 0]

Oh Yeah....They love to drink because that is how they work when stripping...drunk...and thats the kind of thing that a man would have to get use to when living or dealing with a stripper!

[Ban Hammer 13,334]

so on the honeymoon, the groom learns a few new tricks

[almaty 19]

so on the honeymoon, the groom learns a few new tricks

well, yes the groom..may learn some ticks .,.and pick up a case of the bullhead.. also, may notice there is an echo in the room when he is being passionate..

[BYRON-LEIDY 0]

.....Message: stay away from hookers or strippers when looking for that special someone!!!

[DeadPoolX 9]

I just meant that there are guys who prefer the idea of a girl who hasn't 'slept around'. If the girl isn't a ho, she can probably maintain that illusion whatever her actual past is. Not so easy if you are an ex prostitute.

I guess I am thinking that what's sauce for the goose isn't always sauce for the gander in some men's mind and some women allow their men to carry on thinking that way

It would actually be fairly easy for a woman to pretend she's a virgin when she's not one. Sure, she wouldn't have her hymen anymore, but that could easily be explained away by numerous things -- years of tampon use, excessive masturbation (including the insertion of an object, like a #######), accidents (bicycle or horse riding incidents come to mind), and there are even some women who're born without an intact hymen to begin with!

So knowing the above, it'd be quite simple for a woman to make a man believe she was a virgin, provided she was a good actress. I'm not quite sure why a woman would feel the need to do this, however. While it might make the man feel "good" that he's the woman's "first," the truth would eventually come to the surface. Then he'd not only know he wasn't his partner's first, but that his partner was also a lier as well.

Edited September 17, 2007 by DeadPoolX

[Peikko 1,575]

I don't know, it would depend on lots of factors really. I am not advocating one position or another. Personally, I don't catergorise people by the number of sexual partners they have or haven't had.

[Jenn! 918]

I'm not so unrealistic as to believe that most women wait for sex until marriage these days (they obviously don't), but there's a difference between having a few select partners and sleeping with anybody who pays you enough. At least there's a difference to me.

Yeah but there's a pretty wide range in between. Where do you draw the line?

[DeadPoolX 9]

I don't know, it would depend on lots of factors really. I am not advocating one position or another. Personally, I don't catergorise people by the number of sexual partners they have or haven't had.

I don't even think it's so much about the overall total number of sexual partners. It's the psychological mindset. What sort of woman (or man, for that matter) "rents" their body out to others so they can have sex with it everyday? I just wouldn't want to be with someone like that.

After all, if they can't even respect themselves, how the hell are they going to have any respect for me (or anyone else I might possibly care about as well?).

[Ban Hammer 13,334]

It would actually be fairly easy for a woman to pretend she's a virgin when she's not one. Sure, she wouldn't have her hymen anymore, but that could easily be explained away by numerous things -- years of tampon use, excessive masturbation (including the insertion of an object, like a #######), accidents (bicycle or horse riding incidents come to mind), and there are even some women who're born without an intact hymen to begin with!

So knowing the above, it'd be quite simple for a woman to make a man believe she was a virgin, provided she was a good actress. I'm not quite sure why a woman would feel the need to do this, however. While it might make the man feel "good" that he's the woman's "first," the truth would eventually come to the surface. Then he'd not only know he wasn't his partner's first, but that his partner was also a lier as well.

rule of thumb.....if you stick a piece of chalk in her butt and she can write the declaration of independence on a chalkboard, odds are she's not a virgin.

I am not advocating one position or another.

should i should i should i?

[Peikko 1,575]

However, the question posed wasn't about someone who is a prostitute, but rather someone who 'was one' in the past. Isn't it possible that someone might have gained this 'self respect' when changing profession? I am not saying that it's a given, just that people when they are young make all kind of bizarre choices given their differing situations and opportunities. Should someone be simply written off because of something they have done in the past?

[DeadPoolX 9]

However, the question posed wasn't about someone who is a prostitute, but rather someone who 'was one' in the past. Isn't it possible that someone might have gained this 'self respect' when changing profession? I am not saying that it's a given, just that people when they are young make all kind of bizarre choices given their differing situations and opportunities. Should someone be simply written off because of something they have done in the past?

This is true.

People do all sorts of "crazy stuff" when they're young and then regret it later in life.

[almaty 19]

It would actually be fairly easy for a woman to pretend she's a virgin when she's not one. Sure, she wouldn't have her hymen anymore, but that could easily be explained away by numerous things -- years of tampon use, excessive masturbation (including the insertion of an object, like a #######), accidents (bicycle or horse riding incidents come to mind), and there are even some women who're born without an intact hymen to begin with!

So knowing the above, it'd be quite simple for a woman to make a man believe she was a virgin, provided she was a good actress. I'm not quite sure why a woman would feel the need to do this, however. While it might make the man feel "good" that he's the woman's "first," the truth would eventually come to the surface. Then he'd not only know he wasn't his partner's first, but that his partner was also a lier as well.

rule of thumb.....if you stick a piece of chalk in her butt and she can write the declaration of independence on a chalkboard, odds are she's not a virgin.

I am not advocating one position or another.

should i should i should i?

good restraint brother charles..you pissed off enough folks today