My wife cheated on me - with a woman!

[kim&james 0]

Damn! If my husband had that problem he would think christmas had arrived. (still not going to happen)

[Mags 112]

I figured some people would not believe it (I didnt at first either). I mean, should I divorce her over this? She's a great woman, kind and generous, and very attractive. She's just a bit of a free-thinker in this one area. She said this started in her college days, with her best friend who was also her roommate at college. They were really lonely and, well things just happened. The best friend has a boyfriend too, but he doesn't know about it. Oh, and the best friend is really atractive too.

She said I can take my time to decide. I cant believe I'm saying this, but I'm actually considering it.

It's interesting how she and her best friend end up living in the same city/state.

Maybe she didn't marry you for the green card but for the chance to be near her best friend?

No, that other (foreign) woman was a long time ago. Actually things didn't work out with her I married someone else already living here in the US (a USC). I just came back here to post this question because I remembered the diverse attitudes and opinions here. I also remember the skepticism and ridicule, but I decided to risk it because I am looking for input to see if I am making the right decision.

I told my wife I didn't think I could do it, but she said I should just give it a try. She said, "just try it for a while, what do you have to lose?". I have to admit, I have been with several women in my lifetime (but only one at a time!) and I guess I'm OK in bed, but I don't know what to do with 2 of them at the same time. I mean, I only have one #### if you know what I mean. I'm very conservative too and I'm not about to start watching porno to see how it's done!

Oh, just go and do it. You know you want to.

And for the benefit of the lads here on VJ...it ain't real unless there are pictures.

[kim&james 0]

I figured some people would not believe it (I didnt at first either). I mean, should I divorce her over this? She's a great woman, kind and generous, and very attractive. She's just a bit of a free-thinker in this one area. She said this started in her college days, with her best friend who was also her roommate at college. They were really lonely and, well things just happened. The best friend has a boyfriend too, but he doesn't know about it. Oh, and the best friend is really atractive too.

She said I can take my time to decide. I cant believe I'm saying this, but I'm actually considering it.

It's interesting how she and her best friend end up living in the same city/state.

Maybe she didn't marry you for the green card but for the chance to be near her best friend?

No, that other (foreign) woman was a long time ago. Actually things didn't work out with her I married someone else already living here in the US (a USC). I just came back here to post this question because I remembered the diverse attitudes and opinions here. I also remember the skepticism and ridicule, but I decided to risk it because I am looking for input to see if I am making the right decision.

I told my wife I didn't think I could do it, but she said I should just give it a try. She said, "just try it for a while, what do you have to lose?". I have to admit, I have been with several women in my lifetime (but only one at a time!) and I guess I'm OK in bed, but I don't know what to do with 2 of them at the same time. I mean, I only have one #### if you know what I mean. I'm very conservative too and I'm not about to start watching porno to see how it's done!

Oh, just go and do it. You know you want to.

And for the benefit of the lads here on VJ...it ain't real unless there are pictures.

I disagree... pictures can be faked... we need to see the video

[~*Maria*~ 1]

I figured some people would not believe it (I didnt at first either). I mean, should I divorce her over this? She's a great woman, kind and generous, and very attractive. She's just a bit of a free-thinker in this one area. She said this started in her college days, with her best friend who was also her roommate at college. They were really lonely and, well things just happened. The best friend has a boyfriend too, but he doesn't know about it. Oh, and the best friend is really atractive too.

She said I can take my time to decide. I cant believe I'm saying this, but I'm actually considering it.

It's interesting how she and her best friend end up living in the same city/state.

Maybe she didn't marry you for the green card but for the chance to be near her best friend?

No, that other (foreign) woman was a long time ago. Actually things didn't work out with her I married someone else already living here in the US (a USC). I just came back here to post this question because I remembered the diverse attitudes and opinions here. I also remember the skepticism and ridicule, but I decided to risk it because I am looking for input to see if I am making the right decision.

I told my wife I didn't think I could do it, but she said I should just give it a try. She said, "just try it for a while, what do you have to lose?". I have to admit, I have been with several women in my lifetime (but only one at a time!) and I guess I'm OK in bed, but I don't know what to do with 2 of them at the same time. I mean, I only have one #### if you know what I mean. I'm very conservative too and I'm not about to start watching porno to see how it's done!

Oh, just go and do it. You know you want to.

And for the benefit of the lads here on VJ...it ain't real unless there are pictures.

[Ban Hammer 13,465]

I came home from work today and found my wife naked in bed with a woman, her best friend. I thought they were just best friends but I guess it's more. At first I was really offended and hurt, and I told her that. We talked a while, and she said there's no romantic involvement, it's just sex. Now, if it was another man she was found with, well I wouldn't even talk to her about it, as we would be finished. However, since it was a woman, well I was a little more understanding. She said she would never ever cheat on me with anothet man and I believe her. After we talked a while, she told me that this best friend had actually suggested to her that I join them sometime. She said that there are things that women know how to do, and they would be happy to teach me. At first I was a little shocked by the idea, but now I'm actually considering it. I mean, why not?

Does anyone have any thoughts on this? Should I do it?

woooohooooo go for it!

Is Charles around?

you rang?

[almaty 19]

charile......i think your wife needs a spanking and you may as well as, spank that beaver comber too

[mRx 16]

I don't know what to do with 2 of them at the same time. I mean, I only have one #### if you know what I mean.

But you do have hands right? Employ the "shocker".

[MissStacey 1]

charile......i think your wife needs a spanking and you may as well as, spank that beaver comber too

A good tongue lashing may be in order as well.

[charlie_brown 0]

charile......i think your wife needs a spanking and you may as well as, spank that beaver comber too

Funny you should mention spanking. My wife said that's one of the things her best friend does for her that she likes, and I never did to her. Then, she told me she likes spanking her best friend too, because she likes to see her friends p----y wiggle when she's doing that. Holy #######! I never thought she even thought about stuff like that! I mean, she never talked about it until I found out about the best friend. Oh, and she also said she would never do anything with another guy or another woman, only her best friend. She made me promise to never tell anyone about them.

What's a "beaver comber"?

[kim&james 0]

She made me promise to never tell anyone about them.

Bit late for that

[Ban Hammer 13,465]

What's a "beaver comber"?

i think a better question is:

you got two women there all ready for a 3sum, why are you on vj?

[Mags 112]

What's a "beaver comber"?

Someone who combs beavers, silly. Goes up to them in their little dams and combs them. Thought that was obvious.

Edited August 30, 2007 by Mags

[no name 1]

What's a "beaver comber"?

Someone who combs beavers, silly. Goes up to them in their little dams and combs them. Thought that was obvious.

Does it keep their coats silky?

[AnaAndDaniel 0]

What's a "beaver comber"?

Someone who combs beavers, silly. Goes up to them in their little dams and combs them. Thought that was obvious.

Daniel

:energetic:

What's a "beaver comber"?

Someone who combs beavers, silly. Goes up to them in their little dams and combs them. Thought that was obvious.

Does it keep their coats silky?

that is where the 'special protein' application comes in.

can be aplied on hair or orally. best results by oral.

Daniel

:energetic:

Edited August 30, 2007 by AnaAndDaniel

[Ban Hammer 13,465]

i've got a poll idea