Attention Fiance fraud

[hitchoo 0]

QUOTE(hitchoo @ Nov 23 2007, 09:29 PM)

im sorry to see that , and im sorry for what happened to you wigena Koukouch , but just its not the end , you keep your heart alive and keep it full of love and enjoy the love itself not the man, if you loved that man dont ever think it was a mistake because we dont control our heart , and the mistake to let a man get you to stop trusting people.

Dear manythings in this life is not fair , we will learn always.

you Move on, and dont look for the love everywhere just wait it , and if you felt lonely then you arewrong because there is your Allah(God). love your kids love your friends and dont let hate comes close to you , and whatever you read from peoples comments on your subject just know its the sound of anger , and if you let the hate find away into your heart you will be the only loser , each person will close this thread with a pitty feeling and its over in the next morning. we all have done many mistakes we will do . but we should forgive so we can enjoy the life, to tell you the most happy people are those who forgive east and fast .

MY WORDS IS TO MOVE ON AND TO FOGIVE THAT MAN HOPEFULLY HE REALLY LOVES HIS WOMAN. AND THAT HE WAS NOT MADE FOR YOU , AND INSAHHALH YOU WILL HAVE YOUR FATE ANYWHERE ELSE.

and just note happiness is not always A MAN OR A WOMAN.

i feel sorry that we people suffer. but i dont feel sorry for you because im sure you will get over this soon inshallah .

and i hope this thread get to be closed so we can help those hurt people to move on and claim their shelter.

shokran.

salam

Forgiving him is actually healthy for your own state of mind. But when you state "hopefully he really loves his woman", well in my way of thinking I would never want a man who's moral standards would allow him to treat any human in this manner. I would NEVER want a man like that no matter how much he loved me or I loved him.

i understand it was really tough how he reacted in his response, no real Man treat a woman like that till he is immature or not a gentleman in response to whatever she said owing to her broken heart,

and you have the right to choose the right man for you. but just you lucky that you are not the other woman he has now , because she maybe loves him.

.and all my talk was directed to "wigena Koukouch" im not concerned with this guy or his other woman. i just stated she should move on and forgive so this will help her to fprget and look at world from more bright angel,

and Dear , you dont assume you will live a man like him when you speak from far zone, you would not be that sure trust me, we can trust people around us so much, but we put in mind that shitt can happen. that we will never know till it happen. and i wish you never meet such situation in your life when you feel hurt confused and torn off between manythings, in this case if you dont know how to forgive you will be the loser but i dont ask to forget ,

lets help her to move on ,and it will be fine if this topic get to be closed

thank you

salam

[mc2000ch 0]

Hi ladies i am a member here but not that active on VJ. I am here today because a few of my dear friends found something very disturbing here and i am grateful they did. I found out that my fiancé had another woman as his fiancé at same time as me. Apparently he used or shall i say used myself for $$, relationship and gifts as well as using her for same. This is a very hard thing for me to do but feel she needs to know as i do. i was with him for over 2 years and i had no clue until recently what he is capable of. I caution ALL ladies to visit many times as you can to really know what you are facing. Listen to your friends i should have listened closer but i did listen before it was tooo late. This man can become abusive as i came to find out my last trip to Marco. Please be careful. He hurt my kids and my self. He has lied and used. I really loved him despite the craziness of our ages (which i found out a yr later he lied about) for he never acted his age at all he acted a lot older than my self but i will NEVER do that again. Much valued and learned experience. I could HATE him for having me to love him and his family but i do not. I have tooo much love in my heart to have my hatred for him tear me up. I know now he wanted easy entry into the USA and that is all, no matter the consequences. Be careful means do not file for your guy till you have visited him a few times first and ALWAYS FOLLOW YOUR instincts. If you know the woman in this pic on my page, plz let her know. Inchalla he has not hurt anyone else. Thank you for listening.

The former Wigena Koukouch

Don't worry CARMA will get him back for what he have done, but you will find someone for you don't worry. give it sometimes

[DanielParul 50]

WOW!!!

What a LOSER!! People like him are HELL's Angels... Good luck to you Wigena... He was definately not worth all the pain you have to go through. Keep your chin up.. You are the winner here.

Parul