the benefits to marrying a former hooker (joking)?

[DeadPoolX 9]

Generally speaking, aren't most hookers victims of sexual abuse?

Some certainly are, that much is for certain. Not all, of course. Believe it or not, there are quite a few prostitutes (usually the so-called "high-end call girls") who actually choose that life since they can, for the most part, make their own hours and bring in better money than they would working most jobs without at least a bachelor's degree. Of course, working as a prostitute (like being a stripper) is relatively short-lived. It's all based around your body and eventually, no matter how good you are at your job, younger girls will begin to take clients away from you.

I don't think I could ever be in a relationship with a woman who once worked as a prostitute. A stripper, maybe -- and that's a big maybe, provided she didn't do "favors" for customers on the side as a lot of them tend to do. I'm not so unrealistic as to believe that most women wait for sex until marriage these days (they obviously don't), but there's a difference between having a few select partners and sleeping with anybody who pays you enough. At least there's a difference to me.

[BYRON-LEIDY 0]

Generally speaking, aren't most hookers victims of sexual abuse?

Some certainly are, that much is for certain. Not all, of course. Believe it or not, there are quite a few prostitutes (usually the so-called "high-end call girls") who actually choose that life since they can, for the most part, make their own hours and bring in better money than they would working most jobs without at least a bachelor's degree. Of course, working as a prostitute (like being a stripper) is relatively short-lived. It's all based around your body and eventually, no matter how good you are at your job, younger girls will begin to take clients away from you.

I don't think I could ever be in a relationship with a woman who once worked as a prostitute. A stripper, maybe -- and that's a big maybe, provided she didn't do "favors" for customers on the side as a lot of them tend to do. I'm not so unrealistic as to believe that most women wait for sex until marriage these days (they obviously don't), but there's a difference between having a few select partners and sleeping with anybody who pays you enough. At least there's a difference to me.

..i feelthe same way...as for maybe having one with a stripper...nope...had one with someone who had been one and it didnt work....they have a different mentality ...something that you could never take out of them!!

[almaty 19]

i agree, they are frisky and sometimes, their thinking and decision making is lacking ....but, they can do a pole dance better than most

[BYRON-LEIDY 0]

Their mentality is of being too independent because of the money they were use to making...the bad thing for them is that it is very short lived once age catches up to them...thats when they turn to doing favors for extra money!

[almaty 19]

true..and the folks they meet are not always polite ....

[BYRON-LEIDY 0]

This complete independence they feel makes them not know how to value a relationship because in their mind..there is always someone new out there that could give them more since they were so use to milking men for their money and there are many men willing to pay up to top it off!

[Ban Hammer 13,334]

i agree, they are frisky and sometimes, their thinking and decision making is lacking ....but, they can do a pole dance better than most

practice makes perfect?

[almaty 19]

This complete independence they feel makes them not know how to value a relationship because in their mind..there is always someone new out there that could give them more since they were so use to milking men for their money and there are many men willing to pay up to top it off!

you think so...hmmm....i think that may be true with some folks, but allot got involved and were glad to get out and have someone special to them.....and allot are dependent on a male ( pimp) to take care of themn

[mawilson 2,133]

Depends on the guy, some people still have the 'virgin' mentality, even if the evidence of their former lovers is there, a ho would just be one step beyond their ability to gloss over the past.

What do you mean?

[BYRON-LEIDY 0]

This complete independence they feel makes them not know how to value a relationship because in their mind..there is always someone new out there that could give them more since they were so use to milking men for their money and there are many men willing to pay up to top it off!

you think so...hmmm....i think that may be true with some folks, but allot got involved and were glad to get out and have someone special to them.....and allot are dependent on a male ( pimp) to take care of themn

"pimp to take care of them " ...enough said...once they live that life...most never get out..i know most are not trained proffesionals since they got use to the big money at such a young age.

[almaty 19]

This complete independence they feel makes them not know how to value a relationship because in their mind..there is always someone new out there that could give them more since they were so use to milking men for their money and there are many men willing to pay up to top it off!

you think so...hmmm....i think that may be true with some folks, but allot got involved and were glad to get out and have someone special to them.....and allot are dependent on a male ( pimp) to take care of themn

"pimp to take care of them " ...enough said...once they live that life...most never get out..i know most are not trained proffesionals since they got use to the big money at such a young age.

i had several hookers as clients..for counseling....depression and drugs..they saw their pimp as an asset ///someone who cares for them and takes care of them ....i was astonished that they did not see him as a chopf##k..but they did not....also, you are correct it is hard to break out and allot who do, go back...

[BYRON-LEIDY 0]

And though they seem to show complete happiness and brag that they have everything, inside they are very depressed empty people!

[Peikko 1,575]

I just meant that there are guys who prefer the idea of a girl who hasn't 'slept around'. If the girl isn't a ho, she can probably maintain that illusion whatever her actual past is. Not so easy if you are an ex prostitute.

I guess I am thinking that what's sauce for the goose isn't always sauce for the gander in some men's mind and some women allow their men to carry on thinking that way

[almaty 19]

And though they seem to show complete happiness and brag that they have everything, inside they are very depressed empty people!

[mawilson 2,133]

I just meant that there are guys who prefer the idea of a girl who hasn't 'slept around'. If the girl isn't a ho, she can probably maintain that illusion whatever her actual past is. Not so easy if you are an ex prostitute.

I guess I am thinking that what's sauce for the goose isn't always sauce for the gander in some men's mind and some women allow their men to carry on thinking that way

Ah I see.