Denied today, worst day of my life

[Willyn and Larry 0]

My finacee was denied her visa today. At her medical they asked about drug use and she said she took some kind of drug 4 years ago to get thu a rough time in her life and she was denied her visa because of it. Any thing I can do to fix this and get her to us? I have never felt so bad in my life, all my hopes and dreams are gone.

[Chantel 0]

My finacee was denied her visa today. At her medical they asked about drug use and she said she took some kind of drug 4 years ago to get thu a rough time in her life and she was denied her visa because of it. Any thing I can do to fix this and get her to us? I have never felt so bad in my life, all my hopes and dreams are gone.

Im sorry to hear that, she should not have admitted it, I don't know if there are any possible way to fix this...on my case I even asked the forum if I need to admit that I have allergies, cause Im to scared what would be the outcome..there are some tips also if she read what are the reasons of denial here....hope there are possible ways...

[Steve_Donna 0]

My finacee was denied her visa today. At her medical they asked about drug use and she said she took some kind of drug 4 years ago to get thu a rough time in her life and she was denied her visa because of it. Any thing I can do to fix this and get her to us? I have never felt so bad in my life, all my hopes and dreams are gone.

I'm sorry to hear what happened. You may need to talk to an immigration attorney or apply for a waiver or something like that.

Here is a link for an appeal process that I found

http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/men...00045f3d6a1RCRD

[Dakine 26]

My finacee was denied her visa today. At her medical they asked about drug use and she said she took some kind of drug 4 years ago to get thu a rough time in her life and she was denied her visa because of it. Any thing I can do to fix this and get her to us? I have never felt so bad in my life, all my hopes and dreams are gone.

You/she are up the "famous creek" with a chop stick for a paddle!

Either move there or help her out as much as you can by setting her up in a business and both of you move on!

Yeah sounds cruel but there's not much chance of reversing the decision.

[alexandra8886 0]

My finacee was denied her visa today. At her medical they asked about drug use and she said she took some kind of drug 4 years ago to get thu a rough time in her life and she was denied her visa because of it. Any thing I can do to fix this and get her to us? I have never felt so bad in my life, all my hopes and dreams are gone.

Hi larry..

Im so sorry about this.. to tell you honestly I felt bad too when I saw this post. I will just want to share to you, what I’ve seen in the show “CITIZEN PINOY” by ATTY. MICHAEL GURFINKEL. There’s one Filipino-American whose working in the US for 10 years. He send an application for a petition of his wife. When his wife was interviewed in the USEmbassy, she admitted that she used drugs 10 years ago. At that moment, she was denied.

This Fil-AM Man, went to the show CITIZEN PINOY and personally asked Atty. Michael Gurfinkel about his case. Atty. Michael, said there’s no way to appeal since its Drug Issue.

Anyway, I don’t want you to feel more bad Larry.. Try to check some legal assistance regarding this matter.

I’m really sorry about this.

alexandra

P.S.

if that link didnt work out, try this http://www.gurfinkel.com/press_release/200...y15-2005_2.html

[Ken & Marife 0]

My finacee was denied her visa today. At her medical they asked about drug use and she said she took some kind of drug 4 years ago to get thu a rough time in her life and she was denied her visa because of it. Any thing I can do to fix this and get her to us? I have never felt so bad in my life, all my hopes and dreams are gone.

Hi Larry, I felt heart broken when I read you post. I have been anticipating this interview with a certain excitement because I expect Jenn and Emma to develop a close friendship while here in the U.S.

Nothing is lost, only your options have changed. You actually have 2 choices to make and they will be tough for you, they will sure enough change your life. Either move there with her or Support her and visit her on a regular basis. I hope you can come to a quick decision and not lose hope. This girl needs you and I know you love her so good luck and don't let go.

Ken & Marife

[Willyn and Larry 0]

She has her passport, any chance of a tourist visa and then marry here? Or work visa and never go back? Please I need help so bad, I feel like my likfe is ruined.

[LonnieNCarmie 0]

She has her passport, any chance of a tourist visa and then marry here? Or work visa and never go back? Please I need help so bad, I feel like my likfe is ruined.

Larry I woke up this morning to look to see what happend in Jen interview I was not thinking that I would see this kind of post. I am going to be real with you I have played out in my mind would I ever move to the Philippines, and I said I would but first I would have to know would I be willing to give up my family here in the US kids and everything to be with my sweetheart. My plan would be to try to live 6 months here and 6 months there Jen can apply for you to on a fiance visa in the Philippines. Some our saying there are millions of Gals there try it over with someone new this is always an easy option. But you picked Jen and fell in love with her. Ok I would work for a year or two here save up as much money as I could open up a business there in the Philippines, and Purchase a nice home there and marry my love.

Did she tell you about this before the medical exam? and if not you have to wonder If you actually know everything about her that you thought, and I would have to find out from her are there any other secrets before I would move there. If you knew about it before hand you could have posted the question here and got some advise what she should say on the Medical exam. Anyways Larry I hope you will be ok buddy this is sad news to hear. Hey email me if you want I will give you my personal number offline.

[Chantel 0]

She has her passport, any chance of a tourist visa and then marry here? Or work visa and never go back? Please I need help so bad, I feel like my likfe is ruined.

I don't know if going to another country is an option like Singapore and Hong Kong and get marry there, going to Turks and Caicos Island also is one if she can work there for 1 year and she can get a tourist visa after going to US.... thats what my neighbor did and she went to US for a tour with her boss and I think that would give her a chance...

[ryza 0]

m just curious. what should have she told the doctor on her medical? is it better if she didnt admit that she used drugs before?

if she didnt admit it, would they not see it on her blood?

Edited September 4, 2007 by ryza

[dj1206 0]

I am so sorry to hear this. I know how depressing this is. You could start checking other options.

[TracyTN 237]

Was she given any sort of form after the interview? If so, what did it say?

[alexandra8886 0]

m just curious. what should have she told the doctor on her medical? is it better if she didnt admit that she used drugs before?

if she didnt admit it, would they not see it on her blood?

as what ive heard from the people i knew...they didnt admit their previous drugs experience specially when dealing with USEMbassy.

Trace of drugs depends on the degree of usage..though mostly i heard that after 2 years it can't be traced already..

[Willyn and Larry 0]

At the end of her interview she was told that she was denied. Jennifer asked if theres any thing she can do to fix it and they said no. They gave her back everything, all the papers I submitted. Why she told is because she said she wanted to be honest. All her test's passed.

[Jasman0717 9]

Wow, sorry to hear this. I think you can get it waived but have to do a drug program. I know there were others on VJ that had similiar problems. Was there also a three year ban?