MARRIAGE SCAM

[almaty 19]

eh, I wouldn't be so quick to call him a troll.

He's had a really bad experience, and is hoping to maybe warn others about the possibilities that are out there. Someone else posted recently about someone who had married him just to get into the country as well.

moral of the story: make sure you know the person very well, and don't rush into things. A lot of the VJ members have known their SO for longer than a few months, so I'm sure most of us are entering (or have already entered into) a valid marriage.

The OP is a troll if you know the process well enough you can pick out at least 3 inconsistancys.

sister shon is correct ...the longer, you are on here..the more falacy are easier to recognize or at least your BS radar..

[Billy 0]

eh, I wouldn't be so quick to call him a troll.

He's had a really bad experience, and is hoping to maybe warn others about the possibilities that are out there. Someone else posted recently about someone who had married him just to get into the country as well.

moral of the story: make sure you know the person very well, and don't rush into things. A lot of the VJ members have known their SO for longer than a few months, so I'm sure most of us are entering (or have already entered into) a valid marriage.

The story doesn't smell right from a legal point of view.

Hello all!!

Yes he was right about someone just want to get marry for a green card... it had happened to me once. She married for 9 months, got her GC and took off to California. Then She was back in town after 3 to 4 months in CA. She also sued me for my assets when she ran out the money. But the case was dropped when I was in court. Then I filed for divorced in Feb 2005. Finally, I was divorced in 2006. But I don't think all people want to get married for GC. I just picked the wrong woman. you have to make a mistake to learn from that mistake. I just want to make sure for the next would be the true love.

Bill

[chri'stina 190]

eh, I wouldn't be so quick to call him a troll.

He's had a really bad experience, and is hoping to maybe warn others about the possibilities that are out there. Someone else posted recently about someone who had married him just to get into the country as well.

moral of the story: make sure you know the person very well, and don't rush into things. A lot of the VJ members have known their SO for longer than a few months, so I'm sure most of us are entering (or have already entered into) a valid marriage.

The OP is a troll if you know the process well enough you can pick out at least 3 inconsistancys.

sister shon is correct ...the longer, you are on here..the more falacy are easier to recognize or at least your BS radar..

I don't really disagree but I've been on VJ over 2 years now, and I still don't like to assume someone is a troll because they post a bad experience. With that being said, I know there are trolls who are people who have nothing better to do than to be idiots online. But there are also people who will get labeled a troll just because others have made stuff up in the past. It's a tricky thing sometimes.

[Aymerlu 3]

Ok....MAYBE a bad experience, but too many things DO NOT add up, or a troll. Either way I have 1 more post!

[babybunny 2]

eh, I wouldn't be so quick to call him a troll.

He's had a really bad experience, and is hoping to maybe warn others about the possibilities that are out there. Someone else posted recently about someone who had married him just to get into the country as well.

moral of the story: make sure you know the person very well, and don't rush into things. A lot of the VJ members have known their SO for longer than a few months, so I'm sure most of us are entering (or have already entered into) a valid marriage.

The OP is a troll if you know the process well enough you can pick out at least 3 inconsistancys.

sister shon is correct ...the longer, you are on here..the more falacy are easier to recognize or at least your BS radar..

I don't really disagree but I've been on VJ over 2 years now, and I still don't like to assume someone is a troll because they post a bad experience. With that being said, I know there are trolls who are people who have nothing better to do than to be idiots online. But there are also people who will get labeled a troll just because others have made stuff up in the past. It's a tricky thing sometimes.

its one thing to have a bad experiance. this OP is A troll.

the legal dubage he is sputtering is not adding up. I wont have to point those out 3 of them are very easy to spot. if you go back read the post you will spot them clear as day.

[chocolaterie 0]

i have seen a lot of "troll" posts. It seems like such a waste of time for someone to want to come on VJ for the sole purpose of conjuring a story for sympathy.

[Steph1010 1]

[Sinergy 3]

smells like a Troll ....walks like a troll... must be a troll...

give me a break.

oh my as if it wasnt obvious enough

[babybunny 2]

I got engaged but it turns out it was an actual marriage, not an engagement.

I applied for the K1 VISA.

you cant apply for a K-1 visa if you are married DUH...

don’t marry within 90 days, the person must return to their home country.

I thought you were married???????????????????????????????

So I purchased a ticket and one day when I was at work

whats the ticket for? not wanting to marry your wife?

see the inconsistancys yall. I did not have to go far to find that little bit of the UNTRUTH!

Edited April 7, 2006 by shonjaved

[Chuckles 0]

Bad experiences happen to both international marriages and good ol' fashioned american marriages. There are just as many cases where a purely american couple divorced for similar reasons. The wife was a gold-digger and made up abuse allegations for a quick divorce and 50% of his stuff. Happens all the time. The husband was not who he said he was and was really poor or a controlling freak. Happens all the time.

I am sorry for all the people who had a bad experience on the 'international dating scene'. But we take a huge risk when we enter into a commited relationship no matter what the circumstances. Here or abroad.

[Sinergy 3]

I got engaged but it turns out it was an actual marriage, not an engagement.

I applied for the K1 VISA.

you cant apply for a K-1 visa if you are married DUH...

don’t marry within 90 days, the person must return to their home country.

I thought you were married???????????????????????????????

So I purchased a ticket and one day when I was at work

whats the ticket for? not wanting to marry your wife?

see the inconsistancys yall. I did not have to go far to find that little bit of the UNTRUTH!

saw all three of those right away, neither of them make any sence. You either signed a piece of paper in her home country or you didnt, if you didnt then your engaged, if you did your married. also, why would you just buy a ticket for NO reason, and then call to talk to your "fiance" only to find shes "oh my-missing".

[meauxna 15]

No wonder posters don't come back. What if you got mob-jumped and called a troll because the Great Troll Hunter declares it so?

I looked for his old posts.

http://www.visajourney.com/forums2/index.p...wtopic=6610&hl=

Sure, it could be an elaborate setup, but I'd give him the benefit of the doubt.

For the reading-comprehension challenged, he did not think he was married.

And if you think he's an idiot, well, how would you know what the ceremony in a foreign language, in another country, with someone you trust, was reallly all about?

[Sinergy 3]

well, why would you sign something you cant read? at my engagement party they spoke in romanian, and then in english so i could understand in full what was going on. (i know romanian but its still not as good as id like it to be) You have someone translate, words or anything on paper. never sign something you cant read in a different language. It could say anything.

[Hilarious Clinton 452]

I got engaged but it turns out it was an actual marriage, not an engagement.

I applied for the K1 VISA.

you cant apply for a K-1 visa if you are married DUH...

don’t marry within 90 days, the person must return to their home country.

I thought you were married???????????????????????????????

So I purchased a ticket and one day when I was at work

whats the ticket for? not wanting to marry your wife?

see the inconsistancys yall. I did not have to go far to find that little bit of the UNTRUTH!

Ya got it wrong... read it again.

1. He applied for a k-1 because he didn't realize the engagment ceremony was an actual marriage. I have read this before on VJ.

2. He had a k-1 and you have to marry in 90 days. (see point #1 above)

3. He bought a ticket because their relationship wasn't working out. He was sending her back.

Edited April 7, 2006 by rch99

[gimygirl 0]

wow ... a troll who takes just about a year to finally come 'out' for some attention.

sorry, but i just think he was explaining his situation.